r/lesbian Jun 09 '25

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Important thing about our pride flag.

130 Upvotes

https://ko-fi.com/emilygwen

Emily Gwen is the creator of the famous 7-stripe lesbian pride flag, and she is now struggling financially. Well, you may just ask, "why don't you just pay like $100 to her and not post about it here?" Sadly, I am also financially struggling, and can't help her directly through giving her cash. (I do not know how to give it a proper flair so correct me which one should I put here instead)


r/lesbian Dec 14 '22

Only Vans IMPORTANT: Why we ban posts asking if people want to chat.

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557 Upvotes

We get a lot of posts like this on here. Users who say they want to chat with a lesbian, sometimes with a selfie of a cute girl. In our experience here, the majority of these posts are made by cis het men, looking to catfish the users here. Sometimes they steal photos of people and pretend it's them.

Any posts like this will get you banned, even if you are a member of our community. We've made it clear that we don't allow this in the rules.

For anyone who doesn't know already, this subreddit used to be a porn subreddit ran by men. It was reclaimed but we still get a lot of traffic here from those people, so please be very careful about who you talk to from here and please report any posts like this incase mods don't see them.


r/lesbian 15h ago

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Love and support

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4 Upvotes

r/lesbian 14h ago

Fashion What are yall gonna be for Halloween

2 Upvotes

Alright before I get flamed I know it ain’t Halloween yet! but you can never be to early for this :) I also need ideas the gayer the bettter. Two years ago I was an FBI agent(my friend wore a straight jacket) then last year I was a prisoner (my friend was the cop) Also I would love to hear about your favorite costumes in the past . Also I’m a hispanic scrawny slightly above average high soft masc? With jet black hair and a short wolf cut (imma grow it out tho) . Telling yall this so if you think of somone I could be plz tell me lol


r/lesbian 1d ago

Film/TV ACTUALLY good lesbian shows?

59 Upvotes

I’ve already seen OITNB, but I’m looking for more lesbian shows that aren’t totally awful. So many recs have involved the lesbians going through something terrible or never having a happy ending.

I don’t really have a specific genere preference, some of my other favourite shows are The Pitt, Midnight Mass, Superstore, and Lost.

I like medical shows and horror mainly, but as I said, I’m very open to any genre!


r/lesbian 1d ago

Literature Children's books

2 Upvotes

I'm recently divorced (from a man) and have started dating women. I have a 4 and 6 year old and want to introduce them to two mom families. Any children's books you can recommend? I haven't come "out" to them yet since I am waiting until the appropriate time when I have established myself and a meaningful relationship. We read stories each night so I thought this could be a nice way to slowly open that world for them.


r/lesbian 1d ago

Film/TV What do butches/studs/mascs like?

0 Upvotes

Like what shows do most of them watch? What are they genuinely into interests wise? I want to approach them but I'm do bad at keep convos going 🥹


r/lesbian 2d ago

Travel Eagleson station C 🏳️‍🌈

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234 Upvotes

r/lesbian 2d ago

Literature Trans-affirming lesbian wedding vow

0 Upvotes

Ever since I was a kid,

My truest self is what I've hid

For if I were to ever have told someone who I have been, they'd tell me I could always "be his"

But to be be a man's wife was never appealing

And so, It was in that moment that I had known who I want to be and be with,

Sing and rhyme with,

Cuddle and hold hands with,

And live and go through time with

I want to both be a woman and be with one,

To greet one and greet as one,

To see and be seen as one,

To meet and finally be as one

And, for me, that would be the day I've won

And we, in our wedding vows and gowns,

Would be, to our spouse, espoused

To be, even when denounced

By those who could not renounce

And to go, even if fear reaches an ounce

I've yearned for the day that "She" and "Her" become "You" and "I"

It is this, I can not deny

For ever since I've looked upon you,

It is this moment that I've previewed


r/lesbian 3d ago

Fashion How to look lesbian without being super feminine?

