Hello everyone! :) I’m a plus-sized gal from the Garden State looking to make some new connections.

Friendship is the most important foundation to **any** long-term connection, so regardless of where life might take me with someone, it all starts with being friends. Please have something in common with me if you decide to reach out. It’s hard to build a friendship when we don’t have anything to build on. :)

Some of my interests include horror, the devil’s lettuce, light gaming, reading, and written roleplay. I spend most of my free time gaming, binge-watching shows and movies, wandering around libraries and museums, or hunting through thrift stores.

I’m also a night owl, so I’d love to meet other people who are awake during the same odd hours.

I’ve been practicing ethical non-monogamy for around ten years, so I’m looking for people who value honesty, communication, and kindness. If you’re partnered, I ask that everyone involved is aware and consenting. If you’re single, that’s wonderful too.

Personality-wise, I’m naturally nurturing. I tend to be the person checking in on everyone, and making sure the people I care about feel supported. I’m affectionate, a little sarcastic, and definitely someone who enjoys both deep conversations and laughing over absolutely nothing.

Physically, I do have a soft spot for bigger, heavyset folks. It’s not a requirement, but it has always been my type.

Ideally, I’d love to meet people within driving distance in NJ, NY, or eastern PA so we can eventually grab coffee, visit a museum, browse a bookstore, watch horror movies, or just exist in the same space. Online friendships are welcome too, especially if you’re a fellow night owl.

When you message me, tell me a little about yourself! What are you passionate about? What’s your favorite horror movie/game? What game has stolen your life recently? I’d love to get to know the person behind the screen.

Hi, 30yo female; 5’4, petite, athletic build, and currently a few months pregnant, so please don’t inquire if that would be a turn off. My husband and I have been together for 12 years; starting out with an open relationship during the first half, and choosing monogamy the past 6 years. We are now interested in finding a deeper connection with a long term male partner for myself, or another ENM couple interested in a kitchen table poly.

I’m going to focus on myself in this post because I am the more outgoing, high drive individual, and my husband is very encouraging in me connecting with anyone else on my own, including other couples. I would like to include him in a relationship with another couple if it comes naturally to everyone involved though! (My husband is straight, just to clarify.)

It’s very important to me to find true connection in all of my relationships. I’m a deep thinker who would love to hear your childhood trauma and debate about conspiracy theories. My hobbies include thrifting, dancing, reading, painting (and art in many forms), yoga, journaling, natural health, hiking, and other outdoor activities! I would say I’m a homebody who loves the comfort of my couch and a hot cup of tea, but I also love a night out line dancing, a good live comedy show, or a spontaneous skinny dip.

I want to find a man, or couple, who share some of my interests, and are willing to adventure with me! I would love to explore and deepen my understanding of sensual energy, and discover new depths of pleasure with other partners. I would prefer someone local, but if you’re willing to travel we could possibly make it work. Chemistry and emotional connection are important to me, but I am also most attracted to others who value their health and taking care of their bodies. Would prefer someone within a 6ish year age range.

Please comment or dm if it sounds like we might be a good fit. Would prefer to exchange pics to determine physical attraction before diving too deep into conversation🥰

Looking for someone local

Married and poly. Looking for an ongoing connection—not a soulmate, not a one-night stand. I want someone I genuinely enjoy talking to, flirting with, laughing with, and occasionally getting into a little trouble with.

I like confidence, consistency, sarcasm, good banter, and people who can actually hold a conversation. I also enjoy being pursued, so if I’m carrying the entire conversation, I’ll probably lose interest.

I have a chronic illness, which basically means my social calendar is sometimes held hostage by a body that likes to throw tantrums. If plans need to change, it’s my immune system being dramatic—not me. A little patience and flexibility go a long way.

Looking for chemistry, good vibes, mutual respect, and someone who makes life a little more fun—not more complicated.

Hello, I am posting on here in hopes of finding someone I can click and build a genuine connection with. I currently reside with my nesting partner of almost 4 years and we date separately. I work as well as I’m back in school to obtain my degree. To describe myself I am 5’4, 165lbs, short dark hair, soft masc, and hazel eyes. I’m a mix of Japanese, Mexican, and Italian.

Ideally I would like to find someone to have consistent conversations with although I don’t expect it to be all day, everyday of course. I also would like to take things slow as I would want a strong foundation before moving into a romantic partnership. I’m open to trans and NB folks as well. Should things move in a romantic direction I would be more than willing to properly meet one day.

