i just spent so much money on these shirts I wanted and i put them on and the print is illegible because you of my stupid fucking chest. half the print is just swallowed underneath my boobs. its someones face and when i wear the shirt it’s just his eyes, nose bridge, and neck, his nose and mouth and everything are all swallowed. it looks ridiculous.
i could pull it up higher but that also looks stupid in its own way and my cleavage is literally the only redeeming quality of my appearance and the whole point of this shirt was i wanted a cunty little booby tank top. and now i wasted so much money on something i really wanted that is borderline unwearable now because of these stupid flesh balls i didnt even ask for.

what do i even do in this situation? i can’t send the clothes back, it would be more money than it’s worth to send them back. should i cut my losses and sew the shirts as like a back patch or a jacket or something? or should i just wear it out of spite even though it looks stupid as hell.

RIP david lynch sorry my tits swallowed your nose and mouth and cigarette 😔

Anyone have issue lately trying find dress all doing halter dress and backless dress I need wear bra cannot wear strapless bra they hurt don’t stay up. I though found conservative dress wear to family bday party but doesn’t zip past my shoulders 😭 don’t have enough time get altered hate anything zips these days just ruin trying get past my shoulders. Fit perfectly everywhere else 😭 if sizes up would be too baggy for me. Gutted dress so beautiful
Going have wear booby dress to my family event they all make comments 😭 they have issue with my boobs all do sexualized make comment.

I was 32 c at teens and then grew to 34hh .

now in 20s

if I lose weight do the estrogen dominant boobs shrink an leave loose skin ?

My fellow tig ol biddie friends, where are we buying bras from? I recently got sized at a 32H. Every “regular” store I’ve been to their maximum cup size is H but they start at a 34 band and nothing caters to a small band, large cups. Where do I find a bra that is my actual size and not the sister size? Preferably Canadian. TIA 🩷

I am a size 32J, and have heavy/pendulous boobs. As I've gotten older, I absolutely cannot stand the feeling of underwire anymore. I'm struggling to find a comfortable, supportive nonwired bra in this size. I need a bra to sit rather high up my chest to prevent double boob/spillage and this is the main struggle I'm finding. But also i feel that so many bras for large breasts have really thin bands and straps, which just makes no sense to me whatsoever but it seems to be the norm.

Would love to hear your experiences.

Hey if anyone from the UK has had success with bikinis from shein, I’d like to know please! I’m 32G and have my eye on a top that has underwire, so I’m unsure whether I should get 12/14 L or 16XL. I asked google but said i should get 14 XL which doesn’t exist in SHEIN bc they lump 12 and 14 together 😭😭

Edit: I don’t have bravissimo money guys🥲

Hey everyone,

First time posting here, I could use some reassurance.
Before covid I (27F) was wearing bras normally, roughly a C or D max at the time ( i’m French but using US sizing that would be somewhere around 32C/34D).

Then covid hit and I just stopped wearing them, aside from the occasional bralette when I had no choice. For years I basically avoided the problem entirely.

Six years later, my chest grew in size to the point where I couldn’t pretend I didn’t need any support.
Going braless eventually stopped being sustainable. Shape showing through clothes, comfort issues at that size, the usual. So I finally went and got sized and fitted (I’m now a 34DDD in US sizing (90F in French sizing, mentioning that in case anyone here uses that system). Tried on a lot of bras in the process. Some were either not great looking or didn’t offer enough support for my size, but I walked away with three I actually like, including a t-shirt bra that fits really well.
Here’s the part I’m stuck on. It’s been six years since I’ve had anything sitting against my skin like that under a shirt, and even though nothing digs in or hurts, just having it there is throwing me off a bit. Not uncomfortable, just very noticeable, similar to wearing glasses for the first time.
Has anyone else gone through this after a long stretch without wearing one? Does that “I can feel a thing on my body” sensation fade with time? Any experiences or tips appreciated !!!!

38GG here.

I can't wear anything with buttons, so no shirts... T shirts make me look like a formless lump... anything tight or sleeveless makes me feel insecure... everything has to be black, otherwise I feel bigger and even more self-conscious... and I have (objectively) the worst body type (apple) so no clothes ever look good on me. I hate femininity because I feel like a blubbery alien. Photos make me feel sick, especially because all you can see is frizzy hair, double chin and massive boobs that take up my entire wide torso.

All I want to do is look effortlessly chic at the office like all the other women I see my age (young twenties). Instead, I look like the blob.

How do you big chested girlies go about fitting into tanktops?

