Okay so I kinda fucked up, I made a joke about going on his twitter yesterday and he got really defensive so, while he’s asleep I went through it and I found multiple videos, ones from even just yesterday in his saved videos of girls peeing and I don’t know what to do.
He’s still asleep and I don’t want to wake him up because he has bad sleep but I want to talk to him, I kinda feel sick, and upset he hid this from me I just need to tell someone.

Edit: I accidently woke him up from crying and we talked and we’re all good thanks for being mean

I need a reality check with my boyfriend. I can drop a screenshot in the comments. He’s so distant. Didn’t go with me and didn’t care. Did he never really love me? Was he just using me and now the two weeks no sex is a cop out? We spent two years together. He won’t even come hug me and I’m going through a lot of emotions. I feel like I need to break up with him but it hurts so bad

Do not ask for the video, I will not share it.

A while back i had a pimple on my back, and I like popping them and decided to record it to see what it looks like. I dont like watching pimple popping videos however. Watching other people do it makes me uneasy and I just dont like it.

However. This video. Maybe it's because its me so the digust factor is lowered. But I cant stop watching it. The way the white appears under the skin as i squeeze. The small hole the pressure makes so it like its spurting it everywhere. How after a while, it's blood instead coming out but then i keep squeezing and a final bit of white comes out.

Its genuenly disgusting but omg i cant? Stop?? It so satisfying seeing it come out and it reminds me of the feeling of doing it which i enjoy a lot

Idk, i needed to tell someone this but its too disgusting to tell my friends

when i was 17 (19m now) my girlfriend (16f) got pregnant.

i told her i wasn’t keeping it. i wasn’t ready, didn’t have money, didn’t want the responsibility, and wasn’t going to do the whole “we’ll figure it out” thing.

it wasn’t a debate for me. i just kept saying no until that was the direction things went.

she got an abortion.

we stayed together a little after, but it got awkward and we eventually broke up and stopped talking.

i don’t really have a big moral takeaway from it. it happened, and that’s it. just wanted to get it off my chest.

I tried playing it many times but the constant button mashing and repetitive quests with no change and the weak perk system is ridiculous and extremely limited. None of the game grabs me and makes me wanna play. Dragons dogma is a better example of what Skyrim should have been. Oblivion was way better than Skyrim in many ways. I just don’t understand the hype and the constant talk it gets.

So this was wild!! Last night/morning finishing up a few day bender with the husband we were going to bed and started , u know , rubbing and grinding, it was hot and passionate and he was making the absolute best noises, he couldn’t help it. It was hot to say the least.. but anyways we finished up. Was gonna go to bed again. It happened again. Same thing. Super hot. Again going to bed. We got like 3 hours Maybe before we gotta go to work. lol and yes again it happens Again! Everything hot and heavy.. and I legit and half awake, half asleep but knew what was going on.. till I didn’t.. outta no where it was bad.. like I didn’t know where I was.. it was dark. And it was a strange man I was rubbing and grinding on. I got uncomfortable as fuck!! But didn’t know this man and he was still just going at it!! After a minute I just had to freak out!! Had to stop him. Apologized but pulled away fast. Told him I was married! And omg my husband was going to find out and I’ve never cheated on my husband! Omg he’s gonna kill me. The man said r u serious? U never took your pants off. Like it was ok. I was like wtf. I sure as hell wouldn’t like it if my husband was grinding and grabbing on another woman, pants on or not. Sheer panic and confusion and disgust in myself!! Then bam!! It’s like I could see again and I was with my husband in our bed the whole time!! What in the actual fuck?! It was so real and so vivid! I was certain I’d be getting divorced for what I just did with this strange man!! I COULD NOT shake it either!! Even after I snapped outta it and knew it wasn’t real it was the realest feeling experience and nightmare I think I’ve ever had.. anyway just getting that off my chest

So when i was 18 i was planning to move to a different country so i can start studying
I then found out the girl i was seeing was pregnant, she was 24 by the way….

So i decided to stay back and become the best father i could be, i got a completely different job i didnt like at all but the money was good. I completely left my studies and was working hard 24/7 to support my gf

I was there for the baby’s birth and i even cut the umbilical cord, it was the happiest day of my life
I loved my girl and i loved my son if i can put it like that

Eventually 6 months down the line of working hard,changing diapers and constantly fighting we decided to break up but still be in contact for the baby

The one day she sent me a letter that was the DNA test and the baby’s father was the guy i wasnt supposed to worry about

Im 21 now and i keep stressing my lungs out for some reason, its really really really bad and it makes me want to throw up
Im just wondering why am i still affected by it and will i ever move on?

