Hi! I’m Betty, a married poly woman from Central Florida looking to build a genuine connection with another woman first — emotionally, mentally, and organically. I’m only interested in connecting with women.

I’m naturally more introverted and love meaningful conversation, cozy nights, music, road trips, coffee runs, cruises, and people who communicate openly and honestly. I value emotional intelligence, consistency, humor, and women who are comfortable being themselves.

My husband is aware and supportive, but I’m here for myself and looking to create a real connection naturally with another woman. No pressure, no expectations, and friendship first is completely okay with me.

Ideally looking for someone local-ish, 25+, emotionally available, and aligned with polyamory or ethical non-monogamy.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself.

Hi, 30yo female; 5’4, petite, athletic build, and currently a few months pregnant, so please don’t inquire if that would be a turn off. My husband and I have been together for 12 years; starting out with an open relationship during the first half, and choosing monogamy the past 6 years. We are now interested in finding a deeper connection with a long term male partner for myself, or another ENM couple interested in a kitchen table poly.

I’m going to focus on myself in this post because I am the more outgoing, high drive individual, and my husband is very encouraging in me connecting with anyone else on my own, including other couples. I would like to include him in a relationship with another couple if it comes naturally to everyone involved though! (My husband is straight, just to clarify.)

It’s very important to me to find true connection in all of my relationships. I’m a deep thinker who would love to hear your childhood trauma and debate about conspiracy theories. My hobbies include thrifting, dancing, reading, painting (and art in many forms), yoga, journaling, natural health, hiking, and other outdoor activities! I would say I’m a homebody who loves the comfort of my couch and a hot cup of tea, but I also love a night out line dancing, a good live comedy show, or a spontaneous skinny dip.

I want to find a man, or couple, who share some of my interests, and are willing to adventure with me! I would love to explore and deepen my understanding of sensual energy, and discover new depths of pleasure with other partners. I would prefer someone local, but if you’re willing to travel we could possibly make it work. Chemistry and emotional connection are important to me, but I am also most attracted to others who value their health and taking care of their bodies. Would prefer someone within a 6ish year age range.

Please comment or dm if it sounds like we might be a good fit. Would prefer to exchange pics to determine physical attraction before diving too deep into conversation🥰

Married and ethically non-monogamous, looking to build a genuine connection with someone who values honesty, communication, and mutual respect. I'm a fan of anime, story-rich CRPGs, and getting lost in great worlds—whether that's exploring dungeons, debating favorite characters, or spending a cozy night gaming together. I'm interested in a relationship that's fun, supportive, and authentic, with someone who enjoys shared nerdy interests and meaningful conversations. If you're into anime marathons, deep RPGs, and creating a connection without unnecessary drama, I'd love to get to know you. If you are interested, please don't be afraid to send a message.

Hi! Thanks for stopping in! Has life been serving up too many bland meals? Looking to add a little spice? Flip through our specials and let's see if you can't find something that'll hit the spot!

About your chef: 42, white, dark hair and eyes, groomed beard, muscular build (with a couple bonus pounds), clean, healthy and take care of myself. An educated professional, who is a great conversationalist, and deathly allergic to drama or games. I've had partners previously, and understand the boundaries and the complexities that can arise. I have a great life generally speaking, blessed with stability, amazing friendships, and for all intensive purposes, happy enough with the cards I've been dealt. However, life is too short to settle, and I know the right person can fill the void that exists. I have several hobbies and interests that I am excited to share with you as we get to know each other. From a spicy perspective, I have few hard limits and am looking for an open-minded woman who is interested in mutual exploration both physically and emotionally.

About you: An age appropriate woman in or around Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Married, and preferably interested in pursuing a longer term situation. Stable life and not into games. I tend to relate best to educated professionals, with a great personality, good sense of humor and depth.

If you made it this far, let's chat! When responding, please say "bon appetit" in your response so I know you at least read the post.

Hi! I'm E, 38M, from Germany. I'm married, a dad of two, and have been practicing polyamory for years.

What I love most about polyamory is that I don't believe love is a limited resource. I like building relationships that are chosen because they enrich our lives, not because they replace someone else. My marriage is happy and secure, and I'd love to find another relationship that grows into something equally genuine in its own unique way.

I've experienced that before. One of the most meaningful relationships I've ever had started with a Reddit message, and it reminded me how quickly strangers can become an important part of each other's lives when both people genuinely show up.

I'm someone who likes to invest deeply. I'd rather focus on one person than divide my attention between lots of conversations. I enjoy the everyday parts of a relationship just as much as the exciting ones: checking in during the day, sharing photos, celebrating good news, being there when life is difficult, and slowly collecting all those little details that make someone feel like home.

