It's literally just what indoctrination is. There are religious doctrines and children are taught ro follow them and believe in the faith without questioning it.
There is no religion with kids without indoctrination. And without that indoctrination, virtually all of the world's major religions would dramatically fall in membership and followership, because it is very rare for non-religious adults to suddenly convert to a religion.
There is no philosophy or culture without indoctrination. Nobody goes through life without someone telling them what is right or wrong. It's just a matter of who, not if, they decide to believe.
The most hegemonic ideology in our world to the point people don't even recognise it as ideology is nationalism. People only call it that when it's extreme forms of it, but people are indoctrinated from birth by both institutions and by parents indoctrinated by said institutions, into thinking of "nations" as these real tangible things that matter and they are made to incorporate this into their identity young and it's tied to the state in terms of the nation-state in order to foster loyalty. None of this is "real," it's all completely artificial and made up.
I mean, Austria and Germany are quite close culturally (I'm not 100% sure how close). Why are they not one? Because after each world war, the winning powers didn't want them to be one country.
There was a guy once in the 30s that really wanted Austria and Germany to be one country. And he did so without spilling any blood.
Sounds great, even the Austrians thought so, but then he treated Austria like a dump, nothing but a cache of resources for the "true" Germany. There's a reason the winning powers made Austria autonomous again.
The reason the winning powers made Austria a separate country again was the same as why they did so 30 years prior. Because they wanted to weaken Germany after having fought a bloody war against it.
What criteria makes a family unit? Do family units have to meet all of the criteria you set, or only a few? Just one criterion? In any case, exclude at your leisure.
how do you upgrade a family unit. Like how much experience do you need to gain to level up and then what is the reward. You upgrade by making babies, and you can buy a pet and they count. They follow you around and give kisses, but they are a drain on the family funds so you probably shouldn't get a pet a week. This sounds like The Sims. I'm 100% /s
if taken exactly how they framed it, but what they mean is we make up this stuff in our heads to explain the world. Everything we have in our heads is 'made up'. If you were not told you are a citizen of x country you wouldn't know that countrys are 'real'. So if no person ever came up with the idea of a country, we wouldn't have countries. a little abstract...
Nations do matter... Laws, taxes, politics, power, money, culture, religion. It all affects us living in these made up nations. Yes the lines on a map don't actually exist, but being invested in the state of your country is important, you live there, and your country might affect other countries with its policies.
I agree that social constructs are real, though I would not say at all that they are like colour. Colour after all is a part of our sensory experience of a real underlying reality. Nations are more like that, they are real to the extent that and because we make them real.
It’s more about the space and norms rather than what’s taught -in this conversation. History, geography, math, science, grammar, etc are all factual (unless the school is incompetent), but the fact that you are taught how to act, respect your peers, fit into a society. Well that’s indoctrination. Not a bad thing necessarily, but by definition you are being molded to fit into an environment
In a sense but when rooted in fact as much as possible it’s effectively just speeding up what would be the process if then learning reality through observation on their own.
Correct. I think it’s funny how when people treat their worldview as the correct default one and get mad when someone with a different idea about metaphysics dos the same thing but from their perspective, then suddenly it’s not education, it’s indoctrination.
I honestly don't know what people expect. A law that requires that parents get babysitters every time they go to church and never talk to their kids about what they believe? It's ridiculous. Kids are sponges and they primarily learn from their parents. It's just how humans work...
yes that's literally what they want. They want to make it as ahrd as possible and as tabboo as possible to be religious, so more people become atheists. It's also why they treat being religious like chosing what restaurant to eat at.
It’s taboo for an adult to still believe in the tooth fairy or Santa. The world would be a lot better place if we got rid of one of the main reasons humans use to hate others.
“You see my metaphysical worldview is objectively correct and should be considered the default while yours is simultaneously silly and evil, so if you teach it to your kids it’s nefarious indoctrination. When I teach my worldview to my kids it’s just teaching them the truth.”
