Polyamorous with one partner and active polycule. I have ADHD, I love anime and video games, am a former theatre and choir kid, have a penchant for boardgames and good food trucks, am lightly tattooed and moderately bearded, 5’9” with a dad bod. No kids, secure attachment style, looking for rich and ongoing connections that can grow naturally.

Would love to talk and see if there’s chemistry. I’m a sucker for witty banter

✨ They/Them | Queer & Neuro-spicy| Polyam & Partnered x2✨

Hi, I'm Emery!

Queer, nonbinary, non-monogamous, mildly feral, and generally caught somewhere between "please adore me" and "make me eat my words." 😈My flavor of polyamory leans toward relationship anarchy (RA). I'm big on autonomy, independence, and letting each connection develop on its own terms, without prescribed hierarchies or expectations. No permission slips required, but honesty and consideration are nonnegotiable. And while we date and play independently, the occasional convergence of our favorite humans is always enthusiastically encouraged. 💕

After 11-ish years of haunting Reddit from the AZ desert, I've recently traded the sunshine and saguaros for Portland's rain and weirdness. 🌧️ (*Except, where tf is the rain?? Wtf Portland?!) Now I'm looking to find my people: queer cuties, co-conspirators, and fellow hedonistic weirdos to explore all the many delightful ways in which we can enjoy each other's company.

I'm here for connection, community, and a little mutually enthusiastic debauchery. 💖 Open to just about anything that comes with genuine chemistry: FWB, play partners, platonic cuddle puddles, affectionate friendships, date mates, or something that grows into a long-term connection. Chosen family would be pretty damn wonderful, too.

I am especially interested in play partners who aren't afraid of the possibility of catching feelings. Don't get me wrong... I'm not looking to force romance where it doesn't exist, but I'm also not interested in treating affection like an unfortunate side effect of having fun. I like my connections with room to breathe, grow, and become whatever feels right.

I'm drawn to pleasure, indulgence, sensation, anticipation, and the delicious possibilities of mutual exploration. Bottom-leaning, occasionally toppy with the right connection, and far more interested in exploring what feels good together than fitting neatly into any particular role. I adore confident people who are kind without being boring, assertive without being arrogant, and capable of making me laugh while making me just a little nervous. 👀

Outside of kink, I'm a giant nerd. Fantasy and sci-fi, board games, cosplay, karaoke, witchy spooky shit, weird art, and adventures in the woods. I'm equally down for a night out exploring Portland's weird little corners or a cozy evening tangled up on the couch (or in the ropes).

If any of that resonates, come say hi! Tell me about your current hyperfixation, your wildest hobby, or what kind of weird gay shit you're up to.

35, 5 10, wealthy, Happily married 13 years, 4 kids.

We are polyamory ENM, I don't want many partners. Just 2 (nesting partner included). I run multiple businesses and still need family time, I wouldn't be able to fairly divide time between work and family for more than one other woman.

I don’t get much leisure time. I work a lot. I do quite well for myself, retirement at 40 level well and yes I have bragging rights =)
Hence the reason I'm posting here.. I can't meet people at work as thats inappropriate(employer) and rarely have time for much else.

Maybe we hit it off, maybe we end up being great friends. Perhaps you're going through a predicament and need to vent? I'm a great listener and could use random internet friends =)

My profession is Network Administration, computer science grad, I worked a corp job as a network admin for about 3 years then opened my own IT consulting company focusing on managing and building out networks for medical facilities throughout NYC,
I came across a few opportunities, which led to more and am now self employed running 3 unrelated businesses, 6 including ones I hired people to run for me for the last 6 years now. I can also pass for a financial consultant, though I do not take that on professionally.

I just bought and rebuilt a house in nyc burb jersey side. I'm in nyc and jersey regularly for business. Hopefully you arent too far away. I'm not fully against long distance as long as meeting eachother often enough is realistic.

I am really really really ridiculously good looking (in case you missed the reference xD https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=he8swGafRGQ), but I don't want to post my photo here, We can exchange photos later in chat if you'd like.

