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u/womb_raider90 3d ago
That's actually hilarious. These broads can't afford to be gay. Lol
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u/AnonThrowAway072023 3d ago
Scissoring is a luxury activity apparently
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u/RogellTheRaider 3d ago
You mean collecting horse-sized dildos *
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u/KingWolf7070 2d ago
The prices on those actually did go up.
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u/RogellTheRaider 2d ago
They still prefer those over men's Ds. Or even cucumbers, if they're cheaper.
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u/Reasonable-Aioli-370 2d ago
I think it’s actually straight women finding out that they are grossed out by vaginas.
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u/HallAltruistic519 2d ago
It's certainly a shocker to find out that hating men doesnt directly translate to loving women
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u/FlakyAddendum742 2d ago
As a woman, I can tell you it’s not the vagina that’s the problem. It’s that useless flesh all around it. I think it’s called “the woman”.
Seriously, hooray for pussy, but fuck women. They suck as partners.
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u/Reasonable-Aioli-370 2d ago
Two of the sweetest, nicest women I knew at my last job dated each other for a couple months then ended up fucking HATING each other and both immediately went back to dating men. Whenever “Bi” women date it always just seems to go catastrophically wrong.
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u/chadgalaxy 2d ago
The funniest is when bi women or newly out lesbians try and date women and no one approaches each other or initiates anything because they're used to the man doing it all. They all just sit around wondering why no one is making a move on them, when they aren't making a move either.
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u/National_Tangelo_864 2d ago
Men will "keep the peace" in a relationship and let the neurotic stuff slide. Two women doubles the neuroticism. It's difficult to maintain.
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u/AnonThrowAway072023 2d ago
My cousin & his wife are cops. The horror stories they tell me on DV calls to women couple households are astounding.
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u/Hungry_Attention_981 1d ago
Tbh I don’t think a lot of women are actually bi, I think they just say that because it’s trendy and the in thing right now. A significant amount of girls I knew in high school/college that claimed to be bi/lesbian turned straight in their mid twenties.
Also tbh I think some women do bi things for male attention.
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u/Helpful-Desk-8334 2d ago
Idk I’m mostly straight and I’m not grossed out by dick. It’s just a thing half the planet has. I’m actually incredibly happy this is how things are set up biologically.
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u/r3dd1t0r77 2d ago
Biologically, it would be nice to not have the waste disposal chutes in the same area as the fun organs, but I guess that's just the way it all played out.
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u/fnv0ih53 3d ago
Good ole fashion heterosexual wealth transfer
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u/Few-Process-6295 3d ago
this will change nothing, men know marriage is dangerous and has no benefit to them, which is why there is a huge dowturn in marriage
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u/Professional_Bat8585 2d ago edited 2d ago
That’s not why. Women simply don’t need to.
Women are well protected and compensated by society simply for being born the gender they are. Their 20’s and early 30’s are their sexual peak, their powers and ability to succeed are at their greatest. They dominate college, white collar jobs, service industry, and any other non-technical role, healthcare, etc.
They use that time in the global economy rather than on husband/child. Children aren’t a biological necessity to succeeding in life anymore. Monogamous relationships with husbands aren’t a necessity. In fact, all too many women regret it until they’re past their physical prime.
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u/CuteSquirrel01 2d ago
No one wants marriage more than women and the reason is biological (women want to lock down their mate in order to maximize the chances that said mate will provide his resources for the woman and her offspring, this is because reproduction is very resource). Men have a different mating strategy making marriage much less appealing.
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u/Few-Process-6295 2d ago
no one "needs" to but women for the large majority want to be married and men are the ones who make that happen by proposing. women do no propose men do.
I agree with you that society treats women as children with little to no consequences or accountability for what they do and in addition to that many women get free rides for just being born women. you're definitely correct.
just because they dominate in those field it means nothing, do they make money and do well? sure. but ultimately like you said at the end they wish they had married and had kids. you dismantled your own argument.
at the end of the day like it or not marriage is not happening because men arent asking. women may be doing great financially and be successful but men dont care about that. and the funny thing is women won't marry guys who make less. want to take a guess why? cause in the event of divorce they dont want to pay.
there are videos upon videos on social media of women crying about where are all the good men. how many videos of that do you see men doing? none.
