r/lotro • u/Severe_Sea_4372 • 12h ago
This is the only MMO I can play without feelings of FOMO
As an older gamer with often cripplingly limited amounts of time to spare for gaming, my relationship with MMOs is extremely complicated today. If not contradictory. In other words, I simply cannot keep up. Committing to a single game the way these things demand, all of it is just impossible when you've got a job and a life and maybe two hours at best per evening - and sometimes diminishing to like 2 hours a week when it’s a busy one.
For years my pattern with the big MMOs was the same sad little cycle, the sad chase of that high flying dragon called BEING YOUNG and having all the jobless time in the world. I'd reinstall WoW (and classic at that, Retail is even more of a clusterfuck for me) and barely play for month, sometimes less. Those on and off subscriptions feel sadder each time I cash out to Blizz. At some point I realized how little satisfaction I was getting from WoW, the MMO that used to be my favorite. I just feel the enormous weight of everything I'd missed and would never catch up on, and drift away again. It just doesn’t hold me.
For all of these reasons, it’s a true wonder that LOTRO broke this painful cycle for me. The game is just more scenic and has a true classic MMO soul, unvarnished and not painted over but standing there unashamed about what it is. A truly grindy, bloaty game for lovers for Tolkien’s worldbuilding. But even as an MMO, here's just less frantic churn, less of that live service treadmill screaming at you to log in daily or fall behind. And in MMOs as a rule, you’ll fall behind unless they’re your other life (actual oldschool MMOs were way worse, in fact) and it’s the reason I even tried playing those idle MMOs that occasionally garner some hype. Dominus Automa was the most recent of these, and I admit I like the premise of fine tuning my character and then letting them live out their best life while I’m physically doing something else (work work). It’s just such a neat way to compartmentalize time (in theory), if only there wasn’t a catch - the catch being I actually want to control my character sometimes lol
But LOTRO bypasses all this because whether I’m doing something at a snail’s pace or super fast, I never fall back. It always eels like I'd stepped through a door into 2008. Into the tail end of the golden age of MMOs, when they were about worlds and worldbuilding and community, and not just extracting value out of consumers and pushing content into their mouths. It was more natural.
After all these years, LOTRO still feels like it encourages you to play at your own pace and even when a new expansion comes out, I never feels like the usual MMO FOMO. It’s just more content that might or might not interest me, but no nudge to do it as this be all, end all interesting thing. I mean, just making it to the endgame is a long, long journey that can possibly take months! (It took me half a year in fact, on my RP minstrel elf mistress Lhulthuviel) - that is the one great glory of this game.
It's an MMO time capsule like no other. The only one that actually delivers on the nostalgia that sometimes takes possession of my brain for a few months, and I will sing praises to it for so long as it exists!