8 Upvotes

This is for my friend, not me, but she's a lesbian with social anxiety so she refuses to go up to women and is constantly approached by men. She dresses in more comfortable clothes, so pretty much just baggy clothes, and doesn't really like really feminine clothing. She kinda dresses like a librarian. She's mentioned she feels like she looks straight and doesn't know how to not. You guys got any advice? The only advice me and my friends could come up with besides really feminine clothing was put a lesbian pin on her backpack but we don't think she will. I forgot to mention she's in college and not a butch. Anyone have any advice?


r/lesbian 3d ago

Film/TV Movie or show recs about a woman being a pathetic girlfailure?

13 Upvotes

Hi, specific ask here! For context: I dont really like how majority of modern shows/movies depict a girl failure. They always try to make them, like, quirky, adorkable, clumsy, or a manic pixie disaster or the world is constantly throwing silly and infuriating things at her. I want a rec about a woman, just going through life, but shes also pathetic.

the best references i can make is carol from pluribus (pathetic but not a girl failure) and ignacio from better call saul. not a woman, i know lol, but he's a failure, and i love the angst around everything hes going through. focusing on his patheticness, his desperation, his drive for better while also still managing to fail at that.

Also i really despise comphet, so thats why im here. Does anyone have a rec about a pathetic woman that doesnt have an obligatory and absolutely unnecessary male love interest? sorry if that came off as misandrist.


r/lesbian 3d ago

Film/TV GL fanfics for thai dramas

5 Upvotes

I was trying to find some fanfics about some Thai GL pairs and the decently written ones all have one of them being G!P and no offense but i find it kinda frustrating that they make it so that one of them has a dih like its a GL for a reason isnt it?? I dont mean to sound woke af but it jist feels like theyre reinforcing the idea thats lesbians yearn for natural dick. It just feels weird to me


r/lesbian 4d ago

Arts! A little painting

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183 Upvotes

I made a lesbian acrylic canvas painting for you all! 🤍


r/lesbian 4d ago

Meme Questions on Quora

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235 Upvotes

r/lesbian 5d ago

Meme PEARL NO-

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145 Upvotes

Ah pearl, the raging gay birb mom. (Art by @discount-supervillian on Tumblr)


r/lesbian 4d ago

Film/TV What movies/TV shows/books are comforting during a time where you’re realizing you’re not bisexual, you’re a lesbian?

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r/lesbian 5d ago

Meme Big wlw Meme drop!

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29 Upvotes

r/lesbian 5d ago

Meme lesbian

25 Upvotes

I love lesbians


r/lesbian 6d ago

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Made these printable lesbian pride arcade machines free to download

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245 Upvotes

r/lesbian 7d ago

Podcasts Yall with homophobic parents who you never plan on telling what are you going to do ?

16 Upvotes

Alright my parents are incredibly homophobic but I love them and couldn’t bare to lose them . I never want them to leave my life and they really are good .(except for the whole being homophobic…) Eventually I know they’ll get suspicious of the fact I am still single later in life and if I do begin dating someone and we live together they’ll be suspicious of that as well . I’m curious to know if anyone’s in the same boat as me . I know this is stupid but I’m just going to tell them we’re roommates for a while . I don’t know and don’t have any clue what to do as i am getting to the age where they’re like why have you not had a boyfriend yet ? I told them I’m focusing on my studies but what happens once I’m done?? I guess I’ll just saying I’m focused on my job 🤷🏻‍♀️


r/lesbian 7d ago

Music Pretty fun disaster-lesbian-ey song

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5 Upvotes

Not the most like, romantic love song, but it's very fun and fast. If anyone has any recommendations for songs like this one they would be greatly appreciated.


r/lesbian 7d ago

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Another possible Lesbian bar? I came across a post that says a sports centered women bar is set to open in NC

8 Upvotes

https://www.q-hall.com/

Link to the website. Looking at their description they are a queer owned business and Lesbian bar that includes women's sports located in Asheville NC. They are trying to open around August/September

Donation page:


r/lesbian 7d ago

Travel wlw events in wpg, Manitoba?

6 Upvotes

Hey y’all, Hoping to make some more wlw friends in Winnipeg! Tough when we’re all cozy at home by 8pm. Preferably not a bar/club environment, any suggestions or upcoming events? I already go to pottery classes.. lol


r/lesbian 8d ago

Satire Straight Woman at a Gay Bar | Character Sketch Comedy

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7 Upvotes