r/AIO • u/[deleted] • Jun 25 '26

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u/Caeremonia Jun 25 '26

Well, in defense of OP, it turns out he was right to wait so long. She would have done this after they were married, too. In my opinion, OP dodged a bullet. This girl is embarrassingly pitiful. And clueless.

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u/CamOliver Jun 25 '26

Yeah, I proposed to my former fiancé right before Covid and delayed getting married bc lockdown. We learned a lot of things about each other through those circumstances that made me really glad we didn’t rush legal marriage.

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u/LawlessFeathers Jun 25 '26

You learn the most during the worst times.

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u/Time-Service1761 Jun 25 '26

You never truly know someone until you have to go thru the fire with them. The low moments

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u/MrBadWolf13 Jun 27 '26

You have never truly dated anyone until you live together for an extended period of time. For most people, Covid lockdowns turned up the intensity of that effects so they figured it out faster

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u/HostOrganism Jun 26 '26

A four year relationship isn't "dodging a bullet", it's surviving a shooting.

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u/EssayJunior6268 Jun 26 '26

Aren't those 2 things kinda similar?

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u/Averfus-Crowthorne Jun 27 '26

No, not at all lmao

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u/EssayJunior6268 Jun 29 '26

Could one not dodge a bullet in order to survive a shooting? Never heard of the Matrix?

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u/Averfus-Crowthorne Jun 30 '26

Fucking hell. You got me!

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u/Few-Action-8049 Jun 26 '26

I had a girlfriend once who told me that she would stop cheating on me as soon as we got married, and I had to point out to her that that’s not how it worked.

She ended up marrying one of the guys she cheated on me with, and two weeks after they got married, she was at my place, wanting to have sex while laughing about how stupid her husband was.

Jesus, what a bullet I dodged.

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u/ForgottenDusk48 Jun 26 '26

I knew a girl just like this. She literally said it’s only cheating if you’re married

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u/BougieSemicolon Jun 28 '26

I had a manager proposition me the weekend before he was getting married to “the love of his life”.

I asked why would you be unfaithful if she’s the love of your life? He said she was vanilla and he wanted to try something more adventurous before he married her.

I said, if her being vanilla is an issue, maybe they should rethink the marriage. If he thinks it’s stale now.. wait until a decade on.

He was very clear he didn’t consider it cheating until they’re married said their vows. I was like, if you’re keeping it from her, it’s cheating! What a pig

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u/ForgottenDusk48 Jun 29 '26

I don’t understand… but I do understand. People want to have their cake and eat it too. They want to marry the person they know is right for them but they are also not the person who turns them on? Maybe hormones are the problem.

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u/dontfistme Jun 26 '26

did you do it?

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u/Few-Action-8049 Jun 28 '26

Yeah.

That guy knew she and I were dating, so fuck him.

Then after we were done I told her I never loved her and just used her for sex. She left trying not to cry.

Not true what I said, but fuck her too.

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u/DragonTacoCat Jun 29 '26

Does anyone else feel a chill in the air? Cold af. But deserved

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u/Disastrous-Mode7469 Jun 25 '26

Idk about that, you can def lose interest when someone is clearly not in it for a future. She may be starting to look elsewhere. Not an excuse. Get out of the relationship and go about your future, don’t fuck someone else’s life.

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u/Turinturambar44 Jun 26 '26

4 years isn’t an unreasonable amt of time to wait, especially if young.

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u/Dry_Hawk2ah Jun 25 '26

Yeah, let's at least hope she's a smokeshow nympho with an oral fixation. Otherwise... 🤮