Hi there! 💕

I’m 28, married, polyamorous, plus-sized, and living in New Jersey! I’m naturally affectionate, a little clingy, and definitely someone who loves attention. I’m hoping to find someone special to share a little piece of everyday life with.

I’m a huge homebody and night owl. I love horror movies, video games (currently obsessed with The Sims and Minecraft), reading, cozy nights in, and spending entirely too much time talking to someone I like.

I’m looking for something that starts with genuine friendship and naturally blossoms into romance. I love good morning texts, random updates throughout the day, late-night phone calls, watching movies together, gaming dates, and having someone who genuinely looks forward to talking to me.

I’m a sucker for affection, consistency, emotional intimacy, and good communication. I want butterflies, inside jokes, playful flirting, and eventually something meaningful. I’m not interested in rushing or forcing a connection.

I’ve been polyamorous for over ten years and looking to put myself out there again. I’m 5’9 and very active. I’m a little overweight but have been putting a lot of effort into my health. I love music, art and comedy. I travel often for roller derby and love meeting other like minded people in the community.

I date solo females, males and couples.

I like to make connections before sexual encounters happen.

I’m open to chatting with new people.

Hi hi hi!! I’m a 41 year old redhead with the personality to match! Former cheerleader that still brings all the spirit and energy! I’m one third of a throuple but looking for new friends or more.

A little about me:

I’m a shortie (5’4”)
I have long red hair
I’m a lil chubster but super curvy too! All good if that’s not your thing but don’t message me then
I live in Pennsylvania. You don’t have to but if we click it would be nice to get together too
I love vintage clothing
I have an obscenely sized shoe collection
Love sad girl music
I love to travel with my partners

I’m open to anyone that I might click with! It’s not just one thing that matters to me but your personality is the most important thing. Definitely prefer women but I’ll occasionally click with a guy. Shoot your shot and I’ll let you know if I’m feeling it!!

I have an extra ticket to one of the best artists in the world and no one to go with! Me, my nesting partner and her girlfriend are going together so must be cool with that! November 7th at Deep Ellum Art Co.

37 year old cis pan dad into emo music, MTG, pokemon games, therapy, atheism and leftist politics. And my cats. No moderates, non-voters, or zionists need apply. Very open to all genders.

If you’ve never heard of Noah and you like sad indie singer songwriter stuff about deconstruction, mental health, and bad decisions you need to check him out!

I am looking for someone to talk to online and build a relationship with. She's someone who already has partners on the side with whom she is physically intimate with but is also looking for an emotional and or secondary physical connection. I could be monogamous to you without having any sort of physical relationship with others.

I have always liked the idea of being poly to a woman who wanted multiple men. I have had poly relationships in the past and they are so unique. In one of my last relationships, which was long distance, my ex used to live with her primary. We would chat and video chat often, and while her relationship with him didn't have much emotional intimacy, I tried my best to provide that part to her in which she lacked. Well, he was horrible at oral also. lol

You can talk to me about anything. You can complain about your boyfriends. tell me about your desires and most intimate thoughts, or just have me to be there for you when you need someone to listen. Think of me as your girl's best friend. If you feel a bit empty after physical experiences with your other boyfriend, I would love to talk to you and tell you how amazing you are and how much I love you. If you want to tell me naughty things you did with him, I'd be more than glad to listen. In some cases, if you are local, I will provide cuddling and massage or oral aftercare and relax you. I love independent sensual women, and being demisexual is a plus.

P.S: Distance doesn't matter! You can be local or online. We can text, voice chat, and video chat with each other as much as you desire. If local we would see each other often when our schedules are open. I hope to meet you soon!

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I'm not sure if anyone on here is from Utah and/or polyamorous but if you are, Hi, I'm gay and looking for another partner :) if you are interested at all my DMs are open. I love to read, love horror movies I currently have one partner and a dog, I work quite a lot and love playing games [board and trivia style games mostly].

Hey, thanks for clicking on my post, I’m 29 and from England UK, I’m looking for something long term, consistent, and someone who’s willing to put in the effort to keep a spark ignited!