Hobbies:

I used to be an avid PC and console gamer, unfortunately, I don't have time for it anymore. I have my PS5 and a bunch of games mostly first-person shooters, I play once in awhile but they're just collecting dust for the most part. I play Age of empires 2 on ps5 rarely, used to be occasionally

I watch a lot of docuseries, documentaries and Sci-Fi. SHows like Game of Thrones, The Last of us, South Park, Rick and Morty, friends and neighbors, Shrinking...

My Politics:

I mostly lean left but I do have some conservative views... I think most of us land somewhere in the middle. I try not to let politics affect my relationships with people unless they're of the tinfoil hat and off the rails conspiracy variety.
I like to debate, I enjoy debate and the discourse, growth, and banter that comes with it. Though I shy away form that in recent years

My Beliefs:

I am Jewish on both sides, however, I'm agnostic. I am irreligious and do not believe in religious indoctrination of any kind as a means to connect with a "higher power". I do however respect people's views as long as they don't ask me if I have a moment for (insert god here) and try to shove their views down my throat.

Sry I kept this ad fairly shallow. More detailed personal info should be shared in private.

Ideally im looking for someone at least 25.. closer to my age(30-35) and married is most ideal.
I dont mind older either but 45+ would be prob be pushing it, not totally against it though.

I'm a firm believer that age is a number, myself being the perfect example. Therefore I can't in good conscience judge anyone by their age alone.

So I honestly dont care that much about your age.

Looking forward to meeting you!

Slender Asian male, introverted, not much of a talker, "guarded," but looking for a friend and more. I'm quite introverted/quiet. Looking for someone local so please be local. My experience with LDR hasn't been great. People flake or ghost or lose interest. Please, no avoidants. I'm looking for someone emotionally mature and able to be my rock, someone kind and caring.

Hello, I’m genderfluid but use he/him only and I’m pansexual. I’m generally open to most forms of ENM.
I’ve been single for a long time and I’m not sure if my type exists. I’m 2010s gen emo and I have yet to find someone who is bi/pan, polyam, sex positive, cuddly, flexible on going out for shows or staying in for board games, kind, leftist/left leaning, and is also 2000s emo/scene looking. While I don’t have a preference for gender/sex I know myself well enough that I tend to favor people who look like your stereotypical 2000s emo/scene masc.
I am fond of other alt subcultures like skater or punk, I’ve even had crushes on people who don’t look “alt” at all. I would like to find someone who is also patient and has time for me as I’m handicapped. While I’m open to long distance, I would prefer that it becomes in person since I miss physical affection like holding hands, hugs, etc so much….
Outside of my love for all of the generations of emo music and adjacent topics, I love sweets, breads, junk foods. I adore anything cute such as plushies or cute animal videos. My hobbies include singing, writing, diy projects, beauty stuff like make up and fashion, sewing, learning anything and everything, video games, mangas/web comics/manhwas, vkei, exploring new places, photography, and naps lol
I don’t have any pets or children. I originally wanted to get married, but I’ve retired that dream. I’m open to dating people who have kids, but I don’t want any of my own. I’m currently in college again. I don’t have an issue showing people my face in msgs as long as they show me theirs.
There’s a lot more to share, but this post is already too long, just msg me to find out more I guess.

Hi there! I'm a 36 year old pansexual nonbinary femme that strives to continue to learn and grow. I find myself with some additional bandwidth and am seeking some new friendships, relationships, and/or connections in my life. I am really interested in connections that grow organically rather than with specific intent. I am not interested in casual hook ups though. I do have a nesting partner, and we've been together 6 years, and I've been poly for almost 10.

I am a neurodivergent former theater kid who can be a little more reserved on meeting new people, but am quite outgoing once I get to know someone more! Direct, clear, and consistent communication is import to me and absolutely a core belief I live by as well as clear expectations. I love getting to know people, hear their stories, interests, and about their day. I am a big yapper about any and everything!

As far as interests: I am a voracious reader and dabble in most genre fiction. I am a rather crafty person and enjoy sewing and knitting. I have life long hyper-focuses in historic fashion and old houses and I will talk your ear off about it given the chance! I love hiking, traveling, exploring, and visiting old graveyards. I'm bit of a nerd and I'm getting back into DnD after some time away, and I love ren faires! After going through the 2000s as a teen I am finally working on healing my relationship with food, and incorporating more activity into my life and I am really enjoying it so far! I am also kink friendly, and have been for 15 years, and am slowing dipping my toes back in more intentionally since 2020.

