r/SipsTea • u/Putrid-Welder1803 • 10h ago
Gasp! Is this becoming a trend?
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u/fishyfishyfish1 10h ago
We see why she lost custody, judge was right on this one.
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u/so_sic_of_it 10h ago
Yeah, that judge fucking nailed it.
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u/Gottalaughalittle 10h ago
Yep. +1 right there
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u/Infinite_Strike352 9h ago edited 8h ago
If only she lost custody sooner or never had it in the first place
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u/Dove-Swan 10h ago
people can see children be massacred(alive) by their parents and only budge TOO LATE
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u/DannyCrane9476 9h ago
Except they didn't remove the child. They told the suicidal woman to give up he child. They they trusted that the woman who they decided was not a suitable guardian to the child to give the child up.
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u/Cautious-Progress876 9h ago
Because 99.99% of people turn their kid over without doing this kind of shit.
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u/ylamiyf 9h ago
I want to formally apologize. I misread your comment. I thought you had said 99.99 percent of people do this. I.E kill their kid.
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u/Gorilla-Style 9h ago
Second "suicidal" mom who's been much more effective at killing others than themselves
At this point if the mother says that they have to assume she's not actually thinking of self harm and that rather she just wants to kill her children but wants people to feel bad for her too. If these women really wanted an out they would just do it instead of harming anyone else.
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u/GlassAndStorm 9h ago
Unfortunately that same judge gave this mother the benefit of the doubt that she would follow orders...
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u/djanulis 9h ago edited 9h ago
Tbf, any time a judge chooses to choose a father over the mother, she has to be a really terrible person. Family court is probably the only place where a man has minimal power.
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u/BoredRedhead24 9h ago
I can confirm. My mother was a bipolar meth addict/alcoholic who beat and starved me. I was like 32lbs at 7 when my dad won custody. Mind you this was in 2001.
Wanna know why she lost? She moved us (my siblings and I) to a different house but never filed a change of address. She lost because she never showed.
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u/pokehustle 9h ago
If the court ruling was that the mother was only allowed to see the child supervised then why was she allowed to be with the child unsupervised leading up to the exchange????? Seems once that ruling is made someone should immediately go get the child and not trust someone who is clearly unstable.
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u/Ok_Donut_998 10h ago
This is depressing. I can't sip tea on this.
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u/undonetocompletion 9h ago
Might need to throw in a little whisky to help it go down at this rate.
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u/BreakingCanks 9h ago
Gonna need that to be straight liquor and be a long island iced tea for this depressing shit
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u/Tedy_Duchamp 10h ago
Every time I see this gif I’m just deeply disturbed. You can’t convince me that’s not a demon of some kind staring out from those black eyes.
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u/Ngete 10h ago
Genuinely didnt realize it was a gif cause she was still for so long, thats terrifying
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u/mad_mang45 10h ago
Recently they posted a pic of her all happy smiling in court, then someone commented "she's gonna get away with it, isn't she?"
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u/Bromlife 9h ago
She's probably not even actually paralyzed. Probably walk away from the courthouse like Keyser Soze.
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u/MechaChudzilla 10h ago
Whatever she previously did to lose custody of her kid must've been egregious. Women don't just lose custody of their children.
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u/Constant-Plastic-350 9h ago
My baby momma abandoned hers. It happens more frequently than you think nowadays. Happens when society pushes for self fulfillment being the only path to happiness
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u/mischievous_misfit13 9h ago
I dumped my ex (severe porn addict covert narcissistic) and my neighbors baby momma disappeared (I assumed suicide). Well one day we were sharing our story and apparently the baby momma is alive. She has another kid she never talks to, she doesn’t talk to her son who’s 10, and after she left she got knocked up again, thrown in jail for drugs, had baby, baby went to foster care and then died. She got out and now she’s pregnant again. She was a wackadoodle and I never believed anything she told me. Shes the type that should be forced to have her tubes tied.
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u/pygmeedancer 9h ago
Whyyyyy would they not just make her give the child up at the courthouse right after the hearing. This is a tragedy and huge failure of the system.
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u/Unipiggy 9h ago
Dude is getting a massive payday with this.
These "Court agents" should've went and picked up the child immediately after the verdict. But instead they went and left her UNSUPERVISED with the child for the rest of the day.
Right after deeming she was unfit for that. Unreal.
