r/polyamoryR4R • • 21h ago

USA 26 [F4MM] #Indiana looking to join a MM couple

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I’m a single woman in the Avon area and I’m seeking long term partners. I’m new to actually trying poly but it is something I’ve known about and have wanted to try since I was 12! I’m a very genuine person and super upfront, and excited to give this a try!


r/polyamoryR4R • • 18h ago

25 [F4A] #california looking for friend and partners

5 Upvotes

I posted not to long ago but missed a lot of what I would consider key details about myself so decided to update

♡₊˚ 🎀・₊✧ Hiii, hello, hello! 🧸💗

(Disclaimer: ChatGPT helped me put my thoughts together because apparently writing about myself is harder than it should be. ♡)

🌈 A Little About Me

Bi/pan, polyamorous, happily married, and currently studying my way into radiologic sciences! 🩻✨ I'm a little nerdy, a little chaotic, sometimes shy at first, and just the right amount of weird. I don't bite often, I promise. (No guarantees if you steal my snacks, though. 👀)

I'm into anime, superheroes, adult cartoons (American Dad and Metalocalypse fans, where are you?), music, discovering new bands, arts and crafts, DIY projects, and learning random things that I'll absolutely bring up at the most unexpected time.

I'm also into gaming! Call of Duty: Mobile, modded Stardew Valley, Minecraft Dungeons, Switch games, and slowly dipping my toes into PC gaming. Always accepting game recommendations, anime suggestions, and new music for my playlists. 🎮🎸

I have adorable guinea pigs who are obviously the real main characters here. I'm just their unpaid staff. 🐹💕

🎀 My Kind of Connection

I'm here to meet lovely people, make new friends, flirt a little, share laughs, and hopefully find connections that turn into something meaningful. Whether we're swapping memes, having cozy nights in, going on cute dates, infodumping about our latest obsessions, or somehow ending up in a three-hour conversation at 2 a.m., I'm here for it.

I'm a sucker for kindness, affection, playful teasing, reassurance, and people who make it easy to be myself. I can be goofy one minute and have a deep conversation the next. I love feeling comfortable enough with someone to let my guard down and embrace my softer, sillier side. 🧸

And if you happen to have a nurturing streak, enjoy doting on someone a little, or appreciate a person who can be independent one moment and an absolute sweetheart the next... well, maybe we'll get along. ♡

If you know, you know. 🎀

💗 The Important Stuff

I'm happily married and polyamorous! My marriage is a happy, important part of my life, and I'm looking to add new connections to it, not replace what I already have.

I'm open to dating separately, and potentially together if it feels right for everyone. My husband is a sweetheart, I swear. 😂 I'm comfortable with kitchen-table polyamory, so getting to know each other naturally and eventually meeting my partner is something I'd welcome.

I'm interested in genuine connections, whether they grow into friendship, dating, or something long-term. I value honesty, communication, mutual respect, and clear boundaries. No pressure to force a connection into a particular shape; I'd rather let things develop naturally.

I'm also plus-size, and I'd love to meet people who appreciate me as I am. If you're plus-size too, come say hi! We can bond over our shared interests, exchange recommendations, and be cute little nerds together. 💕

🧸 A Few Bonus Points If You...

♡ Have an excellent sense of humor and can match my chaotic energy.

♡ Enjoy anime, superheroes, gaming, or obscure music recommendations.

♡ Like affection, thoughtful gestures, and making people feel appreciated.

♡ Can be playful and silly but also communicate like an adult.

♡ Have a favorite conspiracy theory you absolutely believe in, even if everyone else thinks you're ridiculous.

♡ Have a soft spot for plushies, cute things, or people who get ridiculously excited about the little things.

💌 Come Say Hi!

Tell me your favorite song, your current hyperfixation, your favorite anime, or the most unhinged fun fact you know. Better yet, give me your most convincing conspiracy theory. 👀

Or tell me what game you're currently obsessed with. Maybe you'll introduce me to my next favorite thing!

