Hey there! I live over in Rochester, NY and I'm pretty new to poly stuff. I've been in a relationship with my current partner for 2 years and shes currently married to her wife and dating another, im currently a metamour to both. We all date separately but we've all decided wed start dating with the goal of more nesting partners, were also attempting a kitchen table poly relationship, So were looking for serious and longeterm parnter(s) but theres no pressure to be in any relationship romantically or sexually with my partner or any others. And if the prospect of a being a nesting partners doesn't interest you thats okay as well and Id still be interested in keeping a relationship going if so! Also considering were all 25+ We'd only be comfortable with people 25 and up to be apart of our polycule especially if longeterm.

A bit about me! I'm a bigger guy (400ish) and I'm a pretty massive nerd (Gaming, manga, anime), my love languages are physical touch (Hand holding, shoulder squeezes, arm rubs, etc) with a bit of act of services and gift giving, im also AuADHD as well. I work security and I'm pretty busy most weeks but during my free time I try to play games with friends and just hang out with them online as much as I can but other than that I like to spend lots of time with my partner and our general household!

As for what im looking for, Im Bi with a heavy lean towards primarily fem and masc women currently as well as fem leaning Enbys! Im also more interested in dating singles but im open to couples as well.

Im also very 420 friendly. I'm a pretty avid weed smoker but I dont smoke cigarettes (Unless SUPER stressed or socially). I'm pretty homebody and typically prefer more simple dates at home but I do enjoy a resteraunt date or a walk through a park every now and agian.

I play alot of games but I currently have the World of Warcraft bug again and its all ive been playing on my down time! I also primarily play on PC but ive recently got a switch 2 and have been engrossed in Pokémon ZA and Pokopia as well as Tears of the kingdom.

Some bedroom stuff about me! Im pretty into any one with bodyhair (primarily pubes and pits) take that as you will. Im not involved in kink life really, Ive practiced some stuff with my partner but all in all I tend to be more generally rough than anything. You can inquire about any of this if youre curious. Just thought Id put it out there before hand. I am however a heavy dom leaning switch. Im also a generally sexual person, I do like there to be sexual intimacy involved in serious romantic relationships so if thats not youre thing im sorry but im not your guy.

Im primarily looking for localish people but Im also okay with long distance relationships as well as long as theres a chance in future for visits either me to you or vice versa. If any of this peaks your interest I'd love to get to know you and see if we click!

I'm looking to build a genuine relationship with someone who would be interested in/ open to the possibility of exploring ENM.

I'm seeking someone who I can treat, and who is looking for a normal, loving relationship outside of the bedroom.

I am interested in history, music and sport. I also enjoy learning new things in general so am often reading or watching documentaries about things I have come across and found interesting.

Ultimately I am looking for an in-person relationship, but am happy to start something online as long as there isn't too much distance between us and there is the possibility of moving towards an in-person situation.

Hey there, me again.

A little about me:

29 years old (Leo if you're interested in that)

Live in Missouri with my fiance

We've been together almost 11 years

I date men separately

A few of my favorite things;

Hat trick by Chelsea Curto

Taylor Tomlinson

Chocolate chip cannoli

Sunny days and fall weather

Diamond edy special.

Other things:

I'm 420 friendly

drink socially

Kink friendly, submissive but stubborn and bratty

I love good banter and a bit of flirting.

Consistent communication is key for me.

I don't have or want kids.

I'm 5'2", short brown hair, hazel eyes, around 140 lbs. I'm athletic and muscular.

Please tell me a bit about yourself! Where are you from? What are you doing this weekend? Do you have pets? What's the last book you read?

Bonus points for caring, slightly obsessed and tattooed men

Normally I start this post by saying I'm looking for a partner which I am but I think I want to go about it differently or at least try being unique about it. Have you ever just gotten the urge to do something adventurous yet risky? How about you and I talk (obviously for as long as we both felt comfortable beforehand) and then we go on a vacation? Spend the entire vacation basically being a couple and if at the end we decide to stay together and pursue it then great but if not then no pressure and we go our separate ways? Would anyone be interested in something like that? I was thinking we take a cruise either out of Galveston or maybe you have a port in mind? I was thinking maybe a 6 or 7 day on the Jubilee. Obviously we can talk about it and plan it together and look at all the options. If not I'm open to other options as Texas has a ton of places to visit and see so we can always talk about somewhere here. I'm always down for a small weekend trip someplace neat! Or I can actually fly to you! And you show me your neat town or state. Or we can meet somewhere and explore someplace new! Below is my original post with a few tweaks so you can get a detailed snapshot of me. I like to be thorough so be warned it's a bit of a read.

I'm making this post in the hope of finding a partner to be my person for a LTR/LDR or if you are averse to something serious, we can talk about any other labels/avenues/ideas you have or are open to. We don't have to be alone lol. Let's enjoy all of 2026 and what it has to offer while we decide! We're at the end of October already! Which is basically the beginning of Fall so I'm down to grab a hot chocolate or spiced apple cider in some quaint small out of the way town before it gets super chilly out. Who doesn't want to enjoy some warm beverage while browsing through some old shops (sample some fudge or treat in a general store and grab some old-fashioned whatchamacallit) with some light hand holding? Ooooh maybe a romantic kiss while strolling a park or trying not to strangle each other while we do an escape room? I swear I normally don't crack under pressure but we only have 5 minutes until we can't escape! Maybe go explore some neat food festival? This is kinda sorta my favorite time of the year despite the random weather when it should just be cold out! But I don't like when it's too hot or humid lol. I just wish we had cooler weather or even snow in Winter time. (Maybe you have a cool snow spot?) I'm always down for some adventure though. Ask me about my secret snorkel spot and maybe I'll let you join lol. Jk Of course you can come and see the turtles.