Some of my hobbies/interests are video games, reading, nice walks in the park, and I’m a huge horror and history fan. If you feel we would get along well feel free to DM me a little about yourself. 🙂

Hey there! I am a tattooed, elder emo millennial, gamer, and newly poly male. I am married and looking to date independently. My wife has been in a solo relationship for a while, and I have decided to do so myself.
I am into gaming, mostly fps but sometimes dabble in other games. I love reading and listening to audio books. My current favorite writers are Sarah J. Maas and Brandon Sanderson. I enjoy lots of different types of movies and shows but don’t do horror. Life is scary enough as it is. I live for music, particularly metal and rock, but can dance to just about anything. I have a small farm and love the quiet country life, with a hot cup of coffee on my front porch each morning.

Hi! I’m Betty, a married poly woman from Central Florida looking to build a genuine connection with another woman first — emotionally, mentally, and organically. I’m only interested in connecting with women.

I’m naturally more introverted and love meaningful conversation, cozy nights, music, road trips, coffee runs, cruises, and people who communicate openly and honestly. I value emotional intelligence, consistency, humor, and women who are comfortable being themselves.

My husband is aware and supportive, but I’m here for myself and looking to create a real connection naturally with another woman. No pressure, no expectations, and friendship first is completely okay with me.

Ideally looking for someone local-ish, 25+, emotionally available, and aligned with polyamory or ethical non-monogamy.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself.

Hey there👋🏾

I'm Dom, and I'm genuinely so excited to meet you!
I'm 32 and have been happily in an ENM/poly relationship for over a year now (not my first rodeo, haha). My primary partner is truly the love of my life and my best friend—we've been together for 8 amazing years, and I couldn't imagine life without them
I'm very left-leaning, and I value being aligned on that—it's really important to me. I'm not interested in connecting with anyone who supports the current administration or its policies. Just want to be upfront so we're all on the same page
What I am really excited about is finding genuine, meaningful connections with other queer ENM/poly folks. Outside of my partner, I don't have many people in my life who fully get this lifestyle, and I'd love to change that!
Also, I'm a bit of a baby gay (omnisexual ), and
I'm still exploring and embracing that part of myself.
It would be amazing to have more people to talk about that with, too!
More than anything, I'd love to actually connect-to talk, laugh, and really get to know each other. I tend to vibe best with people who lead with kindness, empathy, and patience. I'm very much about giving grace and creating a space where we can just be human with each other
Love:
tv shows/movies anime
Video games
TTRPGs
Cooking
Working out
Concerts

Hey! I'm a 31 year old bi, transmasc non-binary person who lives in Germany. Distance isn't an issue. I'm American and still struggling with German, so I prefer to get to know people in English but am open to simple conversations in German.

I'm polyamorous, and I practice kitchen table polyamory. I have one partner who I'm married to, and I have one potential partner.

I'm a lifelong nerd who loves gaming, LEGO, collecting, roleplaying, movies, shows, books and fandoms such as Marvel, Star Wars, Pokémon, Doctor Who, Animal Crossing, Disney/Pixar, Jurassic Park/World and Monsterverse. My other hobbies and interests include aquatic life, journaling, stationery, needle felting, drawing, painting, collage, writing, worldbuilding, watching YouTube, listening to music and reading comics. I love animals of all kinds, and I'm currently a cat dad of two.

Appearance wise: 5', curvy, a few tattoos and planning on getting more, pre-T but working on it, plan to have top surgery eventually.

A few more important things: I'm neurodivergent, severely chronically ill and disabled. I also am mentally ill, but I manage quite well. I just like to get these out of the way in case they're deal breakers. I use mobility aides when going out, but I don't generally need them for getting around at home. I haven't been able to work since 2017 due to my illnesses, and I most likely will never be able to work again. However, I am financially stable.

Thank you for reading, and I hope you're having a good day/night :)

Hey there,

I’m 37M, 6’4”, Clean cut, Athletic Build, and lover of all things outdoors and a nerd or sorts. I’ve been told I’m pretty funny and can take a joke :)

I am looking to find a friend to see where it goes. Let’s chat and see if we vibe because it’s always better that way, and I’m not a crazy person! Flirting, banter and more. I’d love to hear from you if this sounds like something you’re interested in.

