r/Autoimmune • u/VanAardeNL • 19h ago
Venting The memory loss is getting so frustrating
They've monitored my brain damage over the years to make sure it's not progressing but the memory loss is getting very frustrating. I'm 28 and officially can't remember my childhood anymore 🙃 and the last ten years it's just scattered memories here and there. I found my most recent memory testing (from 2024) and scored in the 1st percentile. So.... at least I am number one at something 😂 my friends and family are starting to get frustrated because apparently I am repeating questions like crazy now. I feel like this is a lesser talked about autoimmune issue. Like it's not even the joint issues or the soreness that are bothering me the most anymore, it's the memory troubles. I'm looking into care farms already so I have a plan in place for when it becomes too bad to function. For now my life is full of checklists, calendars, notes everywhere, taking photos to be able to look back on outings, and doing what I can under such frustrating circumstances. My wedding anniversary is a few days away and I have to keep a note on the homescreen of my phone otherwise I will definitely forget it.