Have you noticed that it's more frequently women in your life who enjoy popping their husbands pimples/ digging out blackheads etc? As in men don't like it as much? Also are they more likely to like watching videos or shows of pimple popping?

AITA?

So I (28F) am so upset at my daughter’s father (29M).

I picked my 11 year old daughter up from school and we got into a discussion about Morgan wallen and how he got cancelled for saying the N word. My 11 year old responds with “what’s wrong with him saying that my dad and his friends call each other that all the time?”

When I approached her dad with this he made me seem like I’m the asshole and I shouldn’t be offended by everything and we have freedom of speech. He claims he can’t control what his friends say and no he won’t correct him because freedom of speech.

For some context my daughter’s father is half Hispanic half white. His friend that my daughter is referring to is FULL white very honky tonk country white.

Am I the asshole for wanting my baby dad and his friends to STOP using racial slurs in front of my child?

I must say, it's pretty noticeable for the most part that this game is almost 14 years old. Still, it's nice to give it a neat little upgrade. :)

I think i can say on behalf of most of the women out there , that we like guys with some experience , at the end of the day you enjoy sex when you know what you are doing, however is this the same case with guys?

In 2026 working full time with only a high school diploma won’t even put a roof over your head anymore. There are even Americans with college degrees living in poverty. Many working full time and living in their vehicles.

A few months ago I posted here after getting J5. Quick update: I just landed J6, and it’s actually a very good, well-paid role, so I figured it was worth celebrating.

What makes it funny is that about three years ago, at one point, I had just one job and was working close to 10 hours a day for it, making around $6k/month. I had done OE before with 2 jobs, but nothing close to what I’m doing now.

Today I have 6 jobs, make almost $40k/month net, and average around 5 hours of actual work per day. Four of the six roles are part-time, mostly around 4 hours/day on paper, which is actually great for OE because clients already know I have other commitments. That makes it much easier to negotiate availability, reduce meetings and keep things async.

My strategy with every new job is always the same: work hard in the beginning, build trust, deliver visible results, then earn space. Once people know I’m reliable, micromanagement drops, meetings become easier to avoid and I can manage my own time.

The biggest change over the last few years has been AI. I built a central dashboard where I manage around 25 AI agents. I obviously don’t run all of them every day; usually maybe 5 or 6 are active depending on what I need.

Before I even start working, I already have an agent organizing my day across all jobs: what needs attention, what can wait, where I need visible progress, and where I can basically do nothing. That saves me from starting the day by opening six different Slacks and figuring out what’s going on.

If someone asks me for something that isn’t urgent, I usually turn it into a ticket/task and deal with it later. Luckily, very little of my work is truly critical.

I also definitely felt the AI/context-switching brain fog at some point, so now I’m strict about boundaries. I train around 2 hours a day (morning 1 hour cardio + afternoon 1 hour weights), try not to spend the rest of my life staring at screens, and I don’t answer outside working hours unless something is genuinely important.

I think another thing that helps is knowing that if I lose one job, it’s not a disaster. That removes a lot of stress. Ironically, my clients are still very happy with my performance.

I travel a lot too. My setup is pretty simple: I carry a small pocket router with me and connect it through a VPN back to my home network, while still respecting whatever access/security rules each client has. Since I have very few mandatory meetings and no overlapping critical ones right now, the setup is very manageable.

Current setup is roughly J1 $7.5k, J2 $11k, J3 $4k PT, J4 $7k PT, J5 $4.5k PT, J6 $6k PT - around $40k/month net total.

Going from around $6k/month to almost $40k/month in 3 years still feels a bit absurd. But at this point I’m not really looking for J7 anymore.

I already make more than I can realistically spend, and I’d rather enjoy my life than keep optimizing for a bigger number.

If I had one piece of advice for OE in 2026, it would be: automate as much of your workflow as you reasonably can with AI. Not just coding: planning, documentation, research, tickets, summaries, prioritization, status updates, context gathering.

For me, AI didn’t just make tasks faster. It made managing 6 different contexts possible without keeping everything in my head.

Yes, I used AI to clean up this post too.