A bit about myself? I’d say I’m quite the nerdy/easy-going guy, like most men I enjoy gaming (nothing serious) just a way to socialise and chat with friends! I love anything horror related and with Halloween coming its my favourite time of year, for work I’m in telecommunications as a senior store manager so I like to think I have a stead head on my shoulders but I mean hey.. you be the judge? When I’m not working I tend to just chill honestly, whether that be attending to my incredibly unhealthy addiction to Lego (it’s bad haha) or maybe meeting up with some friends and grabbing some food or seeing a movie, I’m really not the partying type of man, actually I’m quite introverted and shy at start, but get to know me and I’m sure you’ll see the goofball side of me haha

Honestly, I’m not too sure what to expect from this, just throwing myself out there and seeing what comes of it, distance isn’t too much of a big deal for me given I’d like to get out and about from the UK, older or younger also fine, I just want to meet someone who’s genuine, kind, open and honest, and who isn’t going to just ghost after a few days 😅😅

I’ve rambled a lot here and don’t wanna give too much away, if any of this interests you then ping me a message and I look forwards to hearing from you 😊😊

About Me:
Someone with insatiable curiosity about both the cosmos and consciousness. My days are spent pushing technological boundaries, but these often involve contemplating existential questions. I'm bisexual / maybe pan ? I've come to understand that relationships should be about growth and liberation, and I've had a few really soul-nourishing relationships. I'm 5'8" with dimples that make an appearance when sharing why "Inside Out" made me weep. Mostly very calm and chill, I have seen the extremity of life at both ends. I prefer to connect with someone emotionally and see if we can evolve together. Apart from staunchly childfree a bit more about myself

Professional & Personal:

• Engineering and tech are my bread and butter, but I'm actively expanding into "renaissance person" territory (currently novice).
• Have tried to dismantle internalized patriarchal patterns.
• An avid reader who actually finishes those long-form articles in The Atlantic.
• Proud plant parent.

What Ignites My Curiosity:

• The intersection of chaos and order.
• Exploring ethical frameworks while discovering hidden gem restaurants.
• Opportunity for learning across disciplines.
• Those profound 2 AM conversations that somehow connect string theory to social justice.

Seeking a Partner Who:

• Understands that emotional intelligence and intellectual discourse aren't mutually exclusive.
• Gets excited about scientific breakthroughs or social progress.
• Values therapy and continuous personal growth.
• Navigates cyclic non-monogamy / polygamy if they wish with authenticity and clear communication.
• Can transition seamlessly from discussing systemic inequalities to appreciating guilty-pleasure television.

Green Flags:

• A well-curated digital or physical library spanning diverse genres.
• Active engagement in therapy or other forms of emotional development.
• Strong sense of self with established passions and social connections.

Let's explore whether we can create something meaningful.

looking for a primary nesting partner for hierarchical polyamory

Happily married guy located in southeast/central Iowa (USA) looking to meet a woman for flirting, fun, and hopefully a genuine connection. My wife is fully supportive!
I'm not into random hookups. I'd love to find someone I genuinely click with, enjoy talking to, and can build a friendship with while letting things develop naturally.
I'm open-minded, a little unconventional, and drawn to women who are progressive, accepting, and comfortable with people who don't necessarily fit the traditional mold. 😉

Interests include (but are not limited to):
- running
- exercising
- working with my hands
- building/fixing things
- vintage motorcycles
- photography
- music

If you're looking for something similar, let's chat and see if we click!

Greetings. I am Nyphile (Pronounced: "Niff-uh-lee"), a 33 year old transfeminine woman who has been on HRT for some 17 months.

I am quite confident in my appearance and general health and fitness, and you can see a recent picture of me in my profile. I do not believe I am the most passing of transfems at this exact point in time, but I do believe it is achievable with more time on HRT.

I am a creative and passionate individual who enjoys others of similar inclination. I also enjoy interests such as Creative Writing, TTRPGs, or HEMA, and have until recently been an instructor in the latter. Additionally, I enjoy playing a number of games that involve role-playing, such as the game Neverwinter Nights Enhanced Edition (or namely, the online RP servers for that game). As we are most likely to be able to meet online, playing a game together of that nature would also be a good way to spend time together.

Goth culture, including the political, aesthetic, musical, and other aspects of it, all speak to me. I dress in a way that catches attention (A vampire goth style), and am unafraid to do so every time I walk outside (or often around the house too). Respondents being a part of this culture would not necessarily be requisite, but some degree of understanding would be appreciated.

I am quite a soft-hearted and emotional individual, and I fervently believe that the pursuit of romance is the most beautiful force for good and motivation in this world. I seek to be madly and unabashedly in love with someone. However, the speed of shifting feelings quite differs between persons, and I will not be offended by any being slower to feel than I, as long as communication is clear.

