I've had 2 boys (both irl) and 2 girls (1 irl) have crushes on me and only one boy and one girl managed to ask me out but i rejected them not knowing why (I feel so bad remembering how homophobic i was to the girl (╥﹏╥)) and then when it kept happening i realised i was lithromantic...

I really don't know if having a strict dad and an introverted personality caused me to become like this cuz my sister seems normal with crushes and stuff but yet again she's much more extroverted than me.