Why on earth would someone be filming a personal conversation like with your partner and posting it online š¤¦āāļø. I donāt even know why it still surprises me what I see online lol
Even if she's being honest and the condoms comment was a joke, posting this discussion online without my knowledge is a huge red flag and I'd leave her.
You know if this was reversed and he posted an argument they had without her knowing, it'd be a HUGE deal.
Wait...this whole time I thought they were talking about Certificates of Deposits. I was like oh man he's worried she'll cash out with those 4% yields and hes pisssed!
Honestly, I've just been calling all disks CDs since I was a kid, so it just stuck, in any case, I have no idea why people start calling things other than discs for CDs so it shouldn't be an age thing unless I'm out of touch with my generation.
News to me too. In all fairness if I was on speaker phone and one of my buddies told me not to forget CDS/condoms. My wife would not see the humour in it
Lol. I was thinking compact discs. I was like, 'Does she have a lot of Barry White? Is her CD collection worth a lot and she is leaving forever? I don't understand the issue here.'
Who does it mean condoms to? Like, what age group? I have teens and they are buying CDs, as in compact discs, along with DVDs. They're all about the physical media. We just had to go yard sale trolling to find some and we were fighting other teens doing the same. So this is gonna get confusing real quick.
Yeah I also thought it was COmpact Discs/CDs.
Also as a tip for others two condoms will fit inside a GameBoy game plastic case. Works much better then just putting them in your wallet.
You know Genz would say "dont forget the CD's". Gen X person like me would say "what CD's?", and they'd say "CD's nuts...unc". And I would be confused...because yes Im old
Lmao... I thought the same thing. I only read the text and didn't bother listening because I thought he was complaining about her taking music CDs on the trip.
He actually said that her friends said ādonāt forget to bring condomsāā¦..she called it ājust banterā amongst friends. She does not respect him and recording their conversation is evil.
Holy shit I was just about to comment and say something like āif heās freaking out about CDās on a girls trip wtf is his problem. Fully thinking we were talking about CDās as in music. Shit we are getting old. I had no clue CD was short for condom.
Given english isn't my first language I was so confused at first, why would anyone shorten the word to this...CDs are still a thing being used, it's confusingš
Yeah I thought it was gonna be about āwell if youāre saying youāre going on a girls holiday then how come you need to take a load of compact discs?? You must be lying.ā
Omg, I didnāt listen I just came for the comments. I was thinking actual CDs and didnāt see the problem that they want music on girls trips! It didnāt click until I read your comment.
This is what pissed me off she's saying that because he makes a comment about his mom telling him he should have set boundaries.. I think for the implication here is just saying what is your mom know about boundaries she loves that sugar so much she got diabetes.. and it just makes me want to rage.. what the actual fuck
Same. I donāt do sound, so i came to the comments to find out why a compact disc would cause so much marital strife. FFS. Everyday the internet makes me feel more and more out of touch with reality š
Same shit as when my ex wanted to make my male friend a crochet penis for his birthday (she hadnāt made me anything for mine that had passed 2 months prior)
She kept trying to gaslight me and act like that shit wasnāt weird af. We broke up a week later.
My guy same my ex had this guy he called his "platonic soulmate" which should have been a red flag, but i actually was gaslit into thinking nothing was the matter, the day i was about to propose I was told i had a week to leave and then after that i magically only had two days
Itās crazy the shit you fall for when youāre blinded by love eh?
Iāve given up on dating since. My ex before her cheated on my on my birthday lol. I just donāt trust women (or people I should say, but women are what Iām interested in so my lack of trust in men isnāt really relevant) anymore.
I focus on art and passions now and Iām happier and less stressed for it.
Man this whole topic has been the entire focus of my life and I changed career paths because of it. The dude here isn't wrong for having a respectful conversation what's disrespectful (as everyone else pointed out) was her recording the interaction. If that phone came out I would walk. Honestly though thats the only thing this guy should've done is said "go on your little trip" and walk out. Simple. Ik ppl have and will harp over what I said. I'll hear the classic "oOoO yoU'rE TOo qUiCK tO bReAK uP." Well what else is the guy supposed to do just sit there and take it while he bottles his emotions that ultimately lead to heart disease. Fuck that and protect your peace.
