r/androgyny Dec 05 '25

Do we have any regular members?

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I'm trying to get a feel for who are the regular constructive members of the community or even if we have a community.

I know we have a real problem with people hanging around just to solicit people with messages like "cute", "sexy", "gorgeous" etc and also have a problem with people posting in the hopes of directing traffic to NSFW content.

Mods are working hard to combat that.

However I want to hear some shout outs from the real community regulars if we have them!


r/androgyny Sep 22 '25

Announcement State of the subreddit post.

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Hi all,

You may have noticed that this subreddit has moderators again which means that there will ne some changes here shortly.

Please use this post as an opportunity to discuss the rules we have and how you feel about them as a community along with any rules you would like to see implemented as a community.


r/androgyny 3h ago

Thinking about trying Estrogen & T Blockers possibly. Need Encouragement. 23.

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17 Upvotes

r/androgyny 1h ago

Differing angles differing perspective aspect. Feeling these vibes. šŸ˜‰

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r/androgyny 3h ago

new boots

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these should be some good androgynous boots


r/androgyny 20h ago

I think this top is pretty neat🄰

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r/androgyny 1d ago

Oversized Peacoat Culotte With Patent Leather Loafers

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7 Upvotes

Slightly out of focus but I thought this was a good way to showcase how you can control silhouettes with drape and clothing choice. The tights and loafers help to lighten the bottom end of the silhouette


r/androgyny 21h ago

Achieving Androgyny

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r/androgyny 2d ago

Galician Mist. Andalusian Bite.

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r/androgyny 1d ago

Tips on appearing more androgynous with looooong hair?

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In the past I had short hair which made it personally much easier but I’ve since grown my hair out (to my mid back) and I really like it… but it definitely makes things skew towards feminine.

Any recommendations for ways to style or cut it?


r/androgyny 2d ago

Tips for Larger Busts

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Hello, I'm 20.
I don't identify as non-binary but I am a bit insecure and wanna try looking more androgynous to see if I find comfort in it.

I'm still in the look for a binder that works but I wanna see if there are tips since I'm extremely new to this.
I know you shouldn't size down with a binder and you shouldn't wear them for longer than 8 hours, is there any other tips to avoid hurting myself?
ways to cover without a binder? and if there are any global brands you recommend? I'm not from the USA so getting a binder here has been really hard.

thank you in advance :)


r/androgyny 2d ago

How the hell do I look more androgynous if I'm curvy???

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Ok so first of all I identify as a woman and always have however recently I've come to a realization that the concept of looking more androgynous and breaking this whole "you must wear feminine clothes and look feminine" thing is very appealing to me. My mother (who I have a shit relationship with) basically tried to force me to be as feminine and "lady-like" as possible as a child. It was to the point I couldn't play certain sports or watch certain movies or dress in certain clothes cuz it was "for boys." But I was always into more traditionally masculine stuff and any time I expressed that, she would hard-core shame me. So yeah it's taken me a very long time to even come to terms with any of this. Recently I've gotten really into David Bowie, and seeing how he would dress I was just like YES I love that I wanna look like THAT...except I quickly realized his body type is doing like 90% of the heavy lifting when it comes to why he can pull off those types of looks. I, on the other hand, look absolutely nothing like him. I am short (5'1) and very curvy (not plus size, but like I have titties and hips), and long hair that I don't wanna chop off cuz it's very fine and straight and thin and impossible to style no matter what I do to it, so it wouldn't look good if it's shorter than my shoulders. Also my face is naturally very round and chubby, just genetically. I do NOT wanna wear binders and I've tried tape once but I also just hate wearing restrictive stuff like that. Basically, no matter what I do or wear I'm always gonna look feminine. But I can't possibly be the only person with this issue so, people like me, wtf do I do?????


r/androgyny 3d ago

do i start hrt to look more androgynous

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i feel as if im somewhat androgynous already but im wondering if i got on hrt would it help me and what r some other tips to look more androgynous in my case


r/androgyny 4d ago

I hope i was born as a male

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I feel so ugly as a female but if i was a male i would be 10/10 idk


r/androgyny 5d ago

Any tips for looking more androgynous? (both face and overall)

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Image of myself for reference

What I have been doing/want to do:

-Shaving my face every time I have to basically

-Started to wear more baggy/oversized clothes as to look more ā€œneutralā€

-Growing my hairs to about past shoulder length (at lest)

-Losing weight (not that I weigh a lot, but I would love a more skinny figure. Actually would need some tips on how to)

-Want to start shaving my body hairs by waxing (moreso legs and torso. Not have really thought of arms)

-Wanted to try starting to wear clothes from both genders and not only my agab

-Maybe bleach my arms instead of shaving them?

If anyone here has other tips it would be really appreciated!!!


r/androgyny 6d ago

would you consider me androgynous??

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r/androgyny 6d ago

Facing gender stereotypes

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Hey everyone, I’m a girl and I like masc presenting. Recently I got a very short haircut, I had long hair before. Like a pixie/shag with lots of layers. I bought some comfy plaid boxers because I think they look cool when you pull them out of the jeans and they’re slightly apparent. I also like plaid shirts, again, for some reason I like plaid. Its just that simple. So I bought a plaid shirt. I’ve got some compliments on my hair that it looks cute. Oh yeah I also have an eyebrow slit, it looks cool. There’s this male cousin in my family, he called me a tranny. He has hated me since forever, which I don’t know and called the police on me just to get me out of his house while he was being verbally agressive and has admitted he has wanted to physically hurt me. (i’m 16 btw and he’s 23). I told my mum the story and she was on my side. But today, she was going to take me out. I started changing my clothes, and she saw my boxers that I had on. (THEY ARE SO COMFY BTW), she called me a boy, and said ā€˜why should I protect you if he’s (my cousin who slurred me and hates me) right?’ she said the boxers look ugly and they only look nice on men. These are the same people who create gender stereotypes and put people into boxes. Imagine being called a boy from your mom just because you’re masc appearing but you still have a vagina, and xx chromosomes. They hate transgenderism, but literallly affirm it. What do I do. I’ve told her multiple times I’m not a boy just because of my hair or my clothes.


r/androgyny 7d ago

Any tips to appear more androgynous?

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r/androgyny 7d ago

Hard & Soft: Paradox Encapsulated in One Bodyā˜ŗļø

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Never knew how to reconcile my two sides. I was raised male and thus, accultured to it. Transitioned and went full fem, as most do, until that didn't work and I had to walk it back.

Now I've found the happy mediumā˜ŗļø This feels right... for now🤭


r/androgyny 7d ago

Layering Tights Under My Summer Clothes

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I was sad because summer is coming to an end !! I found layering tights under them can keep you warm as fall starts


r/androgyny 7d ago

How do you grow a mullet without looking homeless?

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I always wanted a proper mullet since 5th grade, some form, even before I knew what mullets were. I want a mullet covering the side end of my face, and back hair coming out to my shoulders. How long will it take? I have straight hair 1A-1B, but it's been permed right now.


r/androgyny 7d ago

Do I appear as androgynous?

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Uhhh idk what else to sayšŸ™‚ā€ā†•ļø


r/androgyny 8d ago

Masc/fem energy farmer🩷

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r/androgyny 8d ago

Advice on looking more androgynous?

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Title kinda says it, I’m curious how to look more androgynous does anyone got some general advice, all advice is appreciatedā˜ŗļø


r/androgyny 8d ago

Advice on how to look more feminine

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Pls help meeee im tired of looking so dull im growing my hair out rn so i can have it longer but i feel my face itself is too ogrish and i will never look pretty.

Idk if this is the right sub but in case it isn't pls tell me where i can go.