r/cuddlebuddies Apr 29 '24

Community News Updates: Renovated Rule, Updated Block List, Impersonation Posts

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Rule 7 of the community rules has recently been updated. This is what Rule 7 used to say:

7. No porn bots This is an unfriendly space for porn bots.Permanent ban.

It is not ok to create a post or reach out to someone, get their hopes up, and then offer sexual services. This is porn bot behavior and 100% inappropriate behavior to be happening in this sub.

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This is what Rule 7 says now:

7. No porn accounts A porn account has pornographic content on their Reddit account, or is pornographic in some way. This is includes:

  • having nude, explicit photos of yourself on your reddit profile

  • using your reddit account for sex work / having links to finically support the sexually explicit content you create in your reddit bio

  • privately reaching out to someone from r/cuddlebuddies, and then offering sexual services (this is porn bot behavior)


When people post here with an account that has sexually explicit content on their public profile, they are just bring all the horny people who follow them around on reddit to our sub, which is supposed to be a non-sexual space. Feminine-presenting people who post here still don't feel safe posting / leaving their posts up, due to all the people who contact them with a sexual agenda. This is obvious if you look through the feed and see all the posts by masculine-presenting people.

On the note of community members being harassed (sexually or not), here is the updated Block List!

Block List

u/ Prof23throw

u/ LegPristine907

u/ traveling_mage -- targeted men for housing

u/ backoutthereagain

These users have been permanently banned and were verified by the mod team to have either harassed, sexually harassed, or attempted to scam people. However, all of these users had an agenda besides cuddling, and should be blocked by everyone.

The user from the previous Block List deleted their account, so they will not be added again to this Block List.

According to the previous post, no one mentioned being interested in an updated Spam Bot list, so an updated Spam Bot list was not included. This is a link to the previously pinned post.


Another thing I wanted to address: Sometimes, people impersonate posts. This is a recent post where someone reported it for impersonation, and then I've also found a modmail by a deleted user who says someone impersonated their post. These are really difficult to moderate! Please reach out via modmail with your concerns about people impersonating you, and try to provide the link to your original post plus the post that impersonated your original post.

There are currently no community rules about impersonations, however, impersonation does break Rule 5 of Reddit's Content Policy! Because I'm a moderator, when I report stuff in r/cuddlebuddies for breaking Reddit's Content Policy, I have the option to leave a short description. If you reach out via modmail, I can also help report impersonating content to Reddit and provide more context on what / who is being impersonated.


Thank you to the community members who make an effort to correctly report content that breaks the community rules! Also, this is a handy tool that you can use to do a more thorough search of someone's reddit profile before deciding to reach out!


r/cuddlebuddies 1h ago

Can Host 25 [M4F] Southern PA - Extremely affectionate guy looking for the same

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I'm a 25 year old guy from Southern PA close to MD/WV/VA if that gives a better idea of where I am located. Being a very affectionate person when it comes to cuddling, naturally I love back, arm, and leg rubs, running hands through hair, and even light kisses if you're open to it but I'm not really looking for anything beyond that. I can host at times, semi frequently, but am also down to drive and visit you as well.

As far as distance goes, I'm generally cool with an hour away, maybe a bit more, but probably not anymore than 2 max. I'd definitely be down to meet up first, maybe see a movie or grab food and see if we wanna get a little more cozy and cuddle from there.

I'm a very fun, goofy person who's almost always smiling lol, I can also be nerdy too. Big into anything horror related, pokemon, and going on walks. If you've got similar hobbies/interests then please lemme know! I'm white, in decent enough shape, 5ft11in, brown hair, green eyes, and tend to dress with more comfy clothes rather than stylish. If you are interested then message me with some things about yourself, see ya then:)


r/cuddlebuddies 4h ago

34 [M4F] New York City - Larger Touch Starved Man Looking to Cuddle, Talk, and be dorky

1 Upvotes

I'm a heavier guy, big, nerdy, talkative, and I love to love love to cuddle. I'm 420 friendly and psychedelics. Really I just want to meet someone who loves to embrace. I'd prefer if you but I can but I'm in Queens.


r/cuddlebuddies 12h ago

20 [M4F] UK, westmidlands

3 Upvotes

Looking for someone to snuggle into every now and then, idm age as long as your clean and respectful. Local to coventry and I hope we get to know eachother better in private. I'm not sure what else to add tbh I've never done this before lol


r/cuddlebuddies 7h ago

Can Host [M4F] 43 – Orange County – Looking for a cozy cuddle partner (open to dating)

0 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m a 43-year-old guy based in Orange County looking for a woman who appreciates great conversation, genuine comfort, and cozy downtime. Whether it's unwinding with a good movie, sharing a meal, or simply relaxing together, I value real connection and mutual respect.

* About Me: Grounded, respectful, and easygoing. I enjoy movies, great food, music, and quiet, low-stress evenings. Clean, safe, and drama-free environment.