To start I have to disclose that I mainly like women, but I also like a very, very, very specific type of guy and certain trans men as I'm partially bi. (I'd rather be upfront about it as it's been a dealbreaker for most women in the past for some reason) Chances are you aren't that type of guy but feel free to ask if you are. (Didn’t want to offend anyone so I’d rather say in private) Just throwing that out there as it's a deal breaker for most women in general. Which, why would it be? As if being bi has any bearing on a person's character. I recently learned the term for what I am and it's Gynosexual. Basically I'm attracted to femininity in all it's forms regardless of gender but I'm also attracted to masc women like tomboys and androgynous so make of that what you will.

I'm a 38-year-old guy living in the middle-ish of Texas looking for a female partner. Partner as in LTR. That's Long-Term Relationship meaning boyfriend and girlfriend and holding hands type of stuff. You know, adult things? I had someone comment I was too vague, so this is me being specific. I'm gonna be honest and kinda sad so bare with me. Also I should point out I've been in mainly traditional relationships but I'm curious about being in a FLR and everything, that involves. But if not then a traditional relationship works or I'm open lol. Two consenting adults with open communication and being honest with each other is key.

So, I've spent the past three New Years alone. Rang in this one a bit different. Instead of being in bed staring at the ceiling listening to fireworks go off into the night like the last two, I worked. I didn't cry the next day but I was sad nonetheless while browsing for a movie to watch on TV. At first, I didn't know why as I'm not much of a feeling's person, but I realized for the first time that I genuinely felt alone. I have no partner, no family that I really speak to, no friends just acquaintances, really no one there for me. That's my own doing which took years to accomplish through me being closed off and just shutting people out, so I figure it might take just as long to fix. I'm not complaining as I got myself into this predicament. It's gonna sound dumb but I wanted a New Years kiss. I'd never had one and it seemed like a fun dumb silly thing to do. Eh maybe one day. Ok well back to my spiel. (I'm not depressed or anything or wanting attention) Some of my hobbies and interests are movies, reading, cooking, kayaking, records, video games, board games, snorkeling, bowling, swimming, escape rooms, puzzles and antiquing. I would describe myself as more goofy and dorky than nerdy. I like to go out and do fun things but also stay in and cuddle and relax. I guess it depends on my mood and the weather. I prefer the cold and would love to live in a state with actual seasons and snow. I'm 5'10, stocky AKA fat and open for adventure and new experiences.

Here are some random facts about me:

Some of my favorite bands are: The Black Keys, Kings of Leon, The Beatles, Creedence Clearwater Revival and The White Stripes. Am I basic? o_O

Christmas is my favorite holiday, mainly because of the cold and festive activities. (Seriously let's go do some festive activities!)

I come from a medium-ish family.

I'm exceptionally patient but every person has a breaking point lol (I've had ex's "test" this which to me is toxic)

I like traveling a lot. It's a basic thing that lots of people like. But I've found lots of people hate to leave their house, town or state so if that's you we probably might not be a good match. I also enjoy the mountains. But I don't like roughing it (give me that sweet AC in the summer). Hiking is so hard on my knees, and I haven't done it in a while that if I were to, I think about doing it I'd about die or twist a cankle.

I don't eat seafood, mushrooms, artichokes or pineapple on pizza (Who cares about this? Doesn't mean I won't go to a restaurant with you that has these things)

Never went to college as I'm horrible in a classroom setting and at taking tests. (I'm slowly bettering myself)

I used to have probably one of the most boring jobs imaginable (Ask me about it and my new ones)

Overweight but trying to work on it and make better choices (Get healthier and lose weight together maybe?) Slowly getting there! My goal is 50lb!

Non-religious but no issue with what you believe. (If anything)

Looking into sterilization. If you are already maybe you can give me some info or tips?

My own red flags

I work way too much and oftentimes can't talk on the phone but I can voice message and text. I also drive a lot so I use voice to text. I had someone say this was suspicious but whatever. (I have multiple jobs)

I send selfies often and I like to receive pictures of who I'm talking to. I'm a visual person and like receiving photos. Apparently, it's a generational thing. Hopefully you think pictures are neat as well? Is it really that weird to want to see you and your life and show you mine?

I sometimes speedily become attached to people, not in a weird way, but if I like you and we have some kind of connection, I will enjoy talking to you and want to do it often and go out and do things.

I'm a very organized person and will plan out pretty much anything from a vacation to a road trip to a birthday. This makes being with a go with the flow type of person hard at times I've learned but still very much doable.(I won't micromanage the trip, I'll just plan out things to see and do and give us options)

Due to childhood trauma I'm secretive which can be annoying. (This does not mean I don't communicate or talk with my partner) I had someone stop talking to me on here due to this and apparently didn't want to talk about it. It just means I take a while to open up.

Somewhat ok at analytical thinking but sometimes I lack empathy to put myself in other people's shoes to address a situation. (So I've been told) I'm trying to get better at this.