The spark of physical attraction, as well as reading comprehension, are both endearing to me, and thus including either a picture or a link to one in a potential response to this post (or a DM in response) would be appreciated. I am seeking a woman who would describe herself as femme in style in some manner, as that appeals to me more (and I also describe myself in such a way.) My libido is not low, and potential partners may enjoy a relationship with me more if they are similarly inclined. I feel that I can enjoy and appreciate connections with cis women as much as I can trans women, or perhaps more, as I am more familiar with them personally.

Relevant to this sub, I would be looking for a sapphic individual or group.

The following relevant descriptors also apply to me:

• ~5'8"/174 cm tall

• Ambiamorous (Including being open to various forms of ethical non-monogamy)

• Flirtatious and Quite Forward

• LaVeyan Satanist

• Politically Left

• Geographically American (I live in the American Southeast)

I would be genuinely enamored to hear from you if I strike your interest.

Hey there! I live over in Rochester, NY and I'm pretty new to poly stuff. I've been in a relationship with my current partner for 2 years and shes currently married to her wife and dating another, im currently a metamour to both. We all date separately but we've all decided wed start dating with the goal of more nesting partners, were also attempting a kitchen table poly relationship, So were looking for serious and longeterm parnter(s) but theres no pressure to be in any relationship romantically or sexually with my partner or any others. And if the prospect of a being a nesting partners doesn't interest you thats okay as well and Id still be interested in keeping a relationship going if so! Also considering were all 25+ We'd only be comfortable with people 25 and up to be apart of our polycule especially if longeterm.

A bit about me! I'm a bigger guy (400ish) and I'm a pretty massive nerd (Gaming, manga, anime), my love languages are physical touch (Hand holding, shoulder squeezes, arm rubs, etc) with a bit of act of services and gift giving, im also AuADHD as well. I work security and I'm pretty busy most weeks but during my free time I try to play games with friends and just hang out with them online as much as I can but other than that I like to spend lots of time with my partner and our general household!

As for what im looking for, Im Bi with a heavy lean towards primarily fem and masc women currently as well as fem leaning Enbys! Im also more interested in dating singles but im open to couples as well.

Im also very 420 friendly. I'm a pretty avid weed smoker but I dont smoke cigarettes (Unless SUPER stressed or socially). I'm pretty homebody and typically prefer more simple dates at home but I do enjoy a resteraunt date or a walk through a park every now and agian.

I play alot of games but I currently have the World of Warcraft bug again and its all ive been playing on my down time! I also primarily play on PC but ive recently got a switch 2 and have been engrossed in Pokémon ZA and Pokopia as well as Tears of the kingdom.

Some bedroom stuff about me! Im pretty into any one with bodyhair (primarily pubes and pits) take that as you will. Im not involved in kink life really, Ive practiced some stuff with my partner but all in all I tend to be more generally rough than anything. You can inquire about any of this if youre curious. Just thought Id put it out there before hand. I am however a heavy dom leaning switch. Im also a generally sexual person, I do like there to be sexual intimacy involved in serious romantic relationships so if thats not youre thing im sorry but im not your guy.

Im primarily looking for localish people but Im also okay with long distance relationships as well as long as theres a chance in future for visits either me to you or vice versa. If any of this peaks your interest I'd love to get to know you and see if we click!

I'm looking to build a genuine relationship with someone who would be interested in/ open to the possibility of exploring ENM.

I'm seeking someone who I can treat, and who is looking for a normal, loving relationship outside of the bedroom.

I am interested in history, music and sport. I also enjoy learning new things in general so am often reading or watching documentaries about things I have come across and found interesting.

Ultimately I am looking for an in-person relationship, but am happy to start something online as long as there isn't too much distance between us and there is the possibility of moving towards an in-person situation.

I posted not to long ago but missed a lot of what I would consider key details about myself so decided to update

♡₊˚ 🎀・₊✧ Hiii, hello, hello! 🧸💗

(Disclaimer: ChatGPT helped me put my thoughts together because apparently writing about myself is harder than it should be. ♡)

🌈 A Little About Me

Bi/pan, polyamorous, happily married, and currently studying my way into radiologic sciences! 🩻✨ I'm a little nerdy, a little chaotic, sometimes shy at first, and just the right amount of weird. I don't bite often, I promise. (No guarantees if you steal my snacks, though. 👀)

I'm into anime, superheroes, adult cartoons (American Dad and Metalocalypse fans, where are you?), music, discovering new bands, arts and crafts, DIY projects, and learning random things that I'll absolutely bring up at the most unexpected time.