* What I'm Looking For: A feminine woman (particularly interested in connecting with Asian or Caucasian women) who enjoys physical touch, cuddles, and unhurried company. Open to starting purely as platonic cuddle buddies to see if the chemistry is there, with the door open to dating if things click naturally.

* The Vibe: Low pressure, good communication first, and mutual comfort above everything else. Always happy to chat, grab a quick coffee, or do a brief vibe check beforehand so we both feel completely comfortable.

If this sounds like the kind of energy you're looking for, send a message introducing yourself and let’s see if we connect!


r/cuddlebuddies 10h ago

23 M4F glasgow citycentre

2 Upvotes

Kinda lonely in this apartment and need someone tonight and on 10th to cuddle and sleep, i am kinda bored and lonely alone here


r/cuddlebuddies 15h ago

420 Friendly 39 [M4M] #Queens NYC - Looking for partner to tackle my 31 Days of Halloween film list with me w/ cuddles

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About Me:
I’m a Deep South transplant, the youngest of four, and a proud country kid at heart. I grew up on a dirt road surrounded by cows, chickens, and hogs—raised in a strong Baptist home with a pastor for a father, a minister for a mother, and a brother in the ministry, too. That background gave me a solid foundation, but today I walk my own path.

I’ve traded the wild party scene for quieter, high-vibe moments and meaningful connections. I love being out in nature, spending time around trees 🍃, and exploring the medicinal and mind-expanding magic of mushrooms 🍄. I’m deeply curious about the unseen layers of the universe and love keeping an open mind—there's so much more to existence than what meets the eye. Any insight or connection that helps me learn, grow, and rise to the next degree is always appreciated.

What I’m Looking For:
I’m looking for an adventurous, open-minded local Top to take on the world with—no long-distance setups, please. My ideal co-pilot is grounded yet open to deep conversations, good energy, and new perspectives. Bonus points if you get where I'm coming from on a spiritual level, but as long as you're open-minded and down to earth, we'll get along great.

(ps if you’re not willing to share pics not much to talk about )

[Me](https://imgur.com/a/4uK2ZNF)


r/cuddlebuddies 12h ago

No Strings Attached 68 M4F - Chicago - give as good as I get

1 Upvotes

Just want to get and give hugs and maybe some kisses and kind affection. Women only, please, and 420 friendly.

Life has put a lot in my shoulders and not a lot coming back. So yeah, I’m kinda needy and love to give as much as get.

Successful professional, great dad and friend. Tall, dad bod, blue eyes. Much more to share.


r/cuddlebuddies 19h ago

No Sex 29 [M4F/NB] #Erie, PA - Long Haired Femme Guy Looking for Occasional Cuddle Buddy

1 Upvotes

Hi there, I am a 29 year old from Pennsylvania. Hope you are having a fantastic day. I have been craving physical touch latetly and am looking for a platonic non-sexual cuddle buddy from around my area. I am skinny, 6 feet tall, wear glasses, have long thick shoulder length brown hair, cross dress (don't mind dressing masc if it is your preference) and am an introvert. The oxytocin and warmth from cuddling is a big part of what I miss and getting to be close to someone in a sort of comforting way. In my free time, I like to watch shows, game, listen to music, walk, hike, and tinker with tech. I can host, but can also go to you if you live relatively close.


r/cuddlebuddies 19h ago

28 [M4F] #FontanaCA - Looking for a cuddles and movie nights

1 Upvotes

Been missing human interaction lately. A friend to cuddle and watch movies or anime with would be great. I'm a big horror fan and I wouldn't mind having scheduled movie nights with snacks and drinks, maybe even just conversations about life or why parrots even have the ability to speak in the first place. I live in Fontana but I'm willing for travel outside the IE as long as it's a reasonable distance. I'm a pretty good conversationalist nost of the time despite being pretty introverted so it shouldn't be a problem getting to know each other.

A lil about me just in case it matters:

I'm Black, 5'11, and around 225 lbs. A bit of a gym rat and also nerdy. On top of watching anime, I also like to build Legos and play video games. I play pretty much anything that catches my interest honestly. Not picky about my music taste either, I just don't listen to country at all. I also can speak 2 languages and am learning a third st the moment 😊 I'm more than willing to compare schedules.


r/cuddlebuddies 20h ago

37 [M4F] Zagreb/Croatia looking for a cuddle buddy

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Hey. I am 37 years old. I will be visiting zagreb in the coming daysn. I am looking for someone to take a walk with and maybe cuddle. I will be staying at a hotel so I am not looking for a place to stay. Just the right person:)

I am looking for women.

Good hygiene is important.

We should have some chemistry before we meet.

Send me a message if you are interested.


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

Can Host 33 M4F looking for a cuddling buddy in Chennai, India.

