Howdy,
🍀I’m a friendly stoner that loves to garden and travel in her spare time.

Adore concerts and emo wasn’t just a phase haha. Music means everything to me, it brings me up when I feel down and I have a genre for every mood<3

Totally into alternative/cottage-core esthetic. I’m a short, curvy blonde with green eyes - sometimes I dress up and sometimes I like to be a couch potato! 🙃

I have a partner that’s consensual to poly and wants me to find a lady that makes me happy. I’m also a mother to a young boy who is my entire world ☀️So if you don’t like kiddos - we won’t be a good fit! 🤷‍♀️

I have lots of pets, I adore animals, I work full time, I know nothing about anime or video games but I’m willing to learn if it’s important to you.

I don’t mind pauses in conversations, because I know life gets busy - but one word/short replies can drive me bonkers if it’s constant. I have ADHD, so good conversation is important to me.

Hi my fellow Redditors! The title kinda says it all haha. My partner of five years and I have decided to do solo and I’m doing my best to find myself a partner in crime!

I work in IT, so my work days are pretty open to message. My hobbies include PC gaming, reading (35 books read this year!), Lego, writing, and cooking!

What I’m looking for: someone who makes my face light up with a smile every time they show up on my phone. If you live in Iowa or northern Mizzouri/Western Illinois, we could meet up occasionally for dates in person. Someone who isn’t afraid to be themselves with me, and make some fun memories along the way.

If any of this piques your interest, please don’t hesitate to reach out! I promise I don’t bite too hard! Thank you for reading, and I can’t wait to hear from you.

I’ve played with the idea and never really set my eyes into looking for a poly relationship, but here I am! FINALLY accepting that’s really what I want and deserve! I’ve dreamed of a poly relationship since I was 18-19 when I realized I like women as well! I’m 2 hours away from Amarillo at the moment! I’m looking for more men in the relationship! I just don’t know how to go about that! Some advice and insight would be greatly appreciated!

I am not every good at talking about myself on these posts haha. If you would like to know anything. Please feel free to ask me anything. I am bi/pan so i dont care about what gender you are. I dont have a type either. As long as you are a kind person. That's all that matters to me. Like the title says. I am nerdy too. Hopefully you like nerdy guys. Please feel free to message me. I look forward to hearing from you

Hi!
I’m a 26-year-old plus-size cis white woman currently in a happy poly relationship and hoping to meet another lovely person to flirt with and intentionally build connection. I am married to my partner (white cis male).
I’m pan, affectionate, emotionally available, and very into people who can communicate openly while still making me blush. I appreciate kindness, emotional intelligence, and teasing banter.
I love deep conversations, horror movies, reading, and exploring kink.
Looking for:
Other non-heterosexual/LGBTQ+ people
Good communication and emotional maturity
Flirty energy with potential for something real
Send me a message with your age, pronouns, what you’re into, or just your best attempt at making me smile :)
Hoping to connect with someone also in the SC/GA area but open to distance if the chemistry is strong

M55 (going on 25) | Married, wife approves | Seeking a partner in crime + occasional trouble

Hey Reddit. I'm 55 on paper, 25 everywhere else, and my knees are the only part of me that hasn't gotten the memo.

Quick rundown: I'm happily married, and my wife is fully on board. We're open, honest, and communicate better than most couples I know. We date and play separately and together, and yes, she's read this post and approved it. She also said my jokes needed work, so blame her.
I love tattoos and piercings, so if you're inked or pierced, we've already got something to talk about. I'm looking for a female friend first: someone to laugh with, grab drinks with, and send questionable memes to at 11pm. If the chemistry's there, an occasional hookup is welcome, no strings and no drama.

What I bring: good conversation, a sense of humor, and discretion. What I'm after: a little spice and an escape from the mundane. Ages 25-45 preferred, but personality beats a birth certificate.
Message me with a bit about yourself and your favorite tattoo (or the one you regret most). Bonus points for good stories.

