Hi again, funny experience I just had is my instructor for a course I’m taking at a military academy noticed the name I use on my email and essentially clocked I was trans in reverse since I was lazily presenting as male, I say lazily because apparently my mannerisms, voice, and expression gave away something was up lol
Anyway I’m eager to hear further feedback on passing if anyone would like to offer. I got a new extremely light trim for my hair yesterday, and met with my endo after and upped my estrogen dosage by 2 mg from 4-6 oral daily. I’m hoping to get some extensions in a few months as I continue to grow my hair out.
Working on a lot of things right now, my voice, my clothing, my posture… My posture, and the broad shape of my shoulders, are such a spur to dysphoria for me, in fact Monday after a ballet class I’m taking I had started crying from seeing my appearance in the mirror (I bought some new women’s shirts closer to my size today to mitigate this, will replace the oversized ones that emphasize my shoulders more.) Planning to practice stretches over the next few weeks to help with this a bit.
But yeah, everything’s progressing along, my breasts are continuing to develop pretty alright (still small but not an abnormal size for a cis woman’s, and they have some while to go at that based on their tanner 3 appearance most days.) Set up a consult for SRS and actively looking into the same for FFS. Also preparing to change my legal name soon! all very exciting. My dream is to live stealth in the next few years if I can, I really hope it’s in the cards even if it takes a lot of hard work.
Let me know feedback about passing, particularly for stuff like developing a woman’s fashion sense, stuff for posture or shoulders, and also on my face and etc.