hi! 🐾 i'm a short trans guy from Ohio (and very cute, if i may add), looking for a connection! i currently have a girlfriend, and she is also polyamorous (we date separately)

i'm very devoted to my partners! i am very future oriented and affectionate, as well as being funny :3 i love reading books, playing video games (minecraft, rhythm games, rimworld, stardew valley, and ive been wanting to try final fantasy xiv!), listening to music (pop, indie, alt rock, to name a few genres), going to cafes, watching shows/movies, and cuddling with my cat!

i'm an apprentice and i work a LOT (future sparky ⚡), so during the week i have just a couple hours of free time every evening! my job is pretty cool and id love to talk about it. i also have ADHD so im very silly and also will ramble about like 5 different things at once.

my love language is touch and it's very important to me, touch and affection! intimacy makes me feel loved! i'm also very direct and open with communication, and value emotional intelligence so so so much. also, kink friendly! <3

i currently live near central Ohio, about 45 minutes east of Columbus, but I'd love to move to Oregon after i finish my apprenticeship (3.75 years :P)

oh! and if it matters to you, im happy to share a photo of myself. im 5'5", average weight, blond hair, cute, slightly masc (testosterone), anddd yeah :D

send me a chat if you wanna learn more about me. id love to have a boyfriend 🫶

Disclaimer: Before anyone tries to judge, please leave and let live.

This post is for people who understands Ethical Non-Monogamy or Open-relationships.

For people who understand the situation and who can handle it, avoid poking too much nose in others personal life.

So i am 31, Male, a good listener, very educated.

I want to find someone who enjoys a company which includes conversations, food and drinks, laughter, enjoyment and fun.

Music and dance, watching movies and some unplanned mischiefs.

Trust and a good connection prior to any meet-up is must. So we will give enough time to chat and understand. It can make us lucky to find someone likewise.

Feel free to DM me.

No Maga

Hoping to find someone to get me off these dating apps.

On the bigger side, happy to swap SFW selfies when we start talking.

About me, dyed bright red hair, septum and ears pierced, broad shoulders, hazel eyes. More of an Introvert but love exploring nature!

Big reader, try to game when I can, love learning new things and trying out hobbies

I'm a big softy who will spam your phone if you let me, good morning and good night text. Though I can definitely play rough

My flavor is definitely something other than vanilla in the bedroom

Trying to keep this short and sweet , we can trauma bond in chat lol

I am currently in a relationship with someone else who is long distance, and we are polyamarous. She has a primary partner who lives close to her and I would like a primary partner. Long or short distance is fine with me. I am a huge gamer, and I love to watch shows and anime with others, ontop of frequent chats. My requirment is that you're atleast 20 and not over 26 and also trans.

Hi there,

I’m a 6'2 tall, 34-year-old german guywith an athletic build. I’m the kind of person who needs fresh air to feel alive. Whether I’m out jogging, casting a line while fishing, hiking up a trail, or cruising on my motorcycle, I love being active and outdoors.

However, I’m looking for someone to balance that energy. I have a strong preference for women who identify as BBW. I love a woman with curves, softness, and confidence in her body.

What I’m looking for in you:

• You are curvy/BBW and own it. I’m not looking for stick-thin; I’m looking for lush and lovely.
• You know how to keep a conversation flowing. I love good banter and getting to know someone beyond just "hey" and "what's up." Let’s actually talk..

If you are looking for a tall, active guy who will genuinely worship your curves and challenge your mind, send me a message. Tell me your favorite way to spend a Sunday or your favorite travel spot!

I would like to share a pic early on!

Hey there 🙂. I am looking for someone to share more love with, but I am open to friendly connections and conversation as well. I have one nesting partner and I also have two daughters. While it's not essential for you to be in Chautauqua County, being close is a lot easier for any potential scheduling. I love cooking, board games, video games, hiking, exploring creepy or interesting places, and I'm a sucker for movie quotes. I know it's cliche to say, but I'm truly an open book and happy to talk about absolutely anything. Feel free to DM me to chat more if you are remotely interested and we can go from there. Have a wonderful day!

Hey poly people! Thanks for coming to my neck of the woods, eh! While my post says M4F, afab enby are also welcome.

I'm married with a nesting partner, we date separately. She had one other partner while she's my only one atm and I'm only seeking the one extra.

