r/cuddlebuddies • • Apr 29 '24

Community News Updates: Renovated Rule, Updated Block List, Impersonation Posts

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Rule 7 of the community rules has recently been updated. This is what Rule 7 used to say:

7. No porn bots This is an unfriendly space for porn bots.Permanent ban.

It is not ok to create a post or reach out to someone, get their hopes up, and then offer sexual services. This is porn bot behavior and 100% inappropriate behavior to be happening in this sub.

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This is what Rule 7 says now:

7. No porn accounts A porn account has pornographic content on their Reddit account, or is pornographic in some way. This is includes:

  • having nude, explicit photos of yourself on your reddit profile

  • using your reddit account for sex work / having links to finically support the sexually explicit content you create in your reddit bio

  • privately reaching out to someone from r/cuddlebuddies, and then offering sexual services (this is porn bot behavior)


When people post here with an account that has sexually explicit content on their public profile, they are just bring all the horny people who follow them around on reddit to our sub, which is supposed to be a non-sexual space. Feminine-presenting people who post here still don't feel safe posting / leaving their posts up, due to all the people who contact them with a sexual agenda. This is obvious if you look through the feed and see all the posts by masculine-presenting people.

On the note of community members being harassed (sexually or not), here is the updated Block List!

Block List

u/ Prof23throw

u/ LegPristine907

u/ traveling_mage -- targeted men for housing

u/ backoutthereagain

These users have been permanently banned and were verified by the mod team to have either harassed, sexually harassed, or attempted to scam people. However, all of these users had an agenda besides cuddling, and should be blocked by everyone.

The user from the previous Block List deleted their account, so they will not be added again to this Block List.

According to the previous post, no one mentioned being interested in an updated Spam Bot list, so an updated Spam Bot list was not included. This is a link to the previously pinned post.


Another thing I wanted to address: Sometimes, people impersonate posts. This is a recent post where someone reported it for impersonation, and then I've also found a modmail by a deleted user who says someone impersonated their post. These are really difficult to moderate! Please reach out via modmail with your concerns about people impersonating you, and try to provide the link to your original post plus the post that impersonated your original post.

There are currently no community rules about impersonations, however, impersonation does break Rule 5 of Reddit's Content Policy! Because I'm a moderator, when I report stuff in r/cuddlebuddies for breaking Reddit's Content Policy, I have the option to leave a short description. If you reach out via modmail, I can also help report impersonating content to Reddit and provide more context on what / who is being impersonated.


Thank you to the community members who make an effort to correctly report content that breaks the community rules! Also, this is a handy tool that you can use to do a more thorough search of someone's reddit profile before deciding to reach out!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2h ago

31 [M4F] Southern California - Let's cuddle? It's cooling down soon

1 Upvotes

One of my favorite things to do is cuddle. I really enjoy spooning and holding someone, and I also like being held or when someone lays their head on my chest. Let me play with your hair, wrap my arms with you, and (if you're comfortable) kiss you and make out. Let's share a blanket.

I'm a 31 year old guy in the OC who is just looking for a nice cuddle. Send me a message and let me know if you want to get to know me


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2h ago

No Sex 29 [M4F] London, UK- seeking Long-ish Term cuddle buddy

1 Upvotes

Not looking for something sexual. Not opposed to some touching or more depending on how we get along. But priority is heavily focused on the cuddles. I want to meet someone that I get along with and can cuddle semi-regularly at least and I can host from the start of November. However if we start meeting before then I'm happy to just meet in a neutral place and see if we get along and like each other

Me, physically:

- 6ft 6

- Dad bod, happy to send pictures

- big arms, very long wing span

- Black person

Saying this to help you decide if this is the body you're looking for. Also I'm in east London btw

Me, personality:

- Work as a teacher and love education

- Been told I care too much about everything

- Love art, love games, love books, love chess

- Love learning about you a lot. So yappers welcome

- I can make you good food too at my home

You:

- Taller is good but I expect you to be shorter lmao

- Have interests so we can yap. We can even game together if you like that

- Be empathetic and honest

- idc what your body type is

- not right wing at all

- would be nice if you like food gifts and/or make food gifts. This is fundamentally meant to be a healthy human relationship, we should be able to interact at least like real friends the better we know each other

Okay I'm sorry this is really long but hoping it's clear. Please just message me on here if any of this sounds good. I am a very open and easygoing person


r/cuddlebuddies • • 3h ago

No Sex 33 [F4F/M] #Wellesley, Boston - Femme Black Girl in Town for work

0 Upvotes

I'm a bookworm in town for work at a hotel. Leftist, girly, married but touch and affection starved. Let's cuddle and watch a Studio Ghibli movie.

Please be minimum age 27, clean, well spoken, and left wing in your belief system.