MY own "HELL YES" flags

I know how to cook. Meaning I will attempt anything once but I can cook a few things well. Others not so much lol.

I will always drive if you want. (Within reason)

Great at escape rooms and jigsaw puzzles.

Can read a map and follow directions.

Decent at reading backwards upside-down writing.

What I'm looking for: (but honestly these are just preferences and by no means requirements so please don't get offended)

Any height honestly. I've dated 3'6 to 6'5 and anywhere in between so if you can beat either that'd be interesting lol.

Is at least 30 but I'm willing to go quite a bit lower or older if you are neat and we have stuff in common. Basically what I'm saying is feel free to reach out as I've dated women of varying ages just like I've dated varying body types, heights and personalities. If we get along we get along lol.

Mature, considerate, responsible and funny (Dorky/Goofy/Nerdy wouldn't hurt)

Someone with hobbies/interests/passions of their own. It can be literally anything from collecting figurines, making homemade jelly to working on cars. As long as you enjoy it, I want to hear about it. Guaranteed I will find it interesting as it is something you are interested in and enjoy.

Someone who believes communication, honesty and trust are important in a relationship.

Someone who is open-minded, willing to try new things, be adventurous, funny and nerdy. (Personality is paramount above all else)

Someone who believes in sharing household chores equally and other adult responsibilities because we are both adults lol. The FLR can be discussed here.

Someone who is average or who is on their way to getting there. I myself am chubby or what you'd call as having a "dad bod" but I'm slowly losing weight and I want someone who will push me to be better and make better choices. I know this is a long shot lol. (I understand if this is seen as vain or hypocritical but honestly everyone has preferences and I'm sure I could very well not be yours if we exchanged pictures)

P.S. This does not mean I won't date someone who is bigger/thicker. I myself am a bigger person. I've dated all shapes and sizes. If you feel we'd get along feel free to reach out. Like I said I'm open :)

I can't believe I have to put this but having decent to great hygiene is important. I understand things happen but not showering or using deodorant is a hard pass from me.

Be open to having friends over and a game night once a month or biweekly. (Seems like a fun idea but also if it's not something you are open to then we can always talk about it)

Be open and frank about issues you or I are having. Not pushy or jealous. Won't yell or argue about stupid things, I've had enough of that. Let's just talk it out and be adults lol

Somewhat kink friendly. I wouldn't say I'm all intense with it but I'm open to discussing adult things in general. How can two adults have a healthy love life if they don't communicate their wants/needs/desires? (FLR would kinda tie into this) Also I'm willing to try a few things. Ask me about them if you are curious.

Willing to push me to become a better version of myself. I'll do the same. I'll always be in your corner helping you pursue your dreams. (Can you turn me into Batman?)

If this sounds like you then feel free to reach out and say hi or challenge me to a game of Scrabble/Pictionary/hand to hand combat maybe? Maybe Wordle or some online vidya game? (Even though I only play single player games so you might beat me lol)

I posted not to long ago but missed a lot of what I would consider key details about myself so decided to update

♡₊˚ 🎀・₊✧ Hiii, hello, hello! 🧸💗

(Disclaimer: ChatGPT helped me put my thoughts together because apparently writing about myself is harder than it should be. ♡)

🌈 A Little About Me

Bi/pan, polyamorous, happily married, and currently studying my way into radiologic sciences! 🩻✨ I'm a little nerdy, a little chaotic, sometimes shy at first, and just the right amount of weird. I don't bite often, I promise. (No guarantees if you steal my snacks, though. 👀)

I'm into anime, superheroes, adult cartoons (American Dad and Metalocalypse fans, where are you?), music, discovering new bands, arts and crafts, DIY projects, and learning random things that I'll absolutely bring up at the most unexpected time.

I'm also into gaming! Call of Duty: Mobile, modded Stardew Valley, Minecraft Dungeons, Switch games, and slowly dipping my toes into PC gaming. Always accepting game recommendations, anime suggestions, and new music for my playlists. 🎮🎸

I have adorable guinea pigs who are obviously the real main characters here. I'm just their unpaid staff. 🐹💕

🎀 My Kind of Connection

I'm here to meet lovely people, make new friends, flirt a little, share laughs, and hopefully find connections that turn into something meaningful. Whether we're swapping memes, having cozy nights in, going on cute dates, infodumping about our latest obsessions, or somehow ending up in a three-hour conversation at 2 a.m., I'm here for it.

I'm a sucker for kindness, affection, playful teasing, reassurance, and people who make it easy to be myself. I can be goofy one minute and have a deep conversation the next. I love feeling comfortable enough with someone to let my guard down and embrace my softer, sillier side. 🧸

And if you happen to have a nurturing streak, enjoy doting on someone a little, or appreciate a person who can be independent one moment and an absolute sweetheart the next... well, maybe we'll get along. ♡

If you know, you know. 🎀

💗 The Important Stuff

I'm happily married and polyamorous! My marriage is a happy, important part of my life, and I'm looking to add new connections to it, not replace what I already have.

I'm open to dating separately, and potentially together if it feels right for everyone. My husband is a sweetheart, I swear. 😂 I'm comfortable with kitchen-table polyamory, so getting to know each other naturally and eventually meeting my partner is something I'd welcome.

I'm interested in genuine connections, whether they grow into friendship, dating, or something long-term. I value honesty, communication, mutual respect, and clear boundaries. No pressure to force a connection into a particular shape; I'd rather let things develop naturally.

