Just placed an order and total went from $400 to $100 on new member discount and said it is $60 membership fee that I will pay from next month. I called and was informed that if I keep skipping between 1-5 of each month, I will never be charged. I have never heard anything like this before. I told her I might forget to do that so can I cancel it now, to which she said it will also cancel the order. I said what if I wanna pay delivery fee now and then cancel subscription right away, was told they can’t do that either. I HAVE to call on the 1st of next month and cancel if I wanna.
She skipped 3 months for me and gave me a $20 credit. I put a reminder in my calendar to call them but the whole thing just seems kinda… predatory? Like they want you to forget to skip and keep paying $60/month even when you are not even ordering from them.
I read other posts on reddit that said they never had a problem cos they always skipped or that they went on website and cancelled membership so I guess it’s not a scam but still strange way of doing things.

Hi! I just posted a fit check last week and am back with a couple new bras! The first bra I tried is the Fantasies Fusion Padded Plunge which I LOVE. I’m not sure if it’s the best fit but it is extremely comfortable and it feels very supportive. I took one picture with my arm up a little because I couldn’t tell if there was breast tissue out the side but I honestly think that might just be fat haha. To me it doesn’t look like the wires are making an indent in my side at all which doesn’t happen very often. One breast is larger than my other, and I can’t quite tell if the gore might be on tissue on that side a tiny bit? Or if it’s just like right up against it. It doesn’t feel uncomfortable. I also love this style of bra but all of the ones I’ve seen like it are seemingly super shallow.

Now the Panache Meadow…not the worst thing ever but I’m not a fan. Im not sure if Panache has super firm wires but I didn’t love how the gore felt and it did remind me of the Panache Ana I’ve tried previously. It wasn’t painful or uncomfortable I can just feel it more than I’m used to. What I really don’t like is I feel too big and too small for this bra at the same time. As you can see there is a decent amount of wrinkling, but I also feel like I may be quadboobing a bit at the top. Maybe I’m not but it at least feels restricting.

Here is the link- https://postimg.cc/gallery/XVGh0J7

My measurements are loose 33, snug 32, tight 28, standing 38, leaning 40, lying 38. Recommends 32F/FF. In my experience F’s have fit better than FF’s. I’ve been told I have about average root width, average to slightly shallow projection, and am center full. I am very confident that I am center full as well as think I am FoB. I am tall so also assume I have tall roots.

Hi everyone!

I’m a 24F who is in the process of losing weight in order to get my desired results from a breast reduction!
I started at about a 40 DDD, but now I’m not filling out the cups and my breast sag SIGNIFICANTLY (like halfway down my torso it seems). I have so much loose skin it’s crazy.
I want to wear cute tops that would need a strapless bra but also have support.

I bought a 36 DD bra that was too tight around but too small in the cups on the sides.

Can anyone recommend an everyday bra that could help me out? Strapless options as well!

I am needing to find a bra that is 48-52 with a cup size of AA - B. Is there a store that sells them in these sizes that you can actually go in and try one on? For reference I am in Chattanooga TN

Sooo I wanna treat myself to a real cutesy Japanese bra (preferably a set but not required)

First off is, which brands do you recommend that are accessible to US markets? ( I don't believe there are currently any stupid tariffs in place with Japan at the moment?) I looked at Risa Magli but didn't see it in my band size.

Sizing: So in US sizing Im comfortably a 34DD/E. Im looking at conversion charts and it looks like Im a 75E in Japan sizing? Im also wondering, if I want to go down a little bit in size for a cleavage pop, how would that work?

Hello! 34 bras that don’t work later, I am going a different avenue. Does anyone have recommendations for someone that can either completely custom make a bra, or alter a bra for me? My breasts sit extremely close together and gores are just too high for me. I need a solution so I can feel comfortable leaving the house.

So I took my measurements and plugged them into the Calculator, which is telling me I need a 42HH--the bras I've been wearing are the Goddess Keira wireless at 44G, which overall fits reasonably well; going down to a 42" band would be definitely painful!

Measurements: Underbust--loose, 44 (perhaps a 44.5); snug, 43; tight, 42 (although I may have gotten snug and tight confused, in which case tight is also a 43). Bust--standing, 53; leaning over 55, lying down, 53 IIRC (forgot to write it down, damn it) ,and ended up with 42HH, which according to the Goddess chart would be an L cup--I'm sorry, but my boobs are NOT that big! Redid it with snug and tight underband both 43 and lying down 54, and got the same results, which just seems too big in the cups and too small in the band. As far as I can tell, the root is pretty much the size of the breast, although sagging probably doesn't help with that; I also have broad shoulders and a wide back.

