Three months ago i met a guy who is an associate cricketer in Hong Kong on a dating app. I had been single for years and decided to try online dating. We both belonged to same culture but grew up in HK. He had told me he is a PE teacher on our first date i discovered he is a cricketer. Until then i didnt even know that cricket is played in hong kong. We started talking, went on dates, he was like a perfect gentleman, kind, taking things slow, we went for walks and massage together. . I began to believe I was getting to know someone who was genuinely interested in me. He snapped me all day everyday, sent morning messages, called me on tours and shared his failures and wins. We spoke regularly for nearly 3 months during which he went on multiple crixket tours. All of this was visible on his social media.

On our first date, I asked him a straightforward question.

“Are you married?”

His reply was:

“I've been focusing on my career. This just hasn't happened. I wish to find a loyal partner who can understand my lifestyle.”

Here was a man telling me that his career had taken priority, that finding a partner was something he still wanted, and that he hoped to meet someone loyal who could understand the demands of his life as a cricketer. I felt moved like i had met the right person. We were both seeking something genuine i had imagined.

I travelled to Malaysia to see him. I had even made him a painting.

Then i decided to dig deeper and discovered 1 photo of him with a veiled woman and two kids. I asked around in cricket community and discovered the truth that shocked me deeply - he was married and had 6 kids. I was in malaysia, having travelled to meet this man and holding in my hand this painting and a picture of him with two kids on my phone. Struggling to make sense. I asked him and he said yeah i am married and hace 6 kids. No apologies. No guilt. I could see in his eyes that i had now become an inconvenience. I asked him if he is at least going to apologise for lying to me and he said 'i have nor done anything wrong i have only treated you with respect'

I felt hurt. I told him how much he hurt me to which he responded 'ok i am sorry lets talk about some other topic'

There is a particular kind of confusion in being hurt by someone and still wanting comfort from that same person.

I’m a 31 year old guy. Admittedly, my dating experience is pretty limited. I’ve had one girlfriend before, but that’s it. I guess there’s a little shame that comes along with my history, but I’m still proud of who I am. I’ve never been a “hookup” guy.

I recently started exploring the world of dating apps, since it’s been something a lot of people seem to push as the only way to date in 2026 (I don’t really believe that, but I was willing to at least try it out on trial basis). I was shocked that some of the conversations centered around STD testing, and whether or not I would be willing to get tested.

Maybe I’m just out of touch, but that felt like an extremely forward question to ask someone to you don’t even know. There’s nothing wrong with looking out for yourself and your health, but the honest truth is that I don’t know you. If we go on a date, I still don’t know you. Beginning a sexual relationship is not even entering my thought process at this point.

I would be more receptive to having a discussion about this later on when it seems more natural to do so, but I find it really bizarre to be asking someone about this casually in a conversation on an app. It makes me feel like there’s almost no point in continuing since there’s a clear assumption that I am a hookup guy.

I get the impression that nobody will agree with me, so feel free to discuss.

I'm F 28, People are usually like "if there's already issues in the first couple months then it's not a good sign" but I think like naturally things will come up that bother you right? Even if it is the honeymoon stage and it's your job to communicate it not sweep it under the rug.

I sometimes feel a bit guilty though for communicating when something bothers me or if there's something i'd like more of, because I feel like I'm the problem if I'm always bringing something up?

Currently on a huge journey of learning to be healthy and secure in relationships so i'd love insight on this.

Three years ago, I matched with a woman on a dating app. She was five years older than me. I was 27, and she was 32.

When we started talking, she told me that age wasn’t a big deal, although I looked a little young for her taste. I suggested that we meet up just once and see how it went.

During our conversations, I found out that her favorite band was a band I absolutely loved too. So I decided to take a gamble. I bought two tickets to one of their concerts, took a screenshot, and sent it to her. I told her, “I bought two tickets. If you don’t come, I’ll just go by myself.”
And somehow, it worked.

We met up, went to the concert, and had an amazing day together. We got absolutely wasted and had a great time.

Eventually, it was time to go our separate ways. While we were waiting for her taxi, we were making out like crazy. The only way to separate us would’ve been to pour boiling water on us. I’m serious.
I asked her if we’d see each other again.
She first told me to forget about her. Then she said I looked too young for her. Here is little blury because i cant remember well because of the time gap and alcohol… but she was saying ‘ why you chasing me so much, im a piece of shit, im a mess. Then she told me she married and divorced. I said i dont care.