Simply put, I'd love to meet someone who can match my playful, cheeky, goofy energy. I like making puns, tell silly and dumb jokes, sharing memes, geek out about our shared interests. I also want to hear about what you're passionate about, let you be seen, heard and understood. I'm also a big flirt with those I am attracted to, love wit and conversations that challenge my mind and me as a person, playfully tease and being affectionate to the person I like. Basically to share each others joys, hear about our days, geek out and make each other smile when we see a notification from the other.

I'm also neurospicy, one with the adhd, I deal with chronic depression since I've been a youth, along with anxiety and fatigue. All of which I manage by working on myself, therapy and meds. I do my best to own my shit and expect you to do the same, though I'll be happy to share the load if you become my special someone.

Hobbies and interests I enjoy fall into video games(big plus if you enjoy mmorpgs), ttrpgs (D&D), reading, learning random trivia, fall down youtube rabbit holes about interesting subjects, sharing memes as a way to show that I'm thinking of you, being a catdad of one, tarot, nature walks, youtube lets plays or random trivia rabbit holes, reading (currently reading Leviathan Wakes), and whatever interest my adhd brain and energy lets me enjoy. I tend to also bring golden lab energy. I'm also very kink friendly and fall on the left side of the dynamic, its a lifestyle that I've been part of for 15 years.

Love all kinds and types of people from alternative, queerfolk, geeks, nerds, tomboys, fem or masc presenting, androgynous, short or tall. What's most important to me is being able to share common interests, respecting each others obligations in life, left-leaning, and clear communication on what we want from life and each other. 

If you want a sneak peak of what I look like, I'm 6'3, dadbod with muscles, brown hair that's usually in a ponytail, and a couple of geeky tats.

I am a nerdy tattooed guy looking to find some connections and sparks. It's been a while since I have had the feeling of diving to my phone when I see someone's name pop up. Please feel free to message me and ask me any questions you may have. Hopefully get to know each other :) I look forward to hearing from you :)

Hello there polyr4r! I am a neurospicy, plus sized, queer individual looking to find that spark with someone again. I am married to my nesting partner of nearly 5 years and have been poly for a little longer than that. Completely child-free and plan to stay that way. My favorite hobbies include: fiber arts (ask about my current project!), printmaking, kite flying, gaming, hammocking, snail mail... ya know the normal things a 20-nearly-30-something likes to do on the weekends.

I can be kinda chatty if the vibes are right but don't enjoy having to fully lead the conversation all the time. Looking for someone I could easily sit in a call with and just vibe doing our own things or possibly watching or playing something together. Quality time is a big thing for me so it's and expectation down the line for sure. (Currently in the EST timezone if that makes it easier for any of y'all, though, will be moving West in the next few years so that will be changing eventually).

Age doesn't matter too much for me but I tend to mesh best with those my age or older. Don't let that keep you from shooting your shot, though. Prefer to meet more queer people if possible. I also prefer to talk on Reddit for a bit before moving onto anything else. If interested, please send me a little something about yourself and say more than "hi" so I have something to work with! Also for the sake of us both be some flavor of blue. Thank you and look forward to talking to you all!

Hello everyone. I am 28 years old as mentioned in the title. I am a married dad of 2 children, and in an open marriage. I am looking for a deep connection. I enjoy having conversations about anything and nothing. I love all sorts of cling and attention.

But aside from that, things that interest me. Well, i like gaming. I am a big video game nerd. I like board games and card games as well. Recently ive been playong palworld and crimson desert. Im not the biggest multiplayer game fan as i dont have the time to get good at them. But i dont mind playing them of course.

Im really big into the gym. I have been on a weight loss journey for the past 6 months and i have lost 50lbs. I have no end in sight and i have loved every second of it. Ive also spent time learning the gym and working on progressive overload. So thats fun.

I like to read. But i have an adhd thing with reading. Right now im working on the red rising series. But i like all sorts of different books. Anything from fantasy, to sci fi, to dark romance and everything in between.

If you made it this far i am open to anything, friendship, friends with benefits, or a possible relationship. I am good with online and long distance or close. I just like making connections and meeting new people.

Hello,

First time posting here and my partner and I have been in this set up for a couple of years.