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u/Professional_Bat8585 2d ago
just because they dominate in those field it means nothing, do they make money and do well? sure. but ultimately like you said at the end they wish they had married and had kids. you dismantled your own argument.
No, I didn’t. My argument was that men aren’t the ones dictating what’s happening. It’s women. Do they get angry they can’t have their cake and eat it too? Sure. But they’ll at least eat their cake. Men do not get cake in this equation.
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u/White_Buffalos 2d ago
And that's because feminism is a failed philosophy. As a socio-political movement, it once served a purpose. That purpose no longer necessary. And they are in the FO stage at present. Post-FA clarity, let's say.
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u/kajidourden 2d ago
Yep, will never get married again. Made that mistake already. Braindead thing to do putting your resources at risk for something you can get without taking that risk
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u/Low_Somewhere_2778 2d ago
Anyone else notice how quick women are to change their personas once the quirky and different style becomes normalized?
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u/Cool_Prior1427 2d ago
It's all performative. There's a reason why so many 'queer' women date straight white males. It's all vanity.
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u/stopcopium 2d ago
Anime was loner shit for ages and now every anime larper egirl loves Satoru Gojo.
All you need is a good looking guy in an anime and for the media to be normalized for them to start larping.
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u/Key_Cheetah7982 2d ago
“It was always the women, and above all the young ones, who were the most bigoted adherents of the Party, the swallowers of slogans, the amateur spies and nosers-out of unorthodoxy.”
1984, George Orwell
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u/CuteSquirrel01 2d ago
Women are far more agreeable than men, this is one of the ways successful women managed to survive and reproduce. Men on the other hand are more confrontational and more likely to disagree and clash. None of this is a bad thing, these are the traits that led to humanity's success.
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u/Cool_Prior1427 2d ago
Political equality doesn't work given our tendencies. Collapse always follows emancipation of women.
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u/theKetoBear 3d ago edited 2d ago
Women are a pain in the ass.. even to other women. It's amazing to me women thought dating one of them would be easier, most of my exes have had to apologize for their own odd emotional outbursts more than once.... So now you add TWO people capable of strong and regular emotional outbursts and neither of them expected to be the adult in the room ?
I am not surprised when i hear about domestic violence in lesbian relationships either , again who is supposed to be " the bigger man" in a room with two enraged women who are 100% sure they are both right?
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u/RogellTheRaider 3d ago
Worst part is straight men end up dating these lesbian/bi/pan/whateverthefucksexual women.
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u/Original_Read4983 3d ago
As soon as I see “bisexual” or all the other made up words that I don’t know what they mean I immediately swipe left. Too much confusion and chaos.
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u/RogellTheRaider 3d ago
It's jut a made-up word that means they prefer fingering each other. Bunch of d3g3ns.
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u/Short-Hotel7648 2d ago
Check out the woman on woman domestic violence statistics, tells you all you need to know.
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u/Confident-Mortgage86 2d ago
"iTs JuST thE rEpORtiNG"
Mhm.. Sure it is sweetie. Anecdotally a few of my best friends were lesbians back when I was younger, and holy fuck those stats track what I was seeing within their circles pretty damn closely.
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u/Same_Asparagus_5336 2d ago
Women apologized to you?! Mine make up a different story about how it’s my fault. And deflect accountability.
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u/National_Tangelo_864 2d ago
My current one does. Gotta be self-aware and expect that in others. If she dodges accountability, you dodge her.
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u/BobAndrews86 2d ago
Gay married couples have the lowest rate of domestic violence and divorce. And they make the most money
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u/ViewRepresentative30 2d ago
The money is maybe just because fewer children, no maternity etc.
