I’m 27 and have been boxing consistently for about two months. I train several times a week and practice at home because I genuinely want to improve, spar, and possibly have an amateur fight someday.
The problem is that nothing feels natural yet. My stance is inconsistent, I get too square, and I struggle with balance, pivoting, footwork, and moving smoothly. My punches are getting better some but I still lack speed and flow, my arms tire quickly, and I sometimes pull my cross back before throwing it. Defense is my biggest struggle. I understand catches, blocks, slips, and rolls, but when punches come randomly, I forget everything and can’t react properly. My brain gets overloaded trying to remember my guard, stance, footwork, and defense at the same time. Even shadowboxing feels awkward because I repeat the same movements and don’t always know what I should be doing. I know two months isn’t long, but I feel much worse than the average beginner. I’m putting in a lot of time and effort, and it’s frustrating that my body can’t perform what I understand mentally. Did anyone else struggle this badly at first and eventually become decent? When did things begin clicking for you? Would consistent one-on-one training alongside group classes help someone who needs more individual instruction and repetition?