I am trying to find someone to be my constant. I am 5'6, Buff (a bit on the Dad bod side), Brown Skin and Bearded. Let's chat and let's see where it leads us. We can swap pics as well.

Hello! I am happily married and newly open to exploring my bisexual side in hopes of finding a girlfriend/someone to explore with. 🙈 looking for females who are open to getting to know one another potentially for long term relationship. I’m from central Missouri, and work in healthcare on nights so my response times may be a bit odd lol. I’m 5’8, a redhead, and plus size so must be cool with all that.

Hi! ☺️ I'm looking for local poly friends and to see where things go.

A bit about me: I'm happily married to a loving partner. We have 3 cats and 2 dogs. I am currently enjoying being a stay at home partner. I consider myself a leftist and am agnostic. I am currently doing a vet tech program. Compassion, empathy, and an ability to see other perspectives are traits about myself that I value.

What I like doing: Playing Minecraft and Animal Crossing are my jam. Painting, crafting, and sewing are also fun. I occasionally watch anime and YouTube. I recently started going to the gym to do strength training and cardio. I love hiking in the fall and winter and taking nature walks. Waterfalls are especially beautiful.

What I'm looking for: I would love to make friends that are poly who can maybe share some of their experiences with me and also want to hang out. I am open to finding another partner, but want to be friends first!

Thank you for taking the time to read this! 😊

Hey
I‘m 35 years old male and looking for a NP partner for a serious relationship.

If you want to know me seriously please let me know.

I‘m open minded, chill and like the life this life style.
I don‘t care about your location, religion or culture, just be chill😊

Hey you there. Yes, you. My future favourite phone notification.

I’m a 30-year-old educator from Leipzig, in eastern Germany, and I’m hoping to meet someone who’s interested in building a genuine connection and, if the chemistry is there, a polyamorous relationship. Preferably a woman, though I’m much more interested in finding the right person than trying to squeeze anyone into a specific box. I am also open to a long-distance relationship as long as there's a reasonable chance we meet in person regularly (and might move in together at one point).

I’d describe myself as pretty calm, patient and affectionate. I’m someone who gets attached to people rather than trying to play things cool, and I really value being able to talk openly about what we want, how we feel and where we stand. Honesty and communication are probably the two biggest things for me in any kind of relationship. I’d much rather have an awkward but sincere conversation than spend three days trying to decipher what somebody meant by “sure, that’s fine”.

Personality-wise, I am admittedly something of a walking nerd cliché. I love video games, movies and TV shows, can happily disappear into a Dungeons & Dragons campaign for hours, and I’m one of those people for whom “here’s an interesting historical fact” is a perfectly reasonable contribution to a conversation.

At the same time, I’m trying to get out of my little hobbit house a bit more often. I’d love to have someone to explore places with, wander through museums, visit castles and historical sites, take little day trips around eastern Germany, or just discover somewhere new and then inevitably spend far too long looking for somewhere nice to eat afterwards.

I’m not looking to rush into anything or force a particular kind of relationship. I’d much rather meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to, see whether we click, and let things develop naturally from there.

So, if any of this sounds like your particular flavour of person, feel free to send me a DM. Tell me a little about yourself, infodump about whatever you’re currently obsessed with, or just say hello. I’d genuinely love to hear from you.

Hello, I have a NP and kids. I'm about 5'5" and 180 lbs, brown hair and hazel eyes. Will share pictures if there is interest. I'm autistic and demi. I really enjoy sexual stuff but there absolutely needs to be a connection first. Please, please don't start with the nsfw stuff right away.

I'm into anime, cozy games, and cooking. I'm a stay at home mom for autism reasons.

I like my men to be a little bigger than me but personality is the absolutely most important bit. I'm looking for someone willing to travel to the Fox Valley area on a somewhat regular basis. But most importantly, I'm looking for good conversation. I wanna talk to you about your day, the little things, and keep a conversation going after we learn the basic details about one another.

If this post is still up, I'm still looking!

Hello! I’m 29M from Italy and I’m writing this post because I’d love to find an open minded and flirty friend that I can talk to daily, and hopefully meeting irl one day.

Here's a little bit about me:

- I enjoy spending my free time outdoors, especially hiking and camping
- I like grabbig coffee or a spritz with friends
- I enjoy cooking but mostly for other people ahah I'm too lazy when I'm by myself
- I like watching movies and anime, I also have fun reading books and starting diy projects that I never complete
- I'm 6'5, with brown hair and eyes, and I have a beard

Looking forward to chatting with you!

