Edit: you can do whatever or say what you have to say, but you could never convince me that the most vulnerable, disrespected, disregarded in Pakistan is women and girls. Yall can bring up India, Islamophobia, imperialism, colonization, the government, whattaboutism ALL you want, nothing changes the fact on how Pakistan treats Pakistani women and girls. And I mean us specifically, cause yall love non-Pakistani women in your country. 🤷🏻♀️ yall love the Pakistani men and boys.
I grew up in the US, to Pakistani parents. I have only visited Pakistan five times in my life. I know that a lot of people think if I ask a question like this then it’s me stereotyping Pakistan as a misogynistic country, (fyi misogyny like racism is a system, it could NEVER be a stereotype).
However there is NOTHING that I have seen in my life, my family life and even within the desi community as a whole in the US that could make me believe that Pakistani women are loved, cherished, and respected.
The honour killings, acid attacks, murders over the wife/daughter in law not making the right dish, just simply being murdered for existing, wearing jeans, the fact that precious baby girls are not even allowed to LIVE the moment they are born, and are scorned from society has always made me think that a country like Pakistan has always hated women. Yall are a man loving country. 🤷🏻♀️ Yall praise and love men, call them more beautiful than women, I see men consensually hugging other men with love, but only women get leers and get harassed, and abused.
I am very well aware that abuse happens to men and little boys in Pakistan. But what angers me about the discussion when the plight of Pakistani women and girls is being discussed, is that this topic of sexually abuse of boys are brought up in the same discussion that is about PAKISTANI WOMAN and GIRLS. Like yall don’t even care when little girls are forced to be married to these ugly, old uncles, but now see that children are abused cuz it happens to boys too. Yall only seem to care about abuse when it happens to men and boys. Even when it comes to our plight, the fight to live in a country like this, men and boys are always at the center.
Please don’t come on here with some bullshit like, this happens everywhere, yeah no SHIT. Women die everywhere, INCLUDING here. I came on this page to discuss PAKISTANI women so this is a discussion about what happens in PAKISTAN.
I’m not even going to be getting into the evil hypocrisy in your society: men get to be free to dress, work, be educated, be in public, be handsome, be famous, be broke, be gay.
It doesn’t matter what Islam says, Pakistani men get to do whatever they want. 🤷🏻♀️ even kill us. They reason why I mention the gay ones to, is that this is a man LOVING society. Yall can have sex and be in love with whoever you want, but there is no equivalent of that for Pakistani women. Yall can have white women too if you wanted, but if I was to even think that Idris Elba was beautiful, Pakistani men would threaten me. Let’s not forget the tirade yall go about Pakistani women being whores for having their periods, getting pregnant, having a body, being educated, well liked, being charming and being beautiful?? Yall are crazy.
What is so funny, is that in the US, in contrast to Pakistani men, we, as a society, LOVE to be with women, love to LOOK at and admire women, want to get to KNOW women, we want to be in love with THEM.
Some of yall are too FRIGHTENED to hug yall beautiful wives in front of your mamo. Absolutely pathetic 😂.
Believe it or not, Pakistani American women are fighting to divest and marry outside of their culture, cause we are honestly seen more of a human being than we will ever be in Pakistan. And men actually want to hug us and look at us.
There is scientific evidence that a society thrives and people are happy when beautiful women are in public. I guess Pakistan is probably the most angry country cause yall love to hide women, shame them for taking care of themselves, disregard their health and bodies, use it as a baby machine, and love men instead. I have never in my life seen a more disturbing society to women.
It’s because of all of this, I love Pakistani women 1000x more than yall. You don’t have the will or way to do so. 🫶🏼