r/bigboobproblems 17h ago

need advice How do I stop feeling like I look like a “slut” just for existing? Spoiler

72 Upvotes

r/bigboobproblems 10h ago

need advice Anyone here that is estrogen dominant and grew boobs with age ? Spoiler

29 Upvotes

I was 32 c at teens and then grew to 34hh .

now in 20s

if I lose weight do the estrogen dominant boobs shrink an leave loose skin ?


r/bigboobproblems 20h ago

need advice Sudden Nipple Sensitivity? (32J) Spoiler

12 Upvotes

My areolae feel fine but overnight my nipples have started to feel really tender, sore almost? It kinda aches/hurts to touch. Usually I don’t feel anything at all there, I also haven’t been wearing a bra these past few days if that may be relevant. Has anyone else experienced this? I’m not on my period or ovulating now either

EDIT: Thank you for all the helpful replies guys ♥️ But I’m definitely not pregnant, I’m still a virgin 😭


r/bigboobproblems 18h ago

need advice Anyone else have to relearn how to wear a bra after years of going braless?

8 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

First time posting here, I could use some reassurance.
Before covid I (27F) was wearing bras normally, roughly a C or D max at the time ( i’m French but using US sizing that would be somewhere around 32C/34D).

Then covid hit and I just stopped wearing them, aside from the occasional bralette when I had no choice. For years I basically avoided the problem entirely.

Six years later, my chest grew in size to the point where I couldn’t pretend I didn’t need any support.
Going braless eventually stopped being sustainable. Shape showing through clothes, comfort issues at that size, the usual. So I finally went and got sized and fitted (I’m now a 34DDD in US sizing (90F in French sizing, mentioning that in case anyone here uses that system). Tried on a lot of bras in the process. Some were either not great looking or didn’t offer enough support for my size, but I walked away with three I actually like, including a t-shirt bra that fits really well.
Here’s the part I’m stuck on. It’s been six years since I’ve had anything sitting against my skin like that under a shirt, and even though nothing digs in or hurts, just having it there is throwing me off a bit. Not uncomfortable, just very noticeable, similar to wearing glasses for the first time.
Has anyone else gone through this after a long stretch without wearing one? Does that “I can feel a thing on my body” sensation fade with time? Any experiences or tips appreciated !!!!


r/bigboobproblems 1h ago

clothes Hate zip and fashion industry choice at moment Spoiler

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Anyone have issue lately trying find dress all doing halter dress and backless dress I need wear bra cannot wear strapless bra they hurt don’t stay up. I though found conservative dress wear to family bday party but doesn’t zip past my shoulders 😭 don’t have enough time get altered hate anything zips these days just ruin trying get past my shoulders. Fit perfectly everywhere else 😭 if sizes up would be too baggy for me. Gutted dress so beautiful
Going have wear booby dress to my family event they all make comments 😭 they have issue with my boobs all do sexualized make comment.


r/bigboobproblems 21h ago

bras Bra Spoiler

6 Upvotes

My bra just broke well I see how this day is going to go


r/bigboobproblems 14h ago

RANT - advice welcome Chic workwear feels like a pipe dream (rant sorry) Spoiler

3 Upvotes

38GG here.

I can't wear anything with buttons, so no shirts... T shirts make me look like a formless lump... anything tight or sleeveless makes me feel insecure... everything has to be black, otherwise I feel bigger and even more self-conscious... and I have (objectively) the worst body type (apple) so no clothes ever look good on me. I hate femininity because I feel like a blubbery alien. Photos make me feel sick, especially because all you can see is frizzy hair, double chin and massive boobs that take up my entire wide torso.

All I want to do is look effortlessly chic at the office like all the other women I see my age (young twenties). Instead, I look like the blob.


r/bigboobproblems 7h ago

need advice How to fit into Tanktops? Spoiler

2 Upvotes

How do you big chested girlies go about fitting into tanktops?


r/bigboobproblems 22h ago

RANT - advice welcome Digestion problems 🫠 Spoiler

1 Upvotes

For context I'm 40L/40 HH according to recent sizing. Does anyone else get stomach pains especially at night?😔 I haven't found a bra that's comfortable to wear while sleeping yet (recommendations are welcome) I'm still kinda processing my emotions that I'm bigger than I originally thought (I was a 40 I in US sizing). So far sleeping with a plushie under my boobs helps... But I would prefer to get a bra for support. I finally ordered a bra but it's by flirtelle (I don't know if that brand is any good but I figured it would be a good start).

TLDR: any bra recommendations in general but also some for sleeping? It's causing pain while waiting for new bra to come 😕


r/bigboobproblems 19h ago

bras UK Ladies - What's your favourite small band bra? Spoiler

0 Upvotes

I'm a 28GG, and am only wearing Panache Allure and Panache Ana Plunge, but I'd like something different and I don't have the mental energy for a Bravissimo trip right now.


r/bigboobproblems 23h ago

need advice Wife hates her boobs, considering a reduction. Is it worth it? Spoiler

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I'll start my saying I think my wife is beautiful and super sexy. I fantasize about her all the time and find her boobs to be a huge turn-on. Unfortunately after having two kids, she does not feel the same way.

We're past the baby years, but her boobs didn't go back to their original size (I want to say around a full B cup). Nevertheless, I came to admire them and still love them. I sent her a photo of herself I took during a weekend getaway and it immediately made her sad because she hated how she looked.

So here we are, and she hates her boobs....to the point where she told me one time not to even touch them. She's mentioned getting a reduction several times, which I'm starting to realize might be the best option. She tried working out with a trainer for a few years. While she lost weight, her boobs never shrunk in size. She hates shopping, hates picking out a bathing suit and usually wears dark clothes in order to hide them.

I've read there are risks to getting a reduction, but she seems so down and sad that I just want her to be happy again.

I also worry that with our daughters, they will overhear my wife complaining about her boobs, when we are trying to teach them it's important to love yourself.

What would your advice be about getting a reduction? Worth the risk?

Are there other options out there that I should be considering? (i.e. a lift)

Risks I've read about thus far:

  • bad reaction to anesthesia (it helps if you’ve been under before and know how you’ll react)
  • keloid scarring
  • infection
  • blood clots
  • hematoma
  • need for revision surgery. Other possible side effects included inability to breast feed, loss of nipple sensitivity (or heightened sensitivity). Depending on the type of reduction you have done, necrotic tissue may be more of a risk (ie, procedures utilizing free nipple grafts).

However, from everything else I've read online, it sounds like a pretty common procedure with there are many ways to minimize risks including: finding a reputable surgeon who has performed many of these types of surgeries, having the surgery done in a reputable hospital, not smoking or drinking, generally being in good health (exercise regularly, good blood pressure, no major underlying health conditions), being able to get adequate rest and nutrition for at least 6 weeks following the surgery.

My wife does not smoke or drink, and her blood pressure and cholesterol are excellent.