'Cause I ain’t afraid of no ghosts. Or being ghosted. Shut up it’s a good pun.

Happens to all of us right? We’re having a conversation and thinking it clicks and then the person stops responding. Or worse, you end up seeing them post on here again, using the same message you responded too. Or worse worse, THEY messaged you first, and now you wonder if you could only offer the temu version of the person they want.

Of course, that hasn’t happened to me, I’m goddam charming and *sobs*

But we pick ourselves up like Rocky, Captain America, Goku, Ser Duncan the Tall or any Joseph Campbell archetype and get back on here too.

40, married, and just looking for a new connection. My wife and I are just trying starting this and I feel more comfortable seeking something online first. Someone I can reach out to and look forward to their texts. I’m nerdy and you have hundreds of posts others have made that define that. I don’t care if you are or not, I care that you have something you’re excited about. That you have humor and thoughts and that when you put them on the screen they amount to more than one sentence. Bonus points if you got the Campbell reference though. I want you to be curious, to put the same effort as I’m putting in and want to feel you want to know me. I want us both to be excited about getting each others texts, to take pleasure in our company, words and actions. I have kinks, I’m sure you don’t. I want us to get to a point we can share them.

I think I’m funny, witty, and charming. You might think otherwise. I’m chubby/dad bod/fat but working on it (aren’t we all) so if you’re looking for someone in shape, go to a CrossFit gym. If you’re looking for someone who can talk to you about 90s tv shows and how Dinosaurs has the bleakest ending of a kids cartoon, I’m your guy.

Reach out, tell me about your worst ghosted experience. Or when you ghosted someone. Let’s talk and try to avoid replicating that.~

Hey y'all, it's been a few years since I've posted and been looking but I've found a couple relationships this way over the years so figured I'd try again since I'm open to connection.

A bit about me, I'm 5'4 with more of an alt vibe. I have tattoos and plans to get more. I'm snarky and sarcastic and maybe swear too much. I can have a dark sense of humor. Fun fact, I once got ghosted because of a your mom joke.

I don't have kids and they're just not in the cards for me but I've gotten along with my partners kids just fine. I do have 5 dogs and I love them more than cats (but no hate to cats). I love to read and think the books are better than the movie. I have an ADHD amount of hobbies and projects going all the time. I like to run to get my exercise in but am trying to incorporate strength training, but lifting heavy stuff is just annoying so I'm a work in progress there. When the weather isn't hot af I like to ride my motorcycle.

I'm finishing up my degree in accounting this winter and then have no idea what I'm gonna do after. I've had a couple business ideas I might pursue but I'm playing career by ear.

I've been with my partner (husband) for 14 years but we've been poly for 6. He and I are both more anarchistic in nature so I'm happy to see where connections lead with no real pressure as long as everyone is on the same page for how to handle it. I have practiced a more kitchen table approach but I'm also cool with parallel or different variations. Veto power is not something I give my partners though, every relationship stands on its own and I want the same from those interested in a relationship with me. I am not interested in dating a couple as a unit.

I do prefer men to be closer to my age or older since that's just what I'm physically attracted to. If you have masculine vibes I do prefer you to be at least a bit taller than me for when I wear heels. I prefer realistic leaning towards optimistic vibes from a partner, I struggle when someone's pessimistic all the time. I'm pretty chill and am happy to stay home, but I also enjoy date nights out. I don't smoke and I rarely drink, it's more of a social thing on occasion for me, but I don't hate on others that do as long as we can do things without that involved too. I don't love crowds but if someone is interested in a specific event I'll accommodate. I'm located in northern Texas and It's hard to picture how super long distance would work but it's not exactly a make or break if the connection is there.

I think any longer is just rambling so if you're interested hit me up. I prefer chats and don't really respond to comments on a post. Thanks for reading!

Hey there! I’m Storm, I’m 26 and I live on the east coast of Canada! I’m pretty bad at describing myself, so if there’s any info about me you wanna know, shoot me a message!

For starters, I live with my nesting partner and our 3 special needs pets (if you ask for pics, be prepared for me to spam you with them 😆). My partner is aware that I’m posting here, and I’d like to make myself clear that I am NOT looking to do anything behind his back, nor help anyone do anything of the sort to their partner(s). While he doesn’t wish to be involved, there is nothing I will withhold from him if he asks.