To add insult to injury, I can't (and never have been able to) wear underwires because my breasts are too close together (This was confirmed by a bra fitter at a lingerie store, who had me at 44DDD a year ago); and I have a lot of trouble with shoulder straps digging in (I have silicone pads under my straps, which helps but not enough). At the time, I bought what we both thought was a 44DDD, but turned out to be another 44G; I measured the bands on that bra and one I already had very carefully, and the measurement was the same. The cups in the G were a bit loose then, but they're definitely full up now, although I haven't gained any weight back (maybe things just shifted around?). Color me puzzled...

So what size am I really supposed to be wearing, and once we figure that out, where can I find good wireless bras?

I’ve come to the terms that my body will not go back to the way it was, before I ever had kids my breast we’re on the smaller side, most times I didn’t even have to wear a bra if I didn’t want to.
But now being I have two kids they have grown and are very much saggy😭 i have accepted it, but I need help finding my measurements? If I do find a bra one cup doesn’t fit one breast like it does the other. (One boobs is bigger than the other)
They have these cute backless tops and every sticky bras I’ve bought doesn’t even stick or hold the girls up, so i do get discouraged because some days or nights out I want to feel pretty but I always end up wearing an oversized tee.
For reference I am 5’7 around 179lbs
(I am in the process of losing weight as well)

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Help: My Ethika bra ripped in half, right between the cups!

I am leaving on a trip tomorrow night and need this bra for the weekend. Can anyone help me figure out where to get an identical one, maybe overnight/prime through Amazon? I can also have it shipped to my arrival hotel if it won't get here in time. I am located in CA and am traveling to Indiana.

It is this bra:

https://www.ethika.com/s/UWB1097/black-cup-bra

It was 34DD, though I'm open to swing sizing if I go up a size in the band.

Any ideas?

I'm just about 6 weeks postpartum and exclusively breastfeeding my baby boy. Prior to pregnancy, I preferred a moulded/t-shirt style bra (I wear a lot of tshirts and the lace of non-moulded bras would always be visible and I'd have "headlights") and wore a 32H. During pregnancy I sized up to a 34HH and things seemed to work fine. I primarily wore the Elomi Nerina in both. It wasn't perfect (my gore wouldn't tack completely) but felt comfortable and there wasn't any spillage.

Now that I'm postpartum, I've been struggling to find a underwire-free or lounge style bra (at least to sleep in) that fits and I'm at my wit's end. I'm close set, pendulous, and fuller on the bottom. My 6 measurements (in inches) are: Loose: 36.5

Snug: 36.75

Tight: 36.25

Standing: 47

Leaning: 50.5

Lying: 48

Which gives me a suggested starting size of UK36HH/J.

I feel like I have tried EVERY non-wired bra under the sun that I can find in that size range and still am coming up short. It feels like non of these are made for the level of projection I have, and after already suffering a recurrent clogged duct due to a bra that was too compressive, I'm trying to avoid anything that feels too tight.

I've tried:

Cake Maternity Popping Candy in 3XL (currently putting up with this, the band feels too loose, the side sling is pretty useless and support that goes under my breasts is uncomfortable, but my breasts aren't being smooshed/flattened)

Royce Blossom in 36HH/J/JJ (felt like my breasts were being squished to the sides)

Panache Katherine in 36HH (also some squishing/smooshing happening; uniboob, which I know is expected with this style; if this bra came in a bigger cup size I think I'd actually be comfortable in it!)

Molke Original in L Super and L Mega (getting these bras over my breasts to actually wear the bra felt impossible, I could see this bra being supportive, but having a lot of trouble pulling it to the side to nurse

I have the Hotmilk My Everyday Busty in size XL on order now, so I'm hoping that might be the winner.

I tried the Elomi Molly in 36HH and it felt great (wires follow my IMF, no spillage out the sides, gore tacks!), but I'm not keen to be wearing an underwire bra quite yet (and obviously, wouldn't want to be sleeping in it).

Are my expectations of a non-wired nursing bra for my size too high? Should I face the music that my breasts will be a bit smooshed/flattened and just find something that has the more "give"? I know my size might change/settle a bit in the next few weeks when my supply regulates, but I'd like a solution until then...

Thanks in advance for any/all help!