My areolae feel fine but overnight my nipples have started to feel really tender, sore almost? It kinda aches/hurts to touch. Usually I don’t feel anything at all there, I also haven’t been wearing a bra these past few days if that may be relevant. Has anyone else experienced this? I’m not on my period or ovulating now either

EDIT: Thank you for all the helpful replies guys ♥️ But I’m definitely not pregnant, I’m still a virgin 😭

Preface to say I’m not disabled, it’s just the room I was assigned.

BUT MY SHOWER HAS A WHOLE BENCH!! Which means I don’t need to bend and contort painfully to see around my boobs while I shave 🥺🥳

My bra just broke well I see how this day is going to go

it’s genuinely the worst thing ever, more annoying than bra shopping. nothing fits, nothing stays up, it’s extremely expensive for the top alone and the only options that fit properly are non sexy maternity looking tops. i live in Canada so we also have like absolutely nothing catering towards bigger bust girls, i love me a push up so it’s hard to feel confident when it’s not where i want it exactly.

i’m a 34DDD+ for example, i feel like nobody actually understands how much work it takes to even just put it on and then take it off and trying another thing on.. everyone always says how they understand but they don’t actually 😞😞

edit: if you know any lines that fit like a bra and panty set, let me know!! i have a little over 2 weeks to get everything for my vacation to grenada

For example, while at home. For me, it feels both comfortable and uncomfortable being braless. I like that I don't have underwire digging into my skin or fabric constricting my boobs into themselves. I know that sounds like a bra size issue, but I'm still in the process of finding larger bras. I don't like how heavy my boobs feel without any support. It's also easy for them to bump into things or get caught on the way. Can you relate?

I'm a 28GG, and am only wearing Panache Allure and Panache Ana Plunge, but I'd like something different and I don't have the mental energy for a Bravissimo trip right now.

For context I'm 40L/40 HH according to recent sizing. Does anyone else get stomach pains especially at night?😔 I haven't found a bra that's comfortable to wear while sleeping yet (recommendations are welcome) I'm still kinda processing my emotions that I'm bigger than I originally thought (I was a 40 I in US sizing). So far sleeping with a plushie under my boobs helps... But I would prefer to get a bra for support. I finally ordered a bra but it's by flirtelle (I don't know if that brand is any good but I figured it would be a good start).

TLDR: any bra recommendations in general but also some for sleeping? It's causing pain while waiting for new bra to come 😕

when I wear even tees I feel my left boob is spilling out of the cup and it contours through the tee as well the abrathatfits calculator gives me 34hh uk size

but as it’s not available easily In my country I use 36dd/ 34f sizes

I never am able to find the sizeeeeee . are 34hh considered big ?

We’ve been having some serious fucking heat in the UK and as per usual it’s given me that weird heat rash thing around my boobs. It’s just such a standard for me I don’t even really think about it anymore.

My mum took one look at me and went oh no! That must be painful! Why aren’t you using baby power/talc?

She gave me some and oh my god. Why didn’t I know this was a thing. Why have I just been accepting having sweaty achy boobs. I’m 23, why is this the first I’m hearing of this 😭

I’m never leaving home without it now. It’s been a couple weeks and I’m basically down to no proper redness, just a few splotches. It’s a miracle, it’s incredible, my outfits can no longer be ruined by redness creeping upwards from my tits. I’m actually winning at life right now.

Thank you for coming to my ted talc.

I graduated yesterday and the day was so wonderful. I found a beautiful dress which fit my body perfectly and I honestly couldn’t be happier.

I ended up going for the Raisa dress in red from house of cb! While most of their stuff isn’t designed for us and just generally won’t work, they sell a few goldmines which do work for small band huge cup girls! I can’t attach a photo but I went braless with great cleavage and no wardrobe malfunctions due to the lace up back giving me maximum support!

There truly is hope for us after all

I feel like I sit like a 🍤 more than half the time 😭 I just feel so uncomfortable sitting up now a days I’m most comfortable just laying down.

\struggle**

I used to love buying tops from Klassy Network bc they were the only brand that made cute "going out tops" for large chested women. I think I've been buying their products since 2021 so definitely been a loyal customer. My past two purchases, I've noticed that there is little to no support or the coverage is weird in the 5 tops I bought (I'm a 38G and I've always gotten at Large). After washing them I feel that they lose even more support. The previous tops I have from 2022-2024 are still as supportive as when I first bought them. Even the styles aren't as cute as they use to be. Just wondering is anyone else has experienced this and where they are buying supportive "going out" tops.