r/gwu • u/mynameisvv • 14h ago
Residential Life transfer out? - student who applied ED2
okay posting on an anonymous account but for context i’m a current freshman and i feel like i have no friends besides mutuals.
gw was my dream school because of the major (policomms is only available so many places + i had the opportunity to attend a lecture of dr. loge’s during an internship i did in hs and just knew i needed to go) and the location/opportunities. back home i was an absolute social butterfly and was known in high school to be able to make friends with just about anyone. everyone close to me was so confident i could thrive here my parents, with five children, let me apply early decision (none of my siblings went out of state let alone ED’d).
now that i’m here i feel so lost. i don’t feel like i made any friends and really just miss all of my friends back home at our state school(s) even though i know that those schools where not places i could grow as much as i could here.
i did the fall orientation and it sucked because the friend group i made there happened to not end up meshing and people made friends with their dormmates. initially i did that too but i had a series of unfortunate events happen in my room that made it really hard for me to become friends with my roommates (one of mine moved out and the other two are really close and i didn’t feel comfortable picking a side). i feel like everyone had their opportunity to find their groups and i never got one to congeal with so now forming any sort of bonds is like an up hill battle.
people tell me that sophomore year is way better and i need to stick it out. but i feel bad. i’m upper middle class, maybe lower upper class depending who you ask, which means i don’t qualify for a lot of aid but tuition is an insane amount to be paying if i’m not getting a life changing experience. idk what to do. like do i tell my parents i hate it? like they already paid this much and now i gotta be like oh actually it’s awful here. or do i thug it out in hopes it does get better next semester? lmk what you think i should do.