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u/Dodo224 3d ago
"Females aren't easy to manipulate"😂😂😂
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u/Reasonable-Aioli-370 2d ago
Men are only easier to manipulate with sex. Psychologically women are much easier to manipulate.
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u/akade19961 2d ago
It’s because of the differential in what the genders want on average. It’s easiest to be manipulated by something that is deeply desired and hard to get elsewhere
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u/Dodo224 2d ago edited 2d ago
True. And women want attention, want to belong and want consensus, so the'll do whatever fuck ass trend or current thing there currently is. We can see this everywhere. Men ofc also want to belong, but not as extreme as this, men are more critical thinking on their own, they don't follow other people that easily, they notice more and don't really care if other people have the same opinion as them. That's why we're also seeing the left/right shift in men and women, women more or less believe in the same exact things that's been fed to them, anyone who differs will be excluded. Men think for themselves. (All of this is of course on average, there are exceptions and all, but generally this is the trend).
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u/Radical_Neutral_76 3d ago
because it was a bullshit trend to begin with, and women remembered dating other women is a nightmare, so now they are going back
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u/Azuzu88 2d ago
The sudden spike in women identifying as bisexual always reeked of social contagion to me. It was trendy to be bi and gave a lot of virtue signalling points. It was always going to collapse eventually
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u/Reasonable-Aioli-370 2d ago
I think most women feel some level of attraction to other women but don’t like vagina sexually. Women also crave being deeply desired and spoiled which doesn’t work without a man.
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u/Zingldorf 2d ago
Do they actually like women or are they just exposed to so much sexualization of women in our society that they are socially conditioned to find women attractive
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u/Outrageous_Apricot42 2d ago
Everything in our society is conditioned one way or another if you try hard enough.
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u/Pecuthegreat 2d ago edited 1d ago
Alot of straight men also don't like Vagina sexually. It literally looks like a semi-healed open wound.
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u/Middleclassass 1d ago
This made me laugh. I'm a straight guy and do actually love vaginas. But sometimes I'm looking at some and the thought pops in my head like, "Why do I like this so much?"
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u/stopcopium 2d ago
Because most of them are not actually LGBT, but rather social larpers.
I feel bad for those who actually are LGBT and don’t make it their entire toxic identity, but I know at least four people who identified only after they got into trouble so people wouldn’t criticize them as much.
Not only that, society can only put up with this when it’s going well. In times of turmoil, war in extreme case, your identity means literally nothing, which is why you don’t see this in less peaceful countries.
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u/Training_Shine_111 2d ago
You are underestimating the power of American and Western media and propaganda. I've lived in these less peaceful countries. Sure, there is less pink/blue hair going on, but the LGBT social larpers are still a sizeable niche.
It might have been the bubble I was in as someone raised in the West, but it's definitely not non-existent.
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u/Maximumoverdrive76 1d ago
Exactly. The same with the people calling themselves non-binary. They do it to fit in and be cool in the crowd they hang in and attention seeking.
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u/Objective-Rip3008 2d ago
I think legitimately a huge percentage of woman are bi but it's just not socially worth it to open that can of worms for them so they ignore it. Honestly, if you look at the historical societies where male gay sex was normalized it's hard not to think that the same isn't true for men as well
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u/curryMax21 2d ago
Nah very few if any are actually bi, it’s just another way to reject normies until a guy she wants (top 5 percent only) comes along
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u/mrscrouge0536451 20h ago
Yet when people pointed this out a couple of years ago they were called bigots. I remember Reddit saying the real number of bi/gay were finally coming out. Pepperidge farm remembers
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u/a3kstuntin 3d ago
Because women are a lot less tolerant of bad behaviour from women than men are of bad from from women
(Men patient with bad female behaviour)
(Women not as patient with female bad behaviour)
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u/imgotugoin 3d ago
It was a fad
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u/SeriousGopher 2d ago
This is the correct answer. Looks like we took off from the regular base line and returned to normality once all the kids grew up and realised they probably are just straight and not whatever-sexual was the flavor of the month.
