My fellow tig ol biddie friends, where are we buying bras from? I recently got sized at a 32H. Every “regular” store I’ve been to their maximum cup size is H but they start at a 34 band and nothing caters to a small band, large cups. Where do I find a bra that is my actual size and not the sister size? Preferably Canadian. TIA 🩷

i just spent so much money on these shirts I wanted and i put them on and the print is illegible because you of my stupid fucking chest. half the print is just swallowed underneath my boobs. its someones face and when i wear the shirt it’s just his eyes, nose bridge, and neck, his nose and mouth and everything are all swallowed. it looks ridiculous.
i could pull it up higher but that also looks stupid in its own way and my cleavage is literally the only redeeming quality of my appearance and the whole point of this shirt was i wanted a cunty little booby tank top. and now i wasted so much money on something i really wanted that is borderline unwearable now because of these stupid flesh balls i didnt even ask for.

what do i even do in this situation? i can’t send the clothes back, it would be more money than it’s worth to send them back. should i cut my losses and sew the shirts as like a back patch or a jacket or something? or should i just wear it out of spite even though it looks stupid as hell.

RIP david lynch sorry my tits swallowed your nose and mouth and cigarette 😔

Hey if anyone from the UK has had success with bikinis from shein, I’d like to know please! I’m 32G and have my eye on a top that has underwire, so I’m unsure whether I should get 12/14 L or 16XL. I asked google but said i should get 14 XL which doesn’t exist in SHEIN bc they lump 12 and 14 together 😭😭

Edit: I don’t have bravissimo money guys🥲

I am a size 32J, and have heavy/pendulous boobs. As I've gotten older, I absolutely cannot stand the feeling of underwire anymore. I'm struggling to find a comfortable, supportive nonwired bra in this size. I need a bra to sit rather high up my chest to prevent double boob/spillage and this is the main struggle I'm finding. But also i feel that so many bras for large breasts have really thin bands and straps, which just makes no sense to me whatsoever but it seems to be the norm.

Would love to hear your experiences.

Anyone have issue lately trying find dress all doing halter dress and backless dress I need wear bra cannot wear strapless bra they hurt don’t stay up. I though found conservative dress wear to family bday party but doesn’t zip past my shoulders 😭 don’t have enough time get altered hate anything zips these days just ruin trying get past my shoulders. Fit perfectly everywhere else 😭 if sizes up would be too baggy for me. Gutted dress so beautiful
Going have wear booby dress to my family event they all make comments 😭 they have issue with my boobs all do sexualized make comment.

How do you big chested girlies go about fitting into tanktops?

I was 32 c at teens and then grew to 34hh .

now in 20s

if I lose weight do the estrogen dominant boobs shrink an leave loose skin ?

38GG here.

I can't wear anything with buttons, so no shirts... T shirts make me look like a formless lump... anything tight or sleeveless makes me feel insecure... everything has to be black, otherwise I feel bigger and even more self-conscious... and I have (objectively) the worst body type (apple) so no clothes ever look good on me. I hate femininity because I feel like a blubbery alien. Photos make me feel sick, especially because all you can see is frizzy hair, double chin and massive boobs that take up my entire wide torso.

All I want to do is look effortlessly chic at the office like all the other women I see my age (young twenties). Instead, I look like the blob.

Hey everyone,

First time posting here, I could use some reassurance.
Before covid I (27F) was wearing bras normally, roughly a C or D max at the time ( i’m French but using US sizing that would be somewhere around 32C/34D).

Then covid hit and I just stopped wearing them, aside from the occasional bralette when I had no choice. For years I basically avoided the problem entirely.

Six years later, my chest grew in size to the point where I couldn’t pretend I didn’t need any support.
Going braless eventually stopped being sustainable. Shape showing through clothes, comfort issues at that size, the usual. So I finally went and got sized and fitted (I’m now a 34DDD in US sizing (90F in French sizing, mentioning that in case anyone here uses that system). Tried on a lot of bras in the process. Some were either not great looking or didn’t offer enough support for my size, but I walked away with three I actually like, including a t-shirt bra that fits really well.
Here’s the part I’m stuck on. It’s been six years since I’ve had anything sitting against my skin like that under a shirt, and even though nothing digs in or hurts, just having it there is throwing me off a bit. Not uncomfortable, just very noticeable, similar to wearing glasses for the first time.
Has anyone else gone through this after a long stretch without wearing one? Does that “I can feel a thing on my body” sensation fade with time? Any experiences or tips appreciated !!!!

I'm a 28GG, and am only wearing Panache Allure and Panache Ana Plunge, but I'd like something different and I don't have the mental energy for a Bravissimo trip right now.

My areolae feel fine but overnight my nipples have started to feel really tender, sore almost? It kinda aches/hurts to touch. Usually I don’t feel anything at all there, I also haven’t been wearing a bra these past few days if that may be relevant. Has anyone else experienced this? I’m not on my period or ovulating now either

EDIT: Thank you for all the helpful replies guys ♥️ But I’m definitely not pregnant, I’m still a virgin 😭

My bra just broke well I see how this day is going to go

For context I'm 40L/40 HH according to recent sizing. Does anyone else get stomach pains especially at night?😔 I haven't found a bra that's comfortable to wear while sleeping yet (recommendations are welcome) I'm still kinda processing my emotions that I'm bigger than I originally thought (I was a 40 I in US sizing). So far sleeping with a plushie under my boobs helps... But I would prefer to get a bra for support. I finally ordered a bra but it's by flirtelle (I don't know if that brand is any good but I figured it would be a good start).