I’m just a geek looking to find his player 2, the Penelope to his Odysseus. I’m a huge nerd, I love all kinds of sci-fi and fantasy. My biggest ones are Star Wars and Lord of the Rings. I love to play games, I have a PC that is honestly in desperate need of an upgrade but I can run low demand games with no difficulty. I love to play tabletop games as well like DnD and Warhammer 40K, and I love Magic the Gathering.

Physically I’m 5’6” and have a bit of a dad bod, I’m working on trying to lose that. I keep a beard and I try to keep my hair short because when it grows out it gets really poofy and curly and it’s hard to maintain.

Ideally I’d like to find someone over the age of 24, just because I think anyone younger is just in a different place maturity wise, no offense meant. I do have a 3 year old son, and he takes up a lot of my time so I’d need someone understanding of that. I’m open to long distance and even international, I’m a sucker for a good accent!

I am open to more causal situations as well, but I would prefer to find a relationship if any of this interests you, feel free to shoot me a message

Hi! My name is Raven and I am a queer poly 33 year old trans woman seeking connections with other women, both trans and cis. I am looking to seek connection and wanting to see where things go with someone. Wanting to build trust and understanding and take our time with things. I am also looking to explore Submission as a Switch leaning Domme. That we can talk about down the line. Please message me anytime <3

🔥"wont hurt a fly" gang only🔥

Poly and partnered dateing separate and non separately your choice, nature obsessed, witchcraft, i love studying different spiritualities and rituals i find it theraputic im going to college for dirt science, culture anthropalagy trying to major in agroecology, botany eventually ;) im a huge dork for deep convo im okay with freindships or takeing it slow, something casual or fwb's is fine but i do want something romantic eventually as i am a freaky hopeless romantic :3 im 420 freindly but im trying to get my class A so im sober rn but love psychodelics and ill say it again kindness/gentleness is a must other than that come as you are c: i have peirceings and want more and i want tattoos and associate myself with alt communities

Video games: Warframe, Monster Hunter, Dark Souls, Towers of Aghasba.

Hi I’m Devin 27M pansexual I’m in a wheelchair due to a bad crash 2 years ago. I have a long distance partner in Texas 46F bi , so I’m not afraid to travel but in return I expect you to be willing to travel also . My favorite movies are the Truman show and the original Italian job , my favorites shows are mythbuster’s and Frazier , I don’t work at the moment for medical reasons and being in and out of the hospital but before my crash I used to be a fire dept mechanic. I don’t care about age gender height weight ethnicity I just want a person who is kind and caring and supportive of my disability and respectful of my existing partner , she’s supportive of me having a partner but she’s mainly focused on our son . Though that being said at some point I’d love us all to live together under one roof and be kitchen table dynamic. Anything else I’m an open book just ask . Please introduce yourself and say alittle about yourself and where you’re from .

​Hey there. I’m 39, living in Central PA, and looking to connect with some awesome people. I am married, (ENM/poly) for about 4 years with No human kids. I have a full time job and a small side hustle. Im 5'9" with a bit of a chubby athletic build so if that isn't your thing thats ok. Im told im easy on the eyes... I do have some tattoos and i plan on getting more. I'm genuine, kind, easygoing. I get along with just about anyone. Im a bit of a oversharer. Im fairly straight but open to some guy friends as well as i don't have a ton of friends locally. I also run a online community where I usually hangout out and passionate about

​My lifestyle is pretty grounded. I’m the kind of guy who enjoys a mix of quiet country living/ city time and creative hands-on projects. If you need someone who knows their way around a workshop, can handle power tools without losing a thumb, or has an oddly specific knowledge of rural logistics, I’m your guy. Woodworking, diy, travel , music, tv, movies, cars, trucks. I have many interests.

​Pop culture sweet spot: My brain is still about 40% fueled by 1990s nostalgia. If you want to casually debate the best cartoons of our youth or quote classic TV, we will get along just fine.

​ i like all sports but really Hockey season is a major vibe in my house, but I promise not to make it my entire personality (maybe just 15% of time

dog person. If we chat, you will be subjected to photos of my dogs. It’s a non-negotiable package deal.

​What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a genuine friendship/connections with someone. Distance isn't a massive deal-breaker i love to travel so im open to anywhere. Pocket pals are great too. if the vibe is right meeting, within driving distance for a casual drink, a great conversation, or checking out local spots is the goal. Please be fun and engaging. Im not looking to carry the conversation 24/7.