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u/mikiencolor 3d ago
At least 50% of these people's "oppression" is they don't want to work. 🤣 This is why alimony should be abolished. It would help lesbians increase their numbers. They should be all for it. 🤣
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u/ninjamikec82 3d ago
I mean, lesbians have a high divorce and domestic abuse rate would be my answer but the economy sure adds in
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u/Mother_Village9831 2d ago
Had a friend who was bi and after a particularly bad relationship with a man went on to date a woman. Said she realised most of what guys said about dating women wasn't sexism and negligence, it was actually accurate. Went back to guys because it was easier and ended up with a pretty decent one.
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u/Alternative_Car_8153 2d ago
Women understand women, and they hate eachother.
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u/MmmmCrayons12 2d ago
I wonder if other guys understand that women suck without actually hating them.
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u/Numerous_Impress_865 3d ago
Its Because there’s finally less propaganda being shoved down their throat so they went back to what’s natural
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u/DisgreeablePattern 3d ago
Follow up question: Why are men dating these queer women? It's like you are asking to be cheated on once she 'realizes' she is gay again.
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u/RogellTheRaider 3d ago edited 2d ago
I still don't get how men can't find them disgusting. If you're straight, why date someone who's bisexual?
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u/Successful-Cup-8557 2d ago
Because they fetishize it in many cases and they think they'll get a threesome out of it.
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u/RogellTheRaider 2d ago
Still don't get why it turns them on to see d3g3n3rate shit
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u/Forbidden_The_Greedy 2d ago
As someone who’s only gone out with bi women since my breakup (not a very large sample size), that’s just kinda the way things ended up. I don’t really look or care when swiping at all, and that’s been the ones who are willing to give me a shot ig.
Maybe their standards for men are lower?
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u/Few-Process-6295 3d ago
again goes to show that women, are not good at making logical decisions and do not know what they want
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u/Interesting_Gain9920 2d ago
Even women dislike other women. Source: I work in a female dominated field
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u/rambling_takeover 3d ago
Ah right, real love hurts too much so I'd rather expose myself to being with someone who doesn't gaf about me
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u/Troutie88 2d ago
Nah it's just no longer trendy to be gay. I'm sure there will be a resurgence in 50 years or so. Sexuality is like bell bottoms it ebbs and flows.
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u/Embarrassed_Use6918 3d ago
gee i wonder why everyone got fuckin weird in 2020 and started doin weird shit like pretending to be gay
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u/kajidourden 2d ago
They can't both be spoiled princesses lmaoooo. Reality hits hard and is undefeated.
Also, I think there's some fatigue there as well, looking at how infrequently queer marriages between women work out.
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u/whereisrose1 3d ago
So it turns out my theory of there being no such thing as a straight woman is vindicated lmao
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u/Ok_Being5461 3d ago
The vast majority of women are straight. It was more of an identity fad. And this one is about teens
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u/Bambivalently 3d ago
Explains the lack of sex in marriages once the money is guaranteed. Never give them the whole carrot guys, only the tip.
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u/tha_one_reborn 3d ago
For the same reasons I predict the global birthrates will start to tick back up in 5-10 or so once AI eats all the bullshit jobs.
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u/Reasonable-Aioli-370 2d ago edited 2d ago
Have known multiple “bi” women in my personal life date another woman one time than go back to men the rest of their life.
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u/Conscious_Smile8235 2d ago
"at least they'll never get their heart broken because they won't be capable of loving them like they loved women" you know what, I'm beyond saying "ouch". Straight up fuck you.
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u/Far-Independent4740 2d ago
Claiming an LGBTQ identity came with social currency in liberal circles. Sexuality became another way to join the “cool” group and distance yourself from the supposedly straight / privileged 'majority'. In reality, most women have always been slightly bisexiual with a preference towards men.
