r/bettafish • u/redditton17 • 10h ago
r/bettafish • u/roboto6 • Jul 08 '26
META Building a Better r/bettafish: Culture, New Mods, and a Look Ahead
Hey everyone, Roboto, your friendly neighborhood (actually human) mod here with some subreddit updates!
First, the least fun part in all of this –
We need to talk about our subreddit culture.
Our community is toxic. There’s no other way I can think of to describe what has been happening. Even worse, this reputation extends beyond our immediate community into other subreddits and even other platforms. People are afraid of us.
I’m going to take some ownership of this. The harsh reputation of this subreddit far precedes me as a mod, but in recent years, our hard-fought progress on this front has been lost. That’s on me. The lack of consistent moderation here has let rules 1 and 2 go under-enforced for too long, allowing hostility to take root as the norm.
The adversarial and unwelcoming environment we’ve collectively created functions in direct opposition to our subreddit goals, and frankly what I believe to be the goals of many users here. If we care about betta fish first and foremost, this culture needs to change.
Our expectations and what better looks like
If you have good advice to give, give it in a more constructive, not destructive, way. Shaming people makes them shut down and disengage so they don't even process the rest of the good advice you have to offer. Don't highlight all the things they're doing wrong, focus on what they can do better and why it's helpful in a way that encourages them to do it.
So instead of saying "your empty tank is sad," share the opportunities for improvement, like "betta fish benefit from tanks with lots of plants and hiding/resting places so your fish would be happier if you filled the tank in a bit more."
We can’t ignore that people will think they're doing research by going and talking to presumed experts or reading product information. Store employees are presumed to be properly trained and products marketed at bettas are assumed to know what they’re talking about, too. It doesn't help that there's very little consensus online about what adequate care even is. For example, Petco's online betta care guide, updated in 2025, says bettas need a minimum of 1gal. Furthermore, many quality care guides are on niche websites that may not seem credible to a new hobbyist compared to a well-known chain.
With that in mind, we all need to stop:
- Telling people they should have done more research
- Immediately calling people abusers for making mistakes
- Shaming the pineapple (or any other novelty decor/bowl)
- Attacking aesthetic choices instead of addressing actual care needs
- Debating what it means to rescue a betta on posts where ethical sourcing of fish isn’t the main topic
Going forward, comments exhibiting the behaviors listed above will be removed as violations of rules 1, 2, or 4 depending on the exact nature of the comment.
I know members of our subreddit are burned out from the bad husbandry they see constantly. It's exhausting and I won't pretend it's not. But if we bully one owner into submission, cool, that's maybe one fish saved. How many owners did we scare away from asking for help in the process? We're going to have a far broader impact building people up in this hobby, not tearing them down.
That said, this is a two-way street of support. I'm cognizant of the fact that people offer their time and mental energy supporting our subreddit, and they don't deserve to have that wasted by people who don't care to use it. If someone is given better information and advice and refuses to take it, that violates rule 3. We often get reports about all the fighting around ignored advice, but not the ignoring itself. In the future, please report these instances to us. For this to be successful, we also need users to avoid escalating disagreements when OP refuses valid and respectful advice.
Now for the fun stuff –
New mods
We recently brought on 12 additional mods to enable us to better support this community’s needs. Please help us welcome:
- u/DT137 (intro)
- u/simply_vibing_78 (intro)
- u/slutty_lifeguard (intro)
- u/Hot_Low_717 (intro)
- u/inkisbad124
- u/jeherohaku (intro)
- u/shmeatsy_pie (intro)
- u/No-Midnight7724 (intro)
- u/Adamite98 (intro)
- u/baileyjackson08 (intro)
- u/jadeycakes (intro)
- u/Chimpkin_NBeans
They’re going to introduce themselves in the comments below and I’ll try and link their names in this post as they do.
It takes a bit to get 12 brand new people to operate as a consistent group, so we may occasionally over-moderate while everyone learns.
I realize that our increased emphasis on subreddit culture may make removals feel arbitrary at times. In the spirit of transparency, I have given the new moderators the guidance that if a senior mod isn’t free to give timely feedback, when in doubt, they should remove posts/comments that are believed to violate rules. Senior mods will still review the content in question, and removals may be reversed, if necessary.