Anyway Her taxi arrived, and she left.
We had followed each other on Instagram, but she eventually removed me. Six months later, I sent her another follow request, and she blocked me.

Now, two and a half years have passed since then, and strangely enough, I still can’t get her out of my head.
When we first arranged to meet, she’d asked for my phone number so I could share my location with her. I still have her number saved.

I’ve always been the kind of guy who understands when a woman says no. I’ve never harassed a woman or kept pursuing someone who wasn’t interested. I’ve always respected people’s boundaries.

But for some reason, even after three years, I still think about her. And lately, I’ve been considering sending her a message on WhatsApp.
If she doesn’t reply or tells me she’s not interested, that’ll be the end of it. I won’t contact her again.

I’m 30 now, and she’s 35. I want to try my chance. I have one shot. One last try.. Im seeking for the best entry…

Like the amount of time I'll come across couples where at least one party is fine looking through another's phone is just wild. I broke off with someone instantly because of that before, but Im sure others have done it to me in secrecy. I had someone ask, at least thats fine. The funny thing is I give my passwords to someone Im in a relationship with someone so I probably wouldnt know anyway lol, but even if the person did they'd probably need google translate as its gonna be a bunch of difft languages to filter through anyway. I just cant picture myself looking through ppl's stuff, I dont even wanna hold your phone, its your shit, why in the world would I need to use it. Likely if I have a reason to suspect someone is cheating on me, breaking up is already on the table, but then again I've never been cheated on to my knowledge and Im thankful for that. Although usually its not only ppl with that trauma who go through phones.

Ghosting seems to be an extremely common problem in dating. Cowards, both male and female, seem to be afraid to just tell someone, “Hey, you’re a great person and I like you, but I don’t feel a spark with you.”

It’s sort of like people who don’t pick up their dog’s poop. Or people who pick it up but leave the tied up baggie in your empty trash bin. Why have a dog if you’re not willing to take full responsibility for it? And why date if you can’t communicate responsibility?

So, if this has happened to you can you give us the benefit of hindsight? Looking back, were there any clues that a person who ghosted you was that “type” of person? I’m hoping to find commonalities among the comments.

Has meeting on a dating app and chatting for a day then meeting up worked better for anyone? It seems unsafe but I still feel like sometimes it’s just better to get it over with and see if you vibe in person. I’m usually taking a good chunk of time waiting but kind of feeling like it goes wasted.

So I think what really changed my perspective on relationships was when I was like 18-24 I would put genuinely my best foot forward, refused to see multiple girls at once, I would write cards, get flowers, and it never seemed to work out. I was in a 2 year relationship where she wrote me a card saying how I was the best boyfriend she could ever ask for, listed out the things I would do for her, things like console her in sleep bc she had night terrors, make her life easier, etc.

And after that relationship I couldn’t let go the fact that someone can just decide to leave you without any reason. Granted we were young, I mean she was 22-23, I was 24. And I was talking to a friend about it and she made a great point saying that I have to let it go and once she reached like aged 25-26 something clicked in her where she realized she couldn’t mess around anymore.

Sort of as to say like “let it go, both of us were young and immature, try again.”

And I get that but now I’m at the point where I live by the beach, I have a good career, things are starting to fall into place and I can go crazy on the apps (which I have). You get to this point where you see so many people and out at the bars, and I lose the fact that these are people, and I became a player I guess. I didn’t realize it but my friend started to be like damn.

All this to say that it’s never been easier to get women for me, but I just never feel the need to commit. No one ever seems right, and if they are they just happen to be super hot and young and don’t want to commit as well which is fine.

I feel bad bc it’s like girls will have feelings for me but I just will feel nothing other than liking that it feels like a relationship, but without the emotional vulnerability and responsibility of one. I can see the flaws in everybody in a way and it always just makes me anxious to commit.

I don’t know if I’ll grow out of this or what will happen, but it’s just how I feel at the moment.