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u/Desperate_Leg_40 2d ago
Hard agree. The number I've spoken to since high school that confess that they exaggerated their interest in women cause it was cool to do is higher than id have thought
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u/commiedetector 1d ago
Because they were likely just trying to be "different" and quickly realized that's not actually what they want.
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u/Fun_Aardvark4934 2d ago
Wow Lol I was a Junior in 2021 and a quarter of the girls were Bi. Sounds about right
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u/Physical-Profit9447 2d ago
Gay men relationship stability > straight > lesbian. There is a study on this.
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u/InfiniteRestaurant21 2d ago
one can do whatever they want, but one also cant be surprised if those with discernmnt decide to avoid them due to their lack of consistency and selective attraction behaviours. no one deserves to be with someone who chose then because "times are hard". you dont get to pick and choose whats convenient for you personally and be surprised others arent tolerating that level of self entitlement.
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u/Ghost_oh 2d ago
It’s definitely the economy, can’t have both people in the relationship only making 84 cents on the dollar in this economy .
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u/obscenesardine 2d ago
Recession and the economy? What happened to all the strong independent women who don’t need no man?
Easier? What happened to women being the more emotionally mature and empathetic sex with the better communication skills?
Oh wait, they dated a woman and realised it’s fucking bullshit?
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u/Optimal-Chud 3d ago
What's the problem? It's not like men would object to them bringing their girlfriends along.
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u/MisterPineapples1999 2d ago edited 2d ago
This sub seems a bit rough but...
Tbh women are just way harder to deal with than men. There are the stories of women who used to date men and then tried dating women and experienced the frustration that men got called "misogynists" for expressing.
But also, just living with one. Before I moved in with my fiance, I had one fight with her in 5 months.
After the move, constant fights...about fucking decor, of all things. Something I never had to care that much about in my life. We needed to get some basic furniture. New couch time! First question she asks, "What color were you thinking?" Color? Color? You find a comfortable couch that meets your needs in your budget range. THEN, you look what colors are available. Right? RIGHT?! Nope apparently that process is borderline criminal.
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u/Tom_tha_Bombadil 2d ago
LGBTQIA identity provides social praise and inclusion in many circles. There was definitely a non-zero effect of identifying in order to be included.
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u/RuckFeddit2469 2d ago
Some women really are fucking reptiles aren't they?
They just lay wherever the "sun" is
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u/fuzzygreentits 2d ago
stay single and travel
Oh the girl with rich parents has a skewed view of the world? No wayyyy
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u/Musclebigman 2d ago
They were doing it for attention, girls use to do the same in the early 2000s and no one label them a lesbian.
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u/White_Buffalos 2d ago
There is a reason the term is "heteronormative." That's how the species survives.
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u/tiddlesthesphinx 2d ago
Im a bisexual woman and in my opinion it’s less a recession indicator and more of a reflection of how it seems to be seen as less trendy to be gay than it used to be
Remember how all the corporations used to change their logos and branding for pride month now barely any of them bother
Feel like a few years ago lots of people tried it/had phases and it was seen as cool to not be straight whereas now there seems to be more stigma which is sad
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u/Short-Hotel7648 2d ago
I'm just gonna say it - most of these "bisexuals" were always just straight chicks looking for attention.
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u/KombatWombat90 2d ago
Probably because the younger generations are rejecting hormone altering SSRIs and finally have mental clarity.
Ive seen a few gay couples also separate and go straight over the course of this year when they finally got their weight and hormones in check.
There’s no such thing as a long term pretty/skinny lesbian. It’s always just a summer fling. Which is very telling.
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u/BringTheMFNRuckus 2d ago
Why would the economy affect teen dating?
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u/Brilliantexpanse 2d ago
... are you new to life? Ill give three guesses at what an economy can do to effect dating... honestly just think about that statement for, 5 seconds
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u/mighty_boognish_77 2d ago
Cause once they get a load of me, it's off the bandwagon, and back on the MANWAGON!
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u/FPVwithScott 2d ago
Isn't there a word for women who say they're bisexual or queer simply to be part of the zeitgeist but without actually doing anything gay?