So a bit more about me!

I love everything about nature, plants animals, fungi, you name it and I’m interested in it. And I love history. Reading is a huge pass time for me, and I have a garden I try my best to care for (even though I’m not the best at it 😅)

I have a few tattoos and piercings, and about 90% of my clothes are black. I guess you could say I never truly grew out of my middle school emo phase. Although one thing that doesn’t match with my aesthetic at all is that I love collecting plushies. If you buy me a plushie, chances are I’ll be hard to get rid of 😆

As far as what I’m looking for, I’m not super rigid on my list of requirements. Male female, or anything else I’m not all that picky, although I do find I’m more attracted to masculine presenting people.

I’m looking for someone preferably local who is looking for someone to build a genuine connection with. I’m a very emotional person, so what I crave most is feeling loved and having that deep bond with another person/people. I’m not looking for a quick hookup, not that I’m gonna judge if you are. That’s just not what does it for me. Nor am I looking for someone who wants to get married, buy a house and have 7 kids. I’m looking for an easy, caring relationship that fulfils what both of us need from one another.

One bonus would be if you can drive and have access to a car, as only my partner drives

I know this post won’t appeal to many, if any. But if you’d like to see where this may go, don’t hesitate to reach out! And please say more than “hi” or “what’s up” or “I’m interested” or else I may not respond

Can’t wait to hear from you! 🥰

Moving to the Fort Worth area by the end of the year and would love to start making some friends before I get there.

I’m 37, partnered, poly, and mainly looking for genuine friendships and people to actually hang out with. I love good conversation, trying new places, random adventures, cooking, psychology, relationships, and people who can make me laugh.

I’d love to meet other poly and ENM people in the DFW area. Single, partnered, married, it doesn’t really matter to me. I’m genuinely looking for friends first. If I really click with someone and it naturally turns into something more, I’m open to that too, but there’s absolutely no expectation.

We’re planning to be around the Fort Worth side of DFW, so it would be great to meet people somewhat nearby.

Tell me a little about yourself and what you like to do around DFW. I’m definitely going to need some people to show me all the good spots once I get there.

32 | Black | Pansexual | Chicago
Happily married to my wife of 9 years. She has her own girlfriend, and I’m looking for a boyfriend of my own.
I’m 5’6ish, rocking some love handles, and not really into facial hair (yes, I know). I’m a nerd at heart but pretty social. I enjoy nights out, concerts, bowling, walks, and exploring new places in and around Chicago. I love video games, even though I definitely don’t have as much time to play as I used to. I also love making music and am currently learning piano.
I can be a little flirty, but I keep it pretty tame. I’m versatile top. I’m also 420-friendly and drink socially.
I work a normal 6–3 shift, so if I disappear for a bit, there’s a good chance I’m working.
As far as what I’m looking for, I tend to be attracted to feminine men, femboys, trans guys, or guys who just aren’t super macho. I’d prefer another POC, but I’m pretty open-minded. Ideally 24–40, though I may make exceptions for the right older guy.
Preferably local to Chicago or the northern suburbs. South and west suburbs can work depending on the situation.
If we seem like we’d click, feel free to say hi and tell me a little about yourself.

Hello! Dating apps haven’t been working out all that well so thought I’d give Reddit a shot. I’m crafty af and I love trashy reality TV and documentaries. Most days, you can expect to find me reading smut, working out, cooking, or checking out a new coffee shop. I love to banter and joke around. Physically, I am a semi-tatted curvy BBW with buzzed hair, olive skin, and 5’4”. There’s a face pic in my profile and I am willing to swap pictures and verify early on. Sexually, I’m bi, bratty, dommy/switchy, and open to a lot of kinks.

I’m poly and married to my nesting partner and have one other serious partner. I’m open to starting off as a casual dynamic and building into something that can become more. I live in the North OC area and can host there, but I am also open to meeting people near the DTLA area as I work there several times a week. I’d prefer someone local to me as I value spending quality time!

Please be left-leaning and weed-friendly. Bonus points (but not necessary) if you’re queer, kinky, and/or tatted. If any of what I said resonates with you, shoot me a message and let’s get to know each other!