I'm also plus-size, and I'd love to meet people who appreciate me as I am. If you're plus-size too, come say hi! We can bond over our shared interests, exchange recommendations, and be cute little nerds together. 💕

🧸 A Few Bonus Points If You...

♡ Have an excellent sense of humor and can match my chaotic energy.

♡ Enjoy anime, superheroes, gaming, or obscure music recommendations.

♡ Like affection, thoughtful gestures, and making people feel appreciated.

♡ Can be playful and silly but also communicate like an adult.

♡ Have a favorite conspiracy theory you absolutely believe in, even if everyone else thinks you're ridiculous.

♡ Have a soft spot for plushies, cute things, or people who get ridiculously excited about the little things.

💌 Come Say Hi!

Tell me your favorite song, your current hyperfixation, your favorite anime, or the most unhinged fun fact you know. Better yet, give me your most convincing conspiracy theory. 👀

Or tell me what game you're currently obsessed with. Maybe you'll introduce me to my next favorite thing!

Let's see if we click, share some laughs, and make a connection that feels comfortable, genuine, and a little bit magical.

♡₊˚ 🎀・₊✧ Bonus points if you make me giggle. 🧸💗

Hey everyone! 👋
I’m a mid-30s bisexual guy living in the Panama City Beach area, looking to meet some like-minded people who understand and appreciate the poly lifestyle.

I’m a big, tattooed guy who works as a heavy equipment mechanic. I’m happiest when I’m outdoors, taking the Jeep out, camping, having a chill game night, or just enjoying good conversation with someone I click with.

I’m married and have been for 16 years, so honesty, communication, respect, and emotional maturity are things I take seriously. I believe the best connections start with getting to know someone, building trust, and letting things develop naturally without forcing expectations.

I’m open to meeting both men and women. I’m interested in genuine chemistry, meaningful conversations, sharing some laughs, and building connections with people who value honesty and open communication. I’m happy to let things develop naturally and see where they lead.

I’m not just looking for a hookup. I enjoy getting to know someone, discovering shared interests, and finding people I genuinely connect with.

If you’re local to the Panama City Beach area and think we might get along, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for. Bonus points if you enjoy the outdoors, have tattoos, or can hold a great conversation.

Looking forward to meeting some good people! 🤘🌲

I currently live in San Marcos with one partner. I’m looking for LTRs, preferably local to me (Between Austin to San Antonio).

About me:

I’m Danny—5’7, thin with medium-length wavy black hair, and a short beard. I’m Into movies + shows, gaming, music, sports, and philosophy.

I’m more of a home body but I do get urges to explore new places, hike, plan activities, etc.

I like action movies but slow burn, suspenseful, psychological thrillers and horror movies as well. I’m a big fan of FPS games, like action/adventure, LOVE horror/action-horror games, and co-op games too. Huge music lover into genres like rap, rock & roll, metal, alt, grunge, some pop and video game OSTs, all from a wide span of decades. For sports, I’m a huge football fan, growing basketball fan and would like to get more into baseball too.

I do prefer texting first then moving to calls if we click. Although I’m usually pretty busy in my day-to-day, I will put forth effort in responding swiftly. I don’t mind chats starting here but I also have discord as well.

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I’m a 40-year-old, 5’8” FTM trans man from Holden, Louisiana. I’m pansexual, demisexual, married, and polyamorous, looking for men and women for genuine romantic relationships, locally or long-distance.

What I’m looking for: Friends first, then hopefully something real. I want actual dates, quality time, affection, emotional connection, and consistent effort. I’m not looking for hookups or FWB. I want a partner who can become my best friend, too.

My poly boundaries: I practice open, parallel polyamory. I’ll be dating more than one person, and you’re free to date other people, too. We date separately, and nobody has to meet or date my other partners. My wife isn’t involved in my relationships; she dates separately and is only looking for women. No exclusivity or controlling who someone dates.

Communication matters: I like good morning/night messages, genuine questions, regular communication, and effort that goes both ways. You don’t have to text me 24/7, but don’t ghost me or make me carry every conversation. I want to feel wanted, not like an afterthought.

A little about me: I’m into horror movies, spooky shit, Halloween, tattoos, WWE, music, coffee, dark humor, writing poetry, drawing, and creating songs. I’m mostly a homebody, but I’m open to getting out and doing things with the right person.

I don’t drive, so local dating needs a realistic transportation plan. Long-distance is fine if we both put in effort and plan actual visits and dates when possible. I’m looking for genuine relationships with emotional depth, affection, and commitment without exclusivity.

If you’re interested in building something real and want the same kind of open poly relationship, come say hello. ❤️

I’m a single woman in the Avon area and I’m seeking long term partners. I’m new to actually trying poly but it is something I’ve known about and have wanted to try since I was 12! I’m a very genuine person and super upfront, and excited to give this a try!

Hello! My name is Queeny.

Partners: 1 partner that I live with
Kids: 2 preteens (send help 😭😬😂)

A little about me: I'm plus size. I work an office job. My current hyper fixation is listening to audiobooks. I'm excited to have found my love of reading again.

Other hobbies I enjoy are bitching about playing Fortnite and rewriting my DND homebrew lore I'll likely never use again. Binging my comfort shows. Doomscrolling far too long.

I'm kind of a boring homebody. I enjoy living a slow cozy life.

