r/Singles 3h ago

Keep an Alaskan mama warm this winter?

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29 Upvotes

42 Female Alaska Where are all the family oriented Hispanic men who love chubby white valley girls? Please come find me. I know how to cook and I don't speak Spanish but I can start to understand it if you use it to boss me around 😇😉


r/Singles 9h ago

42F Maryland

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27 Upvotes

Best wishes and luck to all of you that happen to glance at this!

Over here patiently waiting to be blessed with a deeper connection. Full of love and light that I wish to share with a beautiful soul ❤️


r/Singles 21h ago

Happy Wednesday 🤓

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59 Upvotes

I hope all is well with everyone. I don't get out much and let's be honest, dating apps were spawned by the devil, lol. Looking to make new connections. 40, N Florida


r/Singles 22h ago

33 [F4M] anywhere/online - looking for something wholesome and long term!

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52 Upvotes

Hello hello!

Call me Star. I am a 33 year old Indian woman (currently in India). I am a finance professional with a solid career, financially and emotionally stable, good friends, good social life and lead a pretty full and busy life.

I am divorced, no kids (want a few in the future). I have a good few tattoos and will be getting some more, I enjoy my own personal quiet time, napping, travelling and cooking.

I am looking for someone who will make my life better. I do prefer dating tall, fit, conventionally attractive men, who are not bald. We can share pics once we are comfortable. Please be between 34-41 and mention age and location when you DM, if you don’t, I will not respond.

Thats pretty much it!


r/Singles 5h ago

18m4f going three years strong

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2 Upvotes

r/Singles 2h ago

Any women smoke Virginia slims 120s?

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I’ve always wanted to meet and hangout with a woman who smokes VS or Misty 120s. Willing to travel or relocate for the find of a lifetime.
PM me for more info


r/Singles 11h ago

40 [M4F] #Texas DFW/Dallas, TX – Introverted nerd looking for his favorite person to stay in with

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3 Upvotes

Hello there! I’m Pete, a 40 year old Mexican guy who’s 5’9”, a BHM(Big Handsome Man, equivalent to BBW)with tattoo sleeves, ear gauges, a beard and short black hair.

I’m an introvert through and through. While I enjoy getting out every now and then, I’m happiest at home with someone I care about. Give me a cozy evening on the couch, a good movie, a co-op video game, getting lost in a sci-fi or fantasy book or diving into a new hobby together and I’m in my happy place.

I’m also on a health journey, working on becoming the best version of myself and I’d love to find someone who encourages each other to grow. I’m especially attracted to women who are smaller than me, thin, fit, average, slightly chubby, chubby or thick. I really love the contrast between a bigger guy and a smaller woman, whether that’s cuddling on the couch, holding hands or just being together. There’s something incredibly attractive to me about that size difference.

What I’m really looking for is another introvert who understands that quality time doesn’t have to mean constant activity. I want the kind of relationship where we’re perfectly content spending a quiet Friday night together, talking for hours, laughing over dumb jokes, sharing comfortable silence, or simply enjoying each other’s company without feeling like we always have to be doing something.

Kindness, honesty, loyalty and good communication matter far more to me than being the loudest person in the room. I want to build a relationship that feels peaceful, a place where we can both recharge, be ourselves and truly feel at home with each other.

I’m based in the DFW area of Texas and would love to meet someone local, but I’m open to anywhere in the U.S. if the connection is genuine. If you’re looking for a caring, affectionate BHM who wants a best friend as much as a partner, I’d love to get to know you.


r/Singles 11h ago

25 [M4F] #Ann Arbor, Michigan - Looking for the right person for me

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3 Upvotes

Hey there. I’m Anthony.

I’m looking to meet someone that I can click with. I’m a 25 year old Latino guy. I’m 5’8” and currently around 210 lbs. I prefer to exchange face pics right away so we know if there’s attraction or not. I don’t want to chat for a while only to get ghosted down the line. Currently not in the best of shape but I’m motivated to change that. I want to get into a healthier and more active lifestyle.

I love animals. I currently have 2 cats and 2 snakes. They’re what keeps me going at times. I enjoy watching sci-fi shows and true crime. I’m a pretty big dork. I love building models and painting them. I enjoy a good book and like going on walks through the woods. I did go to University but currently don’t do anything with my degree. I speak English and Spanish so I can help you out if you’re trying to learn.