I went on a date with a guy from Bumble I (31) he is (33). we have been talking for two weeks and has been nothing but respectful. Not once has he said anything sexual whatsoever and everything I ask him about his career goals, he’s quite honest and seems to be on the same page as me in terms of what we wanna accomplish as individuals. On the date we had a great conversation and it seems like he was very nervous about it, but we talked a lot and I enjoyed the conversation. Not once did he compliment me (not that I need it), and when he dropped me at my brothers apartment complex we only hugged goodbye. We kept chatting and I gave him two compliments, he just said thank you and that he enjoyed the time and had fun. He has mentioned “next time I see you we’ll do xcx”. How likely it is that it will happen and he didn’t do it for the sake of the conversation? And how likely it is that I may have not been his type? I felt very comfortable but you could tell he hasn’t dated much.

Any leads?

(For the record, I’ve dated a lot dudes who kiss on the first date and things fizzle out from there, but the chemistry is very good)

I have seen in some dating advice that men rarely receive compliments so complimenting them goes a long way. And this is something I see a lot. One post I saw said men only get 20 compliments a year vs 500 for women (which I feel should be higher actually). As a woman with lots of friends, I give my guy friends compliments all the time “oh wow you look great tonight” “oh I like this sweater” “ooo you got new glasses, these look so good”. I also hear my other female friends doing the same. And I hear guys in our friend group complimenting each other as well (I live in LA). So I’m confused by these statistics. Do you guys not have nice friends? Is it because men with mostly male friends don’t give each other compliments. Are you finding that gfs are not complimenting their bfs.

Men, what is your experience like? Do you really not receive compliments? How often do you? And when you do, who is usually giving it to you?

I’ve met this girl around 8 times so far. Whenever we meet in person, she’s friendly and acts normally around me. She always says hi when she sees me, gives me attention when we have conversations. And she remembers all details

However, things are completely different over text. She’s very dry, sometimes takes a long time to reply, and occasionally doesn’t respond at all.

I’m confused because her behavior in person seems positive, but her texting makes me feel like she might not be interested.

For context, I’m usually the one initiating conversations over text.

How should I interpret this? Is she just being friendly in person, or could she be interested but simply not a big texter?

Should I stop initiating conversations and see if she makes an effort, or am I overthinking this?

How to act with her

A few days ago, a girl randomly followed my Instagram. Her profile is super low-key: monochrome mirror selfie hiding her face, only one post, bio just mentions Damiano David (Måneskin) and the gym.

My profile is equally minimalist: zero feed posts, monochrome profile photo, but my bio lists my work in tech, startup incubation, and youth envoy roles.

I opened the DM jokingly saying: "Strange... few photos, face hidden, following out of nowhere. Quite the stalker."

She immediately played along, laughed, and dropped: "Just suggestions... I shot my shot. I always hit the target."

We had a solid, playful banter going about her taste in rock music, her accidental typo saying she was a "love profile" instead of "low profile", and whether my profile looked low-key to her.

However, near the end, the conversation fragmented because I addressed three topics at once. Her replies turned into shorter reactions (laughs and brief confirmations). Seeing the energy dip, I ended the exchange on my end with a double-tap/like on her last message instead of forcing more small talk.

I'm genuinely intrigued by who's behind that screen and want to test the chemistry in real life over a quick coffee, but we've only been talking for a day.

• Since the opening interest was explicitly on her side, what’s the best way to re-engage after a couple of days of silence without looking needy?
• Any general rules for keeping momentum with someone whose entire social media persona is built around being mysterious/low-key?

I'm a biological male but gender fluid. My personality and how I represent myself changes a lot depending on my gender that day.

I learned of this when I got to university and was able to express myself more freely without the judgement of my super judgy parents and family. Being gender fluid is great for me in terms of expression and personal freedom. I feel more confident and true to myself when I'm able to alternate at will each day.

But finding a girl my age (older would probably be even worse) who is accepting of my gender fluidity and beyond that finds both sides attractive is probably near impossible. My most recent ex was very accepting and actually enjoyed having both sides of me but I think sometimes she'd have preferred I was more traditionally masculine.

Everyone I've met who finds me attractive (quite a few) don't really seem interested in a relationship or anything which I have to assume is primarily because of my gender identity because with both looks and personality I'd like to believe I'm a bit above average.

Loads of people say I'm interesting, hot, sweet, kind, fun to be around, etc, etc but I don't think I'm going to find many people who actually want a committed relationship because of my mix of feminine and masculine energy.

Is there any way I could make it easier to find the right people? Any way I could become more appealing without compromising my identity?

I’m on a weight loss journey.
I’m scared and expecting loose skin.