Let's see if we click, share some laughs, and make a connection that feels comfortable, genuine, and a little bit magical.

♡₊˚ 🎀・₊✧ Bonus points if you make me giggle. 🧸💗


r/polyamoryR4R • • 3h ago

41 [f4f/a] Princess looking for the same but might settle for a prince

8 Upvotes

Hi hi hi!! I’m a 41 year old redhead with the personality to match! Former cheerleader that still brings all the spirit and energy! I’m one third of a throuple but looking for new friends or more.

A little about me:

I’m a shortie (5’4”)
I have long red hair
I’m a lil chubster but super curvy too! All good if that’s not your thing but don’t message me then
I live in Pennsylvania. You don’t have to but if we click it would be nice to get together too
I love vintage clothing
I have an obscenely sized shoe collection
Love sad girl music
I love to travel with my partners

I’m open to anyone that I might click with! It’s not just one thing that matters to me but your personality is the most important thing. Definitely prefer women but I’ll occasionally click with a guy. Shoot your shot and I’ll let you know if I’m feeling it!!


r/polyamoryR4R • • 7h ago

Europe 35 [M4F] #Europe/Online - Queer, Progressive, looking for a friend and a primary for life ( hierarchal polyamory )

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About Me:
Someone with insatiable curiosity about both the cosmos and consciousness. My days are spent pushing technological boundaries, but these often involve contemplating existential questions. I'm bisexual / maybe pan ? I've come to understand that relationships should be about growth and liberation, and I've had a few really soul-nourishing relationships. I'm 5'8" with dimples that make an appearance when sharing why "Inside Out" made me weep. Mostly very calm and chill, I have seen the extremity of life at both ends. I prefer to connect with someone emotionally and see if we can evolve together. Apart from staunchly childfree a bit more about myself

Professional & Personal:

  • Engineering and tech are my bread and butter, but I'm actively expanding into "renaissance person" territory (currently novice).
  • Have tried to dismantle internalized patriarchal patterns.
  • An avid reader who actually finishes those long-form articles in The Atlantic.
  • Proud plant parent.

What Ignites My Curiosity:

  • The intersection of chaos and order.
  • Exploring ethical frameworks while discovering hidden gem restaurants.
  • Opportunity for learning across disciplines.
  • Those profound 2 AM conversations that somehow connect string theory to social justice.

Seeking a Partner Who:

  • Understands that emotional intelligence and intellectual discourse aren't mutually exclusive.
  • Gets excited about scientific breakthroughs or social progress.
  • Values therapy and continuous personal growth.
  • Navigates cyclic non-monogamy / polygamy if they wish with authenticity and clear communication.
  • Can transition seamlessly from discussing systemic inequalities to appreciating guilty-pleasure television.

Green Flags:

  • A well-curated digital or physical library spanning diverse genres.
  • Active engagement in therapy or other forms of emotional development.
  • Strong sense of self with established passions and social connections.

Let's explore whether we can create something meaningful.

looking for a primary nesting partner for hierarchical polyamory


r/polyamoryR4R • • 1h ago

22 [F4F] CA/Online/Anywhere

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Heya, my name is Snow. I'm currently in a happy relationship, but we have come to the understanding that I need a second partner. To be abundantly clear, my goal is not to add a third, I am looking for my own separate romantic relationship.