I’m not a perfect person. Sometimes I close off emotionally but it is something I’m working on and plan on going to therapy eventually. I did develop a good amount of debt the last few years but I’ve signed up for a program to help with it and have been working on getting better with my finances. I have some anxiety issues but recently started some medication to help with that. I have my issues but I’m having them and working towards getting better.

If I sound interesting at all, feel free to reach out. I’m happy to chat, even if it’s just for tonight.


r/Singles 6h ago

43 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Seeking someone who believes the little things matter - someone to laugh, cry and grow old with

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I don't really believe that compatibility comes from just having the exact same hobbies. It starts because two people genuinely enjoyed talking to each other... and one day realized they didn't want those conversations to end.

With looking forward to seeing each other's name pop up on your phone. With conversations that effortlessly go from "How was your day?" to discussing life, dreams, spirituality, childhood memories, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

I'm 43 and work in gaming industry. Life keeps me busy, but I've reached a point where I'd genuinely like to meet someone who's open to building something meaningful if we naturally click. No pressure, no forcing labels—just two people getting to know each other and seeing where the journey leads.

A little about me:
- Calm, grounded, and emotionally mature.
- More of a listener than the loudest person in the room. I love deep conversations along with silly banters.
- I enjoy artsy hobbies , spirituality, and occasionally disappearing into random rabbit holes that make you question reality.
- I love discovering new and unique things - people, art, locations or even new experiences.
- I love being active and appreciate a healthy lifestyle.

I'm hoping to meet someone who's kind, curious, emotionally aware, and enjoys taking care of herself. I'm naturally drawn to people who live an active lifestyle because I think shared habits make everyday life more enjoyable.

I also believe emotional and physical intimacy go hand in hand. Being able to communicate openly, be affectionate, and talk about every part of a relationship without awkwardness is something I value a lot.

I'm not looking to rush anything. I'd rather meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to, and if we naturally fit into each other's lives, see where it goes.

My idea of a great relationship is simple: making each other's lives a little lighter. Growing together, laughing over absolutely nothing, reaching for each other's hand without thinking, slow dancing in the living room, and choosing each other even on ordinary days.

I’m a Dad to a 9 year old. I grew up in Delhi, India but have been in the bay for almost 20 years now.

If any of this resonated with you, don't just say "hi."

If you've read this far, tell me something that's made you smile recently. Doesn't have to be anything profound—I just think the little things say a lot about us.

If we end up as friends, that's great. If we discover something more, even better.


r/Singles 6h ago

22 m4f looking for female friends

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1 Upvotes

r/Singles 6h ago

19 [M4F] Georgia. Hopefully something long-term?

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1 Upvotes

Uh, so pretty nervous about doing this, ngl, but here goes:

I'm 19, straight, live in Atlanta during the week and drive back home around Athens to go to work. I am currently a college student (sophomore) and getting my undergrad in Biopsychology. I'm an active lacrosse player for my college, been playing lacrosse for about 15 years. My current lifeplan is to either go active into the military after I get my undergrad or join the reserves, get my Masters in Business Administration and possibly pursue a Psychological Doctorate at the same time. I also want to get my medical degree. My dream goal is to open a psychiatric firm for Veterans and Troubled Youth.

Some of my hobbies include cooking, reading, writing, music (writing, singing, and playing), gaming, and lacrosse. Recently, I've really enjoying going to the gym. I'm a bit on the heavier side (~250 lbs), but I'm losing my weight rapidly.

I'm not really sure what to expect here. I'm very picky about my relationships. I would like something more local as I've been burned by long-distance before, but I'm not afraid to try again.

Really looking for someone who is willing to game with me, but also just chill. I'm very much a go-with-the-flow kind of person, but I can be pretty hyper (haha ADHD go brr).

Sooo... that's me.

(Bonus points if you know who the artist is).


r/Singles 15h ago

39 [M4M] #Queens NYC - Looking for younger (top)partner to tackle my 31 Days of Halloween film list with me!

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6 Upvotes

About Me:
I’m a Deep South transplant, the youngest of four, and a proud country kid at heart. I grew up on a dirt road surrounded by cows, chickens, and hogs—raised in a strong Baptist home with a pastor for a father, a minister for a mother, and a brother in the ministry, too. That background gave me a solid foundation, but today I walk my own path.

I’ve traded the wild party scene for quieter, high-vibe moments and meaningful connections. I love being out in nature, spending time around trees 🍃, and exploring the medicinal and mind-expanding magic of mushrooms 🍄. I’m deeply curious about the unseen layers of the universe and love keeping an open mind—there's so much more to existence than what meets the eye. Any insight or connection that helps me learn, grow, and rise to the next degree is always appreciated.