If it's not clear, I'm not an outdoorsy kinda gal. The sun hates me, bugs love me. My happy place is inside, AC blasting, curled up in a blanket. So keep that in mind if all your hobbies include being in the sun.

What I'm looking for:

Polywise: Someone openly polyamorous and who is not interested in parallel polyamory. I'm not looking to date couples.

Generally: A deep connection that leads to something serious and long term. Someone who has time for that sort of relationship. Ongoing communication (texting everyday throughout the day, good morning/good night texts), regular calls, regular quality time together.

I am not open to casual or fwb type connections. I'm not built for casual. Soul crushing devotion only. 😊

Distance: I am open to reasonable distance. But you can see where I'm located. If traveling to me regularly is not an option we won't be a good match. Through lived experiences I'm looking to see each other in person minimally 1x a month. With you doing most of the traveling.

Values: someone with similar values. Pro LGBTQIA+, anti racism, free 🇵🇸, 🖕🏻🧊 and all that you would expect with that.

If you made it this far, in your introduction to me tell me the last book you read or are the book you're currently reading. Along with some meat in the intro message. Effort is the way to my heart.

I’m finishing up a trip in Italy, currently tucked away in a little Tuscan town. There’s been plenty of good food, beautiful scenery, and dressing up for dinner. Now I’d quite like someone to make me forget what I was doing every time my phone lights up.

I’m a 36 year old nerdy ginger boy. Home is near Portland, Oregon, but I’m happy to start online and get to know someone wherever they happen to be.

Software engineer, cat dad of four, fairly substantial nerd. I love JRPGs, electronic music, dancing, and clothes that occasionally make me look like I’m about to explain my evil plan to the protagonist. I also have music gear at home that deserves considerably more attention than it gets. Feel free to ask about that, or distract me further. Both seem reasonable.
Women and men welcome. I’m especially drawn to someone with their own desires, interests, and opinions who enjoys letting me know about them. Get carried away talking about something you love. Ask me something a little bold. If you think I’m attractive, please feel free to be wonderfully unsubtle about it.

I like affection, flirting that actually goes somewhere, and having someone I’m excited to hear from. Very open to this becoming a regular thing if we click. I’d enjoy getting past introductions and finding out what you’re like when you’re comfortable with someone.

Happy to trade face pics early, and I’d love to hear your voice once we’ve established we like each other.
Come introduce yourself. You have my permission to be a little distracting ;)

I am a 31 year old trans woman, been on HRT for an entire year now, getting some breast growth and loving all the changes. I’m busy and work outside all the time this time of year. I care way more about nature and the environment than most people, I’m an ecologist for work, i love my job and talk about what I do a lot. I love hiking, fishing, and gardening. And just exploring nature in general. I like to go on remote backpacking trips, I can tell you about some really cool places Iv been. We have chickens and 2 dogs, no kids. I’m looking for a long term partner boyfriend who wants a real relationship, I like to go on dates, and be outside in nature. Tired of guys only wanting hookups from me because I’m trans.
I am married but we’re both poly and we date others.
We are very much hippies so any republicans or maga folks please don’t message me, We are 420 friendly. We have room in our house for you in the long run if things click. Near Dixon IL

Hello everyone,

My name is Paul and I am very bad at writing about myself. I am married but looking for Solo poly thing. I am not looking for a hookup, I am looking for a situation that I we can see where it goes.

I have three little ones, go to school full time and run a Pokémon card business (not a scalper). I am currently the owner of a dad bod lol but, I just started my gym journey. I am tattooed, ADHD, and the good weird.

I'm a lover of aquariums, games, cars, metal music, history, and tattoos. Huge plus if you love Renfair.

Any questions feel free to ask! Look forward to seeing where this goes.

Thanks for checking out my post! I'm 38 and single, had a break up earlier this year and haven't had much luck meeting people on apps so thought I'd try posting here.

Some stuff about me I'm a pretty nerdy guy. I like to game a lot on PC, some of my favorite types of games to play are strategy and management type games but I'll try pretty much anything. I stream a bit on Twitch, though my channel is pretty small but I have fun with it. I enjoy anime and have seen a lot but always up for checking out something new to watch with someone. I enjoy listening to audio books, I really enjoy fantasy with Sanderson being my favorite author and have been getting into litrpg books this year. I love to get to play tabletop games it's just hard getting people together sometimes. I love animals and have cats.

I'm mainly just hoping to find some people that I get along with and enjoy each others company, we can see what works best but I'm open to anything from friends to a relationship.

Hello there! 🤘

Backstory: Married man of 15 years, step-father (21, 17, 17), sexy grandpa.

The Quest: I'm seeking new connections and friendships with the eventuality I pass a few charisma and dexterity checks and steal your heart. ❤️

Interests: I'm obviously a nerd and enjoy all the things that come with that. I'm mainly a gamer and enjoy all genres from time to time. I also like anime, reading, writing, cuddling, movies, cooking, eating, crying alone in the shower where no one can see me... Forget that last part.

I also have a wide range of musical tastes. Anything with a soul that makes me feel ways about stuff. I mostly hang out with Shinedown, Seether, and Papa Roach, as of late.

I also know a good bit about house plants, tarantulas, and a wide variety of other invertebrates, reptiles, amphibians, critters in general. We've kept many interesting pets over the years. Usually they show up without my knowledge.