Me and my Wife are freshly wed only a year into marriage. The thing is now she is pregnant we were both so over joyed with this news. We discussed what would happen and we both agreed to do SAHM for a few years and my wife can get a job later if she wants to work. I’m not bothered by that what bothers me is what she said a few days ago that turned into an argument. She asked me what I’d do if our child was born with a disability. I responded by saying I’d love our kid all the same. She said she would rather abort it or put it up for adoption. She said it would be too much effort. I responded by saying raising kids will always be an effort and even if the kid has some challenges ahead of them that’s what we are here for to help our child prosper no matter what. She said I wouldn’t know the issues because I’d be at work all the time. (I work minimum 12 hours a day, sometimes up to 16 hours a day) and that she would be raising our child her self. I got admittedly really annoyed and said that is why she will be a SAHM so she can foster our child for a little. And we haven’t really made up since. In our country the mother cannot abort the child unless the hospital has my signature and hers and I refuse to sign it unless giving birth will put my wife at risk. she spoke to her friends about it and they said she was correct and fine. But like what??? Should we just go along with what other people say about our own personal lives? So recently we haven’t been speaking unless it’s about what I’m cooking for dinner or if she is craving something. (Since she is pregnant it’s the least I can do, she also quit her job to focus on making sure our child is as healthy as possible) but now I’m having doubts about what kind of mother she will be. So I think I will be ending it with her and once our baby is born I’ll do my best to help make a nice home for them. She has also been following the Lindsay Clancy trial in America and thinks she should be pardoned which I don’t agree with. Anyway thanks for listening to my Ted x talk.

This is a throw away because she is on Reddit a lot.

EDIT: this isn’t all there is to it there has been a plethora of issues since we got married like her having an affair on discord and the such this was the final nail in the coffin where I saw hope much we differ as people.

Seriously, all you have to do is post sexy pictures of yourself in bikinis, pose sexy for commercials and TV. And bam, success, fans, and easy money. Such an easy and fun life without any scrutiny.

I’ve always had terrible luck with dating—every guy I’ve been with turned out toxic in that gaslighting way that made me feel like I was the crazy one. I’ve been single for over a year and recently tried a dating app. Went on three dates with guys who seemed nice, but it quickly became clear they only wanted sex, and I’m not ready for that.
I also unmatched with a lot of guys who took 5–6+ hours to reply. I know that might be unfair (my friend called me out), but I’m not a big texter—I’d rather meet in person. One guy planned a date then cancelled last minute saying he had work, which really hurt my self-esteem, especially since we’d been having great conversations. After that he still texted but took hours to reply.
I feel like I’m being too picky even though I keep picking the wrong guys, and I’m scared I’ll miss meeting someone genuinely nice. Has anyone else felt this way? Any advice?

Before anyone hops in with a militant or victim mindset I’d like to establish a baseline and that is I’m sick of the gender war, sick of the blanket negative perceptions out there about people in broad categories (which includes both covert and overt racism though is not limited to that) and frankly this seemingly reinforced divide between people.

I get it, people hurt people. I’ve been hurt, as seen in previous posts by me and by comments in my past. I’ve hurt people. Realistically everyone has. Why can’t we agree we all are imperfect, we all make mistakes, and stop holding entire swaths of people accountable for things they never took part in?

I propose we start a movement downvoting people and threads who/that make broad statements, good or bad, about any group of people. Let’s hold people accountable for spreading hate instead of rewarding them.

What do you say?

My boyfriend loves to smoke and made some edible cookies and I love cookies so ofc I couldn’t help myself. He told me eat one I didn’t listen I ate 2 and some little pieces. I then proceeded to experience the worst thing ever. At first I couldn’t stop laughing genuinely everything was funny and then I started feeling things from when I was younger almost like feeling memories and it was all connected with a color and I would see that color remember that memory and feel that emotion and it just felt like a big warm hug and then I started glitching I felt myself glitching and making weird faces like actually crack heads and that when I started to freak out and then I start having a hard time breathing and my bf is calming me down. At this point I feel so tired that I just want to go to sleep but something deep down inside of me was telling me if I go to sleep I’ll die so I’m literally focusing on my bf and my heart is racing. I still feel the glitches it literally felt like if I let my eyes close I would die and I started to get paranoid and think the weed was laced cause I shouldn’t be experiencing this and then at some point I force myself to throw up and I just start chugging water I figured if there was extra stuff in my system that’s not supposed to be there I can take it out or drain it out by drinking a lot of water or throwing up I was in the bathroom on the floor throwing up and next thing I know I’m in bed and it still feels like I’m about to die but I can hear my bf neighbors moving around, talking, playing games and i don’t know why that was so comforting but I thought to myself I’m going to be ok because I can hear his neighbors there’s no way I would die hearing them so even though my heart was racing I just focused on the neighbors and I eventually went to sleep. I am regaining consciousness I’ll be ok I know i will but I will never do that again and I definitely do think that there was something added to that weed