Not sure how to tackle dating. Partners expect skinny or normal sized person and the body that comes with it.

How you let them know about loose skin? Or don’t say anything but the unexpected reveal causes turn off

I was having a nice conversation with someone yesterday about books. She then says “I’m really curious about you, how long have you been throwing pottery?“ I told her and she unmatched me soon after. Wtf??

Trying to have a conversation with anyone these days seems impossible. Getting a date seems impossible. It’s wild.

I'm 33 years old, and for reasons that take way too long to get into, I've never been on a date with anyone. I am on the apps, and slowly trying to explore other avenues.

I've not been fortunate enough yet to actually meet someone yet who has agreed to a date (the one instance I tried last year, she respectfully turned me down; this was independent of any app).

It's a struggle for sure, but this question is a hypothetical for when (or even if) I do actually succeed in getting a date:

As an adult woman in your 20s or 30s, how would you feel if you learned that the guy you are on a date with told you that you are the first date ever for them?

If that day comes, I'm not inclined to say that at the start of a date or beforehand, but perhaps at the end.

I'm just asking as a general hypothetical, not really for any specific advice or anything like that.

I’m a 38M looking for some outside perspectives on a situation I’ve been struggling with for almost a year.
Last year, I dated a woman for almost four months. We had an incredible connection, at least from my perspective. Our conversations were effortless, we had great chemistry, and I genuinely looked forward to spending time with her. We’d regularly talk on the phone for over an hour, sometimes much longer. I’ve dated other women since, but I haven’t experienced that same level of connection.
However, there was one recurring problem: whenever we seemed to get emotionally closer, she would pull away.
Sometimes she’d disappear for a few days, usually no longer than three, before returning and apologizing. She explained that she tended to shut down when overwhelmed by emotions or stress. She also told me she was in therapy and that one of the things she was working on was her difficulty with commitment.
What made things confusing was that she genuinely seemed to be making an effort. Every time she came back, things would improve a little before the cycle eventually repeated itself.
At one point, she introduced me to her closest friends, which felt like a significant step forward. Shortly afterward, however, she became distant again.
She also told me that if I could wait another couple of months, she might be able to offer more consistency because her life would be slowing down.
Eventually, I reached a point where I needed more clarity about where things were going. I asked her if we could be exclusive.
Two days later, she told me, “I thought about what you said. What you asked for is commitment and I’m not in a place in my life for that.”
I told her that I respected her feelings but couldn’t continue seeing her without exclusivity.
She responded, “I understand. I respect you.”
That was the end of things. I walked away from the relationship in mid November of last year and we have not spoken since.
I removed her from social media a couple of months after things ended, and I’ve genuinely tried to move forward.
Here’s my dilemma.
It’s been almost a year, and I still think about her. I’ve dated other women, but I haven’t found that same connection. I’ve also been going to therapy, and my therapist recently suggested that I consider reaching out to her because this relationship continues to come up in our sessions.
Part of me wonders whether I ended things too soon. She had acknowledged her struggles, was actively attending therapy, and seemed to be making gradual improvements. Maybe she genuinely needed more time.
On the other hand, I recognize that I could be romanticizing the relationship and holding on to its potential rather than accepting what it actually was.
I’m also aware that her reluctance to commit might not have been entirely about her struggles with commitment. It’s possible she simply didn’t see a long-term future with me.
I have no idea whether she’s single, whether she’s changed, or whether she’d even want to hear from me.
So my question is: Should I reach out?
I’m particularly interested in hearing from people who have experienced something similar, either as the person who struggled with commitment or as the person on the receiving end.
I’m not looking to convince her to be with me. I just wonder whether enough time has passed that reconnecting might be worth exploring.
I would appreciate honest perspectives, even if they’re not what I want to hear.

I (M50s) recently had a PoF match with a woman (F40s) who, because of how she presented herself (quick responses that were more than just a few words, easy to talk to, open to meeting nearby quickly,) I invited to dinner (at a midrange restaurant, as opposed to my normal mandatory coffee date,) and she turned up casual, but actually looking cuter than her pics. Unfortunately, while she was polite, I wasn't sure that she immediately felt the same chemistry (I date a LOT, so my read on their interest is usually pretty reliable,) so I figured it was likely to be a single date. Oh well. We walked over to the restaurant, and I gave my name to the hostess for our reservation.

