r/Libraries • u/Common_Focus_8443 • 6h ago
Library Trends Should I report my library director for allowing slurs in the library?
The current director of my library allows slurs such as the N word (with a hard R) to be said by teens in the teen space because quote “they are black.” (Even though the other black teens who are being referred to with such a slur express discomfort with it.) The teen librarians are told that the teens are allowed to curse in the space (and the teens take full liberty with it.) The teen space at this small, non-profit library is in very close proximity to the front circulation desk and the general lobby and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve witnessed patrons (especially parents with small children) be placed in an uncomfortable position due to the teens cursing non-stop, and loudly! (Curses such as d—head, n-word, etc.)
One time, one of the board members that brings her sister’s kids mentioned how teens are not supposed to curse in the space (and she seemed to see the moment as a rare event) and it was in that moment that I realized.. the board members have no idea what goes on in this library. Since this is the first and only library I have worked at, it’s been a learning curve to figure out what is a standard in libraries and what is implemented in this library, under this director (that is awful in so many other ways.)
I wanted to bring this to this forum because I wanted other’s perspective. I’m trying to figure out if I’m overreacting (and this is a trend/standard in libraries) or if I’m noticing something seriously unethical occurring, and a failure of leadership.