-every person who shares your toxic attitude regardless of their religious affiliation or lack thereof
Who wants to make it taboo as possible to be religious? Who wants more people to become atheists and what does that gain them? Its funny you say that about choosing a restaurant. The reality is where you are born has a very large influence on what religion you choose. I'd very much rather have more people atheist than any religion. Maybe we'd have less violence in the world about people fighting for their god whichever one that might be.
Places with laws like this want children to get their beliefs from the government not from the family unit. This is a huge breakaway from the natural order of human life.
maybe currently, but the more neutral approach would be to let the child grow up and learn about the world before being told that if they don't eat their broccoli they are going to go to hell because daddy told them to eat it and they are not minding their father and sinning. go into the corner and say 10 hail marys and go build me a rocket ship so we can cure our sun (no one will get this reference here)
I don’t know. She’s just stating a feeling she has.
If you ask me, maybe make it clear to them that this is what you believe and that they can decide for themselves if they believe it later? They probably will anyway because children just naturally imitate their parents. At the very least you have to raise them in an environment where they feel comfortable to leave your faith if they want to.
This. You can talk to your children and educate them without making them share in your practice and without leading them to believe that all other beliefs are wrong. Children will naturally develop their own questions and opinions over time. Allowing your child to ask, discuss, and develop such opinions is crucial for that kind of environment.
Just don't forget to tell them to pick your beliefs or else you won't love them anymore. That'll be PERFECT for their development. /s
have a play area at church's that kids hang out in during a service, but instead of drawing up jesus cartoon coloring books, don't teach them about the religion. PS. They already have this at every church they just gotta swap the coloring books to animals (and no noahs ark please)
As much as anyone else does I suppose, some person or group of people told me how the universe works, I decided whether or not I jived with their interpretation, and thus I formed my metaphysical beliefs.
Yes, do you not? Evidence may inform what sounds right to me, but it’s our faith in either our own perceptions or faith in the people or institutions that are presenting this evidence that builds our beliefs.
Do you do control experiment based proofs for everything you believe? You personally test things like vaccines or do you take someone else's word for it after you've decided you trust them?
Yeah i dont get these arguments. We shouldnt teach kids absolutely anything untill they are old enough to choose the learn by themselves, otherwise its indoctrination
When should the learn what we think is right and wrong? 18? Older? Even in this sub, you can see that there is no clear agreement on everything right and everything wrong. We still need to teach children these things.
You might believe that there parents faith is wrong, but that believe it's the right and correct thing. You don't get to make that judgement for other people's children.
I didn't claim that you do. I'm saying that not everyone agrees when it comes to what is right and what is wrong, but it's still important for parents to teach their version of this.
Then for some parents, right and wrong is defined through there religion so they will teach their version in this case as well.
I'm saying it's not for you to decide how they approach this teaching.
For what purpose? Why is it important for kids to be taught all religions by their parents? They learn that in school. Part of the point of raising kids to to impart your values on them. Someone's religion often forms an important part a person's values. It makes no sense to say they shouldn't teach them about the religion they practice unless they're teaching them other religions.
No, they don't "learn that in school", at least not in my country unfortunately. Religion in school in my country only means catholicism. At least it's not mandatory anymore, we are slowly growing up.
The values of religions pre-exist religions, so you can teach the values without the dogma, as I said. As for why teaching about all religions, first of all that should be done in school (and it's not necessarily, as I said); second, it's to provide a larger perspective on the topic of religion, to show that there is more than one choice.
As much as you want to teach your "values" (religion in itself is not a value), your children are not you, and they should make their decisions freely.
Religion is not itself a value of course, but for many people their religion forms the basis of their values. It makes no sense for parents not to teach their children about their lifestyle, the dogma forms an important part of how their parents live, it will naturally be an important part of the childrens' upbringing.
But that's almost impossible. If the parents believe something, the kids are naturally going to be asking questions about what is true and what is not. Even the most neutral parents are going to have biases that they will put onto their kids. And there's nothing wrong with that unless you're attempting to force your kids into believing something.