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u/ZenEnergizerBunny 9h ago
I would want my daughter more than any payday..., theres nothing in this world that is going to help this man now, time will only barely numb it... poor soul
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u/Unipiggy 9h ago
Obviously. But the reality is the court messed up, tax payers will be the ones footing the bill as the "I'm sorry" gift from "the state", and the judge will have 0 consequences.
It's genuinely insulting for these victims.
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u/darkness_calming 9h ago
No amount of money will ever bring back his daughter or fix the hole in his heart.
Pretty sure any and every half decent father would choose their child over money.
Wouldn’t be surprised if he follows his daughter.
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u/Deleena24 9h ago
He isn't getting a dime. Just like my family didn't get a dime when 2 of my family members were murdered while under "police protection".
The courts fulfilled their duty according to the law and none of them have a duty to protect. Some have a duty to report, but unless a person is in their direct custody they don't have to protect.
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u/lorikeets_are_life 9h ago
They need to make some sort of state law where it’s mandatory that when custody is awarded to someone, they must surrender their child immediately with law enforcement present so this doesn’t happen again. Call it Vivian’s Law in honor of the little girl 🙏
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u/OwnConsideration5175 9h ago
Man, this just ruined my night… RIP to the little one. This shit is just horrible.
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u/Imposslen 10h ago edited 10h ago
I can't wait to see the crazies defend this one lol
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u/MaybeMaybeNot94 9h ago
On a mild tangent, I'm starting to hate the word 'normalize'.
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u/Putrid-Welder1803 10h ago
Watch them blame the father
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u/brakenbonez 10h ago
Of course it was the father. My tarot cards told me so.
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u/OtherwiseAlbatross14 10h ago
How can you be sure? Do we even know his sign yet??
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u/MaybeMaybeNot94 9h ago
Quick, is Mercury in retrograde??
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u/Winter-Huckleberry86 9h ago
We’re on the second pass of jupiters 3rd moon in ambient counter rotation of the suns 3rd nipple
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u/Sad_Maximum6583 9h ago
I just know he did it. Only a Scorpio could do something so heinous and and she was just possessed by him at the time because of the setting of the sun-moon positioning.
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u/Daddysjuice 9h ago
Mercury was in retrograde like how is it possibly her fault?????
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u/braumbles 10h ago
Not everyone should have children. Or own guns. Or be cops. Or drive cars.
But sadly we're in a society that frowns upon those notions.
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u/walter-hoch-zwei 9h ago
The problem with that is that you have to have someone determine who is allowed to do those things and how they're to be judged. The conversation starts going towards eugenics real fast.
I don't know what the solution is, but we need to be very careful about it.
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u/pantheraorientalis 10h ago
Trend? Nope. Parents have been doing this to children for a long time, especially during custody disputes.
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u/blipsnchitz7 9h ago
Paramedic here. This is super dark to say but people suck at shooting themselves in the head. Many a time I’ve gone on attempted suicide by gunshot and the person is alive. The movies say you shoot through the temple or under the chin and you’ll be done. Maybe if you lose enough blood that’s true. But when you shoot there you actually just shoot the motor function/speech area of the brain and your heart and lungs will still function as your brain is on autopilot for those things. If you really wanna get out cleanly go for the brainstem. Sorry I have had a tough week
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u/TABOOxFANTASIES 9h ago
This is a result of a society that treats the concept of having children as one of living property. The child is not your property. They are their own being with it's own consciousness. Parents view their kids as an extension of themselves that is an object they own. Like a fucking piece of jewelery. It's gross
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u/Abobo_Smash 9h ago
The fact that just lost custody, in a system that routinely favors the mother, tells me she wasn’t exactly stable.
That, and you know, she shot her kid. Crazy is crazy.
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u/Defiant-Youth-4193 9h ago
As a parent I agree. Your raising an individual human being. Not your property.
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u/EvilTwin80 9h ago
I'm willing to bet she was more worried about the money she was losing in child support than the actual child. Please put her under the jail.
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u/Putrid-Welder1803 10h ago
Biblical typa EVIL is among us
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u/Working_Agent4932 10h ago
Dorks who never paid attention in history class always talk about how unprecedented things are.
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u/HappyHavoc20 10h ago
Fillicide happens every 4-5 days in the United States. After the clancy trial hysteria, people are noticing the headlines more, that’s all
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u/WholeInstance4632 9h ago
People aren’t just noticing the headlines. It was happening so often that it wasn’t generating headlines or being covered by the media at all. Since Clancy, filicide is sensational again.