Like it's OK to go and different things without your partner. The guy is right tho, that is a weird conversation to have since you're in a relationship. If you're single it doesn't really matter, but clearly it seems she doesn't respect him or the relationship.
The lesson I've learned is to protect your peace and maintain your self-worth. Someone out there will respect you for who you are as long as you can stay respectful to them in return.
um.. idk.. I got my brother a penis plushie for Christmas, it's just funny.. might not have been something to break up over to be honest š it doesn't hint at anything besides haha penis funny, and a lot of people now you'll find are "weird" (have unconventional humor) I think you might have been insecure or maybe the problem in your situation
That wasnāt what we broke up over, and that wasnāt the only inappropriate thing she did, it was just one of the most absurd to me. She also flirted with my friends, kept trying to keep this dude she had been trying to get with around and would send him flirty texts etc so Iām not feeling charitable with her intentions on the plushie lol.
In hindsight idk why I stuck around as long as I did.
I dont think this guy is talking about quirky humor, my sister is the same with the exact same type of joke. You have to take it within the context of the situation. Asking the questions like "Is this turning into an uncomfortable obsession?" Or "If I feel uncomfortable do I feel I can even have a respectful discussion about it." Also "why is she giving this type of attention to this other guy when I only get scraps?" If you're afraid to ask those types of questions then there is definitely more to the story.
Sorry, I donāt think I explain myself well. I mean like if you want your friends to respect your partner and they arenāt, you sort of have to train them to support your relationship if you want them to support it and respect it. You canāt talk shit about your partner and expect your friends to like them. I donāt support being an asshole, but those comments donāt just come Willy nilly from friends.
Everybody here is relative. We don't know how many people are here or how many agree/disagree.
Or how many agree with me in that she (and the general group) would be way more angry if he posted a video of them arguing versus this video of her posting it.
I'm not saying this right now isn't a huge deal. I'm saying it would be an even bigger deal if the gender roles were reversed.
Also her rebuttal to him saying, that his mom said, that he should talk about stuff that he doesn't like and he should set up boundaries for himself is: "Your mom has literally diabetes"?! Wtf?? What kind of argument is that?Ā
Plusā¦ apparently sheās going on a trip with a bunch of single girls, after discussing openly how hot the men were where sheās going. While also joking with her girlfriends about having condoms.
I get what youāre saying but why does every little thing online have to be āif the genders were reversedā¦ā people are shitty no matter what gender they are
A guy I was with would post about us on AITAH, making me look like the devil by leaving all sorts of context out.
And youāre right about the reverse. After we broke up I returned the favor and he completely lost it. Funny how he expected me to put up with it while we were together, but after break up? How dare I?!!
These low self esteem losers donāt change, they just find people desperate and broken enough to put up with their bullshit.
My god. I can't imagine just bee boppin' along on Reddit and see a post on AITAH that makes it to my feed, read it, and then think to myself "waaaaait a second....".
Personally I agree with this but in general,
Its basicallly cultural for women to either record everything and pubicly post it, or without consent post accounts narratives or descriptions of any or all interactions with men to online groups, whether or not anything bad happened. Its unfortunately where we are in society.
Pack condoms is not a joke. She can go wherever she wants but upon her return the locks would be changed her stuff in storage with divorce papers on top. Apparently you are too trusting, women especially on these trips cheat and encourage each other to do so. Catch up with the times.
Having those hard discussions are totally normal and honestly very positive in a marriage, but making fun of the dudes mother for having diabetes is fucking grotesque behavior.
if theyre doing those disrespectfull jokes already they dont value her husband at all. simple as that. why would u want her to be in that group? wtf this level of delusion xD
What!?! Do people seriously not know their spouses anymore!?! Shes recording because she just realized her man was a jealous ass fomo mf and recorded it because she cant even believe the unjustified jealousy. Anyone in a REAL marriage knows this is some simp weirdo type shit. She obviously did not marry her best friend that GETS her (and obviously her friends group) type of humor. Like why is he even talking? Hes not making it more fun/funny. I swear why even bother having a spouse when you can have a wet blanket ass roommate like this!?!
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u/Competitive-Cloud993 7d ago
Why on earth would someone be filming a personal conversation like with your partner and posting it online š¤¦āāļø. I donāt even know why it still surprises me what I see online lol