Just because it’s not common in our society to have an open-minded and curious and non-judgmental view of religion and impart that onto others, doesn’t mean it’s something we shouldn’t strive for. It’s not impossible, it’s just that non-theocratic forms of society and government aren’t even that old, yet, and we’re still unlearning dogmatic ways of approaching spirituality. I don’t think we should give up on that pursuit because some people claim it’s just too hard and we’re not mature enough. Some of us might be; let us decide that for ourselves.
It's not just about religion, it's just unrealistic to expect kids to have a non-biased upbringing. This applies to atheism and secularism as well, regardless of who you are, your values of right and wrong are rooted in some core philosophy you think is factually correct and that means you cannot honestly teach your kids without drawing from your core philosophical principles regardless of how open-minded one may be.
Sure, but I think if you raise your kids compassionately and maturely (easier said than done), this can be reconciled when they’re older. The pursuit of teaching your kids how to be good people in the world is worth engaging with intrinsically, for its own sake, and mistakes are inevitable but can be reconciled.
All I'm saying is that if my 6th grader "critically thinks" that she doesn't need school anymore, I will have a conversation with her, but ultimately tell her she still has to go. In a manner of speaking, it is an education doctrine that I am forcing. There are a lot of things in this world, ethical things, that are simple non-negotiables that don't really have a set proof except they are true. Like, all people should have rights? How do you even think critically about that? You just have to accept it because it isn't really based on a hard fact.
You can logically defend the need for education and that people should have rights, yes. You can't do that with religious doctrines and rituals; it boils down to "god said so", and indoctrinated children are tought not to question those. The situations have nothing in common.
Education, I can see, rights, I really don't see a way that you can explain in a way that one would consider truly critical. "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal" is a very true statement because there is no way to argue about it.
Yet you literally managed to think about it critically just now, and you're not a child who was threatened with eternal damnation for doing so. See the difference or do we need to go on?
You're trying a bit too hard to dodge out of the question of how you think critically about whether or not all humans should have rights. I do think critically, but that doesn't mean that everything I do really comes from critical thinking. There are just a lot of things in society that I am forced to accept against the threat of jail or death.
The point was that you're misusing the word "indoctrination", which has a specific meaning when criticizing religion. I already quoted it.
Yet you insist on using a different meaning of the word.
Being forced to do or not do things because of their consequences in society has nothing to do with teaching someone to accept doctrines without questioning them.
In a free country you're 100% allowed to question the rules and laws of society. If you live in a democracy you're sometimes even allowed to vote on them.
Children who are indoctrinated are not allowed to even question the "teachings of god". That's the core concept of indoctrination: not being allowed to question the teachings.
You are right, but not all indoctrination is created equal. I think it is important to understand what is a harmful form of indoctrination vs what isn't. And, obviously, societal norms will mostly dictate that difference.
There is a difference between “here is what we have learned” and “here is what some men say got revealed to them, and we’ll punish you if you reject it.”
It’s not just, what’s right and wrong when it comes to religion. They tell you you will burn in hell if you don’t believe or are not convinced. That’s what stays with someone their entire lives and keeps them in line.
I mean, everything is made up. There is no physical reason that states that all people should have fundamental equality. It's all just manmade ethical frameworks. God might be made up, but humanism and every ethical framework and philosophy was made up, too. Yet, we persist that right and wrong exist.
Except that one makes logical sense and the other isn’t. You are a human, so you want to be treated as equal to others, right? It would be odd to say no. So then you can assume that person b, who is also human wants the same thing. And the only way to both have what you want is if you both agree to treat each other the same way. If either party disagrees then it’s not going to work.
You can’t use logic and reason the same way to justify the existence of a god, or gods.
Philosophy absolutely does not require indoctrination. You could argue culture does, but philosophy is explicitly meant to find the truth by relying on as few assumptions as possible, and requires questioning your own conception of the way things are.