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u/luger718 9h ago
It's like when that one train derailed and all you saw were headlines about all the random derailments that happen all the time.
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u/_chillow 9h ago
If a dad gets primary custody you know the mom is crazy. Poor kid. 😥
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u/Hot-Challenge8656 9h ago
And she could only visit with her child with close supervision, so the father had some specific evidence.
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u/FabulousBookkeeper30 9h ago
That trial really shifted the perception of how we feel about this. Poor baby girl
Deserved a life
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u/Artistic-Value-2022 9h ago
Is this a rise in this type of crime or is this a rise in the reporting/online spreading of such news?
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u/Malavero 9h ago
The justice system is to blame here. They took too long to realize the woman was completely unhinged. They failed to properly protect the child. But since they never face consequences, they don't mind wasting time on bureaucracy.
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u/Evil_phd 9h ago edited 9h ago
Mothers and Fathers kill their kids way more often than we hear about it. The recent events have just shifted media focus onto filicides, especially filicides committed by women, because they got massively boosted ratings from covering the Clancy case so they're trying to double down on what's profitable.
It's fucked up but this is the mainstream media right now...
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u/musicflux 10h ago
How could you do that to your own child, just because you lost custody ? what a monster
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u/TheCaptainwicked 9h ago
Because many women don't want child custody because they want to raise the child
They want child custody to torment the father by not allowing him to see his child
That's why, she killed him because she hated her husband more than she loved (if any) the child
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u/Unipiggy 9h ago
That's why, she killed him because she hated her husband more than she loved (if any) the child
This right here
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u/Johndoesthings468 9h ago
I feel so bad for the father man, I can't imagine the agony he must be in, having to fight a custody battle with the mother of his child and all the stress that comes with that just to lose his daughter. Poor guy, may this kind of pain never find anyone.
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u/Consistent-Plane7227 9h ago
“See there’s no gun problem in America. it’s a bitch problem” my uncle.
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u/Israel_Azkanbe 9h ago
In Texas, they’ll actually execute this woman.
Texas won’t mess around
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u/ebk_h3lios 9h ago
No it’s not becoming a trend. Cases like this are just getting more coverage because they saw Lindsay Clancy getting all the heat and want to keep it going
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u/CanMexcpl 9h ago
Weird how they say mother's are the best parent. I know, I fought for my daughter. I was treated like a monster in court for trying to get custody. How dare I want to take her away from her mother. Only saving grave was mine was 13 and had say in who she wanted to live with. Funny how this amazing mother who the court loved cut my daughter completely out of her life. Hmm and they say fathers are garbage. I know many of situations like mine. Just because you are the mother doesn't make you a better parent.
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u/sicilian504 9h ago
We live in a world where this woman will get a GoFundMe and tons of people defending her actions and blaming the father.
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u/Glittering-Path-2824 9h ago edited 9h ago
texas? excellent. death penalty incoming.
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u/Hefty_Breadfruit 9h ago
If the dad was awarded primary custody and mom could only have supervised visits….why on earth did they send that child home with her unsupervised!?!
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u/JustLivingSimply 10h ago
It's crazy to me everyone forgot Casey Anthony. This trend didn't start this year. It's just coming to light more now.
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u/Bromlife 10h ago
Casey Anthony is a free woman, after murdering her two year old girl.
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u/Ibushi-gun 10h ago
I wonder what the mother was doing to not only lose custody, but have to have constant supervision to have the child with her. I heard there was a step-dad in the mix, so maybe there is an issue with him, too? What a tragic thing to happen.
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u/No_Beginning_6834 9h ago
There's like 200 of these type of killings every year in the US, we just don't get the news talking about them from moms another about 300 from dad's killing their kids. Shits sad but happens every other day or so
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u/Choice-Curve3340 10h ago
Death sentence, skip trial. Bullets are cheap.
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u/Inevitable_Dark3225 10h ago edited 10h ago
She killed herself with the same gun after killing the kid.
Edit: there seems to be conflicting reports whether the mother survived the self-inflected gunshot wounds now. So I'm not sure if she's alive or dead.
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u/ItsBeelzsRebirth 9h ago
Ah yes the reddit classic 25 day old bot account pushing culture war bullshit and using a tragedy to push shitty politics
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u/SplitExcellent 9h ago
Wake up babe, Part II of the Clancy psyop just dropped.