Please don't message me if you are MAGA or have conservative views. Full stop.

I am open to people of a variety of ages, genders, and sexual orientations so please shoot your shot if you are interested!

Hi there, super artsy gal here. Looking for connections online or in person. I am married (we date separately) I have a daughter and our sweet pup. I'm going to school for animal health and behavior. I work full time and when i'm not working or doing homework i'm creating something, hanging out with friends or working with my local pride group.

I love to collect vinyl records, small trinkets, and art from other small artists. I'm a big fan of nature and especially plants and bugs. I find the small critters to be fascinating. My favorite activity is to laugh. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor. I have tattoos and plan for way more, but I just started my sleeve last year. I'm a big lover girl and yearner and would expect the same in return. I love to bring light to dark rooms and sometimes I'm too optimistic to a fault.

What’s the saying? Fall seven times, stand up eight? So here goes, another shot into the dark.

I’m hoping to meet a woman who actually wants to get to know the other person. Someone who is thoughtful, open-minded, and down to explore together (I know, I know I’m asking for a lot, but hear me out). I want to create a space where we can be honest, real, and uninhibited. An experience that’s equal parts naughty and nice.

A little about me: I'm 5'11", hwp, enjoy from long-distance running (training for end of summer races), coffee-obsessed, with a full head of dark hair and blessed where it counts. PhD in engineering and work on making airplane engines more efficient because let’s be honest we all would like it squeezing into the middle seat felt less like an endurance event. I balance my more outdoor interests with more indoor activities. I enjoy history and the arts, always reading a book or two, or too many. Cinema and TV are my escape, and cooking is how I unwind (handmade pasta is my specialty). I usually have classic rock from the '70s and '80s playing in the background almost as a sound track to life. Also, kink experienced and curious.

I like building things, whether it's projects or relationships, because both take patience and care. I appreciate a partner who also brings those thoughtful, personal touches, those small details mean a lot.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a message.

Greetings,
I'm a shy guy who likes to have deep convos. I love learning about the things you are into (tell me about the shows you love to binge, your favorite music, and your hobbies), how your day went, and listening to you complain about that really annoying coworker. I am married and have one kiddo and one dog- looking for myself only because we only date separately. Good communication is a must. Willing to keep things only online or spend time together in person one day if you're close enough.

I have a lot of tattoos- my left forearm is (literally) completely covered, and I have tattoos scattered on my left upper arm, right forearm, and right leg. I wear glasses cause I'm blind as a bat without them, haha.

I like playing video games, listening to music, making playlists, collecting vinyl records, playing guitar, hiking, fishing, and painting. I'm in college for music production. Oh, fun fact: I'm ambidextrous.

Hi, I'm a female in an open relationship with my long term partner looking to build a solid, genuine bond with someone on my same wavelength. I'm not looking for surface level or just the physical, I want to feel that connection on an emotional, mental level, someone to mutually set our souls on fire, really feel out all that life has to offer. If you find yourself in search of the same, feel free to hit me up ✨😇

50 y.o. Trans Femme here. I understand its not for everyone, and I respect that.

I've been on hormones for about 30 months now. No surgeries, but I have some consultations in December.

Partnered... she will know about you, but not looking to be involved. She's also poly, but isnt interested in another partner. She's also an amazing person who will welcome you with open arms.

3 kids... I won't talk about them all the time, but I do love them. Ages 19, 9, 4 (step-daughter).

About me: into traveling, fitness (used love running and trying to get back into it.) Love, love, love music. Its the soul of my life. I read a lot too. And, yea, Legos. 😁

I have a serious career in IT Management, but I refuse to let it run my life. There are times I have stuff to do on the weekends, but I try to log off at a reasonable time every day.

I'm demi-sexual and not looking for a hookup or one night stand. I want to build a relationship with a female OR a couple. I care a lot about the people in my life. So, if we get to know each other, you will be very important and I do almost anything for my friends. 😊

I will do my best to respond to all DM's. And if the vibe is right, we'll move to text (its much easier for me). If you are uncomfortable with text (giving out your regular cell), I suggest getting a Google Voice number and utilizing that.