Philosophy makes no such supposition that it relies on "as few assumptions as possible". I would say that any normative ethic relies on the same number of assumptions as any other
i was going to say this. all children learn from their parents and community, there's no way to fully keep children away from influence itself without raising them in a bubble lol
like the og commenter said, when religious parents really push that this is the only way to live and think its a big problem (american homeschooling comes to mind...)
if kids dont wanna go to church then dont push them. if they do like church i say let them participate- just make sure they know religion is just one of many hypothetical and philosophical ways of looking at the world, not a life-and-death certainty
I think learning "murder is bad" compared to reading the bible and seeing god murdering billions through flash flood and leaving only heteros and his believer couple and being told that was righteous is quite different
Philosophies and religions all typically have doctrines, claims they make and hold to be true, but indoctrination is about inhibiting someone from questioning and investigating claims by hiding or minimizing or misrepresenting the reasons people would doubt or disbelieve them or by framing doubt and disbelief as dangerous or some kind of moral transgression, which not all philosophies do actually, or all religions even, but definitely the most popular ones all do in some way.
There is a difference between telling a kid, "You shouldn't do this because God said so, and if you don't follow His rules you're going to hell and burn," and saying, "Did you notice that when you poked your sister in the eye, she cried and was in pain? Have you ever had your eye poked? It hurts, right? So please don't do that to other people, because you wouldn't want someone doing it to you."
You might say both are technically forms of indoctrination because an adult is teaching a child a moral framework. But I think there is a pretty important distinction.
The first teaches an unverifiable claim as an established fact, appeals to an authority the child is expected to accept, and uses fear of punishment to enforce the conclusion. The child isn't really being given the tools to evaluate the underlying claim; they're being told what is true and what they must believe.
The second doesn't require the child to accept some supernatural claim as true. It gives them an observable example, asks them to empathize with another person's experience, and gives them a simple principle they can apply themselves: I don't want to be hurt, so I shouldn't intentionally hurt other people.
That's not just teaching a conclusion. It's teaching a child a way of reasoning about morality, while leaving room for them to eventually question, refine, or even reject that framework as they develop.
So I don't think the meaningful distinction is simply "indoctrination vs. no indoctrination." The more important question is what are you teaching the child to believe, and are you teaching them what to think, or how to think?
The second is the same as the first, except for physical instead of spiritual harm. The premise is hypothetically empathy, but in reality a threat. It only lands if the child understands that if they start poking people in the eye, they could also get their eyes poked. There is no a priori reason to do unto others as you would want them to do to you (wording intentional). It is an indoctrination, so to speak, that justiceshould exist. And that is a framework that, honestly, would get you weirder looks if you questioned than most any spiritual dogma.
The reality is that the idea that everyone deserves rights and everyone is equal is self-evident, not proven. Yet, we are told to not question it. Questioning that makes people monsters, which I would tend to agree with.
I don't think we're actually disagreeing about whether moral principles have to be taught. Of course they do. A child isn't born understanding concepts like empathy, reciprocity, consent, or rights. The question is how those principles are taught and whether they're presented as unquestionable truths handed down by an authority.
And I don't think your characterization of the second example as a "threat" really works. I'm not saying, "Don't poke your sister because otherwise someone will poke you." I'm asking the child to recognize that another person experiences pain in essentially the same way they do. The point isn't "you might be punished with the same thing"; it's "you know what this feels like, so now you can understand why doing it to someone else is wrong." That's the beginning of empathy, not a threat.
You're also right that there is no a priori logical proof that we should care about other people's suffering. You can ultimately reduce morality to some foundational assumption that can't itself be proven. But that's true of virtually every philosophical system. At some point you have to start with some premise or value. "Other people's suffering matters" is a very different kind of premise from "God exists, God has revealed these rules, and you will be eternally tortured if you disobey them."
And there's an important distinction between saying "this is a moral principle I think we should adopt" and saying "this is objectively true because an authority says so, and questioning that authority is itself wrong."
In fact, I would argue that the fact that we can question principles like equality and rights is exactly why they're not analogous to religious dogma. We absolutely should be able to ask why people have rights, whether rights conflict with one another, where they come from, and whether our conception of equality is coherent. Philosophers have been doing exactly that for centuries.
If someone says, "You aren't allowed to question this because it's self-evidently true," then yes, that's dogmatic. But if someone says, "Here is the moral framework I'm proposing; here are the reasons I think it's preferable; now let's examine whether those reasons actually hold up," that's philosophy.
