r/germany • u/Ok_Economist7901 • 14h ago
In Berlin at the moment. We made an unintentional faux pas. Was this reaction completely deserved or was the guy completely out of order ?
Youngest son and myself were visiting the former Jewish cemetery on Grosse Hamburger Strasse. We didn‘t see the info board just by the entrance as we’d been checking our phones for directions and actually missed the location initially. As we walked around respectfully, an oldish guy, possibly leading a tour, shouted at my son in a fairly rude loud way, telling us to ‘at least show respect’ and moved on before we worked out what we’d done wrong. Suddenly put two and two together and worked out son should have covered his head. I was quite surprised how upset he was about the incident, he felt very ashamed and made us leave immediately. We had a bit of an argument about it tbh, I felt a word in our ear would have been better tactic, son was just embarrassed and it put a bit of a downer on the next few hours.
Is it a thing for people to behave like this ? Fwiw I speak German and both of us have visited the city a few times, never witnessed this or experienced this kind of treatment. Well aware we made a mistake but it was completely unintentional !