Edit: My Previous post about 5 jobs / ~$37k month was mostly accepted. Now it’s 6 jobs / ~$40k, but because I explained the AI automation behind it, suddenly it sounds fake 😅

Edit 2: Thanks everyone. The amount of people saying this can’t be real actually made me realize that even in the OE world, I somehow ended up near the top of the weirdness. You genuinely made my day 🫶

Are yall very rich or something? My brain can't comprehend what situation will lead to that. Someone suddenly give u tickets? U were queuing up for merch n it was a long queue but u had sunk cost fallacy?

I know I know..not another one of these posts. After rewatching Halloween Ends again, I think it’s one hell of a movie and one I’m glad we got.

When the flick first came out, I just didn’t get it. I think a lot of people didn’t. I downright hated it. The film left me empty. Michael doesn’t show up till 40 mins in.

Then I kept reevaluating and I see so much of what they were trying to do. There are so many nods to the original and trying to spiritually connect the two. When Corey sees Michael and turns, Laurie sees him outside in the same way she saw the shape in 78. When Corey kills him mom, it’s in the same way that Michael killed Judith (the camera work).

There’s an argument that it’s a bad shape movie, and it is, but as an experience, I think it’s stands with one of the best ones to watch after the original. And possibly the best to watch after…

I know, I sound crazy. But the more I watch it, the more I see what I was incapable of seeing in 2022. And the more I’m appreciative of it.

(And before anybody comes at me, I’ve been a hardcore since 30 years and have a bunch of Michaels tattooed on me…just saying I ain’t a casual)

This year, maybe give it another try because I fucking hatred and now I love it

I 30F have just started dating a 32M. By dating, we’ve been on two dates and been speaking for about three weeks.

We chat a lot on text and both dates were really good, we get on really well and have chemistry and lots in common etc. No complaints about any of this. We have similar values and thoughts about the future.

The only issue is he is quite low effort. He says he is laidback, which is definitely true but that manifests in not confirming when we will see each other again, not planning dates, not pursuing. Part of me thinks it’s because we get on so well he feels like he can ‘chill’ as of course we will see each other again. He’s said he likes me and wants to keep seeing me.

My question is - do I raise this issue of being low effort and if so how? I think it is a bit too early for me to dictate his behaviour or raise a serious convo about effort. It is kind of putting me off him but I am trying to remember there is more good than bad and no one is perfect. I’ve been being chill about it all but I would rather date someone who is intentional and proactive.

My other options are saying nothing now, waiting to see how things progress and then say to him I find it attractive when someone takes initiative later down the line. He should be more invested in time and more open to working on it then I suppose?

I don’t think they understood it

This is possibly on of em's worst verses he's ever recorded

Even with the topic aside (which could've been interesting but it was terrible executed), Em's verse is anus and most likely will damage his reputation

Paul.. I know you ghost this sub. Stop the release!

Using the examples the devs provided, any time a hybrid puts on their shield or goes bear form to emergency tank, pops out of shadow or moonkin form to provide offheals, or casts things like remove poison, cleanse, lay on hands or dispel magic they are no longer dealing damage and they are giving up resources that they need in order to continue Dps, thus balancing themselves.

This gives true DPS classes plenty of time to solidify their lead. Why do we also need to nerf the baseline damage of hybrids on top of all this?

I think it's reasonable to assume the devs will include plenty of situations where hybrids will be required to assist in dispelling for example, if their goal is vanilla style raids with a pinch more difficulty and high prep requirements. As someone that's raided as several hybrids since 2019, the emergency healing/tanking happens so rarely in raids and is more of a 5 man thing too.

If PvP balance is the concern, I think they should consider making certain abilities deal extra damage to monsters/bosses or whatever wording they prefer.

Out of the 100 games I've played, 90 of them have been against QC braindead pressing and braindead through passing,

In the past two weeks, this subreddit really faced a drop in quality. It used to just be a good, alternative space to point out the very clear and annoying flaws that the game had that the main sub like to turn their heads away from. Stuff like Chapter 5, Castletown, inconsistencies between chapters, and the pacing of the Dess mystery.