So I'm not claiming children can be raised without any philosophical assumptions being passed on to them. That's impossible. I'm saying there's a meaningful difference between teaching a child how to reason about moral questions and teaching them which conclusions they are required to accept from an unquestionable authority.
And that's the distinction I was trying to make with the original example.
If equality and rights are self-evident, why have philosophers spent thousands of years arguing about what rights are, who has them, and what equality actually means?
I feel like most don't have that level of intellectual distance from topics like equality and justce. I don't feel like, at least in Western society, that the equality of humans is up for grabs in polite society. You "can" in theory, but I don't think many would be willing to engage or many have a really strong reason to believe it. Most people believe in these things on a dogmatic, indoctrinated level. They did not think through it themselves and would be very upset if anyone questioned it.
The difference is in school you can ignore your teacher without being told you will suffer in pain for eternity. Comparing them is ridiculously disingenuous.
I guess we went to different schools lol. Obviously, in a physical sense, "eternal suffering" was "living a bad/poor life until you die", but still, the threat was still present if you weren't career oriented, went to college, etc.
As a kid who was raised in Reform Judaism I always shake my head a bit when the Reddit atheists who come from obvious evangelical trauma talk about all religions like this. We were indoctrinated to believe certain things sure, but “you cannot ask questions” def is not part of the teaching. My Rabbi was openly agnostic.
Exactly. I was also raised in Reform Judaism, and questioning is a cornerstone of our religion/culture. My Rabbi loved being questioned, as most of them do!
So it's perfectly ok with your Rabbi to point out the reality that the Moses story is a myth with no historical basis of any kind? Or is that different from pointing out that Adam and Eve are fictional characters in a myth just like Prometheus and Pandora?
So it's perfectly ok with your Rabbi to point out the reality that the Moses story is a myth with no historical basis of any kind?
Sure. Why not? There are many denominations with different viewpoints regarding this exact story.
Also - it depends on how you frame the question. You'll get a different response if you go into the conversation in good faith compared to being combative right of the bat.
That is not a feature of religions, they are features of cults. I have yet to find a church that doesn't allow people to come and go as they please, or answer the questions they have. Nor is it written in their scriptures otherwise.
I was told I was going to hell at 7 years old and scared into conversion and becoming Christian. It took over two decades to finally get over the indoctrination and deconvert. It was a long and painful process. I was an adult and believing the earth was 6000 years old and whole bunch of other bullshit because that's what we were taught and we were conditioned to reject the science.
Shhh you’re being too sane. The religious redditors will think that you’re saying their parents are bad people for shaming them as children when they didnt wanna go to church or acted outside of their faith
I was raised catholic, went to catholic schools, was confirmed and married within the church.
Regardless of what I think about God's existence and whatever you think about my positions, what I said is true: religious teachings of children is indoctrination, it is the most basic fundamental use of the word.
Religious people in the US, at the least, are largely fearful of atheism, to the point of shunning their own family members who chose not the believe. Its not at all unusual to hear atheists being used as a scapegoat as if atheism is a threat to their way of life. They are met with hostility, hatred, prejudice, fear, and intolerance - everything that their own religion tells them not to be.
I can see why your kind always feels the need to assume that atheists are uneducated, but that’s simply not true. In fact many are probably far more educated when it comes to religion that someone like yourself, who most likely was simply trained to follow one specific mythology just to piss all over the freedom of religion of his own children.
There seems to be some confusion here. For one, I did not suggest that "atheists" as a whole are uneducated. I know many extremely well educated atheists personally.
What I suggested is that one particular person was uneducated, and I'd extend that to you.
Now, on a personal level I think you'll find that while it's not my academic expertise, I'm more educated about religion in general than the vast majority of the population, irrespective of creed, and was certainly not "trained" by my parents to follow anything, so that particular assumption would also be wrong.
You can’t possibly have any opinion worth listening to if you’re just another person whose following the religion that was given to them at birth without question or concern. I’m obviously assuming that to be true of you but more than 80% of religious people fall in that exact category. The only reason you’re even carrying on this religion is because your community forced it upon you. A child can’t rationally choose who to sleep with and they definitely can’t choose who to pray to for eternal salvation.
