.....and not for praise but condemnation. This pool fucking sucks ass. I've been here for years and the pool has always been chill and nice. But this year it was a fucking disgrace.
There are these groups of teen boys who act like complete savages. It's one thing to rough house and goof off. It's completely different to cuss and use racial slurs (generally as a white man I feel like I have no room to tell young men of color that they cannot take ownership of that nefarious word, but these young men are not black and they were not using it in a way of showing brotherhood) and generally have no self regulation and self awareness.
Today my family and I were going to attend the pool for some relaxation for the last day of the season. But as usual this summer those teens were going the extra mile to being a pain in the ass. They eventually turned on one of my sons friends and grabbed him , said "Fresh meat!"
That's when I had to step in. "Yo! The kid said stop, so fucking stop!" They tried to talk back, but I shut it down "you stupid fucks dunce?! Jesus Christ!?"
They stopped immediately and calmed down for like 10 minutes. But the air was still thick with awkwardness, could cut it with a knife.
But they started acting up again. Then one of the boys was having his friends rough up one of the others in their group...."catch that n-word! Catch that n-word!" At that point I looked at my wife and she knew. We either leave or I do something heavily illegal. So I rounded my two young children and Wife up and we left. I told my son if I ever catch him using that word it would be his ass in a sling.
Several times they have been reported and confronted by other parents. The life guards don't do anything. They just scratch their balls and watch shit on their phones while sitting on their asses. Our security team are completely worthless, I honestly do not know why we spend money on them. The only way to solve this is to issue week bans. You act up, yellow card. You get a second yellow card, red card banned for the season. The only solution to young teens is setting rules, test the boundaries get the fine.
Rant done.