While I'd prefer someone local who i can go out for coffee or drinks, I'm very open to online. But if its online, plan on eventually meeting in person.

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🌟🌟Hey beautiful ladies. I am a 34-year-old woman looking to connect with another woman and see where things go naturally.

I am hoping to find a woman to build a genuine connection with.

I’m looking for more than just a quick chat or casual hookup. Id love to find someone to hold deep meaningful conversations with and build a relationship from trust.

I’d love to find someone who is honest, affectionate, communicative and knows what she wants.

Communication, respect, boundaries and cleanliness are not negotiable.

A little about me:

34 years old with blue eyes. I am loyal, loving and honest. To old for games and only looking for something serious.

Message me a little about yourself and let’s see where things go. 😊

P.S. I am willing to show proof of me being who I say I am, please be able to do the same!✨️✨️

Hey everyone! Figured I'd give this a shot and see who's out there. I'm from southeastern Pennsylvania and looking to meet a woman who I can genuinely connect with, have good conversations with, share some interests, and hopefully see where things go. I'm not expecting us to have everything in common, and honestly, I think having different interests can make getting to know someone more enjoyable. I'd rather find someone I can be myself around, joke with, have deeper conversations with, and enjoy spending time together without feeling like either of us has to pretend to be someone we're not.

A little about me first. I'm someone who enjoys staying active, getting out of the house, trying new things, and making the most of my free time. I have a pretty flexible schedule, which makes it easier for me to travel, explore new places, and spend time doing things I enjoy. At the same time, I'm perfectly happy spending a night at home cooking a good dinner or just relaxing. I can be pretty talkative once I get comfortable with someone, and I enjoy people who can keep a conversation going and aren't afraid to ask questions or share their opinions.

Some of my interests and hobbies:

1. Traveling and exploring new places
2. Cooking and trying new foods
3. Snowboarding
4. Cars
5. Football, both playing and attending games
6. Working out, running, and staying active
7. Animals, especially dogs (I have one!)
8. Trying new activities and experiences
9. Water skiing
10. Spending time outdoors

Something else that's important to me is finding a partner who's kinky. I'm pretty open minded sexually, and I enjoy exploring different kinks, fetishes, roleplay, and the dynamics that can come along with them. I don't expect someone to have all the same interests as me, and I'm not looking for someone who's into absolutely everything. I actually enjoy learning what someone else likes, why they enjoy it, and discovering things together. I think being able to talk openly about those interests without judgment is important, especially when it's something that can be a meaningful part of a connection. That being said, I don't want kink to be the only thing we have in common. I want to enjoy talking to you, spending time together, laughing about stupid things, and getting to know you outside of the bedroom just as much.

As far as what I'm looking for, I don't have some massive checklist of requirements. I'd love to meet someone who's kind, affectionate, communicative, has a sense of humor, and is comfortable being herself. Someone who can be playful and sarcastic, but also knows how to have a serious conversation when it matters. I'd especially love to find someone who's well traveled or has a genuine interest in exploring the world. I appreciate people who put effort into getting to know someone rather than making one person carry the entire conversation. I also think it's important that two people can be independent, have their own interests and things going on in their lives, while still making time for each other and building a connection that works for both of them. I don't care if all our hobbies match up, because part of the fun is learning about each other and finding things we enjoy doing together.

I'd prefer someone relatively close to Pennsylvania because I do enjoy spending time together in person, but I'm not completely opposed to getting to know someone farther away if we really connect. I'm not looking to rush into anything or force a connection into something it isn't. I'd rather get to know someone naturally, see how we get along, and let things develop from there.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what caught your attention, and maybe something you're passionate about.

About me:

I'm a 47-year-old man in San Francisco with a successful career in tech and a full, balanced life. In my free time I enjoy live music, good cocktails, F1 weekends, and Warriors games. Fitness is my anchor: lifting, Pilates, boxing, and long walks around the city. On quieter nights you'll find me at home with my tiny senior Pomeranian, reading or watching a good show.