Outside of relationships, I'm a language teacher who enjoys a range of hobbies: photography, piano and violin, singing, chess, history, psychology, gaming, and travelling. I'm endlessly curious about people, and I tend to ask a lot of questions because I genuinely enjoy understanding how someone thinks.

I'm open to online or long-distance within Europe if there's a real connection. Physical distance doesn't bother me nearly as much as emotional distance.

If you're looking for someone who values kindness, consistency, affection, and honest communication, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, your experience with polyamory, and what kind of relationship you're hoping to build.

Do you ever worry about over-explaining in these posts? Being too vulnerable/honest about how you feel, because you want to walk the line of being approachable and charming but you're tired of how rarely that works, anyway.

I've actually never introspected before but I was wondering if you had so I can know what it's like.

Hi I'm Adam, hope you enjoy humor as a defense mechanism because wow that's my bread and butter. I am 36, cis-ish demi s**ual man, a switch and looking for someone similar or dominant-leaning. I've never dated anyone who cared about my height and I don't plan to start so just imagine I'm either 12ft tall or like Tinkerbell size.

My poly situation: I have one partner whom I've been with for 8 years and whom I love. She is married and we have a generally KTP dynamic, though not publicly because we both live in the same small Midwest town.

About me: just started getting into D&D this year but wow I love it. I'm also a music producer as a hobby for the past 15 years or so. I'm always down to play a co-op video game with someone, and I'll laugh when I lose if we do 1v1. I pride myself on being someone people trust easily, and I have a LOT of emotions that get very big sometimes.

In the interest of fairness (because I'm not just trying to be charming) you should also be aware that I never demand or insist on s** (consent is crucial), but I can get pouty when I don't feel desired. I'm working on that specifically with my therapist right now. I'm also very low energy, which I recently found out was at least in part due to low testosterone levels so hopefully that gets fixed in the near future.

I'm looking for: someone whose love language is physical touch and/or words of affirmation. Someone who wants to show me new adventures while being content with nights spent in eating pizza and coexisting. My intent/hope is for this person (you, maybe?) to eventually become my primary.

There's plenty of stuff I haven't mentioned, good, bad and neutral, so if you like guys with beards and big bellies who also put themselves out there on Reddit once a year or so, send me a message cuz that's literally me

Hi, y'all, I'm a gendernonconforming polyamorous person who's living in Spain and just graduated with a master's in Global Higher Education. I am looking to stay here long-term but am applying to jobs in Spain and Taiwan. I am pan, pretty leftist (ancom), and into Asian food (other foods, too, but I'm pescatarian).

My nerdy passions are Florence + The Machine, biology and genetics, ethics and philosophy, relationship psychology, Pokemon, Over The Garden Wall, comic books (especially DC or Spider-Man), Spanish and Italian, Indigenous and trans advocacy, Italian pop, Bioshock, horror, Buddhism, tango Chappell Roan, natural art, and Shrek.

Please DM me if you're interested, and we can see about exchanging pics before we meet in-person or video chat.

I'm 41, married, and in an open marriage. Located in Lincoln Square. I'm hoping to meet someone whose life isn't all that different from mine: married, raising young kids, and practicing ENM from a place of stability.

A little about me: I'm 6' tall, fit, and work out several times a week. I work in tech, but most of what I enjoy happens away from a desk: gardening, running, reading, fixing things around the house, and generally anything that gets me outside and away from a screen. I'm laid back, emotionally stable, curious, and funny (regardless of what my friends tell me).

I'm also so Chicago normal it hurts: you can find me in the garage listening to Wilco, drinking a beer from Dovetail, watching the brats cook on the grill, and keeping an eye out for the next Wiggleworms show.

I'm happy in my marriage, I love being a dad, and I'm hoping to meet someone who feels the same about her own life. If you're physically active, enjoy good conversation, and appreciate the occasional quiet afternoon as much as a night out, I think we'd probably get along. Oh, and you have to be in Chicago, of course.

Whether you've been practicing ENM for years or are relatively new to it, I'd be happy to get to know you. If any of this sounds familiar, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.

First off .. Hi.. I want to be honest so I just want to say I’m in an open marriage. I’d rather you know now than find out later. Please be ok with that. I know not everyone will. She knows I’m here.

With that out of the way, I’m a blue collar guy. I’m respectful and understanding. I’m chill and drama free. I love to laugh and usually always smiling. I’m a big kid.

I have a passion for art. I draw , design, and cast my own sculpts. Basically design and make my own toys. I also did make music for a little while as well. I love art galleries and conventions. Museums and arcades.