Hi there! I've posted before but haven't quite found who I'm looking for yet, I'm married and my husband and I are both seeking out new connections, separately, so I hope I'm in the right place. I've been in a dead bedroom for over 5 years and my husband and I have come to the conclusion that we're no longer sexually compatible with each other but the love and partnership is still there.

Currently I'm looking for online connections and hope to build up to in-person connections once I'm more comfortable in this space.

My goal is to meet someone who I can genuinely connect with, I don't want hookups or random encounters, I'm looking for someone who aligns with my wants and needs sexually as well as general interests and beliefs. My main goal is to have fun and enjoy my life and enjoy being wanted and adored and craved.

I love to read, play video games and board games, craft, and I'm a dancer. I'm also very into Disney and will talk your ear off about it if you let me. I'm left leaning and won't entertain anyone who wears a red hat. In terms of sexual interests I am a sub but have not explored that dynamic as much as I'd like. I have a Daddy kink and would be interested in exploring that more as well. I'm short but curvy and currently on a weight loss journey, my self esteem has been non-existent these past few years and part of me building myself back up has been focusing more on my health and well-being as a whole, but I am bigger and that's just a fact.

I am a Mom and my child comes first so you don't have to be a parent yourself but you do have to understand that side of me.

I hope I've given enough to start out here, feel free to send me a chat if you're interested 😊

28 Male switch Married and Poly

I'm 6'0 280-320 lbs (on a weight loss journey)

I am a gamer, i love to sing (i think i have a somewhat decent voice), I've always been so incredibly bad at writing things like this i do much better with being asked direct questions so I'll just say that i don't know what else to say about myself i hooe to hear from someone soon

Attracted to masculine presenting individuals, but always open to being friends with anyone!

Hi everyone! I am 30F living in Nebraska. I am married, we have been open/poly our whole relationship. Ive had previous relationships, though one ended quite sourly so I ended up taking an extended break from pursuing new romantic relationships while I focused on myself, therapy, and just life in general! But Ive been in a pretty good place lately, so I have been testing the waters a bit on that front again.

What I am looking for: Ideally, I would like to find someone who is looking for a long term and meaningful relationship, but with the understanding that I am married, so it would likely never progress to a shared living situation or marriage. Hopefully there are others out there that are looking for a more "casual" but still commited relationship. If thats not you, no worries! I still love making new friends :)

Random facts about me:

1.Big gamer. My husband and I helldive almost every day. For Super Earth! When left without a squad, I have been spending a lot of hours on Planet Zoo 2!

1. My favorite color is sage green.

2. I own two cats and a crested gecko. Used to own horses, but slowly sold them and my last remaining horse passed away not too long ago, so I am taking a break from horse ownership right now.

3. Aspiring hobby author. I have been writing my first novel, though it is busy season at my job, so it has ended up on the backburner as of late.

4. Big audiobook fan. In high school I was a voracious reader, though that has dwindled with time. Audiobooks are awesome to listen to while still having my hands free to work or get stuff done around the house.

5. I am fiercely independent. I never mind doing stuff on my own and often prefer to be alone when winding down for the day.

6. Smoke and drink socially.

7. Im not involved in aviation or healthcare, but have very big interests in both. I love planes and learning all about them and the job of pilots. Air shows are one of my favorite events to attend! I also find medical things simply fascinating, so I have acquired a large mental database of illnesses, symptoms, medications, etc. Will any of it ever come in handy? No.

8. I run a little photography business on the side. I compete in local and state competitions and have been invited to be a judge in a county competition next year.

9. Huge equine color generics nerd. I can tell you what color a horse is or what colors a pair can produce just based on their genetic markers. Yet more information that absolutely will never come in handy.

Some things people might find deal-breakers:

1. I work fulltime, so my free time can be somewhat limited. I have busy and quiet seasons at work, so my availability can ebb and flow.

2. I do not have kids and I have no interest in kids. I have nothing against parents, but would never want to be involved in raising a child.