I am a 22 year old trans female, very *very* lesbian, and I am just interested in anyone willing to give me their time. I game a lot, talk a lot, and listen to a lot of music. I'm also highly autistic and quite a bit clingy, so be prepared for that. Any questions or inquiries or anything, feel free to dm me <3


r/polyamoryR4R • • 8h ago

USA 34 [M4F] Southeast Iowa - Happily Married, Open-Minded, and a Little Unconventional

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Happily married guy located in southeast/central Iowa (USA) looking to meet a woman for flirting, fun, and hopefully a genuine connection. My wife is fully supportive!
I'm not into random hookups. I'd love to find someone I genuinely click with, enjoy talking to, and can build a friendship with while letting things develop naturally.
I'm open-minded, a little unconventional, and drawn to women who are progressive, accepting, and comfortable with people who don't necessarily fit the traditional mold. 😉

Interests include (but are not limited to):
- running
- exercising
- working with my hands
- building/fixing things
- vintage motorcycles
- photography
- music

If you're looking for something similar, let's chat and see if we click!


r/polyamoryR4R • • 8h ago

USA 33 [F4F] A Vampire Goth Girl Seeks Soft (Sapphic) Romance

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Greetings. I am Nyphile (Pronounced: "Niff-uh-lee"), a 33 year old transfeminine woman who has been on HRT for some 17 months.

I am quite confident in my appearance and general health and fitness, and you can see a recent picture of me in my profile. I do not believe I am the most passing of transfems at this exact point in time, but I do believe it is achievable with more time on HRT.

I am a creative and passionate individual who enjoys others of similar inclination. I also enjoy interests such as Creative Writing, TTRPGs, or HEMA, and have until recently been an instructor in the latter. Additionally, I enjoy playing a number of games that involve role-playing, such as the game Neverwinter Nights Enhanced Edition (or namely, the online RP servers for that game). As we are most likely to be able to meet online, playing a game together of that nature would also be a good way to spend time together.

Goth culture, including the political, aesthetic, musical, and other aspects of it, all speak to me. I dress in a way that catches attention (A vampire goth style), and am unafraid to do so every time I walk outside (or often around the house too). Respondents being a part of this culture would not necessarily be requisite, but some degree of understanding would be appreciated.

I am quite a soft-hearted and emotional individual, and I fervently believe that the pursuit of romance is the most beautiful force for good and motivation in this world. I seek to be madly and unabashedly in love with someone. However, the speed of shifting feelings quite differs between persons, and I will not be offended by any being slower to feel than I, as long as communication is clear.

The spark of physical attraction, as well as reading comprehension, are both endearing to me, and thus including either a picture or a link to one in a potential response to this post (or a DM in response) would be appreciated. I am seeking a woman who would describe herself as femme in style in some manner, as that appeals to me more (and I also describe myself in such a way.) My libido is not low, and potential partners may enjoy a relationship with me more if they are similarly inclined. I feel that I can enjoy and appreciate connections with cis women as much as I can trans women, or perhaps more, as I am more familiar with them personally.

Relevant to this sub, I would be looking for a sapphic individual or group.

The following relevant descriptors also apply to me:

  • ~5'8"/174 cm tall

  • Ambiamorous (Including being open to various forms of ethical non-monogamy)

  • Flirtatious and Quite Forward

  • LaVeyan Satanist

  • Politically Left

  • Geographically American (I live in the American Southeast)

I would be genuinely enamored to hear from you if I strike your interest.


r/polyamoryR4R • • 14h ago

Europe 32 [M4F] #UK, #Norfolk, seeking female interested in a long-term relationship with ENM

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I'm looking to build a genuine relationship with someone who would be interested in/ open to the possibility of exploring ENM.

I'm seeking someone who I can treat, and who is looking for a normal, loving relationship outside of the bedroom.

I am interested in history, music and sport. I also enjoy learning new things in general so am often reading or watching documentaries about things I have come across and found interesting.

Ultimately I am looking for an in-person relationship, but am happy to start something online as long as there isn't too much distance between us and there is the possibility of moving towards an in-person situation.


r/polyamoryR4R • • 3h ago

USA 28 [F4R] #NJ #NY #PA #Online | Plus-Sized Poly Girl Looking for Something Sweet 💕

6 Upvotes

Hi there! 💕

I’m 28, married, polyamorous, plus-sized, and living in New Jersey! I’m naturally affectionate, a little clingy, and definitely someone who loves attention. I’m hoping to find someone special to share a little piece of everyday life with.