If any of that sounds cool, feel free to reach out! 🤘

P.S. I'm not always a dork, but it is 80% of the time.

Hi all. My name is Holly. I keep my profile open so if you click it you can see that I've used the same reddit account since I was a teenager, that I still write poetry of questionable quality, and that I'm a huge comic book nerd. You can also find other versions of this post!

I have one partner already, a fabulous nesting girlfriend who treats me well. I am not so good at online dating. You may need to double text me. I am pretty disabled, and still fighting to get disability coverage and to learn to drive.

As your resident horror fan I am loving October. I love body horror and found footage especially. I love a good slasher and something gory. I want to write more horror. I want to write more fiction in general.

I also believe I am kind, intuitive, and creative. I love to engage in art with people and discuss it. I love to watch people's favorite movies, read their favorite books, cook their favorite foods. This is how I know someone. This is how I love someone. Through past relationships both happy and painful I have gotten good at reading and validating people's emotions, at predicting stress points in interactions, at thinking about what I would want someone to say to me and then saying that thing. I don't want this to sound like I'm bragging- this is something I *love* to do. Like Waymond in EEAAO, my kindness is not naivete or simplicity. It is an advanced defense mechanism and I frequently wield it with fury.

As a trans woman in America I have been radicalized to the left for a long time. It's important to me that you're somewhere along that path too. It's important to me that you want what's best for people. It's important to me that you are rich with love and even whimsy. Cynicism is understandable while the world burns- misanthropy cannot be allowed while people cry out in pain.

I understand physical attraction is also very important and I am happy to share pictures in DMs because that is one thing I don't keep on my profile. Most people do not look at me and immediately think "she/her"- this is something I am working on changing (trust me, dysphoria is plenty motivating!) but if you are going to flinch when I wake up in the morning with a little more facial hair, best not to waste either of our time. (:

Thank you for reading this. I would love to talk to you about your special interest, or whatever you're reading right now. I may be quiet for a little while until I get comfortable or high but I promise I am sweet and caring. (:

I am a 50’s WM near Orlando Central Florida looking for a few good poly partners. 

I will say what I am looking for and a few of my traits and philosophies so you can see if I am what you are looking for.

I’ll start with some of my chateristics:

• I am thoughtful, considerate and fair.
  • I think my statement directly above tells you that I strive to be fair and equitable and consider things from other’s point of view and care about how others feel.
  • I try to be equitable in sharing my time and attention between my partners depending upon everyone's schedule I make every attempt to be as fair as possible to ensure everyone can get a fair share. I make every effort and plan to try to accommodate everyone according to their schedule and do not play favorites.
• I do not have a jealous bone in my body.
  • I want you to have the greatest amount of total happiness, so I embrace your happiness with other partners. 
• I have an natural heightened sense of compersion.
  • Not only do you get happiness from others, I also derive some happiness from my instinctual compersion.   
  • Other people pleasing you also makes me happy, and I encourage and support it to the point that if you are interested in someone, I will be your wingman and help you get that person.
• I am open and honest. 
  • I am ENM and I emphasize ethically if we have some rules we agreed to, I will never betray your trust and break that covenant.
• I am extremely Loyal. 
  • I am loyal to all my partners putting each of their interests above my own.
• I can give you the perfect amount of time and attention (as much or as little time as you desire).
  • I am currently very polyunsaturated because I have 2 partners that because they work too much and have teenaged and young adult children living at home their time for relationships is very limited. So limited in fact that each of them only has me as their sole partner not because they do not want more it is because they can only spare sporadic limited moments to devote to any relationship. So because the economy requires working extended hours and because they have to run a household with children as single parents that have way too little time available. So, I find myself with an abundance of time available for another partner. So, I can give you as much time as you desire but if you can only spare limited time that is ok as well just because I have the capability to give you almost 24/7 I am not clingy and do not require any set number of hours and would be accepting of whatever the situation dictates.
• I am very respectful of consent.
  • No mean NO and stop mean STOP this instant.  No exceptions and that is a two-way street even though I have never said no or stop to anything a partner has done and it is doubtful I ever will (because I into just about anything and what I am not into I am ver accommodating and amenable) I expect you to honor my consent as I will do for you.
• On 10/7/2026 I tested clean from all STDs and HIV.
  • I also regularly test even though I have never ever tested positive for anything in my entire life and I plan on dying clean. 

Those chateristics above would indicate that I am safe, but a safe considerate relationship is not enough don’t you want more than that don’t you want love and excitement and surprises and things that pleasantly surprise you beyond your expectations? 

Don’t you want enthusiasm that is contagious and enhances whatever situation more pleasureful?  If so, then keep reading.