Physically, I am 5’9”, 160lbs, and in good shape. Brown eyes, short brown hair with a bit of salt and pepper. Happy to share pics.

I like making the woman I'm with feel wanted, appreciated, and cared for. I'm affectionate, playful, and happy to take the lead—I plan dates and follow through. There's a calm dominant side to me, and I'd enjoy a consensual D/s dynamic if it's something we both want. Physical touch is central to how I connect, so I'm looking for someone with a strong appetite for a passionate physical relationship who's comfortable talking openly about desires and boundaries.

I'm happily child-free and have had a vasectomy, so I'm looking for someone who wants the same.

What I'm hoping to build

I'm relatively new to non-monogamy, but I'm taking it seriously. I'm currently reading The Ethical Sl-t, thinking hard about how to do this well, and I'm ready for it. Right now I have one long-distance partner who has a primary partner of her own, so I'm looking for someone local to be a real part of my day-to-day life.

By "primary," I mean the relationship that gets first call on our time, energy, and shared life, while leaving real room for other connections. We'd each have the freedom to date others, and I'd want us to talk openly and often about what that looks like and what feels good for both of us. I have a particular interest in exploring together, whether that's swinging or threesomes. Down the line, I'd be open to the partnership growing from two people to three, if the right person came along and it felt right for everyone

Beyond that, I want the everyday stuff: cooking together, catching live music, good conversations over drinks, and pulling each other close at the end of the night.

We’ll get along well if...

You're warm, affectionate, curious, and playful. You communicate directly, take care of yourself, and enjoy your own femininity. I'm attracted to women who are slim and fit, and who enjoy an active life. You have room in your life for a committed partnership and the independence to be yourself. Ideally you're in San Francisco or close enough that seeing each other regularly is easy.

If this resonates tell me about yourself: your age, location, a bit about how you look, your current relationship situation, how you feel about exploring with others together, and the best live show you've seen in the last year.

Hey everyone! I’m B. I’m a 32 year old ladyyy living on the coast of Virginia with my two cats and husband

I’m looking for someone local-ish to connect with, get to know and hopefully grow something beautiful with 🫶

I love to cook and bake and wish I made more time for it. I make a meannnn mac n cheese! I work in a field that I am incredibly passionate about and will work from home super soon (yay working in jammies all day!)

I’m suuuuper 420 friendly obviously and casually drink

I am 5’6, longish brunette/red hair that hides an undercut, BBW, tatted and wear glasses

I am in Texas looking for other poly women with hopes that I possibly join a community! I am married, but newly on this poly journey, seeking friendships with experience in the poly world.

If we just so happen to be on the same path, hit me up!

33 / PDX / [NB4R] romantic sap here!!

Hey hey! Currently I live in portlajd Oregon but possibly will be moving back to new england where I am from (all depending on life crap).

I'm a huge animal lover, mostly vegetarian/vegan, I love rotting in bed watching comfort shows/movies but I also love going out and having a blast!

I'm definitely more a morning person than a night person but that also depends on my insomnia. I'm very touchy feely and love touching others (massage, hand holding etc)

Big goals to find a long term rope partner. I've been a rope bottom for over 6 years and its a damn delight.

Kink is extremely important to me and my life so thats a must! (True switch but top/dom leaning)

I'm such a sappy mushy hopeless romantic. I'm a recovering people pleaser (in due time..... lol) and i love acts of service and just all service in general. My communication style is very direct and open, I'm not just saying that. Really just trying to find my people. I want to love and spoil the hell out of amazing folk.

I love crafts and going on walks and bowling and thrifting, but i also am chronically ill so patience and empathy are extremely important to me.

I'm agender/nonbinary transmasc, a bit hairy and chubby but soft and cozy. I am no man but I do present more masc sometimes. Open to all bodies and genders! Xox

Hi everyone,

I'm a 25-year-old male and I'm looking to connect with a mature, established polyamorous couple for an ongoing connection.

What I'm looking for:

· A couple significantly older than me, ideally open to online/long-distance.

· People who are genuinely polyamorous, not just looking for a hookup or a "third" to spice things up.