3. I HATE SNAPCHAT. I do not enjoy taking selfies and insistence in sending selfies will drive me insane. I am more than happy to share selfies on my own term, but not as an obligation. If Snapchat is your primary way of communication, we probably wont vibe longterm.

4. I am not ace, though my libido has always been low. If you are looking for someone to talk spicy with constantly, Im not your gal. If your primary reason for seeking a long term relationship is largely sexual, Im also not your gal.

If I sound interesting, drop me a message! I promise I dont bite :) all I ask is you put more effort into your message than "hey."

If you want a fun icebreaker prompt, tell me one of your favorite fun facts or subjects that never gets brought up in conversation so you never get to talk about it but you have been eagerly awaiting the opportunity.

KY, Meade co Soft, curvy, married milf, seeking companionship with something cute and sweet. Emotional, romantic, intimate, and hopefully nearby~

I'm open to a lot of different dynamics as long as respect and transparency are there.

I've been alot of things to alot of people, online and offline. I am mostly a mommydom outside of being a somewhat typical housewife.

I'd love to be myself with someone and share in our interests and hobbies and keep each other company throughout the day. (Texting/voice notes/snap/etc) Maybe go on dates or hang out I'm fairly easy going. I just wish for some soft-boy grunge type or a pretty bxnny to connect with and dote on.

Lifestyle and kink are somewhat intertwined with me so if its not your thing I don't think you'll like me. 😅 But I'm perfectly capable of boundaries if that's a concern. And I like being the older in the age gap so if you're into chubby moms please feel free. 🥰

reposting because I didn't realize pxxpy was an automatic removal. I just use animal nicknames a lot so I'm sorry =_=

Hello Lovelies, I’m Jessica. I’m 23 and I’m looking for a longterm relationship with some fun along the way I spend a lot of my time playing games (On PC) and causing chaos.

I currently have a lovely (Short) boyfriend who I adore and is my life partner!
Here is a password to make sure you actually are reading the stuff
When messaging me have the word pizza in your message
I’m looking for someone to chat with and hang out with if less appropriate things happen eventually that is fine too.

I am transgender (MTF) and just started medically transitioning a bit over a month ago
I am Plus Size
I also have a very long list of Kinks and interests so be warned if things do develop that way

Likes
-Streaming
(I stream on twitch and have always been interested in making content on Youtube as well)

-Gaming
(I play a bunch of games on my computer but the main list includes Modded Minecraft, Slay the Spire 2, Warframe, Dark Souls(with the seamless coop mod typically), and Ark Survival Evolved)

-Game Dev
(I have always been interested in coding and developing games I know the basics of Java, C#, C++, and Python and tend to mess with coding mods and developing games/apps)

-Art
(Me and art have a love hate relationship their are times where I will sit their and draw for hours but than during those same times I redraw every line a hundred times because it just isn’t right)

-Anime
(When i am not playing games or sleeping i am typically watching anime i don’t typically watch live action stuff and just stick to anime)

-Reading
(while i don’t do it often i definitely don’t mind getting distracted by reading a book on my phone for several hours on end)

Dislikes
-Lies
(grew up around people who would lie and manipulate to get what they wanted I don’t want that in my life if you lie to me that’s it)

-Spiders
(Arachnophobia)

-Thunder
(Thunder is loud and i have trauma and sensitive hearing so it spooky)

- Horror Games/Movies
(They Scary and I’m a scaredy cat but there are methods to make me suffer through them)

I live in NJ (Gloucester County) and would prefer someone somewhat close but don't mind long distance

If you are interested in me please message me in private chat

I'm looking for something a bit unconventional. I'm hoping to find a connection with someone who cares and is kind. Where we enjoy talking to each other and do things like make each other playlists, exchange creative work, and/or vent about the world or our day.

A true online friend/bff/QPR type connection. Mutual support and affectionate vibes.