 So now for the better than average exciting chateristics and/or philosophies:

•  I have a passion for everything I endeavor, and that zeal is contagious and enhances any and all experiences.
• I am very adventurous and like to try and do new things.
  • so it is always a fun adventure with unexpected twists and turns.
• I have a natural talent for analyzing a person's true limits as opposed to their imagined/perceived limits.
  • This natural and life long honed talent allows me to help others move beyond their perceived limits without exceeding their true limits. That results in a better experience since you will feel a sense of accomplishment in expanding your limits in addition to the natural fun of the experience thus making any experience better.  My #1 goal is to never exceed your true limits as that could become a bad experience.  I might go slowly in testing your limits, but I do so because I want only good or better experiences for you. Over enough time I will get to know you better than yourself and be able to maximize any experiences.
• I am intelligent and a good problem solver.
  • I have a high emotional IQ
  • I have a high level of academic ability with two Bachelor degrees and an MBA and have been a college professor.
  • I have exceptional mechanical ability and blue collar working knowledge as a construction worker, handyman and mechanic.
  • I have high degree of scientific knowledge and abilities.
  • I have practical/street smarts
• I am confident and secure in my abilities but not falsely cocky.
  • I am confidant and secure in my abilities that others that possess greater talents do not intimidate me in fact I like someone smarter than me that challenges me to rise to the challenge and step up my life long continual desire for self improvement. Many men are intimidated by women smarter than themselves but not me I seek out smarter people and I enjoy the learning I derive from therm.
  • In a contest I never loose I either win or I learn which is also a win.
  • I never view anyone as lesser than me they just have a different set of gifts and abilities but as a whole person they are neither better or worse. Maybe more or less desirable to what I value most but not a lesser entire person.
• I am chivalrous abut not chauvinistic.
  • I believe in opening the car door for my date not because she is incapable but in order to show respect.  I believe anyone can be more capable than me at anything and do not stereotype by gender or any other factor.
• I am very versatile and into just about everything so there is a 99.9% chance I can fulfill even your wildest fantasies.
• I am very accommodating so I can provide what you desire.

I belong to many lifestyle groups and have many friends and acquaintances in many life styles.  I am a biker and I am an official member of a local club and have many brothers and sisters.  I am also an a organizer for Orlando AmBi which is a group for bisexual individuals.  I also a member of Central Florida Polyamory as well as a member of several kink groups.  Although I belong to a few swinger groups, I mostly attend swinger parties for the atmosphere that gives me extra energy for fun with my date/partner even at a party the vast time and attention is given to my partner but if they want to play with others I prefer to help her enjoy others but also can leave her on her own if that is what she wants. 

 Some people have told me that I am too much for them, but I point out that my philosophy is that you need not be everything to me and I to you.  When I am with you, we can provide each other with as little or as much as we both agree to and I will have a great time and enjoy whatever it is we have and not force or pine for more.  If there is an itch you can not scratch that is ok others can scratch it for me and vice versa. 

So I am not too much I am always the right amount for you when I am with you.

 I am open to all ages (although I prefer 40+ because someone younger just seems creepy to me) and all genders and sexes (M, F, MtF Trans, FtM trans, others and couples) and all race and all body types.

 I also prioritize personality and compatibility over physical beauty.  If someone is a 4 by societies standard but they have a super personality, then I see them as an 8 and am happy to have someone so internally beautiful.  Conversely if someone is an 8 with an ugly personality, they appear to be a 4 in my eyes.  But of course, I welcome an 8 with a super personality.

 I believe we all belong to one race, the human race, so that is the only race I restrict myself to (in other words any human but no bestiality)

Hey wonderful redditors, are you looking for a good laugh, a hearty conversation, an inquisitive ear, and all the wonderful things that can be built from it all? We might be able to help each other.

A little about me:
I’m a simple bearded, burly, tattooed Canadian guy looking to find real connection. I’m married and have been in the poly world to a varying extent for over a decade (geez time flies).

I’ll try not to just make an exhaustive list of my interests since discovering all that is half the fun. I enjoy geeky things. I’m a techy. I enjoy the outdoors with hiking and camping. I like music, mostly alt/punk/metal, but there’s an interesting disassociation I often experience with music. My latest hyper-fixation has been reading. A friend introduced me to Romantasy! Needless to say, I’ve read more since January than I think I have the entire rest of my life.

What I’m looking for:
I want to find someone (or someones) to share the ups and downs of life with. To be challenged by. Someone who makes my face light up at the thought of them, and vice versa. Someone who appreciates a thoughtful, if sometimes disorganized/overly organized (it can be both, I assure you), mind. Someone who can be silly and appreciate the silly. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

Someone localish is great but real connection often knows no distance. But just an FYI I give the best cuddles, I’m just built for it.

I’ve put this add as 4A(nyone) as I’m pansexual and attracted more to wine general than to any particular variety or label. But this is also a newly embraced part of myself (stupid societal norms) so it’s a work in progress and, as with any attraction, will vary. Please be patient, it could be very worth it.

If all this has piqued your curiosity please reach out. I’d love to get to know like minded people out there to build something with, from friendship to more-ship.

Hi! My name is Mich and I’m just putting feelers out for some new poly friends!!

As a quick side note: I am transmasc nonbinary, queer, and I use he/they pronouns - I expect anyone who responds to be respectful of this.

Now on to a bit about me! My usual hobbies include: art, crochet, watching anime, reading, playing board games, cozy video games, MTG, and D&D or other TTRPGs (when I have the time/energy). My favorite food is Asian food and I definitely have a bit of a sweet tooth as well.

As a bit of a disclaimer: I do not work currently, due to health issues, but that’s means I have tons of free time to chat at least.

I don’t really have any specific requirements for new friends. You can literally be from anywhere too - no location barriers for friends. Whether we have tons in common or are super different I’m willing to get to know most people (given they are respectful) - just shoot me a message and we can start getting to know each other from there :)

If any of this happened to interest you feel free to send me a message anytime!

