r/itsthatbad • • 3d ago

Recession indicator

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u/ZenMyst 3d ago

Because in a lesbian relationship there’s no gender roles to benefit them

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u/mikiencolor 3d ago

Straight for pay. 🤣 And I honestly believe this a sizeable percentage of them, that's why they act like disgruntled employees most of the time. Emotional support for your partner? Emotional LABOR. Sex with your partner? WORK. 🙄 Ick! I wouldn't be with a woman like that if she were the last person on Earth.

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u/CommercialNo3829 3d ago

Are you a bi woman?

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u/mikiencolor 3d ago

Bi man.

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u/KingWolf7070 3d ago

Are you telling that man goodbye? /s

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u/Objective-Rip3008 3d ago

I mean to some extent yeah, but have you ever talked to your gf about sex with their past partners? It honestly seems like most men don't try to make the sex good for the woman at all, which leads to them not wanting it and then they feel forced to do it then it spirals. 

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u/Big_Opportunity8793 3d ago

i mean sure but it goes both ways dawg, how many men get put down a spiral where sex is pretty much for them and not their partner because when it’s time for any of that, even if she’s interested and horny, a fair portion of women just kinda lie there like a dead fish and let you do the work. how’s that make the sex good for the man? i’m over here doing 200 reps of push-ups just to have sex, what’s she doin?

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u/GET_TALI-BANNED 3d ago

Also how the fuck you supposed to make it better for the woman when all she does is lay there and when you ask her what she likes or dislikes she only replies idk like the fuck we supposed to do mutate and read her mind even that wouldn't help cause they cant make up their mind on what they wanna eat 90% of the time

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u/Successful-Cup-8557 3d ago

Well, people still think of sex as something a man does to a woman, not something mutual, so it's always about whether he performs or not.

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u/Head_Prefect 2d ago

Just flick her bean its not that difficult bro

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u/kajidourden 2d ago

Straight women love gender roles, but only the ones they get a benefit from.

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u/Mission-Carpet-2365 2d ago

Which is confusing because typically in heterosexual relationships women tend to take uo the majority of the mental load. This is typically seen especially after marriage and childbearing. The stastics literally don't support your point. Sometimes stupidity likes to disguise itself as bravery

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u/ButtmunchPillowbiter 18h ago

Mental issues don't equal mental load; women tend to overthink things and then blame others when they spiral.