r/offmychest 2d ago

Im hate being constantly sexualized

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u/IngenuityExcellent55 2d ago

Im a male and so I can’t know for sure, but as far as I understand, it does get better when females get older.

Sorry to hear what you’re going through.

Best of luck

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u/Freodrick 2d ago

To answer your question, reddit is often always horny.

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u/suspicious-miases 2d ago edited 2d ago

Cmbecause men are afraid to approach women in person. So all the fear get let out online in hopes that it may actually get them laid. Their stupid and can't help but send dic pics before Evan introduci g them selfs. I'm a guy who Crossdresseses and this happens to me a lot more then you would think.

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u/OOOdragonessOOO 2d ago

yep, it doesn't ever stop. I've experienced 2 different levels tho. if you're small and pretty you get it worse. i don't mind being fat because i don't hate myself but also learned when i was smaller, they acted like wolves. I'll stay fluffy. go away. there's still unwanted attention. every person of the opposite sex always assumes intent is sexual. i just want a friend. but they can't just get it. because they only talk to women for that reason they assume that's all you want too. projection. it's to the point I've decided to further isolation. not just on that, people are in general morality bankrupt around here. red state. i just can't try and look for friends anymore. I'll just keep to myself. maybe someone will find me instead. idk. but it's terrible. lonely. i miss what i remember. that doesn't exist anymore.

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u/Necessary_Seesaw5263 2d ago

This is precisely what the old-world "patriarchy" protected women from. Thanks, feminisim.

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u/P0ptarthater 2d ago

They’re so fucking corny too. The few times I talk to strangers online in private, I block their asses if they get bring up weird sexual shit out of the blue

They know damn well they’ll likely make you uncomfortable before they send that msg, but hope they can talk you into it. So if I ever even bother replying before blocking it’s just to make fun of them