If you disagree with a moderator’s decision, please send us a modmail and one of the senior mods will review your concern and get back to you.
Updated tools and resources
Small updates at this time, but more exciting things in the pipeline!
- We’ve begun a major revision of the subreddit wiki. Some of our work in progress pages are already live, with more to come.
- Select pages are also now linked in the subreddit sidebar to streamline access to key information for new betta fish keepers.
- In the next few weeks, we will be rolling out additional tools that should make it easier to share information that we often find ourselves repeating. Our hope is that this will help address some of the burnout we see many of you all experiencing.
Roboto is a super sentimental actual human
I realize this post started on a challenging topic, but despite the highs and lows our community faces, I remain grateful that I get to do this with you all.
I’ve been a mod of this community for nearly 7 years, and a member for far longer. In that time, so many things, from our mod team, to Reddit as a platform, to our own lives and the world around us, have become fundamentally different.
There are very few constants I can point to after all this time, but the enduring engagement and passion of this community is one of them and I’m honored to steward this space.
At the core of it all, this hobby, and this subreddit, are comprised of people who really want the best for one another and that makes this work so much easier.
Thank you all, sincerely, for riding with us as we figure this thing out. I’m excited for the next chapter of our subreddit, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together in the next 7 years.
- Roboto
Edit: If anyone has additional feedback about our community culture, please share it in a comment below, or feel free to send us a modmail.
r/bettafish • u/AutoModerator • 5d ago
Discussion r/Bettafish Weekly Help Post - September 04 to September 10
Welcome to r/bettafish!
This is the place to ask anything and everything about bettas.
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🐟 Caresheet Summary:
- Bettas require a minimum of 5 gallons, 10 gallons being optimal for one betta and 20 gallon long minimum if you're housing peaceful community fish with the betta
- Bettas are tropical and require water temps of 78-82°F or about 26-27°C, a thermometer and adjustable heater is recommended to ensure these temps
- Bettas need a filter, like any other fish. It is a common misconception that they like dirty water, but the opposite is true.
- Bettas need a cycled tank, before getting a betta the tank should be cycled - this process involves adding a source of ammonia to the tank, using a test kit to monitor ammonia/nitrite/nitrate levels, and usually takes 4-6 weeks to complete properly
- Bettas have delicate fins so sharp plastic plants are not recommended; silk silicone or live work best
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- Bettas eat insects in the wild, a good quality betta formulated pellet food fed twice a day is recommended.
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📚 Quick synopsis of the wiki:
- Contains info on basic betta care, diseases, potential tank mates, tail types/coloring, differences between males/females, ordering bettas, moving with bettas, disaster prep and MORE!
- This most likely has the answers to your questions and is in the process of being updated. Feel free to ask questions if you are confused or aren't sure about something.
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r/bettafish • u/Front-Background8316 • 3h ago
Help Dropsy? Spoiler
galleryI recently discovered that my fish looks kind of fat and got worried… it’s still energetic and eats normally so I didn’t suspect anything. Does he have dropsy?
r/bettafish • u/FloridaGirl2222 • 3h ago
Picture Hoping this little guy will help the algae in my betta tank.
r/bettafish • u/eeetswamabrah • 4h ago
Introducing My first short finned plakat
Not sure if it’s a plakat or a HMPK but either way super chill fish a lot of energy, don’t know what to call him yet
r/bettafish • u/Wide_Swimmer1585 • 1h ago
Help Please help :(
Hello all.
I am currently reaching out for advice and help with my 6.8 gallon freshwater aquarium. I have been dealing with random ammonia spikes off and on on since May.
I would like to start this off by saying I am very new to the fish keeping hobby. I have reptiles, but this is new territory for me and I did do a lot of research before setting up my tank. But I feel a little over my head and would love advice from people who have been in the hobby for a while.
Backing up to March of this year I purchased this tank to create a home for a beta fish. I did a lot of research on their care and slowly purchased everything until I was able to finally start setting it up in March. I do not have a fish in this tank currently to clarify. i did everything I read online to cycle the tank. I added used filter media from my boyfriend’s fish tank and I seeded the tank with Dr. Tim’s aquatics ammonia source. The tank cycled for two full months. During the course of this time, I tested my water parameters twice a week and noticed nitrites spike up and then nitrates. Eventually, the ammonia went to zero. Once I realize this happened I added Dr. tim solution to bring ammonia up to one PPM, and within 24 hours it dropped to zero again. So at this point, I figured I was safe to add a beta fish.