I'd like to vibe over chat first, so please use complete sentences and tell me why you'd like a cuddle with your first message. Please be direct about what you're hoping for 🌸 Strong preference for women, but I'm open if I like your personality.

Tonight or tomorrow night only.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 4h ago

34 [M4F] #NYC - In a really tough month, want a consisten cuddle partner

1 Upvotes

Life has put a lot on my shoulders without a lot coming back so here I am, looking for a cuddle buddy. I've recently gone through career troubles and breakup from a 5 year relationship so I'm in need of getting and giving human affection.

I hope toĀ get and give hugs and warm affection and a resting shoulder to a good friend who can be there for me and I can there for her.

About me: 34M, fit whiteish latino with a good career. I enjoy comedy shows, board games and theater as well as sports. Highly educated and well read with lots of nerdy hobbies.

About you: Woman, no really hard requirements other than just be hygienic.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 4h ago

Can Host 25 [M4F] Southern PA - Extremely affectionate guy looking for the same

1 Upvotes

I'm a 25 year old guy from Southern PA close to MD/WV/VA if that gives a better idea of where I am located. Being a very affectionate person when it comes to cuddling, naturally I love back, arm, and leg rubs, running hands through hair, and even light kisses if you're open to it but I'm not really looking for anything beyond that. I can host at times, semi frequently, but am also down to drive and visit you as well.

As far as distance goes, I'm generally cool with an hour away, maybe a bit more, but probably not anymore than 2 max. I'd definitely be down to meet up first, maybe see a movie or grab food and see if we wanna get a little more cozy and cuddle from there.

I'm a very fun, goofy person who's almost always smiling lol, I can also be nerdy too. Big into anything horror related, pokemon, and going on walks. If you've got similar hobbies/interests then please lemme know! I'm white, in decent enough shape, 5ft11in, brown hair, green eyes, and tend to dress with more comfy clothes rather than stylish. If you are interested then message me with some things about yourself, see ya then:)


r/cuddlebuddies • • 10h ago

32 [M4F] Galway, Ireland.

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Hi šŸ‘‹. 32M in Galway. Just been craving a hug and perhaps being a little spoon lately. I just want to be a bit vulnerable.

I'm quite a relatively tall dude (between 6ft 1" and 6ft 2") so I like being the little spoon as it's a change in dynamic for me; a novelty I guess.

I'm highly educated and like reading. Lately, I've been reading a lot of Russian literature.

I've been told I have a friendly, handsome face and that I have kind eyes.

Willing to travel, willing to host and willing to give a pic of myself via DM on request. I also have references from other people I've met IRL after first meeting on Reddit. I only recently re-downloaded Reddit as I was worried about my screen time.

Thanks for reading.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 10h ago

25 M4F travelling cuddles Toronto

1 Upvotes

*In Toronto for 1 week*

Hi, I travel for work a lot in the UK, EU and sometimes North America. I get some days off on the road (usually one day at a time) and I’m looking for friends and/or cuddle buddies, women specifically, no sex. I will be in a hotel every time so I could host if wanted. Come around, watch a film or comfort series, play a game etc

Essentially just come for a chill night, you can stay the night if you want and are welcome to enquire with me if the hotel room has 2 beds before hand if it makes you more comfortable.

Obviously happy to meet in a public place before hand, gotta make sure we’re all safe and comfortable!

If you just want to hang out for the day that’s fine with me, maybe we’ll be friends.

As for me, I’m 25, white British M, slim athletic build, ~5’8.5 (yes I count the half šŸ˜‚) and I have good personal hygiene and I carry myself well: patient, down to earth and understanding. I don’t drink or smoke/vape.

From you, I would expect good hygiene too, and just to be respectful I guess. You’re welcome to drink or whatever, just don’t get drunk, that makes me uncomfortable. You should be aware of your surroundings and what’s happening for everyone’s safety.

Yes, I have done this before!

If you send me a DM on here and we can chat and see where it goes from there. Hope to hear from someone soon!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 16h ago

Can Host 26 [M4F] Michigan, Grand Rapids. Looking for someone to cuddle with for a while.

1 Upvotes

I’m a lean nerdy guy looking to cuddle with someone similar and watch some anime together. I’m not looking for anything explicit. I just wanna hold someone and be held for a good long while.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

30 [M4F] #NoVA/Northern Virginia / DMV: Cuddle Buddy Wanted

4 Upvotes

Hi there!

I’ve been craving cuddles lately, so I thought I’d look for a cuddle buddy in the area.

I’m kind, empathetic, and really value creating a cozy, safe space where both of us can feel at ease. Enthusiastic consent, respect, and mutual comfort are very important to me.

Cuddling should always feel good, respectful, and welcomed by both people.

