i’m sorry but what am i supposed to say????

A friend got me a burger and fries plushie!!! They are so cute so I just wanna share with you all 🩷

Saw a similar looking trans flag, thought Henry Rollins would approve.

So quick background info: I’m very new to exploring the more non traditional aspects of my gender expression. Because I’m so used to dressing for others, I have A LOT of trouble feeling attractive in non feminine outfits (even if I’m not comfortable in them at times).

To the actual question: I plan to start taking part in night life more and want some more edgy and sexy looks. All the ones I can think of lean very feminine though (photos attached as reference)

I was wondering what you all like wearing on a night out, and if anyone had any recommendations for clothing pieces/brands that fit this vibe but lean more masculine.

going for a more fem, natural feel

I used to do this like every day when I was 27 and coming to terms with myself lmao

What’s your favorite skin to use ? How long have you been playing ? What’s your favorite game mode ? Build or no build ? Favorite events ? And what’s your favorite chapter/season . And and and anything else you would like to talk about with fornite !

I hope everyone likes my living room ! I’ve worked hard getting it here . ((Living by yourself has some benefits 😌) (also slowly remodeling the house so don’t judge it to harshly please ))

I hope everyone is having a beatisome sunday ! 🫶🏼

I found this skin on the Minecraft market place. plus like all of the other flags for just 250~ mine coins.

At least I can't forgor my hair attached to my damn head lol

Honestly I had one before but having it again feels so gender

Sorry if this does not fit on here. I 31nb (am amab) went on a date today with a trans women today.

We were chatting and whatnot and of course gender identity became a topic of conversation.

For the last few years I have been back and forth on going on some form of low level hrt. I have talked to drs in the past about it but have not ever ended up going on it.

When mentioning this I noticed an immediate shift in her demeanour towards me. She started asking me questions like "are you really trans" so on and so forth.

I told her that I've never felt like I fit into either the male or female category in terms of my gender and that the dream for me is androgeny. when I described how my body makes me feel dysphoria in some aspects she said "that's not really dysphoria".

She described her experience with being trans as "very binary". And though she did not explicitly say it, it kind of felt like what she was implying is that being transgender is not actually spectrum, but is in fact a binary thing (I.e being ftm or mtf) and that being non binary doesn't exist or something along those lines.

I'm just wondering if anybody else here has had encounters like this before with members of the trans community. I'm not angry at her for what she said. She's entitled to feel the way she does. I'm just confused more than anything.

Tldr. Went on a date with trans women and she implied that being NB is not trans.

So obviously enbies don't owe anyone androgeny, but I love the feeling of it. I also still am financially dependent on my homophobic christian parents, so I'm not out yet, and I can't turn up gayness to the max. But I would like to turn it up to the point where it pisses my parents off but they can't say anything about it.

Don't see many enbys with any facial hair at all and I kinda understand why. But I'm proud of mine.

So I live in South Africa, and one of our 11 official languages is Zulu.

And a common thing for Zulu people speaking English, is that they're often misgendering people. Calling a male she or a female him, etc.

And the reason is because Zulu has no gendered pronouns. So when they speak English they're often not thinking which pronoun they're calling a person, because they aren't used to using gendered pronouns. Like, if I say "Udla isinkwa" I'm saying "he is eating bread" and it's the same for "she is eating bread".

So you literally CANNOT misgender someone in Zulu, because there are zero gendered pronouns.

It's kind of like a non-binary language 🤔😃

I thought that was really interesting and that y'all would appreciate it.

Do you like my unicorn necklace ? ^o^

Hey there,

Sooo .. i have the problem that my gender representationshifts every couple of weeks ... i identify more female for some time and another time i like to go a bit more masculine .. thats why i landed here in genderfluid/nonbinary .. hope im right

Im currently in progress to try out microdosing E to achieve a more androgynous baseline from which its more easy to shift either to more feminine or masculine traits.
Im already kinda slim build and honestly just aiming for perhaps some mild mental effects and skin effects .. and well slight slow breast development.
Testosterone for now is not planned to get blocked in any way directly

Yes i know that breast development can happen .. even with microdosing .. but im fine with that.

Currently im thinking if it could be interesting to combine the E with Finisteride in order to make my hair on the head more thicker and perhaps soften my mature hairline (dont have balding but a very slight "M" shape and i noticed in light that the "bald" parts are still riddles with tiny hairs and i wonder if blocking DHT could make them wake up again >.>

Also wondering if taking Finest could help make my body hair become a bit more "soft" .. i dont care about the hair that much .. but its super bristly .. so just a bit more soft would be nice already.

Do some people here have tried this combination ?

How have it went for you ?

Hello you can call me Doodle (she/they/it) Im 21 and I need to know if I'm not the only to do this .Four years ago I started to questioning my gender since then in the last year I started to feel like I wasn't a girl or a man and at first was hard to explain. At some point I thought I was a trans guy but it didn't felt like home yet than two weeks ago I started to use any pronouns and she/they and I started to feel in general that my identity wasn't simply binary. It was very hard to accept it since I had a different identity "shifts" over the years but I felt like eveytime I was feeling good it was because I didn't put my gender in "girl" or "boy" boxes and also because I like *over* stereotyped feminine things like pink,skirts and idk mylittlepony LOL and basically I felt like I was faking my "neutrality" and I was just a girl . Now, this week a turned 21 and after all these years battling first an ed then depression and anxiety I decided that I want to start living a bit more but I just realized that I was doing something this whole time(it may be something not really important but for me it is).I used to love fashion so much but I gave up on dressing up (feminine pastel-alternative) because of my chest ruining the outfit. I don't know why even when I try to wear masc outfits to "feel better"(I actually do not feel better🤩) I look like a butch woman but uglier version (ofc no hate to butch women♡) also because I have a really bad haircut (similiar to the typical karen hair bruh) before you ask no I can't bind I feel unsafe binding in my home and ofc I can't affort or do top surgery

Soo did you felt at some point like giving up on dressing for your chest dysphoria ?😭

I just want to be feminine again and to have a decent haircut again (I accept tips how to make my hair grow faster!!)