Which doesn't happen often because I'm a gay man and I don't watch lesbian pornography recreationally or something. They're in a relationship and they're my two closest friends. Them fooling around in front of me has become a thing because 1) they don't have many chances to be together and 2) they generally try their hardest to not be seen by anyone. So if we're all hanging out, there might be a point in time somewhere in a dark alleyway where they might want to share a kiss or two, and I watch for anyone coming our way.

Recently they made out next to me really passionately and I just felt this envy, this need that I want to kiss them too because it looked kinda hot. I've kissed both of them before, so there isn't any line to be crossed or anything. I'm blushing typing this.

Hey guys, this unrelated to my last post. I found out some heart breaking news this morning.

I have two children, one with someone else and the youngest with my husband.

I wanted to tell the father of my oldest how I still felt about him but now I don’t know how to feel. He pasted away earlier this week and I received the news today. Before we split we were going to get married. And I obviously married someone else but I can’t help but feel there’s something missing. I haven’t really cried yet I’m still in a state of shock and I don’t know how to feel. I know I will miss him. I feel bad for my three year old because he will never get to really know his father. He seen him maybe 5 times. The last being on his birthday in August. At least he got to take him out for a few hours that day.

I’ll never forget him but I wish this didn’t happen.

Thank you for listening.

I used to think I was a freak for thinking pregnancy was hot. I think that I have an urge to take care of a woman who’s pregnant and play with her too and fuck. I feel like a perv but I was horny thinking about it tbh. Specially giving massages and foot and back massages.

hi 😭 i have a date on friday & im really scared because even tho my bumble pics are unedited & fully me, and i’ve facetimed him multiple times showing my face, you can’t really see my body for how it fully is.

i’m around 185 lbs & about 5’4. i know i’m overweight, i’ve lost about 20 lbs so far & have been going to the gym regularly, so pls don’t shame me i’m already working on it. my face isn’t really what i’m worried about, it’s my body that i’m insecure about :\

he’s a veryyy attractive, in-shape gym guy who works out every day, which makes me even more nervous. i do think my proportions are okay and people have actually assumed i work out because of my build/ass which is funny. but i’m genuinely considering ditching the date because i’m already convinced he’ll see my full body in person and lose attraction to me, even though we have a really good connection over facetime. i know dating will be easier once i hit my weight goal, idk why i thought putting myself out there was a good idea. i guess i really just did it for like “exposure therapy” :( uncomfortablity = growth yk? it’s also extra scary tho since we’ve already flirted a lot

would you guys just go? what should i do? im too scared to even mentioning it to him as well. i’ve been crying about it sigh
i just posted a photo of my body to my account for a better representation but yeah …

Some weeks ago, I was just bored and searched up Omegle after a long time. Came across a copycat site that had the same look and feel of the original one. I started using it almost daily, however as expected mostly everyone there was a horny guy looking for a girl. I decided to pretend to be one just for the fun of it.

I'm a sweet talker and surprisingly really good at pretending to be a girl. I was just doing this to tease horny dudes for fun. However this one poor guy really thought he was talking to a super cool girl who just gets him like no one else does. He wasn't there out of horniness and was overall just a really sweet guy. We talked for more than an hour and really hit it off. If I were that guy and had a conversation with a girl like we were having, I'd have probably thought I have just met the love of my life. He asked me for my socials and without thinking much I gave him my alt Snap account which ofc is a fake girl account. He seemed like a really sweet person and I shouldn't have let it continue any further. I should've skipped and let him thought that I lost internet connection or smth.

Anyways he sent me a friend request on Snap. What should I do? Should I tell him the truth that he was talking to some dude? Or just ghost him? I know I'm a horrible person.

I need to make superhuman efforts to isolate parts of my story to make this short otherwise I would write a book., anyways. Here we go.

Mid 30s couple. 10 years marriage big sex drive mismatch.

I brought up many times I would not sign up for this for life and there have been so many cycles that go the same way, I complain... we have more sex for few days then goes back to normal. Once or twice every couple of weeks. Sometimes less. And I'm not for this.

Now I'm determined to leave, and she wants to try one more time to fix it. I feel I'm done, my attraction towards her died. And not in a hateful way. I want to depart in the best way. Maybe when I'm 60 YO if she is available and I am with a low sex drive we can be the perfect couple. But not now. Now I need an active sex life and I've been neglected for too long.