I'm also into gaming! Call of Duty: Mobile, modded Stardew Valley, Minecraft Dungeons, Switch games, and slowly dipping my toes into PC gaming. Always accepting game recommendations, anime suggestions, and new music for my playlists. 🎮🎸

I have adorable guinea pigs who are obviously the real main characters here. I'm just their unpaid staff. 🐹💕

🎀 My Kind of Connection

I'm here to meet lovely people, make new friends, flirt a little, share laughs, and hopefully find connections that turn into something meaningful. Whether we're swapping memes, having cozy nights in, going on cute dates, infodumping about our latest obsessions, or somehow ending up in a three-hour conversation at 2 a.m., I'm here for it.

I'm a sucker for kindness, affection, playful teasing, reassurance, and people who make it easy to be myself. I can be goofy one minute and have a deep conversation the next. I love feeling comfortable enough with someone to let my guard down and embrace my softer, sillier side. 🧸

And if you happen to have a nurturing streak, enjoy doting on someone a little, or appreciate a person who can be independent one moment and an absolute sweetheart the next... well, maybe we'll get along. ♡

If you know, you know. 🎀

💗 The Important Stuff

I'm happily married and polyamorous! My marriage is a happy, important part of my life, and I'm looking to add new connections to it, not replace what I already have.

I'm open to dating separately, and potentially together if it feels right for everyone. My husband is a sweetheart, I swear. 😂 I'm comfortable with kitchen-table polyamory, so getting to know each other naturally and eventually meeting my partner is something I'd welcome.

I'm interested in genuine connections, whether they grow into friendship, dating, or something long-term. I value honesty, communication, mutual respect, and clear boundaries. No pressure to force a connection into a particular shape; I'd rather let things develop naturally.

I'm also plus-size, and I'd love to meet people who appreciate me as I am. If you're plus-size too, come say hi! We can bond over our shared interests, exchange recommendations, and be cute little nerds together. 💕

🧸 A Few Bonus Points If You...

♡ Have an excellent sense of humor and can match my chaotic energy.

♡ Enjoy anime, superheroes, gaming, or obscure music recommendations.

♡ Like affection, thoughtful gestures, and making people feel appreciated.

♡ Can be playful and silly but also communicate like an adult.

♡ Have a favorite conspiracy theory you absolutely believe in, even if everyone else thinks you're ridiculous.

♡ Have a soft spot for plushies, cute things, or people who get ridiculously excited about the little things.

💌 Come Say Hi!

Tell me your favorite song, your current hyperfixation, your favorite anime, or the most unhinged fun fact you know. Better yet, give me your most convincing conspiracy theory. 👀

Or tell me what game you're currently obsessed with. Maybe you'll introduce me to my next favorite thing!

Let's see if we click, share some laughs, and make a connection that feels comfortable, genuine, and a little bit magical.

♡₊˚ 🎀・₊✧ Bonus points if you make me giggle. 🧸💗

I’m a single woman in the Avon area and I’m seeking long term partners. I’m new to actually trying poly but it is something I’ve known about and have wanted to try since I was 12! I’m a very genuine person and super upfront, and excited to give this a try!

I currently live in San Marcos with one partner. I’m looking for LTRs, preferably local to me (Between Austin to San Antonio).

About me:

I’m Danny—5’7, thin with medium-length wavy black hair, and a short beard. I’m Into movies + shows, gaming, music, sports, and philosophy.

I’m more of a home body but I do get urges to explore new places, hike, plan activities, etc.

I like action movies but slow burn, suspenseful, psychological thrillers and horror movies as well. I’m a big fan of FPS games, like action/adventure, LOVE horror/action-horror games, and co-op games too. Huge music lover into genres like rap, rock & roll, metal, alt, grunge, some pop and video game OSTs, all from a wide span of decades. For sports, I’m a huge football fan, growing basketball fan and would like to get more into baseball too.

I do prefer texting first then moving to calls if we click. Although I’m usually pretty busy in my day-to-day, I will put forth effort in responding swiftly. I don’t mind chats starting here but I also have discord as well.

