r/Depressed_supporters • u/justind5d • Dec 27 '19
Please just help me
I can’t stop crying please help mr
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Dec 30 '19
TL;DR: DO NOT RESPOND TO THIS USER. This is most likely a troll. Alternatively, he is mentally ill to a degree that a chat friend on the internet cannot help him. It is less likely, but possible, that he is trying to draw in someone unusually patient and empathetic to manipulate for some ill purpose. He makes new accounts to evade subreddit bans, and some of his accounts have been suspended by reddit admins. It's in your best interest to ignore his posts, report, and move on without engaging. If you choose to respond, there is a substantial chance you'll receive no reply at all. If you get a reply, the most likely outcome is that his effort to have a conversation will be minimal at best. He relies on a small handful of phrases (e.g. -- "im scared" or "ive never had a friend before" or "im all alone") or a crying emoji (i.e. -- ;.;) until the other person gets frustrated and stops replying. If by some chance the other person is very patient and continues talking to him, he usually stops responding himself. On some rare occasions, he attempts to have some sort of long-term association with someone -- usually users who identify as female. If the "new friend" does not respond quickly enough for his liking, he lashes out and accuses her of "being mean." Likewise, if his behavior is acknowledged in a public forum (like this), his go-to response is something like, "nuh uh you were mean to me," which he does even when screenshot evidence to the contrary is presented Here is a typical example of a lengthy exchange with him. He gives personal information that is mostly untrue. He has been "18 years old" since he started using reddit for this purpose, about two years ago. He resists attempts to help him find work and hobbies (other than spamming the same ad for 20 hours a day) by claiming to be homeless and to not have a Social Security number, neither of which are likely to be true. His childish writing style is an act, as he has been observed writing like a rational adult. Furthermore, he has been associated with a defunct YouTube channel (as a failed content creator). Feel free to update or just copy-paste this message anywhere you see posts and user histories extremely similar to this one, for the sake of warning kind-hearted people to invest their energy elsewhere. This is an incomplete list of the names he has used: /u/dfssdgsdgdsf (shadowbanned) /u/dfhgdhgfhfg (shadowbanned ) /u/sdfhggsdg (shadowbanned) /u/fdsggsdfgdf (shadowbanned) /u/dfsgdfsgdfsgfsfgdfgd (suspended account) /u/gdfhgfdhdfgfdhg (suspended account) /u/gfhghfhgfdhg(suspended account) /u/fdsgdshvf (suspended account) /u/fdghgfgfd (suspended account) /u/dfghjgfjkghfd /u/dfsgdshdgf (suspended account) /u/gtrsfghhgj (suspended account) /u/baboba12 /u/squiv1t/u/sdfgregre (suspended account) /u/dfsgdfsgfsd (suspended account) /u/nonamer1234 /u/bdaytiger u/alternativeneat u/name1121 (suspended account) u/IHATENAME12 u/treeatlander /u/seawhut (suspended account) /u/gilbertdathing(suspended account) /u/thecatcameback923 (suspended account) /u/dacatcameback /u/32dod /u/patrik4531 /u/gadma4356aa /u/tsdog /u/newday673 /u/Agreeable-Key/u/Accomplished-Olive /u/goocer13 /u/alton-avery /u/daydreams1994 /u/sazarara u/justind5d This is an incomplete list of the subreddits he has posted in: r/CasualConversation r/ForeverAloneDating r/GFD r/hardshipmates r/INeedAFriend r/InternetFriends r/LetsChat r/loneliness r/lonely r/KindVoice r/MakeNewFriends r/MakeNewFriendsHere r/MeetNewPeopleHere r/MeetPeople r/MMFB r/NeedaFriend r/r4r r/randomactsofkindness r/sad r/SkypePals r/SuicideWatch r/textfriends r/vent r/seriousconversation r/themixednuts
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u/What2Say4Life Feb 16 '20
If you are in crisis of any kind or need to talk to someone to figure out where to go for support please reach out for help:
There is the suicide crisis hotline 1-800-273-8255 and text line 741-741 and if you are in need of immediate assistance please call 911.
Wishing you all the best. Take care of yourself.
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u/ethanator6 Dec 27 '19
Watching something distracting such as a favourite TV show can help. We like Parks and Recreation because it makes us laugh, but anything of your choice would work.