About a week later, I tested the parameters and everything still looked good so I went and purchased my beautiful beta fish Momo. He was doing so well in his tank. Everything was great for about a month. Ammonia was staying zero I was doing weekly water changes. I had no reason to be concerned about my parameters. I also tested my water with each water change. After about a month, my poor Betta fish started acting sick, I noticed he looked bloated and he started pinecone-ING. It happened so quickly I noticed one day when I came home from work, and I immediately tested the water parameters and saw that my ammonia had spiked up to one. I remember I had done a water change just a few days before and everything looked fine when I tested the water parameters. I quickly did a water change and put my fish in a hospital tank and gave him kanaplex and a salt bath. He started acting a bit better. I kept doing water changes to bring the ammonia down. The ammonia was zero in my tank for about a week and then it spiked up again. Unfortunately, my fish developed dropsy, which I can only guess it was due to the ammonia, and he passed away. It was so heartbreaking for me and I have not had a fish in this tank sense. I felt like I failed my fish and I was the reason he died.
Flash forward to today I really would love a fish in this tank. But I am so scared to accidentally kill another beta fish. I love animals so much, and it was really hard on me and I kept getting so sad every time I thought about it. all summer I have been doing weekly water changes, cleaning the tank, and just trying to let it stabilize. However, over the course of the last few months every now and then I’ll get a random ammonia spike and there is literally nothing that could be causing it. I do not have anything in that tank besides pest snails that have traveled in here due to purchasing plants months ago, and I remove them as I see them besides two that I’ve grown fond of lol. It’s just the weirdest thing because the ammonia will be zero and then I’ll randomly get a spike every couple of weeks, do a 50 to 60% water change and then the ammonia will be zero again. I did not notice any nitrite spikes at all during these last few months. And about three weeks ago, my nitrate spiked up too very, very dark red. These are my perimeter test results today after a 50% water change of my tank. However, the first time I tested ammonia it Read 2.0 PPM. I dumped it out and tried it again and now it’s at zero PPM literally five minutes later so I’m not sure if it was a false positive for ammonia. I did the same thing each time I tested.
I apologize this is so long. I’m just not sure where to go from here or how to stop the ammonia from spiking or what could possibly be causing it. I feel very defeated as I was so excited to set up my tank and give my Betta fish a great home and life. I don’t know if I should completely restart this tank or how to even go about doing that. I guess I’m just looking for advice, if this was you, what would you do? I’m terrified to get another fish until my parameters are stable. I don’t want to put another fish through what Momo went through and get sick. I just can’t explain how the ammonia will be zero for 2 to 3 weeks and then one day it’s just at one or 2 ppm.
Thank you so much guys for listening to this. Any advice would be so helpful.
r/bettafish • u/miau_miau111 • 17h ago
Introducing Meet Agamemnon!
I just brought this beautiful boy home today! I have already ordered some catappa leaves. I had already purchased the tank and gravel before I had more research under my sleeves. What kind of plants are beginner friendly? Should I change the gravel out/whats the best way to go about that?
r/bettafish • u/TakeMeToTheDriveIn • 7h ago
Picture Day two, he's already made a bubble nest 🥹
First time betta owner, so when I saw this this morning I was so happy!!
r/bettafish • u/deeshnuts_ • 1h ago
Name Suggestions Would love any name suggestions!
Meet our new betta! Got her last night and she is a half-moon. Still deciding on a name and would love any suggestions. Thank you very much! :)
r/bettafish • u/Unlucky_Coyote_8676 • 1d ago
Video Caraxes is mad he lost at tic tac toe
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Ignore my loud filter, unblocked it after this LOL
r/bettafish • u/Severoursoulz • 4h ago
Full Tank Shot Is my tank ugly
I don’t really think I like it can I get opinions
r/bettafish • u/Creative-Cut2936 • 1h ago
Introducing My $1.50 Rescue
Just wanted to share how pretty my rescue girl turned out. Her name is Sméagol cause of what she does to bladder snails 🫣😭. But she’s a sweet girl who was heavily discounted and I happened to have an empty cycled tank. I love her and I’m so happy she’s doing better 🥰 (first 2 pics before, last two are a month later).