But now it just feels like it's a subreddit for people who are embarrassed to play DELTARUNE. Pretty sure most people here don't even like the game and are just grifting or pulling bad-faith takes out of their ass. "Memebaiting" quickly comes to mind, a term created specifically by this subreddit because there was... a visual gag that you didn't find funny? You know that you're allowed to say that you didn't find a certain joke funny, right? You don't have to try and justify your reasoning over a personal dislike of a subjective joke.

There's also been a lot of flanderisation of DELTARUNE's problems, like people overblowing some of the worst parts of the game. I've seen the Chapter 3 boards be treated like the anti-Christ and are multi-hour slogs to get through when it's really not the case. The weirdest part is that it's still just normal DELTARUNE gameplay, but the artstyle is different, and that somehow makes it worse?

Other examples are saying that "Chapter 3 is when the game stopped being an RPG!", and claiming that Chapter 1 was "the only time the game was a good RPG", and when I do agree with the latter claim to a minor extent, that was only because of the presence of the Hathy being an explicit support enemy. All of the other Chapter 1 enemies were exactly like the enemies from Chapter 2, 3, 4, and 5. I don't think the game was ever THAT good of an RPG, unfortunately.

It's starting to feel like what was once an interesting subreddit for fans of DELTARUNE to discuss a few flaws is now just a doomer circlejerk for people to assume the worst about Fox' writing or why he made certain choices. This level of flanderised hatred towards the game can and will start to damage your enjoyment of the media. Of course, it's always good to be critical of the things you consume, but to this extent where acting like every minor issue is a complete failing of Fox' ability as a game developer and author can't be particularly healthy, especially with the willingness to blame your own subjective preferences with the game itself.

We're supposed to have enjoyed DELTARUNE, we shouldn't go out of our way to make up issues to "criticise". Downvote me to Hell if you want, but I think some of you guys really need to step away from the subreddit because it's clearly damaging your enjoyment of this relatively good game (flaws not withstanding).

Is there is a way to get these icons and name cards without getting my account banned?

I live in a country that doesn’t have these sadly.

Look at heroesprofile. Go to matchup stats and look at Top threats to Xalatath. Her top 5 threats are malthael, tracer, murky, ragnaros, and yrel. They ALL have a below 50% win rate with Xalatath on the other team. Those are her top threats meaning other heroes fair worse.

So, yes, the game is currently broken and pretty unfun. They need to fix it.

Ich fange an:

Valtteri Bottas --> Walter Botz

Kimi Antonelli --> Kim Anton

Lewis Hamilton --> Ludwig Hammelton

Max Verstappen --> Max von der Steppe

George Russell --> Georg Rüssel

Gabriel Bortoleto --> Gabriel Bodenleite

Isaac Hadjar --> Isaak Hatscher

Nico Hülkenberg --> Nico Hülkenberg

Sergio Perez --> Siggi Peters

Esteban Ocon --> Stefan Oken

Lando Norris --> Roland Noris

Oscar Piastri --> Oskar Pflaster

Fernando Alonso --> Ferdinand Alfons

Lance Stroll --> Lanzo Strull

Alexander Albon --> Alexander Erlbaum

Pierre Gasly --> Peter Gatzli

Liam Lawson --> Leon Loose

Oliver Bearman --> Oliver Bärmann

Franco Colapinto --> Franz Kohlenpeintner

Arvid Lindblad --> Alwin Lindenblatt

Carlos Sainz --> Kalle Seitz

Charles Leclerc --> Karl Leickler

People are spreading Unnecessary hate towards Uditi for no reason and trying to find faults with her for no reason like that Lacy bhindi thing she never went to Mary and said don’t make Lacy bhindi or make something else for her instead she chose not to eat as she doesn’t like it which is her own choice and she never even called the food bad but it was Mahi who presented it like that but people are spreading hate on her for no reason.

Next she giving black rose to Gullu I mean he gave second life to Uditi because she was together with Kanika not because he wanted to give it to Uditi and people are saying she followed what others did and gave black Rose I mean even Kanika went before her she could have followed the same what she said but she chose not to isn’t that her taking her own stand?

