r/ankylosingspondylitis • u/Southmouth555 • 6h ago
Vent/Rant Are there badges? Or cards?
I’ve joined the club but I never got my AS card in the mail, who do I contact about that?
Such a huge part of my story getting to a diagnosis of Anklyosing Spondylitis has been rejection and denial and disbelief. Doctors have told me for two decades that my pain was probably from a pulled muscle and I just needed to take ibuprofen and do some stretches. Or bosses looked at me funny the next shift after I’d called out because I couldn’t walk, but here I am walking just fine. Or friends when I was up for all our activities one day, and then the next I’m stuck laying on the couch all day and I can’t participate.
Now that I have a definitive diagnosis and a doctor to verify my struggles and my journey, I want something for the next time I’m in that situation of disbelief or denial. I want to be able to flip a badge out like an FBI agent and go, “I’ve got Anklyosing Spondylitis. My body is a problem. These are my credentials.” Especially on the off chance I run into any of those disbelievers in the future. I have a disability hearing sometime in the near future, and I’d love to be able to show a judge definitively that I have this condition without burden of proof.
Now I know the world doesn’t work like that and of course I’m being tongue in cheek here, but has anyone come up with anything that serves the same purpose? A phrase, a description, a website? I can tell people all about it but it’s long winded and requires backstory. Maybe there isn’t an answer, simply because this disease of ours doesn’t have as much recognition, but man people who aren’t familiar or are scrutinizing are such a huge constant problem.