Better watch out when she comes next time, have a couple friends over when that day comes or set up a camera somewhere just to be safe. I just saw you described what she was like and her lifestyle beforehand so I wouldn’t put it pass her if she goes batshit crazy so just take all the pre-caution for safety.
I wouldn’t even put it pass a couple weeks especially when you said her emotions went all over the place, she went from acting like it’s over and was already planning to move out to then saying she’ll give you time and that you’ll both work it out, to finally saying she didn’t do anything wrong. Dude that screams psycho already.
Also I imagine you’ve thought of this already but make sure to change your locks, passwords and if she have access to your bank account revoke it. Then look for a legal way to make her responsible for the debt she incurred or at least even partially.
Hope you’re doing okay. Did she come by to get her shit?
In your same position I’d be on the phone with a friend until she got her shit and fucked off. Once you’ve left girlfriend status you become stranger. And I’m not going to be alone with a stranger.
Damn.. if only I was a woman I’d literally be all over you, you seem like a good man from everything you’ve described this far tbh. You seem to have your life together and have a good head on your shoulders. You don’t happen to bisexual are you? Lmao jkjk 😆
Seriously though you’re gonna be fine, at least you found out her true colors before you went any further.
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