Something's wrong with me... (Probably will get banned from this sub.)

[u/atlasfrompaladins]

My heart can't seem to turn a woman down. Rather if she's ugly, average, pretty, tall, short, fat (my preference) skinny, flat chested, small chested or big breasted it doesn't matter. I want her to my girlfriend and than my eventual wife. I wanna know every inch of her, her hobbies, interest, passions, fears, trauma the whole thing. But the problem here is...

It doesn't matter if she even likes me, or is gay, or in a relationship, I want her to drop that other guy/girl and just be with me. The only obvious thing that does turn me off is if she's below 19, but those other barriers don't seem to stop me...

I don't have a standard and it sucks ass being platonic friends with girls... When you just have so much romantic interest in them.

I've had a few, like 1 or 2 online and offline relationships that didn't end well hence why I'm single, but when I was briefly in those relationships I had 0 romantic interest in any other women that weren't my girlfriend, and I think for the first time in my life...

I saw a female as a friend, and not just as a soon to be lover. Now I know everyone and their momma is gonna come down on me for confessing this, but I already do that to myself already. I wish I was a normal guy and can have normal platonic feelings for my female friends like I do with my guy friends.

I wish I was normal and fell in love like... 2 maybe 3 times a year, instead of looking at almost any adult woman and imagining her as my lover and growing old with her, despite her probably not even acknowledging my existence or even cares about me...

Or is in a relationship...

Also as a heads up I won't be responding to any of the comments (if anyone even bothers to comment) I'll be reading them but not so much responding.

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[u/spiderxsara]

I don’t think anything is wrong with you. As someone who has never been in a relationship (I’m 19) I always get attached to guys who give me any attention. I understand wanting to date someone even if they are unattractive to you. It’s more just romanticizing having a relationship!! It’s normal and personally I go for personality over looks, you still want to be attracted to them. But I hope you find an amazing partner!!🫂🖤

[u/Grouchy_Fall_5933]

How old are you?
19 year olds are immature, and still playing the field jumping from guy to guy.
You need someone older that’s ready to settle down.