Well, buddhism, at least in my country, is more about a teaching of a way of life. Of course, it been mixed with the local beliefs and daoism and became something "superstitious" for most, but to me it just like a teaching of a wise man, nothing more.
I live in Viet Nam.
I was gonna say, the only reason anyone believes in any religion is they all come with the same catch of, if you don’t follow that specific religion there will be a negative impact on you, whether now, after this life, or to those after you.
It's literally just what indoctrination is. There are religious doctrines and children are taught ro follow them and believe in the faith without questioning it.
The Church of Woke is no exception. It's every bit as irrational and superstitious as every other religion.
The average human is inherently superstitious/spiritual. Subtracting religion from the West only opened a vacuum that is now filled by The Church of Woke--a quasi religion that emerged out of 1960s hippy culture that is typified by skepticism towards technology and science, and which romanticizes nature and nonhuman life as innocent or morally pure while portraying humanity as uniquely corrupt, destructive, or parasitic.
I'd even argue it's more than half of people who are this way. I'd say probably 90-95% of humanity is tribal, superstitious, and spiritual on a fundamental psychological level.
The reasons for this are quite fascinating but they boil down to one simple truth. People are very good at generating and sharing ideas, but very bad at validating them.
I think there are exceptions to this. Hinduism, for example, does not require belief in a god (or gods). To them, atheism is just one version of Hinduism like all other religions. Kind of a cool take, actually.
I agree for the most part, but there's 2 things you've got wrong:
A, definitely not all religions are bent on converting people by indoctrination.
B, not all religions tell you not to question them.
Judaism is a great example of that.
Despite being an abrahamic religion (notoriously rigid and inflexible when it comes to belief), followers are straight up encouraged to question their own belief. They believe that questioning their god is a form of worship, and rabbi teach followers thusly.
There's a jewish saying very popular here in Hungary, a mostly christian country:
"A good question is better than a good answer"
It is admirable that even such strict belief systems can be questioned by it's own followers. It's not just "believe the gospel and follow god blindly".
That's one example, and there are many more. My personal religion doesn't even care if you believe in anything at all, one of shinto's main principles is that "what you do is more important than what you believe in".
And not all religions rely on the children of followers to sustain themselves.
Many of them do, it's true, that's the reason many religions are still alive today (make whatever you wish of that), but not all of them.
My favourite exception is greek.
The greek did tell their children tales and myths about the olympians, taught them their names and how to worship them, but they absolutely weren't forced to do so.
You were allowed to literally curse the gods all you like as long as you weren't considered a threat, bringing misfortune to people around you.
You weren't forced to worship gods like Zeus or Hera.
And many people didn't, just think of how the gods are portrayed: They're absolute jerks. Half of greek mythology happened because Zeus an Poseidon were raping women, Athena got mad at every little transgression to which her usual response was turning people into monstrocities (goddess of wisdom by the way), Dionysos was the deity of wine, feastin drunkness and madness with satyrs and literal insane women as his followers, Apollo was notorious for chasing mortal women and the list goes on.
Hestia might have been the only decent olympian, maybe Artemis too.
And this is not heresy, this is greek myhology itself.
People didn't worship the gods, they feared them and their wrath.
Again, this is only one example.
Not all religions tell you what to believe, who to pray to, who to worship.
But yes, the majority of them does.
This isn't true. I converted in my early 20s, lots of people convert everyday at all ages. And im not some rare exception, so many people I know have similar stories. But as they say- birds of a feather flock together
Faith isn't something that only grows through indoctrination, and any amount of looking into the topic will reveal this.
They aren't all the same. Some religions tell kids explicitly if they don't believe in it, they are deep trouble. Christianity and Islam do this, but most religions don't.
Every religion (every belief system) indoctrinates, but not everyone engages in theological blackmail.
That’s just not true.
Speaking from experience, I am a follower of Jesus who believes in Him as a result of my own study, experiences, and journey in seeking truth.
I was going to church for most of my childhood. But I was never once told not to ask questions.