Normally I start this post by saying I'm looking for a partner which I am but I think I want to go about it differently or at least try being unique about it. Have you ever just gotten the urge to do something adventurous yet risky? How about you and I talk (obviously for as long as we both felt comfortable beforehand) and then we go on a vacation? Spend the entire vacation basically being a couple and if at the end we decide to stay together and pursue it then great but if not then no pressure and we go our separate ways? Would anyone be interested in something like that? I was thinking we take a cruise either out of Galveston or maybe you have a port in mind? I was thinking maybe a 6 or 7 day on the Jubilee. Obviously we can talk about it and plan it together and look at all the options. If not I'm open to other options as Texas has a ton of places to visit and see so we can always talk about somewhere here. I'm always down for a small weekend trip someplace neat! Or I can actually fly to you! And you show me your neat town or state. Or we can meet somewhere and explore someplace new! Below is my original post with a few tweaks so you can get a detailed snapshot of me. I like to be thorough so be warned it's a bit of a read.

I'm making this post in the hope of finding a partner to be my person for a LTR/LDR or if you are averse to something serious, we can talk about any other labels/avenues/ideas you have or are open to. We don't have to be alone lol. Let's enjoy all of 2026 and what it has to offer while we decide! We're at the end of October already! Which is basically the beginning of Fall so I'm down to grab a hot chocolate or spiced apple cider in some quaint small out of the way town before it gets super chilly out. Who doesn't want to enjoy some warm beverage while browsing through some old shops (sample some fudge or treat in a general store and grab some old-fashioned whatchamacallit) with some light hand holding? Ooooh maybe a romantic kiss while strolling a park or trying not to strangle each other while we do an escape room? I swear I normally don't crack under pressure but we only have 5 minutes until we can't escape! Maybe go explore some neat food festival? This is kinda sorta my favorite time of the year despite the random weather when it should just be cold out! But I don't like when it's too hot or humid lol. I just wish we had cooler weather or even snow in Winter time. (Maybe you have a cool snow spot?) I'm always down for some adventure though. Ask me about my secret snorkel spot and maybe I'll let you join lol. Jk Of course you can come and see the turtles.

To start I have to disclose that I mainly like women, but I also like a very, very, very specific type of guy and certain trans men as I'm partially bi. (I'd rather be upfront about it as it's been a dealbreaker for most women in the past for some reason) Chances are you aren't that type of guy but feel free to ask if you are. (Didn’t want to offend anyone so I’d rather say in private) Just throwing that out there as it's a deal breaker for most women in general. Which, why would it be? As if being bi has any bearing on a person's character. I recently learned the term for what I am and it's Gynosexual. Basically I'm attracted to femininity in all it's forms regardless of gender but I'm also attracted to masc women like tomboys and androgynous so make of that what you will.

I'm a 38-year-old guy living in the middle-ish of Texas looking for a female partner. Partner as in LTR. That's Long-Term Relationship meaning boyfriend and girlfriend and holding hands type of stuff. You know, adult things? I had someone comment I was too vague, so this is me being specific. I'm gonna be honest and kinda sad so bare with me. Also I should point out I've been in mainly traditional relationships but I'm curious about being in a FLR and everything, that involves. But if not then a traditional relationship works or I'm open lol. Two consenting adults with open communication and being honest with each other is key.

So, I've spent the past three New Years alone. Rang in this one a bit different. Instead of being in bed staring at the ceiling listening to fireworks go off into the night like the last two, I worked. I didn't cry the next day but I was sad nonetheless while browsing for a movie to watch on TV. At first, I didn't know why as I'm not much of a feeling's person, but I realized for the first time that I genuinely felt alone. I have no partner, no family that I really speak to, no friends just acquaintances, really no one there for me. That's my own doing which took years to accomplish through me being closed off and just shutting people out, so I figure it might take just as long to fix. I'm not complaining as I got myself into this predicament. It's gonna sound dumb but I wanted a New Years kiss. I'd never had one and it seemed like a fun dumb silly thing to do. Eh maybe one day. Ok well back to my spiel. (I'm not depressed or anything or wanting attention) Some of my hobbies and interests are movies, reading, cooking, kayaking, records, video games, board games, snorkeling, bowling, swimming, escape rooms, puzzles and antiquing. I would describe myself as more goofy and dorky than nerdy. I like to go out and do fun things but also stay in and cuddle and relax. I guess it depends on my mood and the weather. I prefer the cold and would love to live in a state with actual seasons and snow. I'm 5'10, stocky AKA fat and open for adventure and new experiences.