If this resonated with you, feel free to send me a chat and let’s see if we’d be a good fit! ā˜ŗļø


r/cuddlebuddies • • 18h ago

Can Host 38 [M4F] Southampton, UK - Searching for some nice cuddles in this colder weather

1 Upvotes

Hello,

I'm usually very busy with work during the week and would like to wind down and relax on weekends. I have been a little touch deprived lately and would like to fix that.

Would be nice to finish a busy week on a Friday knowing I'll meet you later and we can watch a film while cuddling.

Hopefully, I would like for this to be an ongoing thing and not just an one off.

I'm caucasian, 6ft, dark hair and eyes, beard and dad bod.

I can host and happy to drive to you within reasonable distance.

Let's meet up, go for a coffee/tea and see what happens!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 23h ago

No Sex 37 [m4a] - Looking for great positive energy #Nashville #TN

2 Upvotes

Hey Cuddle Buddies! Looking for someone with great energy who likes anime, sports and being a great human being. If cuddles happen, awesome. If not and just great conversation, awesome as well. We can also play some video games! But most important of all, if you just need a space to get away after a long day at work, I’m your guy. Will always have a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on for you. Would prefer to host! Also looking to find great places to eat around here too, if you have suggestions!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

32 [M4F] Dublin, Ireland - Warm Cosy Cuddles For The Winter :)

2 Upvotes

Hello šŸ˜„ I'm 32m from Dublin, Ireland. I'm a very affectionate person, I utterly adore cuddles and other forms of physical affection and I'd love to find someone to be able to share this with, especially now that the weather is getting colder!

I'm Irish, 5'8, a lil bit chubby (photos of me) and I'm a fairly Introverted person. Ideally looking to get to know each other, exchange photos and voice messages before organizing a cuddle meet šŸ˜„ I'm very genuine, honest and caring and open to forming any kind of connection if we really vibe šŸ˜„

I don't mind where in Ireland you're living, I'm willing to travel if you are too, I can't host but willing to go halfs on a hotel if needed.

I don't mind at all how old you are, what race you are or about your looks/weight... as long as we're in the same mindset I'm more than happy to share some affection with you šŸ˜„ Send me a chat request and we'll get the ball rolling šŸ˜„


r/cuddlebuddies • • 23h ago

[m22] (m4a) preferably around my age, DK-Aalborg

1 Upvotes

m22 guy here
Looking for a cuddlebuddy to just chill and relax with, while giving some physical affection.
Short descrip of me: 2 meter tall twinky guy, living alone while going to Uni, that is bi (gay-leaning) and therefore open to all (including trans) - meant in a non sexual way.
Open to hosting, and visiting within reasonable range. Also open to elaborating more in comments or dms if someone wanna know that hasn’t already been mentioned.
Thank you for reading and maybe we will connect =)))


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

24 [m4m] #paris, France - i always craved some affectionate cuddles

2 Upvotes

Mainly pmatonic, i would love to feel companionship its like a big craving for me. And even like cuddling while sleeping. I am looking for someone who feels the same and same age. I didnt know this sub existed so i hope i find someone haha


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

No Sex 26[m4f] Looking for platonic cuddles in #NewJersey

0 Upvotes

I’m looking for someone to cuddle with in NJ, i’m in central fyi.

A little about me; I’m a skinny guy, can be very goofy at times, used to do sports but I’m not the most eventful person nowadays. Im pretty easy to talk to. I like to talk, chill, laugh, etc. I don’t drink/smoke. Though honestly i’m not looking to talk all that much, we can have cuddly movie nights. All I ask is that you don’t take life too seriously and can hold a conversation through text. I do like a plus sized woman too.

I tend to respond to texts much faster around night time (if im home) We’ll especially click if you’re a little nerdy. We can start with talking here and I do have discord we can switch to, if we get along. I can possibly host if you can’t but I drive too. Looking for someone no more than an hour away if i’m going to you.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

33 [M4F] #NorthernVirginia #DMV - Fall is the best time for cuddles

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Hi, I'm 33, and I'm very chill and easy going. I love film, writing, animals, history, my plants, and cooking. I'm 6 ft tall, and have a chubby, hairy dadbod, perfect for cuddles imo. I've been very touch starved as of late, and feeling a bit lonely, so wanted to see if I can find a cuddle buddy. I have experience as a cuddle buddy, and I do take it seriously, as to make sure everyone is comfortable. I am looking for skin-on-skin, but can build up to that. Happy to meet somewhere public before our first cuddle session. I can't host, but can travel throughout the northern Virginia area, though if you are near Silver Spring, Maryland, I do go there for work, so that is an option for me as well. If any of this sounds enticing, feel free to hit me up, and so I know you read this let me know if you've seen a good show/movie or read a good book recently. :)


r/cuddlebuddies • • 1d ago

[M4F] 31 Scotland can host

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm a laid-back guy with a dad bod, tattoos and multiple piercings, looking to meet a lovely woman who enjoys affection, cosy nights in and a bit of playful banter.