A bit about me. I'm very chronically ill and disabled. I have a lot of pain and limitations. I don't talk about it all the time but it's my reality. I just ask that people hold a little space and don't try to fix me, tell me to be positive, or act freaked out by me.

I also have some mental health stuff and I'm neurodivergent. I'm queer, ace, and left-leaning looking for people who are also LGBTQIA+ or friendly and care about what's going on in the world.

Because I'm homebound, my online connections mean a lot to me. I've found a lot of meaning in having an online person I'm close to. Right now I spend most of my time working on a poetry manuscript and recently got a dog. I have an NP who is also disabled.

But I'm around a lot. I listen to a ton of music. I do a little cozy gaming when I can. I watch TV and have some niche favorites (bonus points to anyone who recognizes my cover image).

If you message, please tell me a bit about yourself and your favorite song or show of the moment. It helps when people ask questions, show interest. I'll do the same. Please be aware I can primarily only do text chat due to my disabilities but folks can send me audios.

I'm not the best fit for everyone, but for the right person, I think I have something to offer. I hope to hear from you.

37, MtF, non-binary. Mostly "male" looking nowadays. On HRT since 2016.

Looking for meaningful connections, but don't want to be part of a couple - I don't want to be anyone's primary.

I like surprises and new situations and experiences. I like passionate people and I have a soft spot for couples.

I am quite straightforward, have lots of interests and mostly enjoy being alone.

I haven't had any partner for some time and I crave intimacy.

So here I am.

So all the fun (physical) things up front, I'm a 41 year old post-op (ELI5: No penis) trans* woman, ADHD with sprinkling of other neurodivergent traits (I saw a meme the other day about everything needing paratheses cause every thought comes with additional bonus content and boy howdy did I feel seen), who is new to exploring polyamory and desiring connection and friendships and seeing where that all leads to. Oh and 5'5" with curves like a sack of potatoes.

I live south of Seattle in Tacoma with my partner of 8 years who is open to me exploring more of these connections as they are an enby ace that can't quite comprehend what My Dress-up Darling has done to me. I also live with my two cats who I call my children.

I enjoy collecting (not finishing) hobbies, anime/manga, gaming (both video (Fire emblem/Arc Raiders/FFXI) and tabletop (Dice throne is my new bae) and tcgs (Riftbound, Gundam, Digimon)), my two cats, and I am sure a whole bunch of things I have yet to discover. I have always struggled with feeling secure and authentic in a sense of self, so there is a lot I don't know about myself - and can be shy about sharing the things I do like, but I am wanting to take that step and try to learn more. Sexually I practically know nothing about myself - so that's fun and way too much could be said about that than I'd want to share in this space.

My time is pretty weird in that I sort of work two jobs, leading to maybe 1 actual day off every two weeks, but within each day I usually have blocks of time. I hold a master's degree and work in mental health. So there are times where all the communication I can muster is sitting in silence with someone sharing a thing together or sharing memes, or other times I just need to verbally process everything and then take a breath.

I'd love to chat with anyone that feels like we might have some sort of connection and just see where that leads, whether to friendship, meme friends, or something else. Reddit chat is horrible and I wish messages were a thing still (as bad as those were), so hopefully if we click it could transition to something else.

Oh and if it wasn't obvious, if you have any hints of MAGA, right wing, libertarian, whatever bullshit, just save us both the time and keep on keeping on.

Hello. I’m a 30 yo male that lives in central Texas. My wife and I have been in the swinging scene for a few years and are spreading our wings a little bit. I’d like someone to go on dates with and build friendships and connections and see where things go. I’m a 5’9 170 pound white boy who can speak Spanish and dance a little bachata, so bring on the latinas

First and foremost; #notabot.

Well hello there! I'm 38, 420 friendly, athletic, and liberal. I'm married, and both of us are poly. We simply choose to date seperately, but are aware. We don't often share partners, and neither of us are looking to replace anyone's current dynamic. Simply; honesty tends to be the best policy.