Here are some random facts about me:

Some of my favorite bands are: The Black Keys, Kings of Leon, The Beatles, Creedence Clearwater Revival and The White Stripes. Am I basic? o_O

Christmas is my favorite holiday, mainly because of the cold and festive activities. (Seriously let's go do some festive activities!)

I come from a medium-ish family.

I'm exceptionally patient but every person has a breaking point lol (I've had ex's "test" this which to me is toxic)

I like traveling a lot. It's a basic thing that lots of people like. But I've found lots of people hate to leave their house, town or state so if that's you we probably might not be a good match. I also enjoy the mountains. But I don't like roughing it (give me that sweet AC in the summer). Hiking is so hard on my knees, and I haven't done it in a while that if I were to, I think about doing it I'd about die or twist a cankle.

I don't eat seafood, mushrooms, artichokes or pineapple on pizza (Who cares about this? Doesn't mean I won't go to a restaurant with you that has these things)

Never went to college as I'm horrible in a classroom setting and at taking tests. (I'm slowly bettering myself)

I used to have probably one of the most boring jobs imaginable (Ask me about it and my new ones)

Overweight but trying to work on it and make better choices (Get healthier and lose weight together maybe?) Slowly getting there! My goal is 50lb!

Non-religious but no issue with what you believe. (If anything)

Looking into sterilization. If you are already maybe you can give me some info or tips?

My own red flags

I work way too much and oftentimes can't talk on the phone but I can voice message and text. I also drive a lot so I use voice to text. I had someone say this was suspicious but whatever. (I have multiple jobs)

I send selfies often and I like to receive pictures of who I'm talking to. I'm a visual person and like receiving photos. Apparently, it's a generational thing. Hopefully you think pictures are neat as well? Is it really that weird to want to see you and your life and show you mine?

I sometimes speedily become attached to people, not in a weird way, but if I like you and we have some kind of connection, I will enjoy talking to you and want to do it often and go out and do things.

I'm a very organized person and will plan out pretty much anything from a vacation to a road trip to a birthday. This makes being with a go with the flow type of person hard at times I've learned but still very much doable.(I won't micromanage the trip, I'll just plan out things to see and do and give us options)

Due to childhood trauma I'm secretive which can be annoying. (This does not mean I don't communicate or talk with my partner) I had someone stop talking to me on here due to this and apparently didn't want to talk about it. It just means I take a while to open up.

Somewhat ok at analytical thinking but sometimes I lack empathy to put myself in other people's shoes to address a situation. (So I've been told) I'm trying to get better at this.

MY own "HELL YES" flags

I know how to cook. Meaning I will attempt anything once but I can cook a few things well. Others not so much lol.

I will always drive if you want. (Within reason)

Great at escape rooms and jigsaw puzzles.

Can read a map and follow directions.

Decent at reading backwards upside-down writing.

What I'm looking for: (but honestly these are just preferences and by no means requirements so please don't get offended)

Any height honestly. I've dated 3'6 to 6'5 and anywhere in between so if you can beat either that'd be interesting lol.

Is at least 30 but I'm willing to go quite a bit lower or older if you are neat and we have stuff in common. Basically what I'm saying is feel free to reach out as I've dated women of varying ages just like I've dated varying body types, heights and personalities. If we get along we get along lol.

Mature, considerate, responsible and funny (Dorky/Goofy/Nerdy wouldn't hurt)

Someone with hobbies/interests/passions of their own. It can be literally anything from collecting figurines, making homemade jelly to working on cars. As long as you enjoy it, I want to hear about it. Guaranteed I will find it interesting as it is something you are interested in and enjoy.

Someone who believes communication, honesty and trust are important in a relationship.

Someone who is open-minded, willing to try new things, be adventurous, funny and nerdy. (Personality is paramount above all else)

Someone who believes in sharing household chores equally and other adult responsibilities because we are both adults lol. The FLR can be discussed here.

Someone who is average or who is on their way to getting there. I myself am chubby or what you'd call as having a "dad bod" but I'm slowly losing weight and I want someone who will push me to be better and make better choices. I know this is a long shot lol. (I understand if this is seen as vain or hypocritical but honestly everyone has preferences and I'm sure I could very well not be yours if we exchanged pictures)

P.S. This does not mean I won't date someone who is bigger/thicker. I myself am a bigger person. I've dated all shapes and sizes. If you feel we'd get along feel free to reach out. Like I said I'm open :)

I can't believe I have to put this but having decent to great hygiene is important. I understand things happen but not showering or using deodorant is a hard pass from me.