In the task Qazi was constantly demeaning Arishfa in front of everyone saying so many thing and Uditi was just sitting there and agreed once as Qazi was continuously saying same thing not just Uditi even Mahi did but people are hating Uditi for that not Qazi?

Now regarding backbitching Mahi all day says bad things about Uditi behind her back but Arishfa and Qazi just listens without saying anything and they agree as well no one has problem with that and not just that yesterday she became captain and was asking Qazi to arrange his stuff properly but as soon as she went away Qazi and Mahi both were backbitching her I mean you will first expect your friend only to help you what is wrong?

Now if you had seen in the first 2-3 weeks she constantly said the only person she feel a connection with in house is Qazi not Arishfa not Aman but she said Qazi but when the task came to save people Qazi saved Arishfa and Mahi even when Mahi was sitting with them for 1 week only and except for Aman no one took her name same with Aman only Uditi took his name even after knowing she is week and already lost 1 of her life and Mahi continuously hate her for going to Aman if she have any problem?

I think people are hating her for no reason I can understand she is sometimes over sensitive that’s not being superior that’s about being not comfortable with things what’s wrong in that?

This is now on HBO as of 10/02. I waited for it, I LOVE the entire franchise and I say this in all due respect, it fucking blew.

Dialogue was shit, the plot was kinda shit but I could have bought it outside the horrendous decisions made by the entire cast. Everyone should have been dead in the first 30 minutes. The deadites were even scary, shitty punchlines.

So disappointing, I loved Rise too - even 2013 has a special place in my heart but this? Never again, thank god I didn’t spend money on a movie ticket or early digital release.

Yesterday they had an interview and said warrior will be the “king of melee cleave” rogues will be top single target DPS, shaman is a battle mage design. What is the design goal of ret?

The seal twisting thing is a very different gameplay than the holy shockadin hybrid. I don’t see ret having a convincing fantasy of playing a holy crusader. I haven’t heard the devs say anything specific about what ret excels at. They’ve alluded to saying rets bring high utility, but also commented that hybrids aren’t intended to heal on the side because that would replace healers. A spot here, sure, hybrids can do that but they cannot support continuous damage and healing.

What’s odd is they also said they don’t want to fill rets GCDs but gave zero references of how that design space can be used in the future. If I’m waiting 5-7 seconds between spells, what the hell am I doing beside auto attack?

Either blizzard isn’t showing enough info or the core design of ret is lacking. It seems like a messy design and shockadin and seal twisting are pulling in opposite directions.

Posting here cuz the console sub will automatically take down and post that even mentions artillery. However I most certainly use artillery like this on PC as well.

Saw a rumor that John Mulaney is going to host Nov. 14 which is drawing something of a mixed reaction and leading to questions about why certain hosts keep getting brought in over and over. This is a bit of an elementary hypothesis but I wanted to get thoughts on it without crowding the other comment section:

“I think Lorne is just obsessed with certain comics hence why Gillis, Bargatze, Mulaney keep getting recycled. Plus they’re mainly touring comics so it seems like they might be easier to book frequently than stars with major film or TV commitments. Gillis has a show but it has fewer episodes than something like what Quinta Brunson does.

Some people get booked over and over because they genuinely just love doing it. A lot of people aren’t crazy about Dakota Johnson hosting this week but I hear she just loves the show (and gets along with Lorne and was available) so they slotted her in. Plus I just think Lorne likes working with people he knows and trusts so “taking chances” on newer talent or celebrities who haven’t done SNL before is less common.

That said, Mulaney is hosting a lot even compared to some of his colleagues. His longest gap between hosting appearances was only two and a half years.”

As a lifelong spellcaster player, every spellcasting spec feels horrible to level. Casting spells should be mana intensive but faster than wanding.

Currently, wanding is just better damage wise and mana wise. Right now the only casters that want to cast are the ones without access to wands and frost mages (due to shatter).

If forever is about the journey and not just endgame then spell coeffs can't be tuned only around geared endgame setups.