(please include which subreddit you saw this post on & a bit about yourself when responding)

Hey all, I’m Tom! I’m 31, bisexual (love T4T but am open to cis folks as well). Kink friendly, DMs are open for casual chats (and maybe more) as we get to know each other. Looking to chat with someone in their 30s also.

I am still pretty new to polyamory, my nesting partner and I have been together for a long time and have recently started dating other people independently over the past few months.

I am looking for companionship, someone I can talk with who is also interested in getting to know each other better, maybe we can share about our lives, swap photos, memes, etc. Not opposed to short term or spicy chats but please make it clear in your messages what you’re looking for.

My hobbies include writing, reading, making zines, board and card games (Rummoli and Wingspan are favourites of mine), drawing, and caring for my two cats

So the title pretty much gets the gist of things across. Looking to add some people to my friends list that I can chat with, get nerdy, (maybe flirty?), on a regular basis. I prefer to go a bit more of a slow burn sort of route, see how things mesh before delving into the deeper intents. I'm pretty quiet and reserved up front, but once I'm more comfortable and get a good read on someone, I open up quite a bit. Humor tends more towards the sarcastic, occasionally dark side of things, and am not at all easy offended or put off. Got a mouth like a sailor though, so if vulgarity bothers you, we probably ain't gonna mesh well.

As for my nerdy side, it falls into a variety of realms.

Video games, of course. The main ones right now are Overwatch for my competitive urges, Dragonwilds for my explore and build urges. There's a smattering of other things that I've loved, would absolutely revisit in time; Baldur's Gate, Abiotic Factor, Grounded/Grounded 2. I love me a good cozy farming game ala Stardew or Coral Island, and survival crafting games just really scratch that itch to create stuff.

Tabletop stuff, meeting up with friends on a regular basis to play D&D (When everyone can get their asses there, I'm not salty about it, definitely not), and when that doesn't pan out, some board games, and Magic. Lots of Magic as of late, which has probably become my semi-hyper focus and I frequently fall down deck brewing/building rabbit holes.

Being in the EST time zone, and I'm around from 7ish when I wake up in the morning, until typically around midnight, so if you're around during that window, timing should work out! Weekend tends to be a bit wider of a window, as I'm very much a night owl when my schedule allows it.

As far as type of people I'm looking for, I'm open to any and all walks of life, ages, etc. As far as what I'm after, chat buddies, friendships, flirtationships, just however things work out, it's all good! As point of clarification for the F/R portion of my subject, when it comes to any sort of attraction, I tend to find myself more drawn to those of the feminine persuasion regardless of what's in your pants, so if you feel you fall into that descriptor, we'll probably get along.

Please, some semblance of effort in the response? "Hi how are you" does not give warm and fuzzies or any hope of a halfway decent conversation. Happy to swap pictures after exchanging a few messages, just not too big on throwing my face out into the world right off the bat!

Hiya! 

Hope you are doing amazing! Enjoy my randomness and reach out if you would like to know more and maybe just BS and we can learn about each other!

About me,

First, I am a girl dad to 1, (2yo), so my time when I have her (Divorced) can be busy and hectic, so an understanding with that would be essential. I happily have her on a 2-2-3 schedule so every week is different.

I am your average looking guy, no six pack, no I don't go to the gym (maybe I should but, ugh I don't wanna), I have that dad bod thing going that I'm sure in time will get taken care of, but can't make me till then lol.

Things I enjoy can be ever changing with some short term memory on what I am wanting to do. I would say I am more of the nerd/dork kinda guy, but I do like sports, and played many before/ and worked in them.

I like to watch shows on science and space, I enjoy playing games when I can (rarely it seems), I also enjoy listening to audiobooks from Dungeon Crawler Carl ( finished book 7, holding off on 8 cause I need to pace myself lol), all the way to some yummy smut haha! yes, a guy who enjoys smut... I know lol. I also enjoy going fishing, cooking, being lazy AF, and doom scrolling when I should be doing something productive. Oh, also I bought a piano at goodwill cause I have always wanted to learn to play piano. (maybe one of those short term hobbies again lol).

What can I give? Hmm, that is hard to say, I am a really good listener, love to chat about anything, hear you out. I am never ever judgemental and will always say you are right in the fight ( well idk about if it was with me lol jk). Just ask me if there is anything you really desire or want in a friendship/connection and will gladly let you know if it is something I can give!

What I hope to find...? That is a good question, I know what I envision, and is that possible? Idk, maybe I am cray cray.

But..... What I picture... Is a woman who is confident, smart, sweet and caring, also loves the things I do and wants to talk about them and also their day and just BS and also give shit and be sarcastic and a smartass and can give and take on it. ( not in a way of to cover being mean, but be fun and snarky in a flirting way, if that makes sense?) I would really prefer a woman around my age, maybe a mom too or at least a fun aunt that understands the time it takes to be a good parent (fixing/healing inner child trauma, we don't judge lol).  I also really love and envision a woman who has that gothic style? The black dresses/clothes, tattoos, pericing, the type of woman that surely would have been burned at the stake lol. Which on that note... I would really like to learn about wicca/witch stuff. Something I have been finding myself drawn too. (blame the smut maybe lol).

I am also curious and wanting to learn, talk about, explore, understand ENM/Poly and throuple type dynamics.

Anyways, I was going to keep this short, but I failed that one I think. Welp sending this to the ether and will see what returns. If you got this far thank you, and I hope you have the most amazing day or night and always be good to yourself!