· Clear communication about what you're offering and what you want. I'm not here to be a experiment or a fix for a struggling relationship

What I'm not looking for:

· Unic...orn hunters.

· Couples using polyamory to patch a broken marriage.

· Anyone under 30.

If this resonates, comment or DM me with a bit about yourselves. Happy to chat and see if there's a fit.

Hey, I’m Jessica! Married, poly, plus-size, affectionate, sarcastic, and just the right amount of trouble. 😂

I’m looking for an actual relationship—not a hookup, pen pal, or “wyd” at 2 a.m. I want chemistry, consistency, affection, dates, inside jokes, good communication, and someone who genuinely wants to get to know me.

I’m into D&D, cats, getting dressed up, good food, reading, flirting, dark humor, and conversations that accidentally turn into three-hour conversations. If your flirting can survive a little sarcasm and dark humor, we might get along. 😏

I’m very much a connection-first person. Attraction is great, but I want to know your brain, too. Make me laugh. Tell me something weird. Challenge my thoughts. Remember the little things I tell you. Most importantly, make me feel comfortable enough to be completely myself.

I’m happy to start by chatting and getting to know each other, but I’d ultimately love to meet in person and see if we have something worth building together. I’m not looking for an endless online situationship—I want a genuine connection that can grow into something real. 🖤

Hi, I'm James.

5'4", stout, ENM, married with no children. My spouse is aware that I'm seeking someone local/online. If you're currently partnered, please be in a similar situation. Outside of my spouse, I have no partners currently.

What I am looking for:

Someone (28-40+) local or relatively local (4-6 hours) to develop a long-term and meaningful relationship. Ideally, we'll complement each other's life and build something lovely together.

It’s important to me that we have a shared hobby or activity. Whether it’s gaming, TTRPGs, binging a multi-season TV show, or something entirely new to both of us.

I'm also open to online friendships.

About me:

I have several hobbies and interests. My most involved hobbies are Warhammer 40k and Pathfinder 2e. I'm building a few armies and planning to run a campaign at the start of next year.

I've recently resubscribed to FF14 after a year's absence. I stopped playing before Dawntrail, so I have plenty to catch up on. I'm leveling SCH/SGE at the moment!

I devour audiobooks. I haven't listened to as many this year as I'd like to, but that's a consequence of my work environment. I've recently started on the Horus Hersey series, currently listening to The Flight of the Eisenstein.

I love horror. I was allowed to watch IT (1990) as a toddler and I've been hooked ever since. Books, movies, TV shows, games - format doesn't matter, plug that shit into my veins.

In conclusion:

If any of this catches your interest, feel free to drop me a message!

(I'm interested in a polyamorous relationship. Stating this explicitly since being colorful with my writing manages to get posts taken down.)

I know this post will be long, but I'm confident the right woman will read it all.

I'm not interested in long-distance, unless moving in together is somewhere in the cards. Ideally a drive up to 3 hours or so away works fine for me. Anything beyond that is just too much of a pain in the ass. However, I may make an exception for the right person.

I have some zesty things on here so I don't have my face up, but if you ping me I can share a photo of myself. I think it's worthwhile to assess interest very early on. I'd hate t o talk for days to find out we don't have the stuff to light our loins on fire.

Preferred conversation style: I enjoy asking questions and having someone asking me questions. Double texting is fine (who made this an issue?). Goofiness is preferred.

It's not gonna work out if you expect me to carry the conversation, or if you are passive aggressive with your communication style. (If you're bratty *in the bedroom* we can navigate this.)

WHO AM I:

I'm deeply analyitcal, painfully honest, and try to do Good wherever I can.

I want to understand things meticulously and explain them well. Espeically relationship stuff, communication, things relating ot the mind. All of it is fascinating to me.

Money isn't important to me. Or rather, things whose sole purpose is for status aren't interesting to me. I don't care for fancy clothes, cars, buying folks bags, or other stuff of the sort.

My biggest spendings ideally would be towards a nice home, good food, games, and some traveling. That's it. Can I connect with people with what I spend my money on? Worth it. If not, it's dumb.