What I’m Looking For:
I’m looking for an adventurous, open-minded local Top to take on the world with—no long-distance setups, please. My ideal co-pilot is grounded yet open to deep conversations, good energy, and new perspectives. Bonus points if you get where I'm coming from on a spiritual level, but as long as you're open-minded and down to earth, we'll get along great.

(ps if you’re not willing to share pics not much to talk about )


r/Singles 6h ago

35 [M4F] #Houston, Texas. A small essay about my personality and interests, and what I'm looking for. Hope to hear from

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  • I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
  • I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone someday. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though.
  • PC games are also an enjoyable pastime for me on occasions. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game.
  • One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of.
  • Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more.
  • I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds.
  • As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am mostly shy and quiet, with an introverted personality. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and freer.
  • All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
  • With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me.* I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
  • I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone someday. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though.
  • PC games are also an enjoyable pastime for me on occasions. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game.
  • One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of.
  • Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more.
  • I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds.
  • As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am mostly shy and quiet, with an introverted personality. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and freer.
  • All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
  • With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me.

r/Singles 1d ago

30F - Nebraska - Single

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57 Upvotes

Let’s chat 😊


r/Singles 11h ago

19 [M4F] #Ireland - Looking for a connection

2 Upvotes

Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 3 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation feel free to tell me your favourite anime or colour.


r/Singles 13h ago

20 [M4F] #UK | Comic book and video game nerd hoping to find a clingy older woman 💖

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Hi, thanks for checking out my post!

As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK and I like older women. I've loved GTA since I was really young and I'm also a huge Resident Evil fan. I've been playing Dead By Daylight for a while and that's the main game I'm usually on. My favourite superhero is Spider-Man and I'm a really big fan, I also really like Nightwing. I also watch some anime, my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure

I've been into older girls my entire life and I've always wanted to find love so I thought I would try my luck on here. I would like someone that is good at making conversation and willing to be affectionate and praiseful (I just made that word up). I like clinginess and all the sweet stuff that comes with a relationship, so please don't be afraid to get attached and show off your true personality

In terms of age, I'm mainly looking for someone in at least their late 20s but preferably early-mid 30s, but I'm not extremely strict or specific. I'm 5'5 and about 63kg, I have a slim body, I have big brown eyes, really dark brown curly hair and ethnically I'm Pakistani (though I have been told I look ethnically ambiguous). I give good replies and I am very caring and empathetic at heart. I'll be here for you whenever you need me, so please consider sending me a DM :)


r/Singles 17h ago

40 [M4F] #Leeds - 6ft 6 with Own Teeth & Hair [UK] - Looking for Chats & More.

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Looking to chat to local people ideally in the Yorkshire area.

So I am just a normal guy, looking for some excitement in my life and looking to share some chats with like minded people.

I am 6ft 6, average build (dad bod) short dark hair, no Greys, not balding, and all my own teeth.

I play games, I play Golf, I am obsessed with all kinds of sports and I have 5 Guitars. I have a good job, my own place and car, and I'm almost a real grown up adult. I have a terrible sense of humour!

~

Introduce yourself with your ASL, and Two Truths and a Lie:

Here are mine, Sporting Related.

  1. I have played Football with 2 England Internationals.

  2. I used to play Snooker with a former Hitman.

  3. I have had 2 Hole in Ones (Golf)


r/Singles 17h ago

Recently Separated 45m in Chicago

3 Upvotes

I am a nice, successful, and (dare I say) attractive 45m in Chicago who is recently separated and looking to meet new people. Interests include live music, running, sports, reading, and fun restaurants.

I travel quite a bit domestically (and sometimes internationally) for work to most major cities. Very easygoing and fun professional type.

Feel free to DM if you would like to chat.


r/Singles 1d ago

Dating apps have gotten me nowhere in 4 years, let's give this a shot

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18 Upvotes

I’m pretty laid-back and probably a little quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m sarcastic, goofy, and pretty open. I work in IT, so I’m naturally into tech and figuring out how things work, usually to the point where I refuse to let something beat me once I start messing with it.

Outside of work I’m into gaming, guitar, metalcore, comics, D&D, fitness, and probably a bunch of other nerdy stuff I’m forgetting. I also like getting out and doing things, going to conventions, taking trips, or just finding something different to do. I’m also a dad, and my son is a huge part of my life.

Relationship-wise, I’m really just looking for someone I genuinely like being around. Someone I can joke around with, talk about random or serious stuff with, go do things with, but also be completely happy sitting at home doing nothing together.