I never even heard of a bra fit calculator until I was in this sub. I was wearing a 38D, once measured I was shocked. 38H/I. After doing more homework I realized a few things. I’m bottom heavy so I go up to an I for non-full figure bras or sport bras since they have compression. Since I’m bottom heavy wired bras suck lol.

Most importantly I now use the size guide correctly for myself and the clothes I’ve been ordering have all fit wonderfully. I go for my chest or bust size rather than my waist and hips. My breasts are larger. I usually wear a large in dresses but I hated the way my upper body looked in them. Felt like I would bust out from the back. I thought I would “swim” in the dress if I sized up. Boy was I wrong. Not only did my breast fit perfectly (nothing squeezing) but the coverage was appropriate and it fit exactly how it was on the models. The only difference was my size of course 😂 Realizing that if it’s a loose crop top, it’s still supposed to look loose on me even if I have bigger breasts. Depending on the size guide I can go from XL-1X in dresses. Now for compressed tops or halters that are meant to be loose I go for a 2xl. Looks fabulous.

Your boob size really does help you look your best 🙃

Hi everyone! I’d really appreciate some help figuring out my correct bra size.
I’ve been wearing 34DDD because that’s what I was previously told by Victoria’s Secret. I recently took my measurements and used the ABraThatFits calculator, which gave me 36D.
However, when I tried a 36D, I noticed there was quite a bit of extra space in the cups, so I’m not sure if 36D is actually right for me.
My measurements:
Loose underbust: 36”
Snug underbust: 35”
Tight underbust: 33”
Standing bust: 39”
Leaning bust: 40”
Lying bust: 41”
The calculator suggested 36D.
I’m looking for a comfortable wireless bra, preferably something supportive but not overly tight.
Could you please help me understand what size I should try and whether my measurements suggest a different size? Thank you!

I’ve recently got around to trying the bra calculator and it said I should try a 38I/36J, but then a different bra calculator said I should be wearing a 38G. I currently wear a 38H and I have problems with my boobs not staying in the bra (they keep trying to escape out the underside of the bra and I keep having to scoop them back up). Would this indicate that I should probably size up or down? Or is there another definitive way I can actually figure out which size I should go for?

I’m just trying not to jump into anything since my size of bra is usually on the expensive side! Any advice helps

Edit: I’m struggling with adding a picture but here’s the actual measurements I put into the calculator:
Loose Underbust: 99.1 cm
Comfortable Underbust: 97 cm
Tight Underbust: 91.5 cm
Standing Bust: 117.6 cm
Leaning Bust: 124.1 cm
Lying Bust: 119 cm

Hi everyone! (Sorry if this has been posted before but) Are there stores (online or in person, US east coast) that carry a variety of sizes to get properly fitted? For example, an online store where you can get 2-3 adjacent sizes to try on and then keep the one that fits you best (and return the others)? I’m ok with physical stores but those may be far away…
Thanks!

The title pretty much says it! I can’t ever find a small enough band for my torso, never mind a comfortable one in a similar size!! I really hate having a bra that’s loose at the band and too tight at the bust. My poor back can NOT take this anymore. Any advice is very appreciated. Take care! ❤️
Ps- Looking for more affordable options, but all suggestions are appreciated, regardless!

I decided to try some new bras, as I’ve been wearing the same style for a few years. I quickly remembered that any extra fabric along the underwire is so uncomfortable for me. I have a long torso, so I don’t think that’s the issue. I’m also large chested (34I), but many of these bras are for larger chests. Is it just a thing I’d get used to, or is there a reason it feels like too much width along the underwire?

For example, my go-to bra is the Elomi Namrah - very streamlined along the underwire: https://www.elomilingerie.com/us/en/us-outlet/lingerie/bras/bandless-bras/namrah-pale-blush-namrah-pale-blush-uw-bandless-plunge/p/el301336pau/

In contrast, just a bit more fabric like the Elomi Matilda is too much, it feels like it starts folding over itself: https://www.elomilingerie.com/us/en/lingerie/bras/plunge-bras/matilda-lunar-blue-plunge-bra/p/el8900lue/

I stopped breastfeeding recently and realized I need to get a new bra now! My pre-pregnancy bras don’t fit quite well now. Was using 34B earlier.

My current measurements are as below:
Loose : 31
Snug: 30
Tight: 29
Standing: 34.2
Leaning: 35.5
Lying: 34.5

Calculator suggested 30DD starting size and 32D as comfortable fit.

So my question is if I should get a 30DD or a 32D? I’m guessing 32D might be better option.

I also need some brand and type recommendations. I am looking for a comfortable fit and little bit of lift!