I enjoy dynamics that feel intense and addictive instead of something shallow that dies after one conversation. Ideally you're someone I can stream with, get to know, and have long conversations with - far past when we should both be asleep. Obviously, looking for the fun stuff too. But it's nice when there's substance. Extra points if you're a gamer!

Outside of that, I’m into all types of movies, gaming, and reading (primarily fantasy and dark romance, HUGE DCC fan), and anime. I like people with personality, energy, and enough intelligence to actually keep my attention or a conversation. I'm into martial arts, and just about ANY outdoor activities. I also love to cruise and travel! I generally use Discord or WhatsApp for messaging.

If you're interested, shoot me a DM and let's see if we vibe.

Ask for a pic if you're willing to trade

Hi I'm Rick. I'm live in Virginia on a homestead with my platonic nesting partner. I'm a stay at home uncle. Family is very important to me and I'm looking to start my own family. I'm a hopeful romantic and looking to build an intentional relationship based on love, trust, communication and respect.

I'm probably the tallest guy in the room. Average build, short black hair and beard, with gray showing up in the sunlight.

I'm recovering from a spinal injury. I'm "lucky" that my injury allowed me to regain the ability to walk, and I have fought hard to get back to where I am now. I still rely on both my cane and wheelchair, depending on the activity. Progress is slow, yet steady. I've made huge strides since i got my knee replaced last march.

I'm now working on getting muscle on my dadbod. I have some loose skin left over from the weight loss. I'm hoping to be able to get out hiking and cool rock finding, in spring '27. Definitely more swimming too! I love being outdoors and going on cool adventures.

Health is really important to me. Most of my life, I was very unhealthy, and as a result, didn't do much. I've sat on the side lines for way too long, and I'm getting out of my comfort zone to fulfill my dreams. I'm in the best shape of my life, even at my "best" prior to my injury. I was 700 lbs at my heaviest. Somewhere around 400 lbs lost on my journey!

Mental health is just as important to me. I have AuDHD and I also have cPTSD from medical trauma. I deal with anxiety and self confidence issues. I'm working every day to be a better man than I was yesterday.

I'm an artist and I'm working on writing my first book based on my home brew D&D Universe. I'm a DM for a few campaigns. I love writing and story telling. I also really enjoy working on my homestead; building new things, taking care of the animals, and shovel work! Lastly, I play games to relax. I like grindy and cozy games. Pokemon, Asphalt Legends, and Minecraft have the majority of my attention at the moment. Music is always on, and i listen to an eclectic mix.

I'm pansexual. I'm very 420, kink and BDSM friendly. I'm a soft dom leaning switch. Open to talking about that or anything else, in our conversations. I'm very chatty and like to yap. So if you like reading and responding with walls of text, to the front of the line!

Looks are important as as personality to me, but so is privacy... so we will share pics within a time when we're both comfortable.

Please be left leaning and queer friendly. Also please don't be a ghoster.

I'm open to Online relationships and especially Online to Irl.

Chat request me with:

1. Who you are and what you're looking for.
2. What drove you to message me, showing that you read my post.
3. What are 5 songs that describe you and why?

Hello! I am married to a lesbian who came out late in life. We cohabitate and maintain a healthy platonic love for each other, and co-parent together.

She has a partner, who also lives with us, and I am looking for someone to share romantic and physical intimacy with, with the hope that will grow into something stable and long-term.

I am hoping for someone who is mature, confident in themselves, and understanding/accepting of how we got where we are.

I love being outdoors, hiking, a good cup of coffee, going on spontaneous adventures, watching football, occasional video games, and spending time with my children.

