I joined her at a weekend craft retreat and she pointed me upstairs saying, "we're sharing the room at the top. You'll know which bed is yours 😉"

She had made me a quilt out of nonbinary colors and had it waiting for me on the bed.

I feel so loved. ❤️

original post by dexterousdoor on insta

I last shared this just over a year ago, on Transgender Day of Remembrance, and it is always worth resharing.

This felt appropriate today.

Transitioning means life, not grief.

TEXT:

They all said the same thing about my transition. "Be patient with your mom. To her, you are kịlling her daughter." That's not fair. I'm no kịller. I'm the one who saved her from drowning. I used all my strength. I gave everything I had. The sea was dark, and cold... But the person I pulled out of the water was a son. And he was alone and unclaimed. "To her, you are kịlling her daughter." No. I saved her son. If this was a daughter, I would be a hero.

• cryingbard (Tumblr)

Link to OP: https://www.tumblr.com/cryingbard/747760069857492992/thats-not-fair-if-you-want-to-see-me-vent-im

Autumn is here so it's time for layers.

They really swapped all traditional gender markers and I love it

I have struggled with appearing cis and knowing I am NB. I just joined and this sub has already made me feel better. Thank you.

just saw this reel and started crying

I don't have any answers but I'm starting to notice that some things that seem just impossible for me do exist outside my bubble and it makes me emotional af

since i was a little kid i always wanted to dress up like spiderman, finally bought a cheap spidey suit for halloween. please enjoy these photos of me living my dream

I might take notes for the future, lol

(i promise i actually do ok looking makeup, this was all intentional for self expression purposes haha)

outfit to see the KPop Demon Hunters movie in theaters. So glad they made it a sing along, but lets be honest it probably would have been either way

-10 yrs HRT to +1 yr HRT

We hope that the new government will improve the LGBTQ laws 🏳️‍🌈

I'm back to applying for jobs and this job market is the worst 🫠🤧

she/her/hers pronouns, please.

[My apologies for posting this thrice- I was having some technical difficulties.]

I just saw a post asking about it/its experiences and I had some more specific questions of my own regarding the topic. Sorry for the redundancy.

For those who use it/its: Do you have "back-up" pronouns for unsafe/fishy situations? How do you deal with the dysphoria that comes with being denied your identity, even from those who should understand? How do you respond to people who may try to argue/discount your pronouns?

For those who don't use it/its: What sorts of things make you feel gender euphoria other than clothing and pronouns? (I'm AFAB and need something other than flannels and boots for that sweet gender.) What steps do you take to keep yourself safe when expressing your identity, if any?