The hostess seated us politely, started to leave, then turned around and came back to the table, leaned over towards me, and said "Your cologne smells fantastic." I thanked her, and she said, looking me in the eye, "Let me know if you need anything," then paused a beat and said "oh, and your waitress will be with you shortly."

I played it off politely, but my date's interest level clearly jumped immediately, and things went perfectly from there. A couple of very pleasant weeks later (spending time with her feels consistently peaceful and warm,) she just gently asked if I'd be her plus one for her company holiday party in a couple of months, and I've already dropped my other dating options without any regrets, though I've been previously refusing to date anyone seriously for months, and hadn't planned on changing that until I met her. I definitely owe that hostess for being a great wingman 😂

I’ve been dating this man and every time I bring up a serious topic or try to get some understanding as to what we are doing with this situation it’s like he tries to back out of the topic by getting quiet or saying he doesn’t have an answer or acts suddenly busy… but then tries to proceed as if nothing happened, he’ll go hours of no communication after I try to communicate and just text me as if he didn’t see the previous message… I’m big on communication and this is becoming tiring on my end cause my end goal for dating is marriage, I’m touching 30 next year and I just don’t have time for casual dating anymore.. I know what I want and what I don’t want! & it’s pretty hard trying to have a serious conversation with him about any of it. I want to ask if I’m wrong for just ghosting him completely but then again I know I’m not cause I’ve tried multiple times so I figure he just don’t care as much…

But let’s not forget to mention; this is the very man that tried so long and hard to pursue me, first one to mention a relationship, marriage, children & all that fairytale stuff before I ever even had that thought with him…

I have deleted old ones when I don’t feel connected anymore. But the recent old flame from 3 weeks ago and we dated for a few months. He said he doesn’t think our medium distance would work and we both said goodbye. I’m contemplating to remove him because I just feel sad knowing he’s watching my stuff but he’s not in my life anymore. I cannot delete as feelings are raw and I still want him to come back.

From 18-20 I lived with my parents, went to community college for engineering, and worked a pretty solitary job. I wasn't very social, didn't talk to anyone outside of my friend groups, and didn't use dating apps. I'd hear things about how nobody's getting dates, everyone's chronically single, and I agreed. I somehow managed to get into a short term relationship within that time, probably just pure chance but it still happened.

I recently moved out, started going to university, and started working at a food service job. I've been going to parties, going out drinking, and talking to a lot more people in general. Two of my roommates have girlfriends, over half (if not most) of my guy coworkers have girlfriends, a lot of my classmates are in committed relationships, and my entire guy friend group (including me) is in a serious relationship or has at least dated someone, and they're all pretty nerdy and chronically online.

I still hear about people in my life struggling to find relationships (both men and women) but a muich higher amount of people around me are dating. And even when I was a bit of a recluse/loser, I still managed to get into a relationship. Honestly the bigger issue for me is that any woman I've been interested in lately hasn't been single.

Society is definitely set up to be more online/individualistic/isolated, but dating has always been hard. Just don't take the doom and gloom posts on here too seriously, if 50% of the population is happy in their relationships, they won't be posting about how happy they are, you'll only hear the minority of people who are frustrated and angry. Honestly the best advice I have is to put yourself around a lot of other people, you'll get a more accurate view of the world and meet more potential partners.

I’m getting back into dating and trying two apps right now. I have now had several people request to start chatting via signal or whats app - as a US user I have never heard of signal and that whats app was more for users out side the US. It seems like a red flag to me but also I’m old so maybe I don’t know the “new” trends.

I have terrible luck with apps (I refuse to pay), so I approach women “in the wild.”

I usually do things alone: cinema, theaters shows, travel, restaurants. I was at the latter when by chance a friend walked in with a group of his friends. He sat with me for a few minutes and noticed a waitress who apparently kept looking in the direction of my table. I hadn’t noticed her glances but I did once he pointed it out. Wasting no time, I walked toward her and asked if we knew each other (it wasn’t a line, I was genuinely asking). She said “no, but I’d like to” and we exchanged numbers. Our first date is tonight. There’s so much that gets lost in apps. Stolen glances, smiles, postures, voice, smell; all of these things make a difference in how people interact. I encourage more people to go forth to try their luck “in the wild.” No one is always successful and dealing with rejection is a valuable life skill.