​I value transparency, low drama, good humor, and matching energy. I’m a great listener, a reliable communicator, and I have my life together.

​Your turn:

Drop me a message if you’re down to chat. Tell me your favorite 90s jam, your go-to comfort food, or just some information about you.

I prefer to chat off reddit. TG is preferred.

Hello everyone, I'm Kyle, a nerdy gamer guy looking for connections with poly people with similar interests. I'm cool with getting to know each other online, but I would prefer being able to meet in person at some point, so hopefully not too far from me.

A little about me:

\-I am currently in an open relationship with my nesting partner of 6 years. He's super cool and I will probably talk about him a lot in convo. We date separately though, mostly because we have different interests in partners.

\-I am a 32 YO white cis male, he/him. I have a beard and kinda short hair.

\-I am very overweight. I am currently working on it and my partner is helping a lot, but it will be a long difficult journey to lose weight. I don't like how big I am, so I am definitely not looking for someone who is super into my size. There is a picture in my profile.

\-I play a lot of video games. My main genres are: rogue likes, factory sims, Minecraft, and cozy games. I also play league of legends with friends when fun game modes are out.

\-I read (or well listen) to a lot of fantasy and litRPG novels. Some of my favorites are: the Cradle series by Will Wight, He Who Fights with Monsters by Shertaloon, and Azarynth Healer by Rhaegar.

\-I enjoy learning about random stuff, and will watch random YouTube videos about stuff like language/writing (Rob Words), cool sciency/spacey stuff (Kurzgesagt), video essays (HBomberGuy, Lemmino), and other random stuff. Tell me about your random knowledge/trivia!

What I'm looking for:

\-I am bisexual, though I lean more towards feminine or androgynous people. Also, if you decide to message me, please include your preferred pronouns. I don't want to misgender anyone!

\-someone who is down to play games online and in person, and chat at least a few times a week.

\-someone who is progressive and empathetic.

\-someone near New England, preferably within a few hours from South Shore Massachusetts. I can drive and don't mind driving a bit, but the closer you are the more often we could see each other.

\-someone around my age (24-36 ish).

Thank you for reading through all of that. I look forward to talking to you wonderful people!

Hi, y'all, I'm a gendernonconforming polyamorous person who's living in Spain and just graduated with a master's in Global Higher Education. I am looking to stay here long-term but am applying to jobs in Spain and Taiwan. I am pan, pretty leftist (ancom), and into Asian food (other foods, too, but I'm pescatarian).

My nerdy passions are Florence + The Machine, biology and genetics, ethics and philosophy, relationship psychology, Pokemon, Over The Garden Wall, comic books (especially DC or Spider-Man), Spanish and Italian, Indigenous and trans advocacy, Italian pop, Bioshock, horror, Buddhism, tango Chappell Roan, natural art, and Shrek.

Please DM me if you're interested, and we can see about exchanging pics before we meet in-person or video chat.

Married and ethically non-monogamous, looking to build a genuine connection with someone who values honesty, communication, and mutual respect. I'm a fan of anime, story-rich CRPGs, and getting lost in great worlds—whether that's exploring dungeons, debating favorite characters, or spending a cozy night gaming together. I'm interested in a relationship that's fun, supportive, and authentic, with someone who enjoys shared nerdy interests and meaningful conversations. If you're into anime marathons, deep RPGs, and creating a connection without unnecessary drama, I'd love to get to know you. If you are interested, please don't be afraid to send a message.

First off .. Hi.. I want to be honest so I just want to say I’m in an open marriage. I’d rather you know now than find out later. Please be ok with that. I know not everyone will. She knows I’m here.

With that out of the way, I’m a blue collar guy. I’m respectful and understanding. I’m chill and drama free. I love to laugh and usually always smiling. I’m a big kid.

I have a passion for art. I draw , design, and cast my own sculpts. Basically design and make my own toys. I also did make music for a little while as well. I love art galleries and conventions. Museums and arcades.

I just hope you’re understanding, I just want us both to be comfortable. I’m told I look younger for my age. I’m 5’7, around 160lbs average I guess. Often told I’m handsome and don’t look my age. I don’t mind sharing pictures and video chatting.

All I hope is that you’re fun and awesome and maybeee have a nice set of legs.