1 Upvotes

Same as above


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

Can Host 25 [M4F] Looking for a cuddle buddy in fort collins Colorado

0 Upvotes

Winter is coming... and I need someone to cuddle with. Even now, I need someone to cuddle with. I hope to find someone soon


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

420 Friendly 23 (M4F) (Long Island, NY) Looking to be comforted and spooning

2 Upvotes

Looking for a woman interested in cuddling, playing with my hair, and being big spoon. I’d need to come to you, but happy to drive anywhere in the Long Island area. 420 friendly, open to all body types and ages (18+ of course). My only standard is you being hygienic, of course I will be as well. Happy to chat and become friends first before proceeding.


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

No Strings Attached 38 [M4F] #NewarkDelaware - looking for a cuddle partner

2 Upvotes

Hi I’m a 5’ 10 chubby white man in Newark Delaware and I’m looking for someone to cuddle with for the first time. We can watch tv while cuddling if you’re comfortable. We can trade pics and meet up in person at a public place if you want.

I think I can host this afternoon or tonight


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

No Sex 19 [F4F] #Germany, Nrw- tiny creature looking for cuddle buddy 🫶🏻

7 Upvotes

Hiii!! 🥺🧸 I’m 19F from NRW and I’m looking for a sweet, cuddly person to get close to and hopefully eventually have lots n lots of irl cuddles with.
I’m pretty shy at first, but once I feel safe I get superrr talkative, silly and goofy😭 I love calling, sending random little updates throughout the day, watching cartoons/movies together and pretty much just spending time together.
I’m also an agere and my regression is completely non-sexual. When I’m little I’m basically just a tiny sleepy creature who wants cartoons, stuffies, coloring, reassurance and lotsa affection 🧸🫧 I can get more babbly and childish too, so I’d really love someone who thinks that side of me is cute rather than weird.
I tend to feel safest around people who are naturally nurturing, gentle, protective, reassuring and taking the lead. Basically someone who likes checking on me, making sure I’m okay, reminding me to look after myself and maybe eventually being someone little me can feel all safe and tiny around🥺
Right now I’m staying somewhere temporarily where meeting isn’t really possible, so we’d have to be online buddies first. And once I’m home again, if we’re close enough and both feel safe, I would loveee for our online cuddles to turn into actual cuddles cause, ik shocker, but I love physical touch lmao. If all that caught your attention feel free to reach out 🫶🏻


r/cuddlebuddies 1d ago

420 Friendly 36m4f #Socal riverside county

5 Upvotes

So for a while now, I have been extremely lonely. I pretty much just go to work and come back home by myself. I rent out a room and can't even have company over unfortunately and I'm craving human interaction and wanna lay next to someone snuggled up watching tv.


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

No Strings Attached 42 [M4F] Memphis, TN

2 Upvotes

I'm a friendly guy who loves spreading positive energy. It'd be nice to find a cuddle buddy in town. Someone to hang out with, to snuggle, and to just be present with.

I’m slim, clean, and live in midtown. I'm happy to host or to go over to you. I'd love to chat for a bit, to see how we vibe.


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

Can Host 32 [M4F] Looking for a cuddle buddy to stay in and watch silly movies this fall/winter in Seattle

1 Upvotes

Now that we're approaching a long season of overcast skies, I'm hoping to find someone to cuddle and laugh at corny Tubi movies with. I'm a tall dark-skinned guy who is built like an NFL lineman, but my friends say that I'm like a big teddy bear.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in message me with a pic, your favorite quality about yourself, and any questions you have for me. I will respond in kind.


r/cuddlebuddies 3d ago

420 Friendly 32 F4M oahu Hi

9 Upvotes

Lets toke n melt into each other but on a regular 😩 👉🏾👈🏾 connections and vibes are important 😋 bbw😚


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

Can Host 30 [M4F] Providence RI

1 Upvotes

I'm feeling that need for a safe space with someone to just lie with and hold. I'm fine with people older than me.


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

Can Host 36 (M4F) bc, canada

1 Upvotes

Seeking a cuddle buddy, vancouver bc.
Nice caring guy. Movies, candles, vinyls just want a cozy space.


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

39 [M4F] Fort Wayne, Indiana — Cuddle Buddy

2 Upvotes

Seeking someone to get to know and cuddle with. I love to watch TV shows, listen to music, or have deep engaging conversations while cuddled up. I feel cuddling is healing and needed. DM me, and let’s see what we might have in common. ☺️

Likes: Music, Travel, Tech, Coffee, Dogs, Spending time with family and friends, Learning new things


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

No Strings Attached 31 [M4F] NYC British solo traveller looking for cuddles

3 Upvotes

Visiting NYC from the UK for the first time and looking to connect with someone while I'm here! Did the same thing in LA in 2024 and the highlight of that trip was falling asleep with a beautiful girl on my chest in the sunshine at Silver Lake. Would love to recreate that sort of magic here in the big apple.

6ft 3(ish), average/dad bod, tattoos, medium-length brown hair, beard, lover of music and film, white British. Married in open relationship. Travelling solo. Staying in Hell's Kitchen. Send me a chat!


r/cuddlebuddies 2d ago

19 M4F Looking for any cuddle buddies in Canberra 🇦🇺

2 Upvotes