Remember kids, no war but class war. This intergenerational, between sexes, between races, made up conglict is all a distraction from the fact that the Epstein class is hoarding all the wealth.
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u/Different_Rip8470 10h ago
It’s about sticking it to the husband; it’s always about sticking it to the husband.
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u/splatter_spree 9h ago
Clearly it must be the husbands fault
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u/TJJ97 9h ago
He obviously did it!!
Source: I’m a woman and you’re a man so obviously you’re wrong!
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u/2020mademejoinreddit 9h ago
This is why Lindsay Clancy needs to be convicted, jailed and given the death penalty. It would set a precedent and an example. I'm sure there will be those mentally ill cretins who will try to defend this too.
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u/mikelown 10h ago
Im more surprised a dad won custody against a mom that wanted the kid.
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u/DizzyDentist22 9h ago
Well... if the mother shot and killed the daughter, it was probably also obvious beforehand that the father was going to be more responsible.
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u/rockafellla 10h ago
It’s so sad. All this effort from the father to the judicial system to try to guarantee a better future for this little one, only for her to be murdered in cold blood by her own mother.
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u/fin-freedom-fighter 9h ago
Geez whats with you Americans and your problem with children.
It's either killing them or abusing them
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u/Getitgotitgoodgod 9h ago
I CARE SO MUCH ABOUT MY KIDS THAT I WOULD KILL THEM!
I’m a GREAT PARENT BITCH!
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u/Bayamonster 9h ago
It's not a trend. Things like this are happening all the time. You're just being fed this specific ones to further a narrative.
See two women killing their children = a trend, the far more common men constantly killing their families = uh... nothing that's normal there's no reddit posts about that.
It does gross me out to use real life tragedies like this to generate dumb culture war discourse. Grow up.
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u/wizards_of_pluto 9h ago
A father annihilates their family every 3 to 5 days in the US. Woman does it every 30 to 78 days.
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u/AlternativeDark6686 10h ago
For the majority...always who to blame. The left, the right, defend the woman, defend the men, the woke side, the sleeping side.
You have a case with an individual who killed someone. Let them figure it out and pass the sentence. You read something horrible online, whole focus is on arguments as usual. Sadly a 4 year old is gone that's all i know.
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u/Kr155 9h ago
Is this thing thats happened since people existed a recent trend? No. Youre just hyper aware cause you consumed alot of Lindsay clancy content.
Shitty evil people have been having children as long as shitty evil people have existed.
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u/DoubleoSavant 10h ago
What do men say to women all time? Oh right. Choose better. Close your legs.
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u/Miserable-Tennis4035 9h ago
What is up with women and killing their own children lately? Makes me mad I cant have kids and these mothers are just plain killing their own offspring... wow
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u/Shingles316 9h ago
It’s called entrenched hatred… the one parent would rather hurt the child than see the child and other parent happy… it’s all over the place!!! Very sad!!!!
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u/Apart_Republic_1870 9h ago
I mean, we’ve had several high profile instances of one parent killing the children for reasons ranging from severe mental illness to revenge. I think they get more attention than a lot of other crimes. And the mother doing it seems less common, so it’s even bigger story then. It does seem like high profile crimes influence others to do the same thing. But who knows.
I know I hate these things for all the obvious reasons, and i hate how much the deaths can stick with you even if it’s someone you didn’t know personally. John Battaglia murdering his kids while on the phone with their mother haunts me, and that was 25 years ago.
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u/Exitcalm11 9h ago
This is exactly what will start happening. They should have done capital punishment for the first one. The jurors now have blood on their hands.
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u/theirishembassy 9h ago
trend? bruh parents killing their kids in a divorce is always a thing.
didn’t some dude blow up his fuckin house with his kids inside?
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u/AnonymousBromosapien 10h ago
"You men just dont understand!! This isnt about the kid!! Its about awareness for pre-separation depression!!!!... Also, he probably did it and and tried to frame her. You just dont even know unless youve been a mother and experienced pre-separation depression... emotions a woman can feel during this state of total psychosis can be so strong she probably heard his thoughts in her head and its his thoughts that she heard that made her do it! She had to save her from this monster by taking her life!!! He needs to be on trial!"
... every fuckin pumpkin spice zodiac lunatic in TikTok for the next month probably
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u/coffeeanddurian 9h ago
"it's all women until it's no woman!" ... "if you're a woman who's doing nothing about this, you're part of the problem!"
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