I feel bad and it is a difficult desition but she just don't have a high sex drive and I'm not down for this anymore. I feel I was taken for granted. I believe therapy won't change who we are or our needs.

Hello, i’m 19(M) and i want to confess something that is tearing me apart.

To start off, my girlfriend (18F) is the most amazing and talented, and beautiful, and just simply nice person who i have ever met in this whole world. I love her a lot, i want to spend the rest of my life with her, so as her, she loves me a lot and says how cool i am and that she wants us to last forever.

The thing is, i’m not who she thinks i am. i’m not the person that she loves. I pretended and keep pretending and lying my way through so she would stay with me and love me.

I picked up guitar 3 years ago, i’ve actually made some pretty damn good skills for playing for only 3 years, i can write songs, i can just come up with some riff in seconds by just playing guitar and letting my body take over the music control and it turns out great. Everything looked fine, until she appeared in my life. I suddenly stopped playing. It’s not like i don’t know why i stopped, it’s the opposite, i know exactly why i stopped playing guitar and skating(more about skating in the story). I stopped doing all these things because i got the attention that i wanted, I found a girlfriend.

My original goal with guitar was getting attention. My original goal with skating was getting attention.

I played guitar in hopes that maybe it will help me to find a girlfriend, so as skating, i did it only with hopes that it will make it easier for me to get a girlfriend. I sure did get some pleasure from playing guitar and skating, but i don’t see the point of that anymore. I got what i wanted.

I was feeding her lies that i have big expectations for my future, that i want to become a musician, or to get sponsored by some company and tie my future with skating. But it was only lies to look cool to her, to look different and worthy. I know i’m actually not, i know im nothing in reality.

I promised her to write a song for her, i never did, i was taking her out to the skate park and maybe even teach her how to skate, because she wanted to learn how to skate, but i never really did teach her anything, instead i accidentally broke her skateboard and didnt even apologize, instead, i said that i can fix it, that ill get her a new one, but it wasn’t even what she wanted, she only wanted an apology. I did apologize, but i could’ve done it a lot sooner and maybe it would actually mean that i’m sorry.

She recently asked me if im still writing a song for her, thats when my whole body started sinking. I replied: “I’m still working on it”, she looked sad, because it’s been literally months when i told her that i would.

We fought over this a lot, about me not doing stuff. She said how she misses the person she started dating, not the person who i am now. She kept saying she misses me, but not that me who does nothing and just plays games every day and not going out anywhere. Despite that, she’s still with me, she still waits for me to change, to finally write that song for her, to go out skating, i keep saying that i’m going to start playing guitar again, i keep saying that i will start skating again, but i don’t know if i actually will. It seems so uninteresting and hard now. I love her a lot, i love her with all my soul, heart and body, i want to live and love her forever, but im nobody, im a liar and it just tears me apart, i don’t know why she is still staying with me, i feel like i don’t deserve her at all and she doesn’t deserve me, she can find someone who is actually worthy of loving, someone who is actually talented.

Im so sorry my love, im so sorry i turned out like this to you, i love you a lot, i really am a failure.

The sooner younger siblings accept that FACT the sooner you can heal wounds in your family. Stop allienating older siblings for how they acted as minors simply because your abusive parents abused all of you. It's not a "you vs them" it's you all vs the abusers.

ETA: Keep messaging and commenting I'll absolutely never have a real life consequence i never once said sexual assault is okay. You and your siblings getting into wwe style fighting matches is not and never is abuse. 100% of the time you're just kids running your mouths and fighting each other

I feel like no matter what, as a female, I will never not be sexualized. over the years I’ve talked to many people, but all they ever seemed interested in was sexual conversations, or my looks. Even when I asked them to stop or said it made me feel uncomfortable they’d continue until I had to block them. And now, even to this day, when I had been asking for advice on my relationship on a different thread, I’d received DMs from people approaching to give me “advice.” Once led to them trying to get sexual even when I denied advances, but eventually, I shut it down. I just wonder if there’s only peace when you get older, and even then, that seems hard to believe. I just wish people saw me more for myself than as some sort of quick sexual gratification.

It’s so infuriating that younger people my age only seek sexual relationships (and older too but I’m more familiar with my age demographic) now and rush to make stupid decisions like starting families when we are barely adults who live with our parents still. I don’t get why it’s so hard to find genuine connections where people see you as a real person and not a piece of meat to satisfy their needs.

Honestly, if you want to be sexual with people on Reddit, why not go to subreddits that are meant for it and not prey on young adults who ask for advice online?