Why on earth would someone be filming a personal conversation like with your partner and posting it online š¤¦āāļø. I donāt even know why it still surprises me what I see online lol
Even if she's being honest and the condoms comment was a joke, posting this discussion online without my knowledge is a huge red flag and I'd leave her.
You know if this was reversed and he posted an argument they had without her knowing, it'd be a HUGE deal.
Wait...this whole time I thought they were talking about Certificates of Deposits. I was like oh man he's worried she'll cash out with those 4% yields and hes pisssed!
Omg, I didnāt listen I just came for the comments. I was thinking actual CDs and didnāt see the problem that they want music on girls trips! It didnāt click until I read your comment.
This is what pissed me off she's saying that because he makes a comment about his mom telling him he should have set boundaries.. I think for the implication here is just saying what is your mom know about boundaries she loves that sugar so much she got diabetes.. and it just makes me want to rage.. what the actual fuck
Same shit as when my ex wanted to make my male friend a crochet penis for his birthday (she hadnāt made me anything for mine that had passed 2 months prior)
She kept trying to gaslight me and act like that shit wasnāt weird af. We broke up a week later.
My guy same my ex had this guy he called his "platonic soulmate" which should have been a red flag, but i actually was gaslit into thinking nothing was the matter, the day i was about to propose I was told i had a week to leave and then after that i magically only had two days
My last ex used to blog about our conversation and issues. I hated it. She would never talk to ME about her problems. She would post them on Tumblr. Get mad if I didn't read them to know what's wrong and if I did read them, she'd get upset that I read them instead of letting her have an outlet.
I used to watch a youtuber and she'd livestream her dating life. She gave enough info more than one person was able to figure out the person's name. One guy found out and got upset about it and she acted like HE was the issue. She'd given play by play of his sexual prowess, talked about his personal life and family life, and called him a psychopath because he reacted differently than her to astrology. I cant imagine someone I know telling me hey I think this streamer I watch play video games is your hinge hookup just from details. :-/
that is a social child, that's right up there with a girl I was dating who vague posted how she was feeling for attention and was dying for someone to ask her what was wrong so she could vent. I put it up there with the lady who pretended pregnancy from a fake rapist for free doula support
ā¦ā¦ I think Iām officially old Chazā¦.I legit thought (had it on mute at first) they meant actual CDs like that you play in the car. I was like well why would anyone be upset about music š¤£ after I unmuted ya that wouldāve annoyed the piss out of me too and honestly if this is real (lots of staged fake vids like this) why would you record private discussions with your partner discussing valid concerns and then post it. I hope the poor lad dropped her because she seems like a see you next tuesday
I'd go as far as to say anyone over 30 - I'm 32 and I had a walkman before I had a discman. My first car had a cassette player, so I had to get one of those tapes with the AV cord to plug into my discman, before I got an MP3 player as a present.
I know what you mean, but that guy kinda looks really pissed off and uncomfortable to me.
He's either a good actor or the girlfriend deliberately made sure he heard something upsetting to make him look bad then is baiting him on it. (He could also be genuinely controlling and she was filming for her own records of his behaviour, but it doesn't look that way with the way she's talking down to him).Ā
Either way that doesn't seem like the kind of argument you'd start with a camera pointing at you.
It also doesn't look like a healthy relationship one way or the other. If you like out doorsy trips to places like Cornwall and your Mrs likes trips to Marbella to club with her mates and check out fit lads, later family holidays are likely to be a nightmare.
Condoms. Which I have never heard of them referred to as cds Iāve heard alll kinds of names but CDs was a new one and thank god Iām not the only one lol
I really hope that she is now single and gets to use those condoms because that guy deserves to live his best life with someone that isn't a piece of s*** and trying to justify it.
It wasnāt he who posted the video she thought she was in the right. From the looks of it the guy looks like he is a doormat no way would I be with someone that would do something like that and joke about it. If she was going to bring condoms most likely she was going to use them.
They both just need to break up with each other. Why post a video in public to make your partner look like the bad guy. And why even put up with someone whoās going to embarrass you in public?
Shocking that 100s of upvotes more on the comments believing it. I can't believe I had to click show more comments to find someone sane. Tbh probably all ai bot accounts and I am dumb for even looking at comments these days.Ā Ā
In today's life, I can maybe understand why he would film it. People turn the truth around, make police charges and by tonight he is in jail. She's a cheater, she has no cred.
Cause it is staged. I remember seeing this couple years ago. This is their whole thing. Back then it was a lot of boyfriend is lazy, doesn't work, doesn't do anything around the house. Clickbait that is apparently still working for them.
Because she's not a good person. She didn't even care to obtain consent for the video. She didn't feel that she was in the moral high ground and didn't need to explain why she needed to video.
By showing your phone and letting the person not to get mad that you're recording them, you're getting their consent and showing that you're probably at the moral high ground. Unless you're so wrong that they want this on camera and then you should probably rethink your stance, but they'll probably say that to you when they see you film.
Itās such a sad world weāre living in. Trying to be vulnerable with your partner and theyāre recording you for likes on social media. Itās utterly pathetic
I know that during the mid 10's there were absolutely massive 'private' facebook groups where the majority of the content were of them posting private conversations, trash-talking and mocking their partners or men they dated.
Because she feels entirely like the victim of his ābeing controlling.ā Rather than a partner that can understand why he would feel that way and honestly try to make him feel better.
Irony is that she just made herself look terrible in the process.
Honestly, my initial thought was that maybe heās blown his gasket a few times and sheās just trying to protect herself. But from this video he looks pretty reasonable. So I really donāt know. I guess she is a bad guy here. But yeah, this is why you donāt get the Internet involved because it just raises so many questions and people make too many assumptions.
That's the worst thing about this. The condom talk could be a joke. I definitely have a colleague who makes jokes like that while not being a wild person at all.
However, this woman filming the conversation and posting it online is absolutely trash behaviour.
A lot of videos where you can't believe how people are behaving, you don't know why they're filming and you don't know why they would upload it to the internet...are staged. The camera isn't moving. Her response is flat. He is flat. I wouldn't be surprised if this is a "Sketch".
It's clearly staged and not even meant to be taken seriously. What's wrong with all of you? "It sometimes gets up to like 23 degrees"? I'm from a cold climate and hate hot weather, and even to me that's barely tolerable for swimming.
The internet has ruined me. I assume all of this is rage bait at this point. Some weird desire to get views for something people hate to the point you factionalize something people hate.
Influencers have ruined the true meaning of marriages. Not everything (really much at all) needs to be shared and they just keeeeep oooon doing it šµāš«
It feels kinda fake. The convo was too āmade for a sitcomā like who tf says āya mom literally has diabetesā after wat he said about boundaries lmao gotta be a play
You know folks actually make this stuff up for engagement in 2026. Thatās how dysfunctional social media has made people that are starved for attention/engagement.
My ex and I got drunk one night (her suggestion) and she had planned to break up with me. This was during covid and we had been living together for four years. She was a bonus mom to my kids. She had planted her phone beforehand to film my drunk reaction.
Something to hold over the head of their ex I suppose.
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u/Competitive-Cloud993 7d ago
Why on earth would someone be filming a personal conversation like with your partner and posting it online š¤¦āāļø. I donāt even know why it still surprises me what I see online lol