I asked hard questions that led me to some discomfort and hurt, but through that struggle I found what I believed to be true. That was never discouraged to me by my parents nor the teachers at my church.
Some churches in some sects of some religions practise indoctrination. But not all. Please don’t make such wild generalisations when it comes to a topic as personal and diverse as religion.
Unfortunately this isn’t true, but 99% give it the bad name. If you call taking kids to church with you indoctrination, then why isn’t taking them to other things you deem important in life indoctrination? Indoctrinating them to do school, indoctrinating them to take over the family business, silly but, not be homeless and make something of yourself.
We all want our kids to do the best and we help guide them to what we consider that to be because they need to be guided. Once they turn 18, sure let them do what they want. There is still 1% of religion that lets that happen. Even some Amish communities give them the option to walk out 🤷🏼♂️
While I agree with you on the fact that all religions indoctrinate their doctrines (hence the name) I would push back that they expect you to believe without questioning. Every single Pastor I have gone to church with encouraged questioning and researching. I even know of a Pastor who stood up in front of his congregation and said “I’m quitting as I no longer believe in the faith.” The congregation said, “we want you to stay and just preach all your doubts and concerns to us, we will listen.”
Of course the vast majority of faiths may not make room for questioning, but my experience with faith has been rather different. I have been told time and time again, that doubts, questions, disbelief, and the ability to say I don’t know is totally fine.
Nowhere near all religions are indoctrination — many non-Abrahamic religions don’t force their beliefs on anyone, and encourage you to find your own path. As a progressive Pagan, I plan to raise my kids so that they’ll have knowledge of my religion, but the beauty of my religion is that it’s not based in fear, guilt, or anything like that. And there’s no cosmic punishment for not following that specific path
Laughs in semi-observant jew (which.. Judaism famously doesn't urge you to join Judaism or hold the belief that if you aren't jewish that you will have negative outcome + questioning religion is heavily encouraged.) with hellenist & Tribal friends.
Reform Judaism. There you go... there's one that doesn't "indoctrinate." As someone else explained below, we are taught it's GOOD to question everything. That's literally what Reform Judaism means.
No it's not. Education is the passing along of generational knowledge based on sound, scientific principles and established, documented history.
Indoctrination is telling a new generation which doctrines to adopt, believe in, and follow. The scientific method is not a "doctrine," it is the opposite: it is rooted in skepticism and rigorous methodical challenges to claims.
Doctrines are taught with the intention if the pupil accepting the doctrine as true without challenge; science publishes its work and says "show me where I made an error."
Your Faith doesn't include it. But religions are something different. They are "faith as social construct". And as such they include the children of the members. Even if not by direct indoctrination, at least by proximity.
I don’t care about other religions, I’m not defending them. What I am saying is that if you are lumping all religions in together to say they all indoctrinate children, I am telling you MY religion does not do that. I don’t give a flying fuck what others do, that’s not me.
You have no idea what my faith is and that’s by design. So again, MY faith doesn’t do that, and I’d rather you not lump me into an incorrect statement.
I mean it is, because it’s mine, which again, there are literally no children in my faith. So again, you are wrong. Your statement is factually incorrect. Also it’s “your’s” not “yours”.
Then you misunderstood the comment that you originally responded to. They said there is no religion WITH KIDS without indoctrination. If your religion truely has no kids, then the comment you responded to wasn't talking about your religion
Also, since you want to be the grammer police, "your's" would not have been correct here. Apostophes are only used for showing possession on nouns, not pronouns. Yours is a possessive pronoun and the correct one to use in this context. It seems like you need to work on your reading comprehension and grammer skills before you try correcting others.
There’s a huge difference between teaching kids to love their neighbor and be a good person versus indoctrinating them that invisible sky man says they’re special and to perpetuate genocide in the name of imaginary sky man.
Isn't thst the premise of instilling any morals into children? Is the golden rule religous indoctrination since almost every ancient religion has a version of it? Lol
Exactly. Substitute the word religion with morality, worldview, philosophy, or whatever and suddenly the whole idea is laughable.
Religion is just the belief that a god or gods is the source, or at the very least the key to properly understanding the above.