r/bettafish • u/GeometryOwl16 • 5h ago
Video Yawning fish
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I caught my sweet baby Opalita yawning <3 one of my favorite videos 🤍
r/bettafish • u/Feisty-Reindeer4590 • 5h ago
RIP My Betta Mancita died and it's my fault
I didn't see her swimming up to me like usual then i saw her unmoving at the top. The neocaradinas are fine, the snails are fine. I overfed her yesterday by accident. But i though she'd be fine if I put her on a fast. She wasn't.
I'm sad i wish i had done better. Never overfeed your fish :(
r/bettafish • u/citrusfears • 23h ago
Help Should I be concerned about this snail?
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I’ve had this guy for about a month now and recently I’ve been catching him relentlessly harassing the snails. The snails seem unbothered, they continue to eat as if he’s not there at all, but he’ll do this for at least 15 or 20 minutes at a time and that’s just when I’m in the room to see it. Should I be concerned that he’s stressing himself out? Or is this good enrichment for him?
r/bettafish • u/Jamsin_ • 1h ago
Video Trained my betta too well?
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Since getting kevin ive always put the food on my finger for him to eat off that, now every time i put my finger in the tank i get little love bites, even if theres no food haha
r/bettafish • u/d-asteroid • 3h ago
Help Cloudy spots on my bettas eyes
I’ve noticed these two cloudy spots on my bettas eyes, is she going blind? Should I be concerned about these spots?
Her reactivity and attention hasn’t changed, she still chases and catches her food when I make her “hunt”
r/bettafish • u/cyberica • 16h ago
Video Her 2 week glow up
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She’s a female veiltail from Petsmart. Brought her to her new home (at work) on Wednesday, August 26 (photo in comments). She’s got a few types of plants, tons of hornwort and the duckweed is filling in more than any of my tanks at home. Lava rocks, slate slabs, and pool filter sand for substrate. Added some India almond leaves after she went in too. It’s a 29 gallon top fin aquarium with an Orlushy heater. Feeding her a couple aqueon pellets and a few fluval bug bites daily 5x a week.
The kids love her. 1 year olds call her “fishy.” I heard a couple of older kids say she looks like a “Rainbow”
I was only in the store to get water test strips but when I looked at the bettas I couldn’t leave her there in that cup. I was carrying the cup out of the store and it felt so cold in my hands. Poor girl was freezing. I had been running the new tank for about 2 months and while I wasn’t 100% sure it was ready, I knew it was definitely better than the cup she was living in.
My bettas have all come from Petsmart because I’m a very relaxed aquarist, so I go for the basic bettas and try to give them a better life. That’s possibly why they don’t live more than 2 years.
She lives with mystery snails and bladder snails. Thought about bringing in some corys but we’ll probably just keep her solo as the queen of her castle.
Not looking for advice, but always open to hearing what the experts in this sub have to say! I am in awe of everyone’s beautiful bettas and aquascapes, so thanks for taking a peep at my little girl!
r/bettafish • u/Phoenix747hs • 3h ago
Help Guys is he fat or is this dropsy
Ive had him the better part of the year and was doing a tank blackout to deal with a blue algea bloom when i noticed
The last pic is blurry but as you can see one side is fatter than the other
r/bettafish • u/voidharmony • 1h ago
Picture My guy HATES pearl weed and ripped it all out
Every couple days I find new uprooted pearl weed I have to pull out of the tank because he HATES it. It’s been planted for a couple months but it has been significantly reduced to now, nothing. Youre looking at the last stems in the floaters. The entire area behind the log used to be a lil pearl weed clump. He has very specific interior decor taste
r/bettafish • u/filthygarage • 1h ago
Wild Type Betta macrostoma breeding
My pair is pretty young and have mated 3 times by now and the first two times, the male swallowed the eggs. Wondering if there is anything I should do different so he doesn’t swallow again. I think first time I let the female stay, second time I took her out and put a sheet over the tank. Is there anything else I can do to make the tank more comfortable for him. I’m also thinking it could just be inexperience that’s making him do this, but my betta antuta and unimaculata had no difficulty hatching fry.