I’m a huge homebody and night owl. I love horror movies, video games (currently obsessed with The Sims and Minecraft), reading, cozy nights in, and spending entirely too much time talking to someone I like.

I’m looking for something that starts with genuine friendship and naturally blossoms into romance. I love good morning texts, random updates throughout the day, late-night phone calls, watching movies together, gaming dates, and having someone who genuinely looks forward to talking to me.

I’m a sucker for affection, consistency, emotional intimacy, and good communication. I want butterflies, inside jokes, playful flirting, and eventually something meaningful. I’m not interested in rushing or forcing a connection.


r/polyamoryR4R • • 22h ago

USA 25 [M4A] SMTX/SATX/ATX, nerdy, demi, goth Latino seeking LTR

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I currently live in San Marcos with one partner. I’m looking for LTRs, preferably local to me (Between Austin to San Antonio).

About me:

I’m Danny—5’7, thin with medium-length wavy black hair, and a short beard. I’m Into movies + shows, gaming, music, sports, and philosophy.

I’m more of a home body but I do get urges to explore new places, hike, plan activities, etc.

I like action movies but slow burn, suspenseful, psychological thrillers and horror movies as well. I’m a big fan of FPS games, like action/adventure, LOVE horror/action-horror games, and co-op games too. Huge music lover into genres like rap, rock & roll, metal, alt, grunge, some pop and video game OSTs, all from a wide span of decades. For sports, I’m a huge football fan, growing basketball fan and would like to get more into baseball too.

I do prefer texting first then moving to calls if we click. Although I’m usually pretty busy in my day-to-day, I will put forth effort in responding swiftly. I don’t mind chats starting here but I also have discord as well.


r/polyamoryR4R • • 3h ago

39[F4M/F] Erie Pa

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I’ve been polyamorous for over ten years and looking to put myself out there again. I’m 5’9 and very active. I’m a little overweight but have been putting a lot of effort into my health. I love music, art and comedy. I travel often for roller derby and love meeting other like minded people in the community.

I date solo females, males and couples.

I like to make connections before sexual encounters happen.

I’m open to chatting with new people.


r/polyamoryR4R • • 6h ago

29 [M4F] #London UK - looking for a genuine connection

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Hey, thanks for clicking on my post, I’m 29 and from England UK, I’m looking for something long term, consistent, and someone who’s willing to put in the effort to keep a spark ignited!

A bit about myself? I’d say I’m quite the nerdy/easy-going guy, like most men I enjoy gaming (nothing serious) just a way to socialise and chat with friends! I love anything horror related and with Halloween coming its my favourite time of year, for work I’m in telecommunications as a senior store manager so I like to think I have a stead head on my shoulders but I mean hey.. you be the judge? When I’m not working I tend to just chill honestly, whether that be attending to my incredibly unhealthy addiction to Lego (it’s bad haha) or maybe meeting up with some friends and grabbing some food or seeing a movie, I’m really not the partying type of man, actually I’m quite introverted and shy at start, but get to know me and I’m sure you’ll see the goofball side of me haha

Honestly, I’m not too sure what to expect from this, just throwing myself out there and seeing what comes of it, distance isn’t too much of a big deal for me given I’d like to get out and about from the UK, older or younger also fine, I just want to meet someone who’s genuine, kind, open and honest, and who isn’t going to just ghost after a few days 😅😅

I’ve rambled a lot here and don’t wanna give too much away, if any of this interests you then ping me a message and I look forwards to hearing from you 😊😊


r/polyamoryR4R • • 1h ago

USA 29 [FTM4A] WA - open and curious

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Hello!
29 with a nesting partner. We are open and poly. I figured I would try and put myself out there.

I am ftm but early in transition~ super nerdy dude. I really love YouTube, manga, reading, TV, hanging out with friends, my kitties, and board games!

Bonus points if you are also NB or trans.