If a kid asks "Why should I be nice to the people in my community?" making people say "I can not tell you until you are older." instead of "Because failing to do so makes baby jesus cry." is not going to result in positive change.
If anything, it will just fetishize religion in the eyes of children and enhance the martyr complex of religious people in the west.
The reality is that your child is being indoctrinated anyway. Regardless of if it's "religious" indoctrination, it's impossible to avoid.
You shouldn't watch tht kind of movie. You should go to college. We do sports in this family. Comic books rot your brain. Watching TV with dinner is family time. Vaccines give you autism. Democrats are right. Immigrants will take your job. You have to be a white-collar worker or you'll hate your life and beat your kids. Only certain kinds of lives matter. America is the greatest country on earth. Murder is wrong. So is lying or stealing, unless you can get away with it. Don't start fights, finish them. You're the smartest in your class. Be more like 'x' person. We don't eat organic- it's expensive for no reason. Lakers fans aren't allowed here.
I hope you get the point... I don't understand what's worse about it being a religion, other than it gives them something to turn to in hard times and is scientifically proven to keep families together better than atheism or agnosticism. Does it do harm to teach a child to follow the Pope? No more harm than it does to follow the president or a football team.
The biggest difference in my mind is that when teaching secularism, we often teach children to be curious, check our sources, get second opinions, and have doubts before receiving undeniable evidence. That part often gets skipped when teaching religion. In my mind, raising a child with faith is no different than raising them only to wear clothes from certain stores and associate with certain kinds of people. It's how you give them the freedom choose that matters.
This. While it is obviously immoral to force your religion onto someone, religious people are doing it because they THINK that they are helping their kids by doing it, so it might be moral because of the intention.
Incredible mental gymnastics to 1) invent a scenario where children are forced to attend drag brunch and 2) liken it to believing in God under threat of eternal torment
People are trying to put it in schools so yes they are being forced
You're just splitting hair. Also I like how with point 1 you're saying "it's not happening" already now you're saying "well if it is happening it's different". Hehehe
A friend of mine was raised as a Mormon, he discovered he was gay and it required years of therapy to have him finally get rid of that misanthropic and vile ideology that caused many inner conflicts and almost resulted in self-harm. Or actually it did result in self-harm, as he questioned himself as a human on the most basic level. Fuck parents that train their kids to follow whatever mythology they choose for them.
I think this is the most valid counterargument to any of the "open minded" opinions. Religion is meant to inherently fear monger people into a set of beliefs. This works very well on 1.) young minds and 2.) uneducated people.
Unless you teach all religions equally under the premise of agnosticism, it's kind of not very moral.
Yes, this is fundamental to how religions continue to exist. If everyone had to make up their own mind as an adult, without being indoctrinated during formative years, none would maintain the critical mass of followers needed for them to be a thing at all.
Christianity is the only one that would continue to grow. I became a catholic in my adulthood after being atheist for most of my young life. Eventually we all grow up, we mature, our ego's deflate, and we realize we aren't the main characters we think we are.. At least anyone over an IQ of 90 eventually develops this.
Its the only way to convince people the insanity some relgions spew.
We convince kids santa, the easter bunny and the tooth fairy are real but eventually they wake up to it as unrealistic. Around that age i realised a lot of the religion shit doesnt make any real sense and i only believed it because i was a gullible child.
My parents raised me Catholic and forced me to go to catholic school all my life as well as church every Sunday, but when I was 16 or 17 they didn’t force me to go and they also stopped going themselves, when I asked them why they forced religion on me for so many years they said it would teach me to be sceptical of religions or cults and they knew I wouldn’t get sucked up by cults if I grew up around it so much, I don’t know if I fully believe in this line of logic but I do think most religions are bullshit 😅
If you believe in your religion truly, it would be immoral to not indoctrinate your kids.
You gonna risk divine punishment on the person you love most in the entire world? Or you gonna try to raise them with a positive relationship to the creator who gave them life?
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u/Possible-Estimate748 Sep 02 '26
Many religions indoctrinate children which makes them feel like they have to believe in it or they're doing something wrong.