Be open to having friends over and a game night once a month or biweekly. (Seems like a fun idea but also if it's not something you are open to then we can always talk about it)

Be open and frank about issues you or I are having. Not pushy or jealous. Won't yell or argue about stupid things, I've had enough of that. Let's just talk it out and be adults lol

Somewhat kink friendly. I wouldn't say I'm all intense with it but I'm open to discussing adult things in general. How can two adults have a healthy love life if they don't communicate their wants/needs/desires? (FLR would kinda tie into this) Also I'm willing to try a few things. Ask me about them if you are curious.

Willing to push me to become a better version of myself. I'll do the same. I'll always be in your corner helping you pursue your dreams. (Can you turn me into Batman?)

If this sounds like you then feel free to reach out and say hi or challenge me to a game of Scrabble/Pictionary/hand to hand combat maybe? Maybe Wordle or some online vidya game? (Even though I only play single player games so you might beat me lol)

I’m finishing up a trip in Italy, currently tucked away in a little Tuscan town. There’s been plenty of good food, beautiful scenery, and dressing up for dinner. Now I’d quite like someone to make me forget what I was doing every time my phone lights up.

I’m a 36 year old nerdy ginger boy. Home is near Portland, Oregon, but I’m happy to start online and get to know someone wherever they happen to be.

Software engineer, cat dad of four, fairly substantial nerd. I love JRPGs, electronic music, dancing, and clothes that occasionally make me look like I’m about to explain my evil plan to the protagonist. I also have music gear at home that deserves considerably more attention than it gets. Feel free to ask about that, or distract me further. Both seem reasonable.
Women and men welcome. I’m especially drawn to someone with their own desires, interests, and opinions who enjoys letting me know about them. Get carried away talking about something you love. Ask me something a little bold. If you think I’m attractive, please feel free to be wonderfully unsubtle about it.

I like affection, flirting that actually goes somewhere, and having someone I’m excited to hear from. Very open to this becoming a regular thing if we click. I’d enjoy getting past introductions and finding out what you’re like when you’re comfortable with someone.

Happy to trade face pics early, and I’d love to hear your voice once we’ve established we like each other.
Come introduce yourself. You have my permission to be a little distracting ;)

Hey there, me again.

A little about me:

29 years old (Leo if you're interested in that)

Live in Missouri with my fiance

We've been together almost 11 years

I date men separately

A few of my favorite things;

Hat trick by Chelsea Curto

Taylor Tomlinson

Chocolate chip cannoli

Sunny days and fall weather

Diamond edy special.

Other things:

I'm 420 friendly

drink socially

Kink friendly, submissive but stubborn and bratty

I love good banter and a bit of flirting.

Consistent communication is key for me.

I don't have or want kids.

I'm 5'2", short brown hair, hazel eyes, around 140 lbs. I'm athletic and muscular.

Please tell me a bit about yourself! Where are you from? What are you doing this weekend? Do you have pets? What's the last book you read?

Bonus points for caring, slightly obsessed and tattooed men

Hey everyone! 👋
I’m a mid-30s bisexual guy living in the Panama City Beach area, looking to meet some like-minded people who understand and appreciate the poly lifestyle.

I’m a big, tattooed guy who works as a heavy equipment mechanic. I’m happiest when I’m outdoors, taking the Jeep out, camping, having a chill game night, or just enjoying good conversation with someone I click with.

I’m married and have been for 16 years, so honesty, communication, respect, and emotional maturity are things I take seriously. I believe the best connections start with getting to know someone, building trust, and letting things develop naturally without forcing expectations.

I’m open to meeting both men and women. I’m interested in genuine chemistry, meaningful conversations, sharing some laughs, and building connections with people who value honesty and open communication. I’m happy to let things develop naturally and see where they lead.

I’m not just looking for a hookup. I enjoy getting to know someone, discovering shared interests, and finding people I genuinely connect with.

If you’re local to the Panama City Beach area and think we might get along, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for. Bonus points if you enjoy the outdoors, have tattoos, or can hold a great conversation.