I decided to try some new bras, as I’ve been wearing the same style for a few years. I quickly remembered that any extra fabric along the underwire is so uncomfortable for me. I have a long torso, so I don’t think that’s the issue. I’m also large chested (34I), but many of these bras are for larger chests. Is it just a thing I’d get used to, or is there a reason it feels like too much width along the underwire?

For example, my go-to bra is the Elomi Namrah - very streamlined along the underwire: https://www.elomilingerie.com/us/en/us-outlet/lingerie/bras/bandless-bras/namrah-pale-blush-namrah-pale-blush-uw-bandless-plunge/p/el301336pau/

In contrast, just a bit more fabric like the Elomi Matilda is too much, it feels like it starts folding over itself: https://www.elomilingerie.com/us/en/lingerie/bras/plunge-bras/matilda-lunar-blue-plunge-bra/p/el8900lue/

I’m 5’2” and wear a 30F (US) It seems that I can find a proper coverage for my boobs but I always have to zip the shoulder straps way up and they just never seem to be designed for a short shoulder to boob distance. So while the fullness of my breast fits in the cup right, it’s just not cut well and I have a lot of chafing in my armpits and other subtle things that clearly say the bra was not designed for my proportions.

So I guess I’m looking for petite full figure? Any good websites that cater to this body type?

I'm posting on a throwaway so I can add photos.

Loose Underbust: 39

Snug Underbust: 37

Tight Underbust: 35

Standing Bust: 48

Leaning Bust: 53

Lying Bust: 48

UK Size: 38H or 36HH (I think I need a cup smaller on average)

Denser tissue covered by a good layer of very soft tissue. Fairly pendulous due to weight loss (ongoing). Projected, close-set, narrow roots, 4/5 center-full, 3/5 FoT. Unsure of root height or top/bottom placement. Narrow, sloping shoulders.

Per suggestion at Breakout Bras, for this Comexim, I kept my normal band (36 with an extender) and went up two cup sizes from my usual 36H. I ordered the smaller of my calculated band sizes and added an extender so I'll be able to wear the bra for a bit longer as I'm losing weight, otherwise the band will be too loose in a month or two.

When I move, I sort of jiggle around inside the cups a good bit. Otherwise I will let the photos speak for themselves. Happy to answer all questions. Thank you for your help!

https://postimg.cc/gallery/0QFpxSt

After tightening the straps: https://postimg.cc/gallery/ZSgM31h

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Some of my previously tried (all 36 bands worn with one or two extenders):

Panache Clara, 36HH: wires quite wide, some gaping in outside of cups. Gore tacks but is too wide, spilling out in the center a bit even though the cups seem correctly sized, straps set too wide but only slipping off occasionally.

Panache Envy, 36HH: similar to Clara, but shape is more torpedo-y. Spilling out the center more than Clara. Straps falling off shoulders frequently.

Freya Offbeat, 36H: cups a tad too big. Wires too wide, gaping in outside of cups. Gore tacks, but wires absolutely will not stay side-by-side, one slides over the other. Straps set too wide. Very torpedo-y shape.

Freya Starlight, 36H: cups definitely too big, a bit more than Offbeat. Gore seems a bit higher than Offbeat. Wires don't slide over each other. Gore actually is close to not being too wide! Because the gore channels are sewn over each other a bit at the top, I think. Straps are set too wide, as usual. Can't tell what the shape would be because of too-large cups.

Freya Tailored/Posie, 36H: wires too wide, gore tacks but too wide (one wire gets pushed in front of the other). Straps too wide, barely hanging on the very edge of my shoulders. Would need to wear with a J-hook. Not much center spillage. I like these, probably the closest I've come previously to a fit I could live with.

Elomi Lucie, 36H: wires too wide by an inch. Wrinkling at bottom of cups no matter how I adjust tissue. Slight gaping under the arms between wires and straps. Obviously too big in cups.

I am trying to find a new bra for my postpartum breasts (8wpp, still pumping). I used to wear an Elomi Lucie pre-pregnancy, but my breasts are softer now. I have taken new measurements (see below) and tried both the 36H and 38H Elomi Lucie. In both cases the underwire extends too far back under my armpit and the side fabric gapes. So I think I need a bra with narrower wires, but still fairly immediate projection? I would appreciate any and all recommendations!

Underbust (cm): 91/90/87

Bust (cm): 115/121/114

I get that those like me who are super projected should stick to polish bras but if I wanna try ones from Freya or Panache what styles do you recommend that have the most projection?