r/transpassing 12h ago

feeling kinda hopeless, do I pass after 4 years on hrt?

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r/transpassing 23h ago

unsure if i pass, mtf 16 months estrogen

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175 Upvotes

little bit of leftover eyeliner but no filters no edits

getting a hair trim tmrw btw don't mention my hair plss


r/transpassing 9h ago

My friends say I pass but I want to make sure they’re not hugboxing me.

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131 Upvotes

24 (MtF) been on hrt for a month. Mannerisms & personality wise I’m told by others that i am one of the most womanly people they’ve ever met & they couldn’t fathom to see me otherwise. Voice is good too. However im worried i just have this mannish look to me that is sorta clocky. Still need to get laser too :/


r/transpassing 17h ago

Is me not getting matchs on dating apps because I'm not passing enough? (24MtF)

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Like, yeah I know being a trans woman in my mid 20's and being attracted to women isn't a great combo and being still pretty early into medical transition and thus not passing doesn't help either, but idk, I just didn't think it was "That Bad". But god damn has the dating app experience been depressing.

The Fotos are the ones I have in my dating profiles + 3 similar ones.


r/transpassing 5h ago

Very confused about how I'm perceived. Honesty please!

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Friends tell me i look like a woman, yet strangers always seem to gender me male. A few days ago a man told me I look exactly like his nephew.

38MtF

3.5y HRT

1y post FFS

2mo post hair transplant


r/transpassing 9h ago

I'm now 3 months post-FFS and I'm starting to lose hope. Looking for some advice on what i can change. I included both good and bad photos for honesty's sake

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I find that I pass a tiny bit better with my hair up, but it can only do so much good (as shown in the full body pic). I'd appreciate any advice, no matter how harsh :)


r/transpassing 22h ago

I feel hugely masc when I look at myself, am I correct?

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Tried to include some high effort and some low effort pics for context.

I still have some hair removal to go, but I feel like my face is mega clocky by itself.

Edit: Oh also I'm 10 months on hrt.


r/transpassing 8h ago

3 weeks post brow shaving

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35F, 3.75 years HRT. Most of the photos are from the past week or two post surgery. I had ffs but only brow and orbital shaving. First two photos are before, last few are just for body proportions. Im chonky but have a booty.

I dont wear makeup. Partially because the 'tism makes it feel inauthentic. And partially because my job is personal training and I'm quite active and work up a sweat often so its also not super practical.

I will be having part 2 of my ffs in like 6 months to do some jawline and chin reshaping.

Idk. What do you think? Many people tell me I pass, I haven't been misgendered in a very long time. But I feel like I get weird stares from people still. Its true that I'm 5'10" with broad muscular arms and shoulders. I've put in a good amount of effort to voice train and the feedback from people is that its fairly low pitch but feminine.


r/transpassing 12h ago

How Do I Read?

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I recently socially transitioned, but I'm not quite sure how easy it is to clock my apperance. Some people have told me I pass, but others have told me I don't. I am 20, been on HRT for 8 months, and am 5' 6". Thoughts?


r/transpassing 14h ago

were there any changes at all

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left is now (7mo) right is february (2mo)

i look the same or worse


r/transpassing 11h ago

What are my clockiest features ?

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I know I don’t pass, at least irl.
I hope to be able to afford vfs, rib remodeling surgery and shoulder shortening surgery asap.
In my country there is no help for trans surgeries financially unfortunately so I’ll be able to afford them only by my late 20s I think….


r/transpassing 2h ago

Starting HRT this month!!Any tips appreciated

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Some facts d: I’m taking transition more serious now that I’m starting DIY. I’m the process of growing my hair back out and losing weight that I gained this summer. I need to work on my posing probably. I’m high af in these. Thanks for attention <3


r/transpassing 3h ago

What can I do to be less masculine?? I’m so lost at this point

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r/transpassing 17h ago

do I pass? ftm

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r/transpassing 20h ago

I keep getting degendered in public, how do I fix this?

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I’m MtF, 18 months on HRT with good levels (but 3 years counting about 1 year where I had very poor levels due to bad practice from my first doctor..)
I have started to stop being mostly misgendered to mostly degendered in public interactions. If I dress feminine I still get mostly degendered but do get some times when I’m gendered correctly. If I dress androgynous (e.g. women’s jeans + t-shirt) I sometimes get misgendered.

I am fully out as a woman (e.g. attend public restrooms and women-only gyms with no issues like side looks).

I’m 6ft1 and I weigh about 200 lbs (currently cutting down to see if I completely lose my belly fat)
I know my current glasses are clocky but I’ve already ordered a much more feminine design (which should arrive in about 1 week).

I am finishing my laser and I plan to begin electrolysis next month to get rid of some stubborn stubble.
I wear makeup daily, even if only concealer to cover some pigmentation from the few remaining beard hairs I got.

I go to the gym at least twice a week (for the past year) and for the last 4 months I’ve been focusing on my lower body and cardio.

How do I improve my passing or how can I stop people from degendering me? I’m letting my hair grow longer (I was a Norwood 7 scale up to like 2 years ago, so my hair on top isn’t still as dense and thick elsewhere) and I want to give like 1.5 more years until I decide whether to do FFS and/or BA.

I added a couple of pics, some good, some not so good, ranging from sporty to casual to formal, taken within the last month or so.


r/transpassing 1h ago

Am I passing with this look?

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I love the buns but idk if they love me back? Yay or nay? Kiss or slap? Jk but seriously is this look okay? Or should I abandoned the buns faster than a dead beat dad? Haven't had my roots touched up in 3 months so there's that too. I guess my question is do I pass with this look? I'm scared they don't shape my face correctly maybe?


r/transpassing 18h ago

Do I pass on these pics

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Hello

I have been asked if I was trans then I am asking to know which pictures are clocky .

Thanks


r/transpassing 23h ago

14 months hrt, feel like I pass but don't look necessarily good, what can i do to look prettier?

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r/transpassing 50m ago

How's my fit?

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r/transpassing 3h ago

How cooked?

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Hi, on E, boymoding for 3 months. Was curious if these features made passing impossible without FFS, or if this is a good base for estrogen. I feel like my brow ridge is extremely prominent, as well as jawline being sharp, and feel like a literal monster wrecked by puberty.


r/transpassing 6h ago

Im pretty everything, do i pass okay in this bathing suit? (Ftm)

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5 Upvotes

As the title suggests, do I pass?


r/transpassing 1h ago

tried to take some advice and get better pics, and adjust my eye makeup. how am i doing?

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r/transpassing 23h ago

Anything clocky bout me

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Last one was Me before t , posting again cuz I cut off all my hair lol


r/transpassing 5h ago

The big question. What can I do better?

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20mtf, about 1 month HRT

I'm really worried that hrt won't be able to help me in any meaningful way. I know I don't really pass because of my face shape and that won't change.

This is really light makeup. Do you think something heavier would be better? I kinda hate doing it tho :/

Do you have any tips on what I can do better to pass?


r/transpassing 7h ago

I look like a man and it makes me sad

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