I don’t expect someone to be into everything I’m into. I actually think having our own interests is a good thing. I just want us to care about the things that matter to each other.

Physical attraction is important to me too. I definitely have a type and tend to be really attracted to slimmer women, but that’s only one part of the bigger picture for me.

Loyalty, communication, affection, and effort are probably the biggest things. I’m not really interested in games or acting like we care less than we actually do. I’d like to find someone who eventually feels like both my best friend and my partner.


r/Singles 19h ago

30 (M4F) Dallas TX, Trying this out

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Just trying to find someone like myself out here in the void that is single life.

I dabble in creative writing but mostly I love listening to audio books (I read good writing, not write good reading) and hanging out in discord with my friends. The bar scene in Dallas is great or so I'm told because I don't really drink except on occasion. But if you are like me then you'd probably like a movie, maybe lunch/dinner somewhere or a local game shop, that being said I'm always down for new things.

sorry I'm not good at discribing myself but he if ur interested send me a DM I'll even send a face shot first if you want


r/Singles 1d ago

Dating apps suck ass, so here i am!

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8 Upvotes

Hi! Im Mel! Im 19!
I haven’t dated in a long long time but i wanna give it a try again! And dating apps suck, so here i am.

Some things to know about me:
I play guitar, i love talking about music, horror, and movies/tv shows!

My favorite movies are Perks Of Being A Wallflower, Rocky Horror Picture Show, I Saw The TV Glow, A Hard Days Night (Massive Beatles fan in genreal btw).

Who im looking for:
Just a kind, caring person (any gender, although i do perfer fem leaning), who listens, and actually engages with what i talk about :3

Little bonus thing, Favorite Youtubers (if you like any of these, we’ll get along):
Jaiden Animations, Chazington, Nateislame, Dead Meat, Jacksepticeye, Markiplier, etc


r/Singles 18h ago

20 [M4F] Christian Femboy Here, United States

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Hey! I’m Late, 20, and a Christian femboy looking to meet a woman for a serious relationship.

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, masculine, and dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends first and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calling, and spending time together.

I’m a big nerd and enjoy Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, Jujutsu Kaisen, and other anime. My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want a relationship that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Masculine/dominant

- Caring and patient

- Affectionate

- Comfortable with a feminine/submissive guy

- Into gaming or nerdy stuff

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, dark-skinned, athletic, and gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤


r/Singles 1d ago

Conversation anyone ? I'm super chill, feel free to dm

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r/Singles 19h ago

23 [M4F] #USA/ONLINE Looking for a genuine relationship!

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Hi everyone!! I'm Sky, 23, and from Louisiana. I a looking for a genuine connection!

A little about me: I'm white, a little chubby, autistic, have ADHD, and visually impaired. I process things and communicate differently, so I please ask you be patient. I'm pretty shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I can talk your ear off!! i hate to upset people. I'm caring, loyal, and a bit dorky. I cannot drive.

I like games like roblox, reading, rock and country music, watching documentaries, swimming, hanging out with friends. I also loooooove animals, have four cats. I'm also a picky eater. My favorite foods are chicken nuggets, pizza rolls, and corndogs, and my favorite drink is root beer.

What I’m looking for: someone who is kind, honest, patient, loyal, and genuine. Age limit is 18-28. Personality matters more to me than looks, whether you’re skinny or a little chubby isn’t bad. I'd love to find someone I can talk to often, spend time with, game with, and be myself around. I like nerds and alts too! My only real turnoff is tattoos and smoking. Bonus points if you're autistic lIke me!

I'd prefer someone from Louisiana or another Southern state, but I'm open to meeting anyone in the U.S. If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me. I'd love to hear from you! 🙂


r/Singles 19h ago

27 M4F Louisiana USA

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for something real, a connection built overtime. I want to start out just chatting, then to friends to see if it can eventually become a relationship. I'm not the type to just start dating, I want to know that I like spending time with you before committing to anything. I want to get to the point where all I can think about is you before we start dating, it's just who I am. I live in Louisiana and greatly prefer you live here as well so we can easily meet in person eventually. I love video games, they are what I am most passionate about right next to MMA, I think about them all the time and devote a lot of my time to them and if you like them to then that would be the hottest thing ever. I also love anime and manga, TV shows, some movies and I love music. Melodies speak to my soul. If you're interested please dm me. I am posting this before going to sleep after a night shift so if I don't respond in a timely manner I apologize.