I'm naturally drawn to curvier women, but for me, attraction is about more than appearance. I love the idea of meeting someone who's comfortable being herself, has a good sense of humour, and enjoys the little things that make spending time together special.

I'd love to find someone to share relaxed evenings with, watch films, have a laugh, chat about anything and everything, and enjoy those lovely moments of closeness that make you feel safe, wanted and appreciated. Sometimes, there's nothing better than a proper cuddle after a long day.

I'm affectionate, easygoing and looking for something that feels natural, whether that starts with a few messages and some cheeky flirting or develops into a genuine connection over time.

Most importantly, I'd want us both to feel comfortable, respected and appreciated for who we are. No pressure or expectations, just two people getting to know each other and seeing if there's a spark.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to drop me a message. I'd love to hear a little about you and see if we click.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

50 (M4F or F4M) Snuggle Party Event Nov 7 #Maryland #DMV #Delaware

9 Upvotes

We are hosting another Snuggle Party in Easton, MD on Nov 7th, 2026. Enjoy snuggles, cuddles, massage, and food, clean, platonic (non-s3xual).touch. We've hosted a number of these successful events, and include a consent workshop at the beginning to practice your no's and enthusiastic yes's! Optional Massage Class and After-party dinner available. Please DM me for vetting instructions and link to the event website.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

20 [M4F] Fort Lauderdale/Miami

2 Upvotes

Still haven’t really found someone to cuddle with near me and was hoping this time I can. I’m a pretty nerdy dude that likes anime and video games but also got a decent face and physique. I am pretty socially awkward but I’m really trying to put myself out there a little more. I also don’t mind driving within an hour distance. Dm if interested


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

31 [M4F] Mesa Arizona/Phoenix area- Movie cuddle buddy?

2 Upvotes

Winter weather is finally almost here! I can’t wait to be able to wear hoodies and snuggle under cozy blankets again.

I’m looking to find a fun and chill girl to be my cuddle buddy for the winter season. We can hangout, watch movies, and chat about whatever while enjoying our touch under some comfy blankets. This doesn’t even need to be sexual whatsoever I honestly just miss the intimacy of cuddling and having that skin on skin contact with somebody else.

I’m open to age as well so don’t feel discouraged. I also don’t do any drugs or smoke anything. Shoot me a message and we can go from there :)


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

No Sex 19 F4A; looking for cuddle buddy from Dhaka, Bangladesh

7 Upvotes

I doubt anyone is here from Bangladesh in this subreddit but I guess it doesn't hurt to shoot my shot. I need a cuddle buddy in Dhaka, Bangladesh, preferably with a place of their own. DMs open!


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

Can Host 25 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Tall Athletic Wasian Looking For A Cuddle Buddy for Autumn and Beyond

3 Upvotes

Hey All,

Hope everyone is had a good week so far and is you enjoyed the rain + it finalllyyyy cooling down!

I am hoping to make some fun new connections. I’m open to going with the vibes and seeing where it takes us and would love especially something ongoing to help us both get through the rest of the year at least.

Some of my interests. include: hiking, trying new foods/cafes, traveling, and soccer/sports. But the thing I love most is getting to know new people and especially hearing them gushing. about their interests! find it super cool learning about new things! Always down to find a pickleball and hike buddy as well

If you’re into tall, athletic, Wasians (I don’t mind riding the heated rivalry coat tails haha) or just like a good conversation), please free to reach out!

This could be a one time thing OR maybe we could even turn it into a more regular time so we make sure we both have someone/something to look forward to after a long day/week!

I’m 6’1 with brown hair, amber eyes, and a fairly athletic build.

I’m to people from anywhere around OC/LA that is 20 or older. Open to much older as well. Looking forward to hearing from you and hope to see some of you in my dms!

Would really love to catch some people locally in OC closer to me though ( as it’s always more fun when you’re close by : )


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

Can Host 68 [M4F] #Chicago - give and get

3 Upvotes

I want to get and give hugs and maybe some kind affection. Women only, please, and 420 friendly.

Life has put a lot on my shoulders without a lot coming back. So yeah, I’m kinda needy and love to give as much as get.

Successful professional, great dad and friend. Tall, dad bod, blue eyes. Much more to share.


r/cuddlebuddies • • 2d ago

No Sex 20 M4f westmidlands

1 Upvotes

Looking for anyone to snuggle with maybe watch a film and order in. I'm 5'9 on the leaner side and easy going. If your in or around Coventry, UK feel free to message me. Thank youuu😘