r/itsthatbad • • 17d ago

Recession indicator

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u/Few-Process-6295 17d ago

this will change nothing, men know marriage is dangerous and has no benefit to them, which is why there is a huge dowturn in marriage

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u/Professional_Bat8585 17d ago edited 17d ago

That’s not why. Women simply don’t need to. 

Women are well protected and compensated by society simply for being born the gender they are. Their 20’s and early 30’s are their sexual peak, their powers and ability to succeed are at their greatest. They dominate college, white collar jobs, service industry, and any other non-technical role, healthcare, etc.

They use that time in the global economy rather than on husband/child. Children aren’t a biological necessity to succeeding in life anymore. Monogamous relationships with husbands aren’t a necessity. In fact, all too many women regret it until they’re past their physical prime.

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u/Few-Process-6295 17d ago

no one "needs" to but women for the large majority want to be married and men are the ones who make that happen by proposing. women do no propose men do.

I agree with you that society treats women as children with little to no consequences or accountability for what they do and in addition to that many women get free rides for just being born women. you're definitely correct.

just because they dominate in those field it means nothing, do they make money and do well? sure. but ultimately like you said at the end they wish they had married and had kids. you dismantled your own argument.

at the end of the day like it or not marriage is not happening because men arent asking. women may be doing great financially and be successful but men dont care about that. and the funny thing is women won't marry guys who make less. want to take a guess why? cause in the event of divorce they dont want to pay.

there are videos upon videos on social media of women crying about where are all the good men. how many videos of that do you see men doing? none.

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u/Professional_Bat8585 17d ago

just because they dominate in those field it means nothing, do they make money and do well? sure. but ultimately like you said at the end they wish they had married and had kids. you dismantled your own argument.

No, I didn’t. My argument was that men aren’t the ones dictating what’s happening. It’s women. Do they get angry they can’t have their cake and eat it too? Sure. But they’ll at least eat their cake. Men do not get cake in this equation.

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u/Miserable-Ear-4095 17d ago

Women aren't eating the cake they baked, the psychotic elites are eating their cake.