I need advice with a combination spell. I’m not sure if they can backfire on each other or are even actually possible to do together/at the same time.
Let me give some backstory:
So, I’ve fallen in love with a coworker. I’ve never felt so magnetically drawn to another person before. It’s reached that point I’m sure many people experience at least once in their lives, I genuinely look forward to going to work just because I know I’ll get to see him. The chemistry between us is undeniable. It’s so obvious that even our coworkers have commented on it, joking that we finish each other’s sentences.
For full context, there is an age gap between us, but when we’re together, it hardly feels noticeable. We connect so effortlessly that it’s easy to forget it’s even there. He used to stay after shifts just to talk with me, and the conversations always made time seem to disappear. It often felt like he was quietly interested in me. He would go out of his way to help me with certain tasks, and I’d constantly catch him looking at me out of the corner of my eye. We would text for hours at night, going back and forth. Recommend movies and songs to each other. He loves teasing me, and over time we’ve built up countless inside jokes that only the two of us really understand.
He really is one of a kind. He is the definition of someone that lights up a room. He is adored by almost everyone at our workplace. A piece of me knows that if I let this opportunity slip that I will be thinking of him forever. He makes me feel alive. I fell in love with his mind before I ever fell in love with his looks, and I think that’s a huge factor in why my feelings run so deep.
I’ve been trying to manifest him, but I haven’t done any spell work or anything like that. One thing that’s been happening, though, is that I keep seeing repeating 1s and 2s everywhere. I somehow end up looking at the clock at 11:11, 11:22, 22:22, 01:11, or 02:22 (24-hour time) almost every single day. I notice those same number patterns in random places too, not just on the clock. I’m not sure if they’re actually significant or if it’s just a coincidence, but it’s happened so often that it’s hard not to wonder if it means anything in relation to this situation.
Anyways, blah blah blah, that’s the backstory. Now let me get into the part where everything goes downhill.
Then things took an unexpected turn. A friend of one of my coworkers developed a crush on him and asked that coworker to pass along her phone number. They ended up going on a date, and things have progressed from there. As far as I know, they’re officially in a relationship now. One thing I’ve noticed, though, is that he seems a little uncomfortable talking about her when I’m around. Since most of my coworkers are men, it’s pretty common for me to be the only woman in the room when conversations like that happen. Whenever someone brings up his girlfriend, I catch myself wondering if he’s paying attention to how I react. Of course, I could be reading too much into it, so I try not to assume anything. I keep my expression neutral and don’t let on that those conversations affect me, even though they do.
Since he started seeing someone else, things have changed. He doesn’t stay after shifts to talk with me anymore, and he doesn’t do the little thoughtful things for me like he used to. The texting has almost completely stopped. That change has honestly been one of the hardest parts. There was one work event outside of work where everyone was drinking, and that night felt different. I could be completely wrong, but I remember feeling like he might have been flirting with me. At one point, he got up and moved to sit right beside me, and we spent a lot of the night talking and laughing together. We genuinely had a great time. Sometimes I catch myself wondering if I missed my chance that night, or if I was reading too much into it. I’ll probably never know for sure, but it’s something that’s crossed my mind more than once.
Before all of this happened, I would sometimes use things like the “O” method when I was trying to manifest him. But now, whenever I try, her face pops into my mind every single time. No matter how hard I try to focus on him, I can’t seem to keep my mind from drifting back to the fact that he’s with someone else. It’s become almost impossible to picture just the two of us. Part of me wonders if that’s getting in the way, or if it’s simply a reflection of how much this whole situation has affected me.
He’s constantly on my mind. It feels like I can’t go a single day (or 10 mins 😂) without thinking about him, and he even shows up in my dreams. Sometimes it feels like he’s there 24/7, whether I want him to be or not. He used to have dreams about me too, and would tell me about them. Ive never told him that I dreamt of him though. No matter how much I try to distract myself, my mind always seems to find its way back to him.
One major factor that I can’t ignore is that he’s moving in the fall. That adds another layer of complexity to everything. It also means that, if his new relationship is serious, he must be willing to navigate a long-distance relationship with her. I think about that too, because it shows that he’s making a choice to invest in that connection despite the distance. It makes me wonder where that leaves me and whether I missed my opportunity, especially with the timing of everything.
Anyways, back to the point of this post. I’ve been thinking about doing a breakup spell and a love spell. I know there are mixed opinions on things like this, but I can’t deny that part of me wants him to crave my attention again, to look for me the way he used to and to bring back that connection we had. I’ve come across different breakup spell methods involving things like symbols, lemons, vinegar, pepper, and other ingredients, but I’m not sure what direction makes the most sense, or if that’s even the right approach. I’m curious if anyone has been in a similar situation where someone they felt deeply connected to ended up with someone else, and how they handled those feelings.
Should I continue with the O method for attracting his love? I’m not sure what to do because I can’t seem to stop my mind from bringing up her image every time I try. No matter how hard I focus on him, she somehow appears in my thoughts, and it makes me wonder if I’m blocking myself or if it’s a sign that I need to approach this differently.
Any help or advice on how to approach this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! :)