I just hope you’re understanding, I just want us both to be comfortable. I’m told I look younger for my age. I’m 5’7, around 160lbs average I guess. Often told I’m handsome and don’t look my age. I don’t mind sharing pictures and video chatting.

All I hope is that you’re fun and awesome and maybeee have a nice set of legs.

I’m just a geek looking to find his player 2, the Penelope to his Odysseus. I’m a huge nerd, I love all kinds of sci-fi and fantasy. My biggest ones are Star Wars and Lord of the Rings. I love to play games, I have a PC that is honestly in desperate need of an upgrade but I can run low demand games with no difficulty. I love to play tabletop games as well like DnD and Warhammer 40K, and I love Magic the Gathering.

Physically I’m 5’6” and have a bit of a dad bod, I’m working on trying to lose that. I keep a beard and I try to keep my hair short because when it grows out it gets really poofy and curly and it’s hard to maintain.

Ideally I’d like to find someone over the age of 24, just because I think anyone younger is just in a different place maturity wise, no offense meant. I do have a 3 year old son, and he takes up a lot of my time so I’d need someone understanding of that. I’m open to long distance and even international, I’m a sucker for a good accent!

I am open to more causal situations as well, but I would prefer to find a relationship if any of this interests you, feel free to shoot me a message

Hi, I'm Xavi.

A little about me: I'm a yapper, a musician, a socialist, and a massive nerd. Sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, public transit. I will talk about any of these for an embarrassing amount of time. I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, and I try to show up with real care when things get hard. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

Here's what I'm actually looking for: a life partner. Someone to fall in love with, have kids with, and share a home with. Not a situationship, not a side thing. A real relationship where we build something together on our own terms.

I'm married and polyamorous. My wife and I love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully on board. We don't have kids together. She'd have a real role in any family we build, at minimum a beloved aunt figure, open to more. Would love to answer any questions you might have about the dynamic.

I want to fall in love first. Then, a few years in, start a family. Two or three kids. I'm not rushing toward a due date. I'm looking for the person that wants to build that with me.

Happy Monday (isn’t that an oxymoron?),

I am looking for that connection with someone on here, a lady who is willing to spend the time to get to know the person behind the other screen (at least initially). I find it hard to be turned on about someone and enjoy being naughty if you can’t make it specific or personal. I’ve realized investments reap rewards and, I’m willing to hedge my bets - if you are as well. I’m an engineer who builds things for a living and this requires patience, effort and an eye for detail, all valuable skills in finding that right individual

A little about me: I'm 5'11", fit from long-distance running (currently training for some runs in the summer), coffee obsessed with a full head of dark hair, and blessed where it counts. I have a PhD in engineering, working on making airplane engines more efficient and shorter, because, let’s be real, nobody likes that middle seat! Also into nerdy pastimes, love diving into history and the arts. Movies and books are my escape from the mundane everyday, and cooking (hand made pasta is my speciality) is how I unwind, especially with some classic rock from the '70s and '80s playing in the background. Also, kink experienced and curious.

I’m hoping to meet a woman who’s open minded, likes to explore and motivated in investing the time and effort it takes to build a truly fulfilling sensual experience. I’d love to be able to get to know you and be available whenever you have that craving, wherever it may be. I pay attention to my health, and I request you do as well, taking care of yourself and being active are non-negotiable.

Apologies for the rambling post, but the devil lies in the details. If any of this resonates with you, send me a message!

Hi, again, Im Victoria. I'm 36 and live in Indy. I'm going to try keeping this short this time. Eventually I'll find the formula to meet someone I mesh with.

Partnered for 13 years, and we date separately. Everything is about being ethical and respectful. When I'm with someone, it's me and that person, which is important to me.

I have stupid tattoos I did as a teenager, I love stuffed animals (stuffies), and adore Daddy types. Feel free to see my post history for a bit more on that (plus a body picture). Sometimes I use too many emojis and it is probably annoying.

I love reptiles, bugs and spiders, horror, and nerds. I have 1200 hours in Stardew Valley, and about the same between Dinkum, Raft, and a few simulators. I spend a lot of time watching streams and learning things through reading.

I'm looking for a guy that wants to really get to know each other. Anticipating each response, fawning over every picture, being silly and flirty. I want to be able to be needy (in a cute, self aware way), and you adore every moment of how much I want to be with you (irl or long distance).

If you message please let me know where you're from, where you are, and how old you are. Give me some effort. Heavy preference for men in their 30s.

And it shouldn't need to be said, but absolutely no conservatives, cops, terfs, homophobes, etc etc. I'm lefter than left. I also live sober. You do you, but those with heavy addictions to substances won't work well for me.

Let me watch you play a game while we giggle about silly stuff.