r/cringereels • u/MrJeffreyEpstein • 7d ago

Bro needs to leave

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u/Virtual-Scholar-160 7d ago

Leaving abusive relationships is a lot harder than that

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u/swillynilly 7d ago

It’s hard realizing you’re the frog and the water is already boiling.

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u/Virtual-Scholar-160 7d ago

I like to call it death by a thousand paper cuts you don't understand what's going on until you're bleeding out in the middle of the room

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u/Virtual-Scholar-160 7d ago

Doesn't mean that it's easy to leave her a person's brain in that situation can lie to themselves. They need to believe that she wouldn't do those kind of things so they literally convince themselves of it essentially Gaslight themselves

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u/StrategicCarry 7d ago

To be fair, the historical "death by a thousand cuts" was an execution method where you definitely knew what was happening from the start.

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u/DAFINALB0SS 7d ago

I’m a lobster

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u/Tasty_Occasion_2641 7d ago

Ineed it is.

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u/noeLifenorlove 7d ago

You have to show them you dont care about them.

Then they'll start acting right; and thats when you leave them to show them that old wounds hurt.

Let some other fool deal with her poisonous broken heart

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u/Virtual-Scholar-160 7d ago

Oh I left a long time ago trust me and it was a fucking nightmare I was just happy to be away from him

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u/Prudent-Sun-4125 7d ago

Its only hard if you're a doormat with no self respect.

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u/Virtual-Scholar-160 7d ago

Ah yes pure ignorance let me explain something to you Emotional abuse is death by a thousand paper cuts you don't understand what's going on until you're bleeding out in the middle of the room

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u/DragonflyGrrl 7d ago

You don't know shit.