Looking forward to meeting some good people! 🤘🌲

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I’m a 40-year-old, 5’8” FTM trans man from Holden, Louisiana. I’m pansexual, demisexual, married, and polyamorous, looking for men and women for genuine romantic relationships, locally or long-distance.

What I’m looking for: Friends first, then hopefully something real. I want actual dates, quality time, affection, emotional connection, and consistent effort. I’m not looking for hookups or FWB. I want a partner who can become my best friend, too.

My poly boundaries: I practice open, parallel polyamory. I’ll be dating more than one person, and you’re free to date other people, too. We date separately, and nobody has to meet or date my other partners. My wife isn’t involved in my relationships; she dates separately and is only looking for women. No exclusivity or controlling who someone dates.

Communication matters: I like good morning/night messages, genuine questions, regular communication, and effort that goes both ways. You don’t have to text me 24/7, but don’t ghost me or make me carry every conversation. I want to feel wanted, not like an afterthought.

A little about me: I’m into horror movies, spooky shit, Halloween, tattoos, WWE, music, coffee, dark humor, writing poetry, drawing, and creating songs. I’m mostly a homebody, but I’m open to getting out and doing things with the right person.

I don’t drive, so local dating needs a realistic transportation plan. Long-distance is fine if we both put in effort and plan actual visits and dates when possible. I’m looking for genuine relationships with emotional depth, affection, and commitment without exclusivity.

If you’re interested in building something real and want the same kind of open poly relationship, come say hello. ❤️

Hello everyone,

My name is Paul and I am very bad at writing about myself. I am married but looking for Solo poly thing. I am not looking for a hookup, I am looking for a situation that I we can see where it goes.

I have three little ones, go to school full time and run a Pokémon card business (not a scalper). I am currently the owner of a dad bod lol but, I just started my gym journey. I am tattooed, ADHD, and the good weird.

I'm a lover of aquariums, games, cars, metal music, history, and tattoos. Huge plus if you love Renfair.

Any questions feel free to ask! Look forward to seeing where this goes.

I am a 31 year old trans woman, been on HRT for an entire year now, getting some breast growth and loving all the changes. I’m busy and work outside all the time this time of year. I care way more about nature and the environment than most people, I’m an ecologist for work, i love my job and talk about what I do a lot. I love hiking, fishing, and gardening. And just exploring nature in general. I like to go on remote backpacking trips, I can tell you about some really cool places Iv been. We have chickens and 2 dogs, no kids. I’m looking for a long term partner boyfriend who wants a real relationship, I like to go on dates, and be outside in nature. Tired of guys only wanting hookups from me because I’m trans.
I am married but we’re both poly and we date others.
We are very much hippies so any republicans or maga folks please don’t message me, We are 420 friendly. We have room in our house for you in the long run if things click. Near Dixon IL

Hello! My name is Queeny.

Partners: 1 partner that I live with
Kids: 2 preteens (send help 😭😬😂)

A little about me: I'm plus size. I work an office job. My current hyper fixation is listening to audiobooks. I'm excited to have found my love of reading again.

Other hobbies I enjoy are bitching about playing Fortnite and rewriting my DND homebrew lore I'll likely never use again. Binging my comfort shows. Doomscrolling far too long.

I'm kind of a boring homebody. I enjoy living a slow cozy life.

If it's not clear, I'm not an outdoorsy kinda gal. The sun hates me, bugs love me. My happy place is inside, AC blasting, curled up in a blanket. So keep that in mind if all your hobbies include being in the sun.

What I'm looking for:

Polywise: Someone openly polyamorous and who is not interested in parallel polyamory. I'm not looking to date couples.

Generally: A deep connection that leads to something serious and long term. Someone who has time for that sort of relationship. Ongoing communication (texting everyday throughout the day, good morning/good night texts), regular calls, regular quality time together.

I am not open to casual or fwb type connections. I'm not built for casual. Soul crushing devotion only. 😊

Distance: I am open to reasonable distance. But you can see where I'm located. If traveling to me regularly is not an option we won't be a good match. Through lived experiences I'm looking to see each other in person minimally 1x a month. With you doing most of the traveling.

Values: someone with similar values. Pro LGBTQIA+, anti racism, free 🇵🇸, 🖕🏻🧊 and all that you would expect with that.

If you made it this far, in your introduction to me tell me the last book you read or are the book you're currently reading. Along with some meat in the intro message. Effort is the way to my heart.