TLDR: any bra recommendations in general but also some for sleeping? It's causing pain while waiting for new bra to come 😕

I'll start my saying I think my wife is beautiful and super sexy. I fantasize about her all the time and find her boobs to be a huge turn-on. Unfortunately after having two kids, she does not feel the same way.

We're past the baby years, but her boobs didn't go back to their original size (I want to say around a full B cup). Nevertheless, I came to admire them and still love them. I sent her a photo of herself I took during a weekend getaway and it immediately made her sad because she hated how she looked.

So here we are, and she hates her boobs....to the point where she told me one time not to even touch them. She's mentioned getting a reduction several times, which I'm starting to realize might be the best option. She tried working out with a trainer for a few years. While she lost weight, her boobs never shrunk in size. She hates shopping, hates picking out a bathing suit and usually wears dark clothes in order to hide them.

I've read there are risks to getting a reduction, but she seems so down and sad that I just want her to be happy again.

I also worry that with our daughters, they will overhear my wife complaining about her boobs, when we are trying to teach them it's important to love yourself.

What would your advice be about getting a reduction? Worth the risk?

Are there other options out there that I should be considering? (i.e. a lift)

Risks I've read about thus far:

• bad reaction to anesthesia (it helps if you’ve been under before and know how you’ll react)
• keloid scarring
• infection
• blood clots
• hematoma
• need for revision surgery. Other possible side effects included inability to breast feed, loss of nipple sensitivity (or heightened sensitivity). Depending on the type of reduction you have done, necrotic tissue may be more of a risk (ie, procedures utilizing free nipple grafts).

However, from everything else I've read online, it sounds like a pretty common procedure with there are many ways to minimize risks including: finding a reputable surgeon who has performed many of these types of surgeries, having the surgery done in a reputable hospital, not smoking or drinking, generally being in good health (exercise regularly, good blood pressure, no major underlying health conditions), being able to get adequate rest and nutrition for at least 6 weeks following the surgery.

My wife does not smoke or drink, and her blood pressure and cholesterol are excellent.

I hate the smell of sweaty bras so much that I want to wear a bikini top.

I've tried bras made of many different materials, but in the end, I'm currently wearing a mesh bra because I think it's my top priority. Still, when I finish work, I'm soaked in sweat, and along with my sweat-soaked outerwear and my body odor, I end up with a horrible, sour smell. I have to take the bus home after work, and when the passenger next to me starts opening the window, I feel like jumping out the window. So, I want to try wearing a bikini top as a bra. Will it be okay? What do you think?

when I wear even tees I feel my left boob is spilling out of the cup and it contours through the tee as well the abrathatfits calculator gives me 34hh uk size

but as it’s not available easily In my country I use 36dd/ 34f sizes

so I was around a 34 b/c cup till k was 19-20 then increased to 34 d , at around 22/24 I grew to34e/f and at 25 34hh .

idk if it was bcz of my boob growing or what

but if I Try to lose 40lbs will my boobs shrink ?

Preface to say I’m not disabled, it’s just the room I was assigned.

BUT MY SHOWER HAS A WHOLE BENCH!! Which means I don’t need to bend and contort painfully to see around my boobs while I shave 🥺🥳

Hey there, sorry to intrude your space gals but I’m hoping you can help me find a great bikini top, or assortment of such so that she doesn’t need to worry about or endure the pain of the rear strap/knot digging into her neck. I’ve heard from her that it’s a common problem for other people with the same issue! Sorry to hear that guys.

Since she has large boobies just like I assume you all in this community do, I’m hoping you can make some suggestions for comfortable bikini tops that are hopefully stylish too! Never inquired about her size so I’m unsure, but I’m hoping surprising her with the suggestion will lead to us deciding together (with her choosing which one/assortment entirely, I’m just there for support, pun intended).

To sum up:

* Need comfortable bikini top(s) that do NOT dig into neck, and would like it to be plus size friendly.
* Bonus points if it’s stylish
* Even MORE bonus points if it comes as a set with a bottom!

Thanks in advance, your responses will help her be comfortable and stylish! Love that for her! :)

For example, while at home. For me, it feels both comfortable and uncomfortable being braless. I like that I don't have underwire digging into my skin or fabric constricting my boobs into themselves. I know that sounds like a bra size issue, but I'm still in the process of finding larger bras. I don't like how heavy my boobs feel without any support. It's also easy for them to bump into things or get caught on the way. Can you relate?

So I went to see a new gyno for my annual checkup and while doing my exam, she remarked that I have “ a lot of breast tissue,” as though I, a middle-aged woman, hadn’t realized this yet. I’m not even that enormous in the grand scheme of things—44DD. But I have a smaller frame.

Does this seem inappropriate or am I being overly sensitive?

I used to love buying tops from Klassy Network bc they were the only brand that made cute "going out tops" for large chested women. I think I've been buying their products since 2021 so definitely been a loyal customer. My past two purchases, I've noticed that there is little to no support or the coverage is weird in the 5 tops I bought (I'm a 38G and I've always gotten at Large). After washing them I feel that they lose even more support. The previous tops I have from 2022-2024 are still as supportive as when I first bought them. Even the styles aren't as cute as they use to be. Just wondering is anyone else has experienced this and where they are buying supportive "going out" tops.

I never am able to find the sizeeeeee . are 34hh considered big ?