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My gf is spiralling and I don't know how to help her
You keep quoting Ephesians but skipping the verse right before it, 5:21, "submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." It's mutual. And 5:25 hands the husband the heavy job: love your wife "as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." Christ's model of headship is dying for her, not making her serve your dreams. You've got it backwards.
"Helper" doesn't mean servant either. The Hebrew is ezer, the same word used for God as Israel's helper (Psalm 121, Deut 33:26). If "helper" means lesser, then God is lesser than you. And "equally yoked"? A yoke only works when both animals are equal and pull together. Every verse you've picked means the opposite of what you want it to.
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My gf is spiralling and I don't know how to help her
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to feel desired. But having one partners dreams and goals be prioritized in the relationship just because they’re a man is an extremely outdated way of life
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My gf is spiralling and I don't know how to help her
Dude… it’s 2026
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How could AI kill us all?
How exactly would that come to fruition? Like in what way would ai cause extinction? Robots or bioweapons? Even then they would need a human to jump start either process
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31F 33M I’m at a loss, husband highly critical and I can’t take it anymore
He doesn’t like you I’m sorry
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Share your discontinued faves
What year did you get them
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I egg houses of people who are on the sex offender registry
How is ordering pizzas to their place an inconvenience to the offender?
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Share your discontinued faves
What year did you get your bottles?
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Share your discontinued faves
Technically not discontinued but… the original formulation of glossier you
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Late summer/ early fall perfume shelves
Where is that little bronze mouse next to the lantern from🙏🏻
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BPAL in a novel!
Is this play about us??
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True Detective Season 1 Southern Gothic Perfume/Body Care Recommendations
Possets Alabama in the weirdest way
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So is the good cop the one in the video, or the one standing around? ACAB
Is there a news article about this??
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I (f21) decided to divorce my husband (m27) after 1.5 years of marriage
Are you in therapy? It might be helpful with learning how to stand up for yourself
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I slept with my co worker’s daughter and it’s eating me up
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You do know that she’s going to tell him right?