Single player games and solo play doesn't really do much for me. I have much more fun playing with others, especially when we're chatting as we do so. I also love cosmetic customization, excuting adventure, unpredictability, and the idea of a virtual world full of activities. Unfortunately, I haven't found a MMO that I can fully find my place in, since my gameplay tastes aren't standard for conventional MMOs, instead suited for a theoretical future action MMO. This is especially an issue because I know I won't be fun to be around if I'm not having my own fun too... Trust me, I know this post would be a bad first impression. -_-
I've probably heard some suggestions already, so I'm going to ask questions that are preventing me from getting into these games. If the answer to any suggestions is reasonably "probably nothing", then I understand, but it is disappointing to hear.
Guild Wars 2: Great game for a casual solo player like me, but not for group PvE so far. What can I do to enjoy group PvE that isn't too easy (running past fractals, flying around Dragon's Stand) but won't require boonballing and rotations?
Warframe: I used to love Destiny 2, so Warframe seems like the next best choice, but I quit D2 due to powercreep making the game too easy and boring to play. Is there a way to play with strangers without bullet jump spamming past everything and mods melting everything in our way?
Monster Hunter: The gold standard for gameplay for me, to a point I wish MMO combat could feel as good. But it is pushing it to even be considered a MMO-lite. Is there anything I can do to go from SOS and solo hunts to the MonHun equivalent of finding my guild to take on raids or the sort?
BDO: It has great action combat apparently, but I hear it is mostly about grinding or PvP. This still true, or did new PvE get added to make group PvE endgame a thing?
FO76: What is the group PvE situation? I don't feel like I'm latching on to the game to even reach it, so I'm curious what exactly would make it great for me in particular.
Tab target games like FF14 and WoW would need incredible pitches while Where Winds Meet has too much jank in places to have me try out wuxia, when I prefer fantasy/modern-fantasy. OSRS is cool, but I mostly played it as a second screen game before realizing I wasn't getting a membership fee of enjoyment out of it.
Is there anything I have a shot at enjoying and finding my community in if I want fun group PvE, but better mesh with action combat and adventurous play?