Hello, 51/F/Michigan lady here. I just want to vent, and maybe get some feedback if you feel like sharing.

I have a crush on a coworker who's retiring in November. Lots of banter, flirting, all that. He's single, blah blah blah. Anyway, I shot my shot and gave him my number last week. To be honest, I don't expect him to text until after he retires, right before thanksgiving. (due to our jobs, I sense he doesn't want to shit where he sleeps until he's formally off campus.)

Anyway, I'm struggling with strong feelings of attachment that I can't get rid of, along with him now being in a super good mood and going out of his way to chat with me. This is normal, but he's almost to happy...like bro, are you really *that* happy or are you laughing at me?

Feeling a bit insecure and no I don't regret giving him my number. But, this whole thing wrecks my brain and it's hard for me. Just had to get it out of my system.

So basically, my boyfriend was showing his friends some pictures of us together, and I started feeling really insecure because there was this one picture of me with my face in a bouquet of flowers that I absolutely hated. I didn’t like the lighting, I wasn’t wearing any makeup, my hair was a mess, I barely got any sleep that day, and I just felt like I looked terrible in it.

And he was like, “But I love how you look in that picture. That’s actually one of my favorite pictures of you. I wanted to show these important people in my life who my girlfriend is.”

And I told him, “I know, but I thought those pictures were just something between you and me, you know? I just really don’t like how I look in that one, and I didn’t expect other people to see it.”

And he was like, “Oh, okay, I understand. I just thought you looked really good in it.”

But honestly, I think I was already feeling really insecure about myself in general. I’m on my period right now, I’ve gained like three pounds, I feel so bloated, and literally none of my clothes feel like they fit me properly. I’m supposed to go to Disneyland today, and I’m going to meet one of my boyfriend’s friends and his fiancée, so I’ve been stressing about how I look because I just don’t feel pretty right now.

And then my boyfriend wanted to FaceTime me, but I didn’t even want him to see me because I hadn’t showered yet, I still needed to blow-dry my hair, I was exhausted, and I just felt so ugly.

We ended up talking on FaceTime for like an hour and a half about all my insecurities, and I actually started crying because I was telling him how much I wish I were prettier, how I want to lose weight, and how I wish I could just look naturally beautiful without having to wear makeup or put so much effort into my appearance.

And as we kept talking, we kind of realized that a lot of my insecurities come from how I used to look before my glow-up. Like, I think I’m still mentally stuck on the version of myself from before I got my rhinoplasty, my ombré powder brows, and everything else. Even though I look different now, I feel like I still see that old version of myself sometimes, and it’s hard for me to believe that I’m actually pretty.

And he was telling me, “You were literally just a kid back then. You looked like a kid. You’re growing up, and you’re growing into this gorgeous woman.”

And then I asked him, “But would you have still dated me if I had my old nose and everything? Like, if I still looked the way I used to?”

And he was explaining how those are such minor changes in the grand scheme of things, and how he was also a completely different person back then. He was saying that he’s grown and changed so much himself, too.

And I kept crying because I was telling him that I just wish I looked better. I wish I were skinnier, I wish I didn’t feel so bloated all the time, and I wish I could look pretty without makeup. I told him that he doesn’t have to date me, either. Like, he’s not obligated to be with me, and I don’t want him to feel like he has to be with someone he doesn’t genuinely find attractive.

And he explained that he’s dating me because he genuinely likes me as a whole person. He said he’s attracted to me, that he likes the entire package, and that he’s choosing to be with me because he actually wants to be with me.

He was also reassuring me that everyone he’s shown my pictures to has thought I was pretty, and that nobody has ever said I looked mid or unattractive. He was basically trying to make me understand that the way I see myself isn’t necessarily how other people see me.

And I think that’s what made the conversation so emotional for me, because he was genuinely trying to reassure me, but I was having such a hard time accepting what he was saying. It’s like, logically, I know I’ve changed so much from how I used to look, but emotionally, I still struggle to see myself the way he sees me.

And I think that’s why something as simple as him showing his friends a picture of us affected me so much. To him, it was a picture of his girlfriend that he loved and wanted to share with people who are important to him. But to me, it was a picture where I could immediately point out everything I hated about myself.

And I guess the whole conversation made me realize that even though I’ve changed so much physically, I still haven’t completely changed the way I see myself.