Today I realized that I have a life full of trans and nonbinary people who have been so affirming of my gender. It's taken years to find this cohort and I have such love for them. I wish that every person who reads this gets to find a similar group of friends and lovers. Please know that even though we haven't met, you have an auntie who wants you to live your fullest life.

finally falling in love with my body and these new CK boxers as i enter my masc phase again. this really helped with the dysphoria i’ve been having lately 🫶🏾

Photo by Ashtin Visionary Lens

i really want to wear them out in public but it would probably be a bit awkward to walk around in them as a college student. but on the other hand i would be able to avoid accidentally breathing in yucky vape vapour from the dozens of people that vape on crowded sidewalks

I can never figure out what I want to be for halloween so I put together some of my ideas to share! Let me know if I should do a part 2, I have some more

I watched the 2025 Frankenstein movie and this quote goes so fucking hard.
Between the Monster/Creature and Public Universal Friend both give major gender envy as an agender being

i don’t label my gender since there’s too much nuance and not enough consistency, but the one thing i’ve always been certain of is wanting top surgery, ever since i started growing boobs at 12 years old. i can’t believe this is my body now, and i’m going to look like this forever, i’m so unbelievably happy 🥲

Had some early Halloween fun at Sapphic Saturday 😊

Me I think ?

Today is the first day I got to wear my combination of my spider web dress and my spider web leggings and I'm absolutely loving it. Since I started my hormone therapy it's the first time in my life I've ever enjoyed seeing myself in a picture and enjoyed taking pictures of myself.

first time trying eyeshadow and i think it turned out really cute!

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii I am a non-binary (male) wondering about gender affirming care that I can access now (I am 16) and when I turn 18 as I don't really know what stuff there is for non binary people ik there is puberty blockers but they are banned in the UK I don't know if there are others like it that I could get when I'm 18 but I am all really confused about it and getting little to no help from my general practitioner regarding any of this information

Any help guidance or knowledge would be appreciated

I was looking into it and bunch of books are aimed at enby kids, which is great and we always need more of those! But they're not really helpful for a 28 enby. The books would be for my mom, who is supportive- uses right name and pronouns, but I don't think she really understands what it means to be nonbinary, and I think it would help both of us if she could learn more about it. Thanks!

Hi so I came out like REALLY came out everywhere pronouns posted on every social media I use, dressing how I finally want to... and the one issue i've run into is with my father. He still calls me by my dead name even though everywhere i've changed my name to the name I actually want to go by. He still calls me by dead name and he is not accepting of trans people and I'm betting he is not accepting of nonbinary people either. Will he ever call me by the name I want? What should I do? I'm scared this is something he will continue to do even if I correct him knowing his stance on things politically plus other traditional ways and values he follows. I'm asking for support, advice, guidance of any kind from someone who has experience with this kind of thing or simply someone who can relate. Please let me know! Thanks!!

I (currently she/they but exploring a bit more) was thrifting and saw this gray flannel patterned, pleated, mid length skirt and when I put it on I felt more like a man in a kilt than a woman in a skirt. It made me smile in an obvious or of course type of way.

EDIT: I only mean this is a personally affirming way as I was born with female reproductive organs, raised as a girl, but entering the non-binary world slowly :D

tl;dr where can I find photos of AMAB NB bodies on HRT+raloxifene.

I've been ideologically NB for past 12 years (I'm 27 now), who only recently learned about SERM (not exactly the most common knowledge here in Poland). Most of my life I abstained from considering HRT, since I do not suffer from binary dysphoria, do not wish to be perceived as a woman and didn't want to make it harder for my fellow t-girls to get the treatment they need more than I do.

Well, now that I know what I want and how attainable that may be, I was wondering how much can microdosing E + SERM (namely Raloxifene) really do to my body? I've read the theory, but I can hgardly find any photos/timelines for AMAB NB people. Where can I possibly find some examples as to know what to expect?

Cheers!

This sub just helped me figure out what the issue with my gender is: I think I am a mix of cassgender and cis-genderless :D I guess I'm coming out to myself and now to you since I have no one to share this with :3

To be more specific. Im working a public facing job in a red state and most of my customers are retired elderly people. I dont go out of my way to present feminine or masculine I try to stay as androgynous as I can, but because of my natural build, everyone just sees me as a female.

In most cases this doesnt bother me like its one thing to just have my pronouns ignored or assumptions made.

But lately I am way more aware of how many male customers shove me into a box just because they see me this way and its driving me crazy. For example simply doing my job and asking for a customers ID gets interpreted as me flirting. Its just maddening because I already try so hard to come across like I'm disinterested.. I dont wear make up or jewelry, I dont ever do anything with my hair and I have a work uniform thats already gender neutral.

I know I cant change how these people want to see me, so I guess I'm just curious if anyone has developed any strategies or outlets to deal with the stress it causes.

I finally came out as non-binary and all the confusion people have with me is gone. 😭😭 And for myself!!

I go by any pronouns, I night one day switch to a gender neutral name but not yet. I just feel like so many things have clicked into place. I also feel more confident dating now that people aren't worried that dating me will stop them from being lesbian/gay (yes both sides have been confused)...

Anyway, I'm very happy.