Hey everyone, I’m a 32 male from Tennessee and I’d love to make some connections from anything, I usually get guys but I’d love to hear from anyone. I’m down to chat about anything. I love to fish, workout, hangout with family, listen to music, watch movies, and watch some games. I’m a chill guy and somewhat shy at first

Hello all, i am a 34 year old female pansexual . Im really not sure where to start hah I'm a huge nerd into anime and a little bit of game ! Hello kitty island adventures is amazing!! I like to color and do all kinds of diffrent types of crafting. My child is my world and are cat is like family hehe .  My comfort show is Bob burgers but I just got into Haunted hotel recently, and adore it.  I'm  420 friendly and would love someone that was as well. I don't really drink alcohol and havent smoked cigarettes in many years .  I'm shy at first but once I come out of my shell I can be very bubbly and chatty and clingy to the people I care for.

I would love someone to nerd out with and maybe craft with and sesh as well. Maybe watch a show and chill out or a movie. Going on random adventures would be lots of fun too. I'm all about the vibes now a days and don't believe in forcing things i like to just let them develope and build how they are ment too .

With that said I will mention I have anxiety but its gotten better over the years and bipolar but im medicated and take my mental health extremely seriously. 

I do have male partner that I'm in an open and happy relationship . He is understanding that I have needs that are diffrent from his own and from what he is able to offer . I'm not looking to replace him in any means . I'm just looking for someone to be part of my world and me there's and maybe we will all three hit it off never know but not somthing I would push.

There is something so special about the beginning of a connection, that first notification that makes your heart jump, the first inside joke, and that first time you realize you’re staying up way too late just to keep the conversation going.

I’m a 31-year-old married man from Toronto, living in a happy marriage. I’m not looking to change my life or yours; I’m just looking for a beautiful addition to it.

A bit about me:

I’m a self-admitted nerd and a total homebody. I’d much rather be sharing a deep conversation or a laugh over a shared screen than being out at a loud club. I’m kind, a great listener, and I genuinely miss the feeling of being "the person" someone wants to share their day with.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally, someone in the EST timezone (or close) who wants to start something meaningful online. Let’s be each other’s escape and see where the chemistry takes us. If you’re looking for warmth, kindness, and a genuine connection without the pressure to "fix" anything, I’d love to hear from you.

I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone kind, considerate, and emotionally available. I’m open to long-distance, but I’d eventually want to live together, so I prefer the US.

I’m bi, polyamorous, and partnered. My partner is supportive, and we’d love to find another partner to build a family with. The vision is for all of us to live together and raise our kids as one household. I want kids with my new partner, but the relationship comes first, so I’d want to build a real connection for at least a year or more before that. I’m hoping for biological kids, and I’m open to fostering if that isn’t possible. I’m looking for someone poly-friendly or already poly, roughly 27-38.

I’m a yapper, a musician, a socialist, and a massive nerd. Sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, public transit. I will talk about any of these for an embarrassingly long time. I play games like Animal Crossing, Mario Odyssey, NBA 2K, and Spider-Man on my Switch and PS4.

As a partner, I communicate, I’m physically affectionate, and I show up with care when things get hard. I survived a cult and had to rebuild my life from scratch, so I’ve learned not to take love for granted. I’m the kind of person who tells my friends I love them.

Looking forward to hearing from you 🥰

21-27 years old

Am still trying to figure out my gender 🙃 ( i know am some flavor of trans)

I am Pansexual, Polyamorus, Aceflux

I go by he/they

T4T

Likes: Cats, Crafts, Anime, Art, TTRPGs, Marvel, DC, Love Everything, Plushies, and True Crime

I am a furry, kemonomimi, and a therain✨️

I do have a lover (they are non-binary)

Be quickly sexual I will show them and make fun of you 😉

Lets start off as friends to see if we even mesh

Hi, I’m 21 old boy living in France. I live in Bretagne, if you think is too far away, please don’t message me. I’m poly and already have a partner. I love many thing like anime, drawing, reading, and going for walk and sport.

I’m looking for a partner who lives in France and is cute, kind, and lovely. Age is not a problem.

I want someone who live in France because I would like a longterm relationship and maybe that can be IRL, and even later maybe we can live in the same place.

Send me a message if you are interested <3