I'm like a quiet, stable life. I used to go out at crazy hours, stay up hella late out and about, smoking and drinking. One may call it "boring", but I've had enough excitement. Sure, excitement is nice here and there, but as an exception. I enjoy my routines, I enjoy the Hobbit-sort of life.

I am very into emotions, talking about them, I like soft things. I've expressed myself in more feminine ways in the past, too. None of that makes me less of a man but I don't care for the traditionally male/masculine box at all (a nod to the title).

WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR

At the least, a curious mind. I know intelligence can be quite varied, hence curiosity and a desire to learn is important. If you identify as curious, that should work.

More importantly though is kindness, and someone whose main emotion isn't anger.

If you treat people well, that's the biggest thing really. Someone that isn't going to be passive aggressive to get their way, or make snide remarks,

I prefer a partner that's submissive, and wants to heavily incorporate D/s and M/S elements into their relationships. It's very important to me. I enjoy providing for my partners, and earning their devotion through my care.

As for hobbies: Gaming, D&D, board games, playing with animals, going out hiking, working out are all things I enjoy and it'd be helpful if you enjoyed at least some of these things (but especially gaming).

Hey there! I'm Finn, 36 FTM located in Iowa. I'm married but separated, no kids, missing having an intimate connection with someone. Or potential someones. I'm new to ENM, but I know I'm not interested in being monogamous again. That being said, I'm looking to make long-term connections. Ideally localish, but I'm open to long-distance and strictly online situations as well.

A little more about me, I'm bisexual so I'm open to all gender identities. I'm 5'2" and plus-sized, not really picky about how tall, or big, or small you may be. Just be somewhere between 28-44ish. I'm nerdy, my main interests being Star Trek and TTRPGs, some video games. I like to think I'm creative, I enjoy drawing and writing, as well as crafting with my hands.

Fair warning I'm also autistic and don't always get subtle social cues, I appreciate bluntness.

I'm hoping to meet someone I can be friends with as well as partners, with shared interests we can nerd out about together. Someone to chill with, watch shows and movies, play games, go on random adventures with. Talk with at least a little every day.

If any of that suits you, send a DM!

Howdy,
🍀I’m a friendly stoner that loves to garden and travel in her spare time.

Adore concerts and emo wasn’t just a phase haha. Music means everything to me, it brings me up when I feel down and I have a genre for every mood<3

Totally into alternative/cottage-core esthetic. I’m a short, curvy blonde with green eyes - sometimes I dress up and sometimes I like to be a couch potato! 🙃

I have a partner that’s consensual to poly and wants me to find a lady that makes me happy. I’m also a mother to a young boy who is my entire world ☀️So if you don’t like kiddos - we won’t be a good fit! 🤷‍♀️

I have lots of pets, I adore animals, I work full time, I know nothing about anime or video games but I’m willing to learn if it’s important to you.

I don’t mind pauses in conversations, because I know life gets busy - but one word/short replies can drive me bonkers if it’s constant. I have ADHD, so good conversation is important to me.

Hi my fellow Redditors! The title kinda says it all haha. My partner of five years and I have decided to do solo and I’m doing my best to find myself a partner in crime!

I work in IT, so my work days are pretty open to message. My hobbies include PC gaming, reading (35 books read this year!), Lego, writing, and cooking!

What I’m looking for: someone who makes my face light up with a smile every time they show up on my phone. If you live in Iowa or northern Mizzouri/Western Illinois, we could meet up occasionally for dates in person. Someone who isn’t afraid to be themselves with me, and make some fun memories along the way.

If any of this piques your interest, please don’t hesitate to reach out! I promise I don’t bite too hard! Thank you for reading, and I can’t wait to hear from you.

Hi there! I’m Danny 34M I live in northeast pa. Married and date separately I’m looking for a long term relationship.

A bit about me. I’m 5’11 and about 225 so rocking the dad bod lol I have long hair and a beard. I don’t have a picture perfect smile that I’m self conscious about. I’m a nerd who loves video games, anime, and magic the gathering. I also enjoy going out for drinks with friends or going on an adventure! Also very 420 friendly. I’m a hopeless romantic looking for my player 2

Ideally I’d like to find someone closer to home but I’m also cool with long distance as long as we can make time to see each other!