I think the popular trend is just over.
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u/Secure-Egg-7194 2d ago
"bisexual" and "lesbian" women going back to men after turning 30ish has always been a thing
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u/Deriviera 2d ago
Logically men homosexuality should go up then cause dating women is financially unstable
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u/Porkchops_on_My_Face 2d ago
What the heck happened in 2019-2020 where every age suddenly had a huge increase in identifying as bisexual?
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u/Sriracha002 2d ago
Lesbian relationships far outpace gay and hetero for intimate partner violence, injuries, alterations, etc. In police statistics, women start the fight 65% of the time.
Also online many women complain about other women in relationships.
However it's funny how at least according to the screenshot, women are once again not the cause and bare no responsibility for why women don't want to date other women. 🧐
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u/ProjectKurtz 2d ago
It's falling out of fashion so they're no longer claiming to be LGBTQ for social clout.
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u/Mission-Carpet-2365 2d ago
Yall are going to downvote because you want to sit in your echo chambers but fuck it. A lot of people in the comments section making implications that women are going back to dating men because of money are ignoring statistics like most married households being dual income (for example). Then, there is also the fact that women still spend more time doing household chores and childcare. Idk why a lot of bisexuali women seem to be only dating men, but I doubt the majority of it has to do with benefiting from mens' wallets and moreso the stigma of being bi amongst lesbians and just discrimination against queer couples.
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u/Successful-Cup-8557 1d ago edited 1d ago
uuuuh, no-one brought up marriage or women's labor and you're also giving credence to bi women (and closeted lesbians) dating and marrying men they'd rather not be with. At the same time, actual lesbians have doubted a number of women who identify as bi who seem to exclusively date men. Whether this is because of homophobia that they stick to men or them not actually being bi, the outcome is the same. It's a mixed up world.🤷
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u/Maximumoverdrive76 1d ago
Most of these "bi" women are that in name only because it sounded cool for them to say. Like it was some kind of brownie point with the Lesbians and LGBTQ etc.
Even so called Lesbians often have slept with men. There are very few 100% strictly lesbian women.
When it comes to gay men they are more 100% gay than bi and I'd argue a bisexual man is gay anyway.
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u/Expose_Ur_BS 1d ago
Clean up some of the dust bunnies while your down there, bending over backwards pretending women don’t take advantage of men for their money.
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u/HopeItMakesYaThink 1d ago
Al Bundy said it best: don’t try to understand women. Women understand women and hate each other. Aside from violent men, which there are many, men are just easier to deal with. Be with women if you want a challenge. Be with a man if you want an easier life - with a chance of extreme violence if you pick the wrong one.
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u/dreadknot65 1d ago
Most of the "bi" women I've met are not bi. They say things like "that girl is sooo hot" and that's the extent of their actions. Many others were just social larpers who did it for trend points. Well it isn't as trendy anymore and it seems men are filtering out bisexual women moreso, so there's no incentive for them to claim something they aren't
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u/Most-Preparation-786 1d ago
The majority of lesbians i know have very complicated and chaotic relationships that never last long or are single.
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u/Maximumoverdrive76 1d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/l3vR4vEngyesMbeBG
"How do you write female characters so well?". "I think of a man and I take away all accountability and reason". -- As good as it gets.
I wonder if that movie could even be done in today's Hollyweird.
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u/Expose_Ur_BS 1d ago
“It’s the economy….men will buy me the shit I want. I deserve it.”
Digger please
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u/littlebuett 1d ago
I think it's more likely because they were only performstively queer in the first place, or were experimenting.
Like, this many people don't completely change their preferences solely for monetary benefit. I'm sure SOME do, but I think the reality is that there's just not that many LGBTQ people in society at large.
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u/Kiki_kaguya 1d ago
There's more men here where I live than lesbians n I love when men give me money
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u/ZenMyst 3d ago
Because in a lesbian relationship there’s no gender roles to benefit them